Just had sex for the first time, and I couldn't cum. I'm thinking it might be because the condom, I couldn't really feel anything inside her. She insists on using condoms, I asked her to go on the pill, but she doesn't want her parents finding out she's sexually active even though she's 22.
Do you have any condom brands you think I should try? I was using Trojan ecstasy condoms, but still couldn't feel her insides. Felt more like I was fucking a condom than a woman.
BTW I made her cum like three times, so she left satisfied.
you jerked off too much, ur dick is now used to the tighness of ur hand, you won't feel shit in a loose cave faggot
Jack Clark
This pic gave me the best perve idea ever
Oliver Sanders
Girls get loose when they feel aroused you fucking virgin
David Kelly
Stop masturbating with a death grip. Start masturbating by using the least amount of force you can, it'll take you longer but it'll help you get used to less feeling.
then you can nut inside her with a condom.
had the same problem
Ryan Butler
Oldfag here.
Had the same problem, so i switched to the thin type condoms.
Much much better.
Jack Morgan
I've been pulling out for 7 years
Used a condom once even though I'm allergic to latex. Was a durex condom. It broke.
>mfw pulling out was less risky than using a condom
Jeremiah Cox
>like throwing a hotdog down a hallway
Julian Bailey
happens to everybody, mate. don't worry about it.
Brandon Taylor
She's pretty tight, and I could feel her cervix when I was fingering her so her vagina is shallow as well. Good idea
Bentley Ramirez
>Girls get loose when they feel aroused you fucking virgin Are you blind faggot? i like just said that >you won't feel shit in a loose cave he either needs to find a smaller girl, or get fucking used to it
Joseph Brown
>She's pretty tight, and I could feel her cervix when I was fingering her so her vagina is shallow as well.
You're the blind one here
Adam Rogers
Try choking her.
Brody Bennett
best condoms i use are the ultrathins. usually very tight and lots of sensation. the fancy condoms with warming etc tend to just feel weird quick imo. rawdog beats condom anyday though. pill or implant way to go.
Caleb Long
how would that help OP's problem tho
Jason Russell
btw i didnt cum my first time either. just kinda had fun with it.
Lincoln Parker
Get an onahole OP. It'll help your death grip syndrome. I had the same problem. It just takes some getting used to.
Or your girlfriend is a slut.
Wyatt Cook
She's not the issue, I am. I think it's about how I've been masturbating. I have been doing it for 10 years before having sex, so I need to stop doing it with such a tight grip.
Going to try to convince her to go on the pill as soon as her parents find out we're dating.
Luke Peterson
So here's the best option -> ASS as you are sure to have your dick squeezed hard, ensuring a cum, if she says no, m9ve to a faggot I guess ;3
Austin Jenkins
Wow dude I make my gf cum 3 times on a quickie kill yourself
Christopher James
>implying i diden't start my post b4 OP gave that respond
also from a scale of 1 to 10 of being tight, the girl might be a 6 but if ur hand is a 10 then you still aint fucking used to it faggot
Logan Gray
you just explained what most sex is like, Condums suck bro
Julian Russell
>Best thing. >Make her feel bad for not making you cum. >Let her finish you off with blow or handjob. >Profit
Zachary Cruz
>Just had sex for the first time I'm sorry I'm not on your level mr. master of sex
Easton Gonzalez
you should get her to tell her parents that her periods are really bad. they hurt more than her freinds etc... the pill usually mellows them out. and its nothing so serious the parents or doctor would freak
Jeremiah Davis
>mr. master of sex >Sup Forums i keked
Michael Lewis
I'd rather not use emotional warfare yet. I already am her best sexual partner she's ever had so I think I'm good.
I'll invest in a fleshlight, unless you have a better suggestion.
Carson Ortiz
I think she also said she doesn't want to get fat. I knew someone who was skinnier than her and she was on the pill.
Thomas Gray
Best just to please her. Do what I do, before you start just go in for a little bit and then put the condom on. Condoms in truth help prolong guys action
Wyatt Edwards
how to know if using death grip?
Kayden Foster
honestly, it might be a good thing if you don't cum, it means you can last longer and she can get off first pretty much every time.
Aaron Reed
>I already am her best sexual partner she's ever had Well then tell her that sex without a condom is 1500% better than fucking with one for both partners. Fuck, a Mirena lasts 5+ years and can be done in a single doctor's appt.
Hudson Jones
I was initially having trouble finding a comfortable position to thrust from. After a while we finally got into it, and I fucked her for 10 minutes straight. You would think that would be enough to cum even with a condom but it just never happened. I felt like I was close, but no cigar.
