Hey Sup Forumsros, my fiancé has shown zero sex drive recently. This has been incredibly frustrating and obviously I'm looking for every opportunity to get her to show some sexuality. Lately, I've even been considering offering up cucking. Then I realized I'm not a cuck, I'm a man. Fuck that faggot shit. Help me Sup Forums
>Pic very related, it's her
She's already fucking other dudes.
Someone give me some suggestions niggers
She's too frumpy and has too low of confidence to fuck other guys
Simple. She's lost attraction to you. Bet you're overweight and a mangina.. if u were Chad she would be fucking you non stop
Dump her, she gave up before she even crossed the finish line.
Is she on birth control? That can throw your sex drive down the shitter.
fucking rape her she'll love it
kek
Answer is be attractive.. lift, dont be fat, take care of yourself and if she still won't fuck there will be other sluts that will.
I concur. If she all of a sudden lost sexual interest in you, there's a 90% chance it's because she found it with someone else.
Have you tried talking to her? Also bear in mind that if she's stopped fucking you now then you're not gonna have a hope when you're married.
Why don't you ask her to become the cuck? ask her if she would be turned on seeing you with another girl
OP here, she was on birth control for about 3 years and she gained a lot of weight then. Beforehand she was a solid 8.5 now she's maybe a 5. She wears clothes like a 50 year old 2nd grade teacher. About every 3 months she fucks like a champ and wants me to plow her asshole, other than that the girl I knew is lost.
What kind of logic is this? Your wife isnt showing much intrest in sex. So your solution? Try to get her to fuck other guys. I dont understand.
Have you tried to spice things up in the bedroom? maybe she's just bored with the same old dick
Is this true? My girlfriend isnt on birth control but we talked about it. Would be pretty shitty if it crashes her sex drive and makes her put on weight
women tend to show a lack of sex drive for several reasons.
>partner got fat
>partner has hygiene issues
>partner is more of an asshole than usual
>partner shows no interest in her pleasure
>other stress
>a health issue
it is a myth that it is a sign of cheating. cheating women often have a higher than average sex drive
This, sry brah
she's getting it from somewhere else obviously.
Drop the birth control and seek other forms of contraceptive (rubbers). It will take a few weeks to get the excess hormones out of her system.
Dont make a mistake for an otherwise easy fix.
Yes. But everyone is different may not screw her sex drive up but will def put on weight seeings as birth control tricks her body into thinking its prego, and all prego bitches get fat
Yeah I've introduced sex toys, porn, tried broadcasting on Chaturbate. For the record I've always kept the same figure. I'm not a man let, but I'm also not a Chad. I definitely have a lower BF% than the average person and I'm not a NEET. What gives
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The weight I am not sure of but sex drive is absolute. Most women have little to no sex drive on it. Its hormones basically and fucks with their heads.
She hasn't been on BC in about a year. As explained earlier, I'm relatively fit. 5'11" 170
Thats sounds pretty shitty tbh. What is the point if there is a good chance it fucks up her sex drive, and then on top of that makes her put on weight. And condoms suck dick as well. Fuck.
That blows man, but she has to put on some effort, help her in all you can but She is the one that would have to change, maybe you losing interest is the wake up call she needs
This is totally true, fuck em all up
I'm going through the same shit. My wife is super self conscious even though she is fucking size 2 but somehow that means I don't get laid regardless of how much I grope her. Fucking sucks. That's why I'm on Sup Forums looking at porn .webm threads.
Hahaha, pic roolz
Raid thread. It's happening!!!
I've definitely laid in on thick recently, maybe a little too much. I don't want her to work out constantly a nod be a fucking dime, just a little effort would be nice.
how about instead of posting her pussy on the internet you go talk to her about it.
dumbfuck
No doubt Sup Forumsro
this, don't get married until you resolve the issue
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You realize that doesnt matter right? She could just say she wants to fuck and boom.
walk us through how you approach sex; what do you do, what do you say, how do you do and say it?
I've tried nigger, don't you think I have? All she says is I don't know and oh yeah.
True. My gf's sex drive has been cut in ½ and she's gained a good 20lbs over the last few years, but she was a twig to start so I don't mind.
