Just had sex for the first time, and I couldn't cum. I'm thinking it might be because the condom...

Just had sex for the first time, and I couldn't cum. I'm thinking it might be because the condom, I couldn't really feel anything inside her. She insists on using condoms, I asked her to go on the pill, but she doesn't want her parents finding out she's sexually active even though she's 22.

Do you have any condom brands you think I should try? I was using Trojan ecstasy condoms, but still couldn't feel her insides. Felt more like I was fucking a condom than a woman.

BTW I made her cum like three times, so she left satisfied.

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Gonna dump some panty-bra stuff.

just pull out you fucking faggot

Too risky, I don't want a child.

you jerked off too much, ur dick is now used to the tighness of ur hand, you won't feel shit in a loose cave faggot

This pic gave me the best perve idea ever

Girls get loose when they feel aroused you fucking virgin

Stop masturbating with a death grip. Start masturbating by using the least amount of force you can, it'll take you longer but it'll help you get used to less feeling.

then you can nut inside her with a condom.

had the same problem

Oldfag here.

Had the same problem, so i switched to the thin type condoms.

Much much better.

I've been pulling out for 7 years

Used a condom once even though I'm allergic to latex. Was a durex condom. It broke.

>mfw pulling out was less risky than using a condom

>like throwing a hotdog down a hallway

happens to everybody, mate. don't worry about it.

She's pretty tight, and I could feel her cervix when I was fingering her so her vagina is shallow as well.
Good idea

>Girls get loose when they feel aroused you fucking virgin
Are you blind faggot? i like just said that
>you won't feel shit in a loose cave
he either needs to find a smaller girl, or get fucking used to it

>She's pretty tight, and I could feel her cervix when I was fingering her so her vagina is shallow as well.


You're the blind one here

Try choking her.

best condoms i use are the ultrathins. usually very tight and lots of sensation. the fancy condoms with warming etc tend to just feel weird quick imo. rawdog beats condom anyday though. pill or implant way to go.

how would that help OP's problem tho

btw i didnt cum my first time either. just kinda had fun with it.

Get an onahole OP. It'll help your death grip syndrome. I had the same problem. It just takes some getting used to.

Or your girlfriend is a slut.

She's not the issue, I am. I think it's about how I've been masturbating. I have been doing it for 10 years before having sex, so I need to stop doing it with such a tight grip.

Going to try to convince her to go on the pill as soon as her parents find out we're dating.

So here's the best option -> ASS as you are sure to have your dick squeezed hard, ensuring a cum, if she says no, m9ve to a faggot I guess ;3

Wow dude I make my gf cum 3 times on a quickie kill yourself

>implying i diden't start my post b4 OP gave that respond

also from a scale of 1 to 10 of being tight, the girl might be a 6 but if ur hand is a 10 then you still aint fucking used to it faggot

you just explained what most sex is like, Condums suck bro

>Best thing.
>Make her feel bad for not making you cum.
>Let her finish you off with blow or handjob.
>Profit

>Just had sex for the first time
I'm sorry I'm not on your level mr. master of sex

you should get her to tell her parents that her periods are really bad. they hurt more than her freinds etc... the pill usually mellows them out. and its nothing so serious the parents or doctor would freak

>mr. master of sex
>Sup Forums
i keked

I'd rather not use emotional warfare yet. I already am her best sexual partner she's ever had so I think I'm good.

I'll invest in a fleshlight, unless you have a better suggestion.

I think she also said she doesn't want to get fat. I knew someone who was skinnier than her and she was on the pill.

Best just to please her. Do what I do, before you start just go in for a little bit and then put the condom on. Condoms in truth help prolong guys action

how to know if using death grip?

honestly, it might be a good thing if you don't cum, it means you can last longer and she can get off first pretty much every time.

>I already am her best sexual partner she's ever had
Well then tell her that sex without a condom is 1500% better than fucking with one for both partners. Fuck, a Mirena lasts 5+ years and can be done in a single doctor's appt.

I was initially having trouble finding a comfortable position to thrust from. After a while we finally got into it, and I fucked her for 10 minutes straight. You would think that would be enough to cum even with a condom but it just never happened. I felt like I was close, but no cigar.