Joseph King
Ive heard that too. its not really true. maybe a bit of a gain as the hormones adjust. most girls go on birth control asd puberty hits and blame weight gain on the pill and not on the unhealthy lifestyle their childhood metabolism was hiding.
Sebastian Morgan
>she's 22 and doesn't want her parents to know she fucks a dude
mate, seriously? What the hell do they think she's doing with you then? Holding hand while watching frozen? BTW why have her parents to know? She can buy the fucking pill at a drugstore??
>condom feels shit
yeah welcome to the adult world. Protip #1 make her use the pill. Condom is for anal only (and for pirate season if you cant shower afterwards)
Logan Evans
I had to stop masturbating. It sucks but my next ride will be good shit, I'm hoping
Easton Reed
She's done it raw once, without the pill. She knows it feels better for the guy, but still is putting the hammer down on me. After our relationship goes on a bit longer will be a better time to ask, instead of constantly asking to do it raw.
Angel Turner
No it doesnt
Camden Brooks
Best position is being on top. As long as the bed sheets won't destroy your kneecaps. Did it once on a blow up mattress and that killed mine. Another nice one is ifor your beds at the right height you can grab her by the hips while you're standing and she's laying on the bed and get quick thrusts in
Brandon Cox
Bang her 3 days after she starts her period and she won't get pregnant. I fuck all my HS girlfriends that way and never had a problem. It's a little messy but worth it.
Christian Jones
Stop jacking off so much. When you jack off too much you lose sensation down there and even worse temporarily lose ability to get fully hard.
Evan Morgan
Fucked* past tense
Adrian Gonzalez
She's asian and doesn't even want them to know we're dating. If you knew any asian girls you would know how strict their parents are since they never shut up about it.
Tried being on top, but I'm a fat ass so it wasn't working. Ended up laying in the spooning position, and fucking from behind.
Nathan James
"btw i made her cum like three times"
hahahahahahahaha
oh lord
keep believing this
sex god
fucking lel
Charles Long
You're her best sexual partner she's ever had at 22 as a virgin? Wtf... My best guess: She's been a virgin until now as well.
Just fuck while both are standing. She'll be ultratight, you fuck her like a boss from behind, most intense position in existence 20/10 would nut everytime, even with condom.
Adam Flores
I had the same problem. I had sex so often but I couldn't feel anything, even bareback with different people. Then I went abstinent for a year. For some reason that worked for me. It felt so much better.
Parker Perry
Going to abstain from jacking it until we fuck again.
She's only slept with two other guys who were more interested in getting their own rock off than in pleasing her.
Jason Parker
dude, what the fuck? where are the pussy and ass pics?
Samuel Smith
I've never tried while both standing. Isn't it hard to do? Didn't want to make a fool of myself if I failed
Owen Lewis
lol she probably rolled her eyes and said "uh, three?" when he asked after the 4 minute session
Tyler Gray
Not being posted because I'm not an asshole.
Mason Ross
Don't listen to these fucks about jerking off too much. Intercourse is for the guy anyways. She's not going to cum from you banging away at her. If you can't cum don't sweat it. Do her doggy style for a little while or whatever you think is fun. Let her get on top for a bit and do some work. If you can't cum then pull out, take off the condom and have her give you a handjob to finish you off, or titty fuck her. Get some lube and be done with it.
Ryder Carter
>she's asian
Can Asian girls not get the pill in a drugstore? do they need mommy and daddy to hold hands while she gets it? wtf, she or you are just lazy.
>spooning
yeah gg. Spooning works when you can ram like a boss, but i doubt that your "i fucked for the first time" cock knows how to do that. Do doggy, it'll be easier to get to the point because you have more control over her and your motions.
Carter Russell
Little to do with a "Death Grip". With ANY new woman you will often do one of two things, either come quick, or cant. Its nerves they do bizarre things. Condoms pretty much ensure longer lasting, but little feeling, sex. If it makes you feel any better, women literally cannot feel anything inside them. Some women like larger men simply so they can feel something. If they had the same nerve endings internally that we have on our glands, they would die in childbirth. To see what I mean, on one occasion come inside her (her on pill of course) and make no obvious sign of having come. The majority simply cannot tell you have come at all. Thats how little feeling they have. As for coming 3 times in your first session, sure, its possible if she was really worked up, but 15-25% of women never experience an orgasm IN THEIR LIVES, and another similar percentage can only come by themselves. Relax on the making her come thing, some women can come easily, but many cant.