Relatively sexual texts throughout the day, compliment her outfit when she gets home, clean the house before she's home,gradually become more touchey throughout the evening. Stuff that typically gets you laid when you live together
well you aren't gonna get any advice from the idiots on Sup Forums that will be of any use
take your relationship seriously
work it out with her
Do you know what I do when i want to have sex with my wife? I ask her if she wants to have sex and she says yes or no
Really I use this as a means of expressing myself rather than an actual advice forum. It's just aggravating, it snoice to get a no holds barred perspective from some real retards.
clinical.
you are no longer sexually attractive
this is because you either emotionally or physically or both have become unappealing
faggot
And if you get laid rather consistently, it sounds like she has a normal sex drive. Some women want fucked others don't
Wifed for 5 years, have lived with her for 10 years now. Cleaning, cooking, etc don't get you laid. Compliments only work if she is driven enough to initiate. Take her on a weekend trip, just fuck like rabbits at the hotel. My low ass libido wife was horny for a couple of weeks after I did that.
Pull out method. It's the best(feeling)
You need to make it clear you are unsatisfied with the amount of sex if she cares about you and the relationship she will try harder. also vodka helps
This may suck now but if you get married you better get used to it, because it will be the rest of your life. It's not too late until you sign the marriage certificate.
i've been married 4 years now and we do it like 4 days a week
I like that idea, thanks man
Good luck.
Socially and financially she's the best decision, it's really just sexually that she's subpar. I have friends that so Wow Op I wish my girl was like yours. I chuckle
eat pussy good and everythin will be okay. you're also probably waiting for her to give you permission.
You're a fucking cuck and need to kill yourself.
fat chicks are way more fun to fuck than skinny ones anyways
Fuck that fat chick for five straight years and then say that. Variety is the spice of life.
On a flip side, if he makes a move without her permission then she cries rape and demands compensation
don't you find alarming that she was hardcore freak and just suddenly stopped? I don't think a sex drive like that would need self-confidence
I'm in the opposite boat. Just ended a relationship with a girl with an excessively high sex drive, and I have a pretty low one. Libido incompatibility is a relationship killer.
Not necessarily hardcore, but she liked to fuck, she got fat and stopped fucking. Seems kind of cut and dry after some discussion.
I think it's different for everyone, my ex was on BC and even when our relationship turned sour her sex drive never dropped and she was on it for like 4 years. she gained a lot of weight though
Had the same problem with a fuck buddy. She wanted it like 5 times a day and I couldn't handle it at all. I can only go like 3 then I'd wanna be alone for a few days.
Might be the whole depression thing too though
Chicks don't just randomly stop fucking you out of the blue, chances are high that she's fucking another dude or hiding something huge. Either talk to her or leave her. If she's cheating, leave her. If it's something else, deal with it in the best way possible.
My chick stop sexing with me when she thought she was preggo, thought she was being smart by hiding it, but I found a pregnancy test and we dealt with it together. Hiding shit never helps. Find out what it is OP, don't wait till it's too late.
Soooo talk to her and explain whats wrong. Every relationship slows down on sex, just how shit works long term. Communicate and all will be well. Source me and my 10 year marriage.
dump her worthless fat ass, and stop being a cuck.
I haven't seen a single drop in sexual advancements in the 3 years I've been with my gf since she's started BC. It might be that it affects different chicks differently, but BC definitely hasn't affected her sex drive, especially if she drinks alcohol or the day right before her period starts, holy shit she turns into a fucking succubus, ready to suck the soul outta me.
I mean we've been together eight years, there really is no hiding stuff. We've lived together for four. Really if I caught her fucking someone else I wouldn't be too mad, I just want an explanation.
If you don't think she's fucking other dudes, then talk to her bro. Again, chicks don't just randomly stop fucking you out of the blue unless something's up or she's hitting menopause, but unless she's like 40-50 years old, that isn't happening.
Happened to me as well. Told her that it is a problem that bothers me, we are too young for this, and i will find some other ways to have back my sexual life, if she doesn't want me anymore. If there is no sex (without any normal reason), i have nothing to be faithful to.
So, she starts up the engine, or put her stuff together and go
Pretty reasonable response, user. Sex is a healthy function for a relationship.
I wouldn't say it was immediate, definitely a steady stream turning into a trickle.
Then maybe something ongoing? Has there been a change of environment over the course that this has been happening in? Has she seemed less interested in being with you, hanging out with you, talking to you, or anything else that has to do with you other than sex? If so, maybe she's figured out what you have to offer in a relationship and is no longer interested, but too nice to just straight out end it with you. Something that needs to be talked about.
I'm just saying, there is a pattern here that hasn't been said yet, this stuff just doesn't happen out of nowhere.
Depends on the type of pill and the individual. There's two main types of pill, one largely for women who are breastfeeding or otherwise recently pregnant which is less effective, the other combines two hormones in one pill and is much more effective but usually destroys sex drive.