Ive heard that too. its not really true. maybe a bit of a gain as the hormones adjust. most girls go on birth control asd puberty hits and blame weight gain on the pill and not on the unhealthy lifestyle their childhood metabolism was hiding.

>she's 22 and doesn't want her parents to know she fucks a dude

mate, seriously? What the hell do they think she's doing with you then? Holding hand while watching frozen? BTW why have her parents to know? She can buy the fucking pill at a drugstore??

>condom feels shit

yeah welcome to the adult world. Protip #1 make her use the pill. Condom is for anal only (and for pirate season if you cant shower afterwards)

I had to stop masturbating. It sucks but my next ride will be good shit, I'm hoping

She's done it raw once, without the pill. She knows it feels better for the guy, but still is putting the hammer down on me. After our relationship goes on a bit longer will be a better time to ask, instead of constantly asking to do it raw.

No it doesnt

Best position is being on top. As long as the bed sheets won't destroy your kneecaps. Did it once on a blow up mattress and that killed mine. Another nice one is ifor your beds at the right height you can grab her by the hips while you're standing and she's laying on the bed and get quick thrusts in

Bang her 3 days after she starts her period and she won't get pregnant. I fuck all my HS girlfriends that way and never had a problem. It's a little messy but worth it.

Stop jacking off so much. When you jack off too much you lose sensation down there and even worse temporarily lose ability to get fully hard.

Fucked* past tense

She's asian and doesn't even want them to know we're dating. If you knew any asian girls you would know how strict their parents are since they never shut up about it.

Tried being on top, but I'm a fat ass so it wasn't working. Ended up laying in the spooning position, and fucking from behind.

"btw i made her cum like three times"


hahahahahahahaha


oh lord


keep believing this


sex god


fucking lel

You're her best sexual partner she's ever had at 22 as a virgin? Wtf... My best guess: She's been a virgin until now as well.

Just fuck while both are standing. She'll be ultratight, you fuck her like a boss from behind, most intense position in existence 20/10 would nut everytime, even with condom.

I had the same problem. I had sex so often but I couldn't feel anything, even bareback with different people. Then I went abstinent for a year. For some reason that worked for me. It felt so much better.

Going to abstain from jacking it until we fuck again.

She's only slept with two other guys who were more interested in getting their own rock off than in pleasing her.

dude, what the fuck? where are the pussy and ass pics?

I've never tried while both standing. Isn't it hard to do? Didn't want to make a fool of myself if I failed

lol she probably rolled her eyes and said "uh, three?" when he asked after the 4 minute session

Not being posted because I'm not an asshole.

Don't listen to these fucks about jerking off too much. Intercourse is for the guy anyways. She's not going to cum from you banging away at her. If you can't cum don't sweat it. Do her doggy style for a little while or whatever you think is fun. Let her get on top for a bit and do some work. If you can't cum then pull out, take off the condom and have her give you a handjob to finish you off, or titty fuck her. Get some lube and be done with it.

>she's asian

Can Asian girls not get the pill in a drugstore? do they need mommy and daddy to hold hands while she gets it? wtf, she or you are just lazy.

>spooning

yeah gg. Spooning works when you can ram like a boss, but i doubt that your "i fucked for the first time" cock knows how to do that. Do doggy, it'll be easier to get to the point because you have more control over her and your motions.

Little to do with a "Death Grip". With ANY new woman you will often do one of two things, either come quick, or cant. Its nerves they do bizarre things. Condoms pretty much ensure longer lasting, but little feeling, sex. If it makes you feel any better, women literally cannot feel anything inside them. Some women like larger men simply so they can feel something. If they had the same nerve endings internally that we have on our glands, they would die in childbirth. To see what I mean, on one occasion come inside her (her on pill of course) and make no obvious sign of having come. The majority simply cannot tell you have come at all. Thats how little feeling they have. As for coming 3 times in your first session, sure, its possible if she was really worked up, but 15-25% of women never experience an orgasm IN THEIR LIVES, and another similar percentage can only come by themselves. Relax on the making her come thing, some women can come easily, but many cant.

Another user here, also been pulling out for 6 years, no kids. It's fine if you're not retarded and don't leave it to the last second.

I use the "bareskin" ones. They can rip, but you will feel it rip so.

