So Sup Forums, I have a problem. My mind and my body go their separate ways about sex. Mentally, I want to fuck about 70-80% of the girls/women I see. Like, in a bad, collector-like obsessed manner. My body... just doesn't keep up. I only had actual sex with one person in my life before, and these last years I've found some difficulties mantaining erections (admittedly, the girl in question is nothing special; also, I'm out of shape and generally fairly depressed - because I think that might have something to do with those things as well). Now, I haven't had sex in a while, but I just can't imagine myself being able to keep it up (condoms are out of the equation completely).
I don't know what the fuck to do: I'm obsessed by sex, but I can't do it (did I mention massive insecurities and inferiority complex?), and I'm afraid that - even if I somehow managed to get close - I wouldn't be able to do it. This is driving me mad. The fuck do I do?
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Ryder Gray
Bumping with sex related infographics.
Adrian Nelson
go see a shrink..
Nathaniel Diaz
Bump
Adam Rogers
How would that help?
Ian James
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Ryan Hill
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Blake Cooper
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Michael Ramirez
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Ryder Peterson
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Nolan Torres
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John Wilson
Any advice at all?
Kayden Morales
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Liam Rogers
brrrum brrrum brrrum
Evan Williams
Go work out 3 times a week
Joshua Perry
Rollering
Ian Garcia
My advice from best to worst:
- Get a girlfriend - See a doctor to check if it's a physical condition - "Train" sex with hookers - Use Viagra or similar
Also, we would need more info.. any problems during masturbation, how are you so sure you wouldn't get it up, why do you care if you don't have sex either way, do you have other problems like premature ejaculation etc.
Carson Lopez
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Christopher Myers
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Jeremiah Cox
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Joshua Mitchell
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Oliver Ortiz
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Mason Powell
>I'm out of shape
How out of shape are you? Do you mean fat?
Elijah Taylor
I had a similar problem before despite doing lots of exercise and the girl being hot. If you're young, being unable to get/maintain an erection is almost certainly a mental problem rather than a physical one. Go to a doctor anyway just to rule out physical causes though.
To deal with the mental issue, just try to relax and focus on enjoying the moment when you get to sex. Try not to worry about anything; the moment you start worrying, catch yourself and focus back on enjoying the moment. Also, if you are visualising having sex, visualise it being successful! Don't imagine yourself being unable to keep it up - imagine it going perfectly.
Hope that helps! I've had no erection problems for the last two years since I just started relaxing and not being so anxious during sex.
Christopher Myers
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Daniel Peterson
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Mason Long
I'm glad you are almost out of the gene pool. Keep up the good work, OP.
Kevin Collins
hmmm viagra could fix your problem.
Daniel Davis
no fatties..
Henry Hughes
Don't care
Jose Bell
srsly, no fatties this time..
Jordan Miller
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Liam Parker
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Eli Bell
Here for the roll
Levi Garcia
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Dominic Wilson
I have this same problem. Got no answer for you, m8.
Thomas Bennett
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Henry Foster
>4 >chubby Really?
Dylan Martin
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Aaron Morris
Roll that shit!
William Morgan
roll for pornhub search
Mason Scott
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Nicholas White
well fuck. guess i gotta fap to a landwhale
Lincoln Stewart
i don't want to read all that shit >roll
Aiden Harris
don't give a shit about op's crap, just here for the rolling
Grayson Jackson
I recognize myself in the description. I've had a gf for 3 years, and it was a lill bit better at this time. I could relax with her because we were trusting each other, but it still happened sometimes.. My guess is we should try to figure out what psychological messup is causing it, + have some tries with girlz beside that, and if its not working, most of the girls would be kind with you, you have nothing to fear. Chatting with these girl might even help then. Gl to us annon
Wyatt Morris
rather'd kill myself than keep that. rerol
Asher Gonzalez
pls dont be trash
Levi Gray
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Leo Butler
roll for Milena
Evan Rivera
Rolling for 4 - 7.
Michael Ramirez
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Bentley Lopez
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Landon Phillips
Rollin
Nolan Gray
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David Torres
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Jordan Howard
Rollin
Daniel Sanchez
roll for future waifu
Dylan Barnes
juuurrt
Josiah Garcia
Ill try roll hehe
Dominic Gonzalez
try running before sex for like 2 to 3 miles, get exhausted and dont cheat. This will boost your heart rate for the day and use all your working fats so that you only have more pure fats to be put to use. This also increases testosterone, of course. This'll mea. hard boner, long time, as long as she doesnt physically disappoint you.
If her not being hot doesnt bother you, the run should be enough. If it does bother you, try to find sonething about her that sets you off. If I hooked up with a nasty woman but she was totally interested in making me feel good, sensations anyway, rather than ego I would be able to push her to making it just perfect ( because its what we both want ).
Try not to start thinking like, "alright I do this, then ______ happens"
instead make the whole thing more implicit, like, "alright, lets see what we can do"
In the case that its mental the mind wont occupy itself with pefecting something its not good at and wont relent upon realizing that it cant. Ibstead you'll constantly be looking for a stride, like when running, and upon finding it use it as a balancing point.
Julian Lee
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David Anderson
C'mon 2,3,4, or 8!
Jaxson Brooks
why anyone would want anything besides those numbers is beyond me
Colton Sanders
No advice. I have complete opposite problem. I get so fucking raged I can't last more a few minutes.