Get a fucking IUD, screw the pill.
user. Two options. Talk to her, explain how it makes you feel. If she is willing flick the switch and to start being a normal functioning girlfriend so be it. Sex is what brings you together not the opposite. I had three girlfriend before I met my fiance and were all had libido incomparability. If she's not willing to make improvements. Time to suck it up and move on. Otherwise you'll be chasing this from her for the rest of your life.
Or get a vasectomy. Why the fuck are people having babies right now?
I've always thought that but never expressed it. Even if I did she wouldn't have the balls to say it. I can't even coax it out of her, she'd rather be miserable than say the truth and it traps me with the burden,
If she isn't willing to communicate, then leave her. A woman who complains so much about "communication" in a relationship yet doesn't communicate isn't worth the trouble. Drop her, user, you don't need that kind of stress in your life.
I respect you user
FPBP
I'm really drunk right now, so can't tell if sarcastic or not. But if not, then thank you. I've been in many long term relationships. Many have ended the same way. Chick bitches about communication, thinks I'm stupid, notice subtle differences in her, yet when I ask her what's up, it's a communication black hole. I give her 2 options, either talk or I walk. Lot of those questions end up in talking, and leads to her being uninterested in me after a while or her cheating on me. Ends that night and I move on. The one thing I've noticed in women over years of dating them is that a lot of them are psycho or sociopaths. Fucking insane. And over time I've become insanely skeptical of women, even to this day I'm skeptical of my current gf because of past experiences. Makes it hard to permanently settle. I wouldn't respect me to be honest.
This
Dude women are a fucking dime a dozen. Go get one that's not fucking broken.
>Hey Sup Forumsros, my fiancé has shown zero sex drive recently.
Then why is she still your fiance?
Good question. What do you like about her, OP?
I'm too lazy to get something else
Talk to her about how your sexuality is an important part of who you are. And that it matters a lot to you to feel like your partner is attracted to both who you are inside as well as your body.
Honestly, good luck. Relationships need to have both people be on the same page sexually to be healthy.
Well I'm not saying you need to just immediately dump her, I was more looking for actual reasons why she brightens up your life in other ways, but really if this is, "Well, fuck, I'm just lazy," then do yourself a favor and kick her to the curb immediately then. If she really doesn't provide any other value to your life other than being "there" and being an excuse to not do anything about it, dump her.
congrats, you are finally seeing the true side of females. they are lazy and selfish.
looks like she's a bit chub and doesn't even bother keeping her pussy shaved. tell you all you need right there.
My GF is an 8-9/10, shes awesome, funny, brilliant, and we get along ridiculously fucking well, and totally love each other. We started dating when shed just turned 17, and shes never dated, fucked, kissed, or had any other guys dick in her mouth. Real marriage material on every one of those points. Counterpoint, has and always has had the lowest sex drive of any woman ive dated. Could easily go months without sex. Never cock (or pussy) hungry, never gets horny, never is just wet and wanting to fuck. Has never and will never have an orgasm. Yeah, Sup Forumstards whove never actually fucked a girl will make a joke that she just hasnt had one with me, yes, hahahaha faggots, but all joking aside / complete honesty / real talk: she'll never orgasm, not even from the best vibrators in the world. Shes totally anorgasmic, and probably asexual.
Not looking for advice from anyone, and i dont need advice from small town midwestern/southern libertarian trap loving retarded virgins anyhow.
Im just saying, shit sucks.
Pic related, my GFs celebrity twin. This picture looks identical to her.
Sometimes we just need to vent bro, let it out also shameless is an awesome show.
so that makes her little better than a sex doll or rock
I'm gonna be completely honest with you, I love her so much and will probably marry her, but i've already fucked 5 girls behind her back, and got a blowjob from her highschool best friend and ate that girls pussy too.
trips of truth
Sounds a lot like my ex. You know why I say that? Because unlike you, after shit couldn't be changed, I fucking manned up, and said "am I gonna be with a broad I don't do it for? Fuck no.". She cried, and begged, we had been together for > 2 years (though she wasn't nearly as hopeless as yours sounds).
She'll find somebody better, and so will you. Move on.
If you think there's nobody out there that'll get her off, you must be in high school or some shit, don't kid yourself. You're not a universal match.
Could be. She obviously has a naturally low sex drive, but whos to say she doesnt need a 7 foot black dude with a 10 inch dick? Or a 5 foot jewish mook with a brillo pad back and a mushroom dick? Im good looking, but Im not everyones type.
theres a subreddit called deadbedrooms it's handy if you arent bullshitting.