I also think it helps to leave some room for the rubber to move around at the end. Unroll it a bit then put it on.

She can go to planned parenthood and get the pill without parental consent, but if she didn't want to for her own reasons, just man up and keep with the rubbers man. You'll get used to it.

Dude you fucked for one single time. You WILL make yourself look like a fool anyway. Communicate with her, say you want to try out things but they might fail. If you fail laugh it off and fuck her in a different position.

>is it hard to do?

It's one of the harder positions yes but if you manage to do it (she needs to be a bit flexible with her hips) then it is the king's position. There is no better, and this comes from a guy that had the whole kamasutra through it inclusive a 7 hour mental delirium mantra session

I'm not op

No, we were fooling around for a couple of hours, and she didn't tell me, I just knew because she was gasping when I stopped.

She can get the pills herself but is worried about her parents finding them. I'm telling her just to tell them but she doesn't want to. And yes I am just trying things out to see what works. for some reason we didn't do doggy.

Yea OP is posting the pics. I actually did pick her up, she's not that heavy so I'll try in that position you see in pornos one day. Other than that, standing might not work for me since she's so much shorter.

She's fucking someone else on the side you moron. She doesn't want to give you the pleasure of jizzing in her bareback

How would you know a girl is cumming if you never had sex with one?

you probably haven't fucked a lot then.

I see. Well I wouldn't suggest trying it with a ONS, but if you have a GF go for it. It's awesome and the best is, you can do it everywhere. Under the shower, at night in the streets, in a hotel room infront of a mirror. It's perfect for quickies and for longer sessions as well. It's awesome and tight and satisfying for both.

Alright, if she is that afraid of her parents then you have to deal with that. You are basically a virgin and won't get any better atm probably. Ask her if she's ok if you can come over her body/face etc. So after fucking for a while pull out, throw the condom away and jack off over her.

so 2 things;

try a different brand of condom. i, for one, really dislike trojans. durex though are pretty good, imo. i use them now whenever i have one-nights, and the difference is negligible imo.

also, i don't think it's an uncommon thing not to cum when you lose your virginity. i didn't, anyway.

amazon.co.uk/Sagami-Original-001-Condom-5pcs/dp/B00IJ68C5C these are literally better than not wearing one cos it feels like your not wearing one and you dont worry about getting her preggo if u nut in her

It's pretty much her own reasons. Like I said, she's 22 so she wouldn't need a parent anyway.

I don't. She would stop me to rest because it was getting too pleasurable, so that's what I was counting.

I'm hoping she tell her parents we're dating on her own soon. I don't want to be the one to break the news to them. I'm trying to make her more confident, and be able to stand up to her parents and say "I'm an adult, I'm having sex, and I'm being safe about it."

> I don't want to be the one to break the news to them. I'm trying to make her more confident, and be able to stand up to her parents and say "I'm an adult, I'm having sex, and I'm being safe about it."

Good call. You'll be fine OP, just fuck her with condoms and finish after if you can't with a condom. come over her or in her mouth or so, she'll allow it because you use condoms because of her. just discuss it

>fedoratip.jpg M'lady

Are you her fucking brother or something? Weird ass motherfucker

she seemed a little disappointed I didnt cum in the end. I told her it wasn't her fault, and that I would try to fix the issue before next time.

Being a selfless lover doesn't make me a fedora wearing faggot.

No... She's asian with super strict parents and she's scared of them. I'm white and my parents know I'm dating and fucking her, and they don't really care. It's a culture thing.

And yes I still live with my parents, it's cheaper than the $1200/month apartments in this area.

Fix the issue? Sounds like you're a fedora wearing faggot to me. Dont apologize during/after sex. Thats like one of the least sexy things you can do, make her associate your intimacy with apologies.

Maybe you should try wearing the fedora while you're inside her.

