Hey Sup Forums, I need sex tips (from those of you who arent filthy virgins)
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So I've been dating this girl for a few weeks, and last night was the first time I ever decided to make a move to third base with her. I've been to her house before and we've made out and I've felt her up, but last night was the first time we actually got naked for eachother and whatnot.
So basically what happened was when she took my pants down and started sucking me off (she was going for like 15 mins), I just wasnt making any noise. And I've always been like this throughout all my relationships, be it kissing or getting head or whatever, I just stay silent and focus and enjoy. It wouldn't feel right for me to be faking noises because it's not genuine. So it came to the extent where every few minutes she would stop and say something like "are you even enjoying this?" or "I need you to give me something, what do you like?" or something along the lines of that, and I kind of started to feel bad. I didn't end up coming because Im not very sensitive, but I ended up taking her down and eating her out anyway, but it still kind of annoys me that I couldn't get myself to make noise.
Some of my friends say I could just breathe hard but even that feels unnatural to me. TL;DR: I dont make enough sound while I'm recieving blowjobs and it turns my girl off because she thinks I'm not enjoying it, but making noise doesn't feel genuine. WAT DO?
i'm the same, try not to worry about her experience so much. You cant both be the passive one
Noah Hill
let her suck me off instead you dumb cunt
Justin Edwards
Yeah but then again its just because we've been dating for so short that I want to make an impression. I don't want her to think that Im just shit at this, you know?
Michael Anderson
good luck getting her within 3 meters of your smelly ass you fuckin neckbeard
Henry Morris
you are shit at receiving blow jobs? Please remember that you are valuable as a person and she is not better than you for having a cunt
Aaron Ortiz
Asian, dont grow much facial hair let alone neck. Shower twice a day. Your girl will suck my cock and I will have her moaning she wont even care if im making noise. pussy cunt.
Jayden Hall
Here you go, fam
Brayden Myers
>pussy cunt Kekd harder than i should've
Jace Lee
ill give you some solid advice man.. drop the "how was that" "are you enjoying this" "was that good" thats the quickest way to make a girl think youre a total pussy, are you a virgin btw and is she??
Jayden Diaz
>Asian HAHAHAHAH take this L you fuckin twig
This has solved all my issues. Thank you so much.
Yeah of course but I don't want it to just be a chore for her, I want her to enjoy it as much as I do.
Gavin James
Neither of us are virgins but she's definitely had more sex than I had.
Sebastian Adams
Getta load of Gloria Vanderbilt over here, Showering twice a day? whats next whipeing your ass?
James Jenkins
another thing, there is no technique to sex, despite what everyone will have you beleive, better sex comes from being more comfortable with the person and thats literally all there is too it i promise you
Ayden Kelly
I bet he flosses too, this bitch ass choir boy.
Aaron Lee
When your mom comes over to tongue my asshole Its the least I could do to keep it clean, even though your moms a dirty fucking whore
Oliver Jones
Spoken like a true two pump chump. Git gud
Andrew Bennett
Floss with your fat moms cunt pubes
Cooper Lewis
I don't really ask questions, sometimes I try to be kinda teasy by whispering "you like that?" or something, but Im not the type to ask if she's enjoying herself much to be honest. It's mostly her that asks.
Henry Edwards
my girl took my virginity, it dosent mean shit, i was just wondering cause you should just talk about sex, once youre not a virgin theres no point in anything other than straight sex
Brody Hernandez
Fuck dude, this is classic young guy shit. sometimes girls really get turned of if you are overly concerned with their comfort they WANT you to not give a shit They get really turned on by guys that could drop them at the drop of a hat
Grayson Sullivan
enjoy your std you dumb cunt
Alexander Walker
My mother is almost 50 years old. You have poor taste. If you're fucking my mother, I pity you.
Nathan Edwards
this is sad
Mason Sanders
Could you just play a recording of you moaning or something?
Adrian Brooks
Dont speak to your father that way you stupid beta cunt
Connor Hill
My ex was like this too, OP. Just tell her straight up what you said here; that you are quiet because you are focusing on what she is doing. That's how you enjoy what she is doing. If she doesn't like that explanation, then you probably nabbed yourself an exceptionally insecure girl.
Xavier Miller
dont force it man, like you said if its not genuine its akward or meaningless
Tell her how hot she looks sucking your dick. Ask her if she's having fun sucking you Tell her she's a good/bad/naughty girl/slut/bitch. That's it, keep doing that, deeper. Instructions that she's wanting apparently so give her some.
Find out what she's into, 90% of girls I've fucked have enjoyed some kind of dirty talk. You're a dude, just take the reigns man. So long you don't go spewing some dark shit she'll probs enjoy it.
Anthony Morris
I was the same when i was younger, but honestly the more comfortable you get with your partner the more u will relax and open up in the bedroom, also judt explain to her that yes, it feels amazing you just arent a vocal lover
Jackson Roberts
I know where you're coming from, user. I'm not very vocal in bed with my wife, she knows this and it doesn't bother her. She knows I'm enjoying it every time. A fake moan just doesn't feel right. My breathing gets heavy, but that's pretty much it.
Jason Campbell
Of course and I was going to fuck her last night but my ride pulled up early so I didn't get a chance to.
yeah I'm 18 so you're right, it IS young guy shit lmao. that's true but then again that would only really apply if we were hooking up, not dating like we are, am I wrong?
She had a boyfriend for a year that she was fucking. Not that she was having sex with lots of guys, so she developed her experience off of one guy.
