Can anyone explain what "teenage love" is and why thats different from love as you get older?

Can anyone explain what "teenage love" is and why thats different from love as you get older?

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that would be lust. Raging hormone levels.

i would love to be a teenager again, i would make sure to live the best years before i grow up, love? fuck that shit, i would try to fuck as many girls as i can and date as many as i can without thinking about getting into something serious, man, i give anything to go back in time. btw teenage love doesn't exist, hormones levels: 9000 that's all it is and I LOVE IT

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Teenage love is borderline stupidity. Inexperience meets hormones, and these children mistake lust for genuine affection. It is the inability to handle oxytocin and interpret what that shit does to your judgement.

Pretty edgy, but not true at all.

It's different because when you get older you can't have any more no matter how many teenyboppers you put your wiener into.

If I was a teenager again I would have not taken any relationship seriously and saved my virginity in spite.

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As a teenager your level of faggotry is saturated and you're unable to distinguish love from lust, as you get older you're able to do this, but you're still a faggot

>fucking five times an hour
>fucking five times a week

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as a teenager you think emotions matter

You haven't been hurt before so you have no doubts or insecurities and both just think its the best thing ever

Also you get to fuck 14 year olds

Haha.

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when u get older, they actually do.

if ur 27 and have no friends with a weight problem and have no aspirations like me. the feels will get u

They seem the same to me. I've never had either

Idk if it's because I'm 26 and I've fucked 30 pretty women in my lifetime already, but I'll tell you it's not all it's cracked up to be. Afraid of stds and lacking an intimate connection can be shitty.

I dated in different age groups through the years.
Young relationships involve lots of sex, anger over stupid shit, and lots of arguing...
Older women are more understanding and patient it seems like.
I've only dated two late 20s to 30s, so my experience with them is meh.
I like young women, but you need lots of money and time to keep them happy in my opinion.
I didn't have lots of money when sleeping with college girls and I'm still poor, but I noticed the money always becomes an issue sooner or later.
They'd want better dates, some type of providing, and show off how nice your car is. I got non of that.

And it all feels great.

most women are insecure and it only gets worse as they get older.

It didn't to me.
From my experience, I was frustrated because of all the cheating.
I once even had a girlfriend who'd act distant with me around her guy best friend.
I once had this other girlfriend who cheated on me with my friend after he got out of boot camp for Marines.
Etc etc

It's more intense and feels like it's your whole world and whatnot. As you get older your feelings aren't as much "out of control".

Well, the older ones were more like friends with benefits. I would think that they would get insecure very much because of their biological clock.
That does make sense...

Teenage love
>everything is new and exciting and you dont know how to process your mind yet. Making your desires completely wreckless. Its like youre alive for the first time.

Adult years
>you are aware of most things. The charm of romance fades but your awareness of not falling for bullshit and heartbreak increases. Some equilibrium exists, but it isnt the same.

Im 30 and my girlfriend is 20. She is where I was when i was wreckless. As am adult Im aware and if she left I wouldnt be heartbroken. That give amd take

Teenage love is the epitome of desire for another person that, for the first time ever for you, shares that desire.

Some people confuse this with lasting love, acceptance each other's of flaws and bolstering of each other's positive traits.

These people are the ones who get "hurt".

Recognize it for what it is, not what it could be or what it isn't -- that's real love.

You're letting them get you. The emotions still don't matter. You're thinking they matter. It's up to you to change your outlook...and you can change it. Believe in yourself.

No. I agree with him.
Now that I'm older I too, don't fall madly in love anymore.
I also almost expect the worst to happen in the relationship because so far it always had for me.
I just kinda enjoy the moment and expect it to end eventually in some devastating way, but only this time I seen it coming and don't get hurt from it.

When you are young, you have an openness, 'innocence' isn't really the right word, but a belief that transcendent love is possible, and that you have it for the first person you're attracted to who is also attracted to you.

When you're older, you realize that life is really, really, really long, that there are all types of reasons you are attracted to people in all sorts of ways, and that the relationships you had as a teenager were basically a total joke that you were way, way, way too serious about.

To a teenager, their scope of life is small and every new event seems very serious and important (and it is, to them, given teh scope of their lives so far, they aren't wrong!) But adults have seen some shit, been through some shit, and things just don't mean as much to us anymore.

Teen: She is the one for me. She is perfect in every way. I have never seen someone so beautiful and she likes me back oh my fuck oh my fuck.
Adult: Ok, let's see where this goes. Probably nowhere.

Let me do you a solid, it's 'reckless.' I normally don't correct people's spelling but that seems potentially embarrassing in the future. Good luck with your girlfriend.

Im here. My ex was practically an escort for two years and it mentally and physically fucked me up. Didn't know about any of it till way in. Then i couldn't kiss her or have sex. Had a condom when i got head and became very STD conscious. She tricked me hardcore man..

This. Your life is a day to day event. "What am I doing today? What am I doing this weekend? When is the next thing that comes about?" When you get older you start realizing that you can't just do day to day. It's a series of days/weeks/months/years that you are building your life on. To get to point A, how and what needs to happens. Your future result is more a factor than the current outcome.

when you're young...you dont think about everything...you're more or less just living in the moment and enjoying the fuck out of the new things and feelings you've never had before

When you're old(er) all the relationships come with baggage. Her baggage. Your baggage. Real world problems.

Also, when you're old(er) you know the feeling of heartbreak and are somewhat fucked up and jaded from previous relationships.

An adult wont fall in love just cause fuck a girl

So surprising to see insight like this on /b.

I turn 30 next month, not sure if that qualifies as an adult, but married and we're double income no kids. We make a six figures together and it flies through our fingers constantly, and a week passes with the same intensity that a day did when I was young.

I can go to work, get into flow, come back and have no idea where time went. Relationships are important but nobody has the time to invest in them to the degree that you did when young / even in college.

As for young love. Hard to call it love, yeah? It was love in the pure sense of infatuation, caring about another person, continual angst and confusion and self-doubt and hope and passion.

Marriage now... It's just so much better. But I am so grateful I didn't marry my college first love that I dated for years. We planned our lives out together but, in retrospect, we would have been completely miserable together no matter how much passion we shared.

My wife and I today have a foundation of friendship, respect, and trust that so far exceeds any of the passion of my youth. Don't get me wrong, the sex is way better after spending years growing with someone, but the sheer on-fire adrenaline-fueled heart-beating-in-your-chest shit. That goes away.

Personally, I love being an adult. I have less time but I have astronomically greater freedom to pursue the things I care about. Not just resources, but now I have the ability to focus and work towards things in a way I never did as a kid.

It's scary now that 10 years ago I was 20, and 10 years from now I'll be 40. I always thought 40 was fucking old. My wife wants babies badly, and the strange thing Is I'd be happy if we did because we have the stability and strength together to handle it. Maybe that explains adult love?

There are some oldfags here who are quite insightful and offer more than just shitposting. I actually come here for advice or with serious life questions occasionally.

I see a couple of them a year, but usually just genuine rather than insightful. Probably been here 8+ years, I have no idea what about this shitheap keeps me coming back constantly.

I married my Grade 11 gf (when we were 27). Loved her all along. we have 3 kids now and I'm proud.