Alright this looks like a good thread to ask this. I've had sex before and it wasn't really a good experience. Fast forward 3 years later and I'm in a relationship with a girl who is wife material. She is a virgin @ 20 and let me finger her for the first time a few days ago. Yesterday we were getting pretty intense grinding against each other and she was sticking her hand down my pants. I started fingering her so she whent to pull on my dick and as she started I lost my boner. I got nervous and could only get it back for a short time before I lost it again. She kept trying and was really patient and rubbed my balls and shit, i explained I was nervous and that it wasnt her and she was okay with that explanation since she is a virgin.

tl;dr how do I not get nervous and lose my boner

her vag will get looser and looser till she cums then it tightens up go mad. You've jerked off too much. Make sure you jerk off with lube, be gentle, don't grip tight, etc. It'll take time. Ideally cut down to like once a week or less, but you probably won't.

alcohol. Lights off/in bed. Smaller room. No windows. Music. Figure out what you need.

No I will. I need to cum next time I fuck her otherwise I will feel like a failure of a man.

I was having a similar issue today. I kept going soft, but would regain my boner when I started fingering her and listening to her moan. I had my dick ready to go while fingering and when I was fully hard I put it in.

I mean that's cool and all, but you should probably take advice from someone obviously speaking from experience. You're gonna have to actually make some sacrifices to get what you want, boo hoo. Blame the lack of real sex ed in schools.

dude i death gripped my cock and i still cum with no condom in under 5 mins with a condom around 20 mins wtf is wrong with me?
>not op

Seriously, first step is to accept that this happens. Don't put yourself under pressure. Get naked, cuddle, kiss and if it doesn't work out do something else. It'll work eventually. Get comfortable and gain some experience and talk about it.

"It took Sagami Rubber Industries more than 10 years to complete the design of the product with more than 20,000 condoms being put through rigorous stress tests to ensure they were fail-safe."

Rigorous stress tests. Kek.

to add to this,

basically you grip your penis and jerk off so rough that you've fucked it up. it has a hard time engorging with blood for long periods because you've damaged the tissue from overtortion. So it fills right up when you're leaving it alone and playing with her, but once it's in use the muscles can't hold all that blood in it.

You said
>but you probably won't
like you expect me to crumble under pressure and jack off 10 times in one day.
I'm telling you to not doubt my resolve to have better sex with someone I enjoy spending time with. I will cut back on masturbating, and I will get better and fucking as a result.

I death gripped since I'm 15 and never had an issue. But I also have a lot of control, so I can often come whenever I want. Everyone's different.

>she's sexually active even though she's 22.
So I divide by 7 to convert that to human years right?

>even though shes 22

too old

I understand what the issue is.

No pedo shit man, go to that loli thread.
This is the last image in my folder. I will be leaving now, but thanks for all the good advice people. I hope you all have a great night and a fulfilling sex life.

why does posting such pics make you an asshole?

I have a very similar problem, OP.

No matter how good it feels, I just can't finish. And if I do it takes at least an hour. And by that time It's most likely a lost cause as my dick just can't do it, and she gets pretty tired/condoms get fucked up. It has happened ever since the condom broke one time, so I am sure it's psychological, but fuck man what a guy gotta do to nut around here

> I hope you all have a great night and a fulfilling sex life.

Same to you OP, experience is something you can't read from an imageboard. Go out to the jungle, take the machete in your hand and go your own path. The sun will shine through the thick forest eventually. Good luck.

Sorry about your micropenis, bro.

From experience: You've been jacking it too much. Don't jack it and you'll be good. And don't think about the condom. Imagine you're a pornstar or want to be a daddy or whatever but just something that will make you want to come.

Don't overthink what happened during your first time. Never really goes how you want it to.

I used to find it really hard to cum condom or no condom, only after I had been having sex for a while I gradually got used to the different sensations and can orgasm when I want to.

Only ever used a condom with one girlfriend, was able to cum in her but she was maximum tightness in doggy style, so that's the only way I could finish with the condom on.

lol idk what small dick you have, but what you wrote is utter bullshit. Sure there are some girls that don't feel much, but most do and most come.

Know your facts the glans have little feeling

Tell her to stop being a whore and dive in there bareback when she's not expecting
When you feel like you are close to coming, pull out and spray her down
The chances of precum knocking her up are tiny and then that's what plan b is for or an abortion

I considered that. I haven't jacked it since Monday and I am hoping that will be good enough for tomorrow night. At the same time, I don't want it all to happen in 5 minutes but she told me she wants that for once since it's usually the other way around so I guess it's all good