Thats what I told her last night. I was telling her "I always get complaints that I don't make noise, it's just how I am. Don't worry, Im enjoying it, keep doing what you're doing" or something like that.
yeah I get that but I feel like it's a lack of experience (or confidence, thereof) that causes me to not be able to express it out loud. so I want to develop it.
see THIS is good. this is the kind of shit I want to hear. thank you, sir. got any other tips?
Jacob Cox
Yeah exactly, I just need her to kind of come to terms with it now and help me work on it.
Yeah I'll definitely be doing that. Thanks a lot.
Jace Cook
>Catalog Kek... Believing women when they tell you amount of dicks they have taken. ok user. Stupid cunt
James Foster
Good luck to ya, bud. :3
Samuel Price
I'm live you, Op. I like to enjoy it but don't make noIse. best solution I have for you is to hold her hair with with one hand. You can help her rhythm when you're enjoying it and hold her when you blow.
Nolan Ross
I'm not that stupid lmao. She's a good friend of my best friend, and my best friend told me all about her, she told me about the boys in her past, and then I asked subtle questions that implied the same answers. I know Im not being lied to.
Jack Long
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Austin Smith
Yeah I was doing that last night. I was holding her hair up and leading a bit but that kinda wasnt enough because it was still too quiet.
Angel Price
your best friend probably had your gf tongue fucking his asshole and now your getting cheap whore sloppy seconds. beta cuck
Caleb Evans
best friend is a girl, you fuckin whale
Eli Garcia
Reassure her that she's really amazing at it mind blowing infact you just don't make a lot of noise during. maybe just say "that's amazing" or whatever while she's sucking she probably is worried she's doing a shit job and it's making her insecure.
William Moore
It's not natural not make noises while recieving head? The fuck you mean. You sound like have a mild form for autism or some sort of social anxiety if you think breathing heavily or making noises during sexual acts is wierd.
Protip: COMMUNICATION TURNS HER ON. I myself hate going down on girls who just lie there without giving me ANY type of response like a fucking human fleshlight. If making noises feel wierd then just TELL her that it feels good. Just curse, like they do in porn. "Oh fuck yes etc", or simply say "Oh yesss, yeaaah, FUUUCK YEEEAH MY NIGGAAA" or something in that direction.
Might be wierd at first if you have always been a mute faggot during your sexual encounters. So fake it til you make it nigga. Go get dat sloppy 1:1 SUCC.
Ian Evans
This shit cracked me the FUCK up. Thanks user, I'll remember this
Yeah I'll try it out next time and see how it goes. Thank you.
Jose Ward
lol dude I weigh 145 lean muscle build. gymnastics and fucking your mom does wonders.
Adrian Robinson
She wants feedback, sucking dick is a lot of work and it sounds like she's servicing you and not really getting off on it. Give her compliments, rub her neck and shoulders, thrust into her mouth a little. Take deeper breaths so you"ll enjoy it more and it will make her feel like she's pleasing you.
When she starts breathing hard and touching herself that's when you rub your cock around her lips, her face, and slap her with it.
Ian Price
then agressively fuck her face whiel your pull her hair. Then choke her with your hands till shes barely breathing and proceed to fuck her ass. raw dog that dirty cunt. Then cum all over her face while she cries
Michael Peterson
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Luke Gutierrez
>145 >lean muscle build
There is no way you're anything taller than 5'6 you manlet.
I'm 6'4, 175 lbs and ottermode. Boxer and soccer player and I've done MMA for 5 years. you're nothing
Great tips, but when we were doing this, she was sitting on top of me and I was laying down, so I couldn't really do any movements and she was too far down to reach. how do I act on that?
Andrew Smith
make sound ez
Logan Johnson
mma is for pussys. you cunt
Brandon Reed
Also did jiu jitsu for 3 years but switched to MMA recently. I could literally bench press your body weight 6x20 lmfao
Eli Watson
She wants you to be a man and tell her what to do. Tell her what you like, don't like, what to do next. Shes asking you to be alpha and you're whining? Enjoy the sexless life, you are actively earning it. Grow a pair and fuck this girl. It's what she wants.
Liam Clark
Next time just grab her by the hair and fuck her mouth.
Adrian Wilson
>trying this hard
Matthew Kelly
You could always just order a prostitute from that one website thats name escapes me.
Adrian Walker
Once you relax more and are more comfortable with sex/being intimate witg some one else it will come more naturally. You're thinking too much about it right now. Not sayin you're gonna start grunting/groaning like a lumberjack, but you'll open up more and 'sounds' will just come out after a while.
If you're worried about it.. just say you're kinda nervous. They'd rather you be honest than faking some sort of machismo or trying to be like 'ummmmm ahhhh guhhhhj muh deeeeek'. Just say you're enjoying it, I/they could understand if you were completely silent and flacid and it not seeming like you were into it. Not everyone is noisy in the sack, honestly it's a comfort thing more than anything
Landon Powell
>6'4" 175lbs Hello mr. Skellerman
Get on my level. 6'7" 255, dad-bod bearmode
Hudson King
OP, serious advice here. It is indeed a bit weird to make noise sometimes, especially someone you're not that comfortable with yet (you said it was a pretty new relationship).
But consider who is more vulnerable in that position! She's the one performing at that moment, she's the one who needs to do something right.
It might feel unnatural and forced at first to vocalize, but it'll probably become more natural eventually, in the meantime you should probably force it a bit. Just do her a favour fam, she'll suck your dick better for it...