Zachary James
Another user here, also been pulling out for 6 years, no kids. It's fine if you're not retarded and don't leave it to the last second.
Carter Ramirez
I use the "bareskin" ones. They can rip, but you will feel it rip so.
I also think it helps to leave some room for the rubber to move around at the end. Unroll it a bit then put it on.
She can go to planned parenthood and get the pill without parental consent, but if she didn't want to for her own reasons, just man up and keep with the rubbers man. You'll get used to it.
Luke Lee
Dude you fucked for one single time. You WILL make yourself look like a fool anyway. Communicate with her, say you want to try out things but they might fail. If you fail laugh it off and fuck her in a different position.
>is it hard to do?
It's one of the harder positions yes but if you manage to do it (she needs to be a bit flexible with her hips) then it is the king's position. There is no better, and this comes from a guy that had the whole kamasutra through it inclusive a 7 hour mental delirium mantra session
Lincoln Green
I'm not op
Logan Wilson
No, we were fooling around for a couple of hours, and she didn't tell me, I just knew because she was gasping when I stopped.
She can get the pills herself but is worried about her parents finding them. I'm telling her just to tell them but she doesn't want to. And yes I am just trying things out to see what works. for some reason we didn't do doggy.
Aiden Lopez
Yea OP is posting the pics. I actually did pick her up, she's not that heavy so I'll try in that position you see in pornos one day. Other than that, standing might not work for me since she's so much shorter.
Parker Russell
She's fucking someone else on the side you moron. She doesn't want to give you the pleasure of jizzing in her bareback
Thomas Wood
How would you know a girl is cumming if you never had sex with one?
Connor White
you probably haven't fucked a lot then.
I see. Well I wouldn't suggest trying it with a ONS, but if you have a GF go for it. It's awesome and the best is, you can do it everywhere. Under the shower, at night in the streets, in a hotel room infront of a mirror. It's perfect for quickies and for longer sessions as well. It's awesome and tight and satisfying for both.
Alright, if she is that afraid of her parents then you have to deal with that. You are basically a virgin and won't get any better atm probably. Ask her if she's ok if you can come over her body/face etc. So after fucking for a while pull out, throw the condom away and jack off over her.
Benjamin Robinson
so 2 things;
try a different brand of condom. i, for one, really dislike trojans. durex though are pretty good, imo. i use them now whenever i have one-nights, and the difference is negligible imo.
also, i don't think it's an uncommon thing not to cum when you lose your virginity. i didn't, anyway.
It's pretty much her own reasons. Like I said, she's 22 so she wouldn't need a parent anyway.
I don't. She would stop me to rest because it was getting too pleasurable, so that's what I was counting.
I'm hoping she tell her parents we're dating on her own soon. I don't want to be the one to break the news to them. I'm trying to make her more confident, and be able to stand up to her parents and say "I'm an adult, I'm having sex, and I'm being safe about it."
Elijah Carter
> I don't want to be the one to break the news to them. I'm trying to make her more confident, and be able to stand up to her parents and say "I'm an adult, I'm having sex, and I'm being safe about it."
Good call. You'll be fine OP, just fuck her with condoms and finish after if you can't with a condom. come over her or in her mouth or so, she'll allow it because you use condoms because of her. just discuss it
Samuel Hughes
>fedoratip.jpg M'lady
Adam Robinson
Are you her fucking brother or something? Weird ass motherfucker
Jack Carter
she seemed a little disappointed I didnt cum in the end. I told her it wasn't her fault, and that I would try to fix the issue before next time.
Being a selfless lover doesn't make me a fedora wearing faggot.
David Garcia
No... She's asian with super strict parents and she's scared of them. I'm white and my parents know I'm dating and fucking her, and they don't really care. It's a culture thing.
And yes I still live with my parents, it's cheaper than the $1200/month apartments in this area.
Eli Rodriguez
Fix the issue? Sounds like you're a fedora wearing faggot to me. Dont apologize during/after sex. Thats like one of the least sexy things you can do, make her associate your intimacy with apologies.
Maybe you should try wearing the fedora while you're inside her.
Isaiah Watson
Alright this looks like a good thread to ask this. I've had sex before and it wasn't really a good experience. Fast forward 3 years later and I'm in a relationship with a girl who is wife material. She is a virgin @ 20 and let me finger her for the first time a few days ago. Yesterday we were getting pretty intense grinding against each other and she was sticking her hand down my pants. I started fingering her so she whent to pull on my dick and as she started I lost my boner. I got nervous and could only get it back for a short time before I lost it again. She kept trying and was really patient and rubbed my balls and shit, i explained I was nervous and that it wasnt her and she was okay with that explanation since she is a virgin.
tl;dr how do I not get nervous and lose my boner
Hudson Garcia
her vag will get looser and looser till she cums then it tightens up go mad. You've jerked off too much. Make sure you jerk off with lube, be gentle, don't grip tight, etc. It'll take time. Ideally cut down to like once a week or less, but you probably won't.
Luis Hall
alcohol. Lights off/in bed. Smaller room. No windows. Music. Figure out what you need.
Tyler Sanders
No I will. I need to cum next time I fuck her otherwise I will feel like a failure of a man.
I was having a similar issue today. I kept going soft, but would regain my boner when I started fingering her and listening to her moan. I had my dick ready to go while fingering and when I was fully hard I put it in.
Caleb Perry
I mean that's cool and all, but you should probably take advice from someone obviously speaking from experience. You're gonna have to actually make some sacrifices to get what you want, boo hoo. Blame the lack of real sex ed in schools.
Michael Roberts
dude i death gripped my cock and i still cum with no condom in under 5 mins with a condom around 20 mins wtf is wrong with me? >not op
Kayden Turner
Seriously, first step is to accept that this happens. Don't put yourself under pressure. Get naked, cuddle, kiss and if it doesn't work out do something else. It'll work eventually. Get comfortable and gain some experience and talk about it.
Nolan Harris
"It took Sagami Rubber Industries more than 10 years to complete the design of the product with more than 20,000 condoms being put through rigorous stress tests to ensure they were fail-safe."
Rigorous stress tests. Kek.
Jordan Allen
to add to this,
basically you grip your penis and jerk off so rough that you've fucked it up. it has a hard time engorging with blood for long periods because you've damaged the tissue from overtortion. So it fills right up when you're leaving it alone and playing with her, but once it's in use the muscles can't hold all that blood in it.
Brayden Fisher
You said >but you probably won't like you expect me to crumble under pressure and jack off 10 times in one day. I'm telling you to not doubt my resolve to have better sex with someone I enjoy spending time with. I will cut back on masturbating, and I will get better and fucking as a result.
Josiah Phillips
I death gripped since I'm 15 and never had an issue. But I also have a lot of control, so I can often come whenever I want. Everyone's different.
Jaxson Gonzalez
>she's sexually active even though she's 22. So I divide by 7 to convert that to human years right?
Christian Cruz
>even though shes 22
too old
Juan Reyes
I understand what the issue is.
No pedo shit man, go to that loli thread. This is the last image in my folder. I will be leaving now, but thanks for all the good advice people. I hope you all have a great night and a fulfilling sex life.
Adrian White
why does posting such pics make you an asshole?
Adrian Wood
I have a very similar problem, OP.
No matter how good it feels, I just can't finish. And if I do it takes at least an hour. And by that time It's most likely a lost cause as my dick just can't do it, and she gets pretty tired/condoms get fucked up. It has happened ever since the condom broke one time, so I am sure it's psychological, but fuck man what a guy gotta do to nut around here
Brody Edwards
> I hope you all have a great night and a fulfilling sex life.
Same to you OP, experience is something you can't read from an imageboard. Go out to the jungle, take the machete in your hand and go your own path. The sun will shine through the thick forest eventually. Good luck.
Ryan Martinez
Sorry about your micropenis, bro.
Brayden Gomez
From experience: You've been jacking it too much. Don't jack it and you'll be good. And don't think about the condom. Imagine you're a pornstar or want to be a daddy or whatever but just something that will make you want to come.
Ian Hernandez
Don't overthink what happened during your first time. Never really goes how you want it to.
I used to find it really hard to cum condom or no condom, only after I had been having sex for a while I gradually got used to the different sensations and can orgasm when I want to.
Grayson Long
Only ever used a condom with one girlfriend, was able to cum in her but she was maximum tightness in doggy style, so that's the only way I could finish with the condom on.
Robert Walker
lol idk what small dick you have, but what you wrote is utter bullshit. Sure there are some girls that don't feel much, but most do and most come.
Mason Russell
Know your facts the glans have little feeling
Nolan Phillips
Tell her to stop being a whore and dive in there bareback when she's not expecting When you feel like you are close to coming, pull out and spray her down The chances of precum knocking her up are tiny and then that's what plan b is for or an abortion
Blake Taylor
I considered that. I haven't jacked it since Monday and I am hoping that will be good enough for tomorrow night. At the same time, I don't want it all to happen in 5 minutes but she told me she wants that for once since it's usually the other way around so I guess it's all good