Hi Sup Forums short story, i found out my gf was cheating on me a week ago...

hi Sup Forums short story, i found out my gf was cheating on me a week ago. she has since left me and seems to be in a relationship with the guy she she was fucking. if that wasn't bad enough i see the guy around sometimes and he taunts me with it, saying he's just uding her for an easy fuck and that she's just meat to him. despite feeling betrayed i have strong feelings for her and it hurts to hear him talk about her like that even though she's a bitch for what she did. i also kinda blame myself for it because we used to watch porn together sometimes and lately i picked interracial porn and only a few weeks later this shit happened.

how do i get over her .Sup Forums ? i'm trying my best to avoid the guy since he just pisses me off, last time i tried to take a swing at him but i didn't stand a chance. how do i stop thinking about her ? how have you gotten through break ups in the past ?

My gf cheated on me with a guy who bought her food.

If she cheated on you, she's not worth your time.

Don't rush things, or do, whatever works best.
Just don't sacrifice your own interests for quick pussy.
You just broke up so you need to stabilize and get back to normality.

Take time to enjoy being a bachelor then get back into the game.

I took a short cut and numbed myself for about a month, i've lost feelings for her, and already have another girl beckoning.

Just, distract yourself until you don't need to distract yourself anymore.

you're right, i'n my head i know she's not worth the heartache, but i can't help but think about her all the time. i'm definitely not looking for someone new this fast but it's so hard to clear my mind

Yeah just don't rush things man. Take the time to get over her. Do something to distract yourself from her. Ignore the dude my man. Its gonna be allright

well, it takes time to forget about someone but when it came to cheating, fuck nah man, she fucking cheated on your ass. She wasn't thinking about you when she was fucking that other guy now was she. Like this shit just doesn't work man. I've never stayed with anyone thats cheated on me but i have friends who have which is just wtf. and that shit never ever works. you have to remember what she did and i hope to god to don't get back with her. find someone who wants to be with you as bad as you want to be with them

thanks man, any kind of distraction that have helped you in the past ? i do have some hobbies, i game sometimes, go for runs, watch so movies but she's always in my mind regardless of what i do

next time you see the guy stop him and thank him for exposing the type woman she is

i do like this. i wouldn't stop him to say if but if he gets in my face again atleast i have a good comeback that might shut him up

Hahahaha I did drugs. Maybe a bad example but I was young and I had a great time with friend so I'd suggest do some hobbies and hang out with friends man.

And another piece of advice I want to give you: Never let a girl be the only pillar in your life.

i smoke some weed from time to time but that's barely a drug, it helps a little but i can't be high all day, i'm staying away from any real drugs.

Dwarf fortress by night, exercise by day

you mention regretting the interracial porn, does that mean she's become a BBC slut ?

>i also kinda blame myself for it because we used to watch porn together sometimes and lately i picked interracial porn and only a few weeks later this shit happened.

Thanks for letting us know this is a fictional b8 story.

sage

i should look into that game, it seems fun, currently trying civ 6 but it doesn't keep my mind very busy

That's his intent of thread. That's what he wants anons to talk about. OP is lying. Just a b8 thread. Just wants attention.

great of you guys to just focus on that one line. atleast other anons gave a shit about the content and gave advice

it will and if you think about it he really did you a favor and took her off your hands and out of your life so you can move on to someone respectful and loves you in return

you're probably right, thanks.

Because OP is a lying troll.

well there's definitely a troll in the thread but i don't think it's the OP

nice subtle jews jewing thread.

Do it. It is a brick fucking wall in terms of difficulty curve, but once you learn how to navigate the menus it's the absolute best. Look for the newbie pack thing if you don't want to learn to read the ASCII. Also for shits and giggles you should look up the best dwarf fortress patch notes.

Good luck keeping yourself together man. Shit's rough but you really do deserve better than some cheating bitch.

thanks man, i really appreciate it.

bro: i had the same problem years ago, live went really shitty, anxiety, depression and so on. There is one and only one important thing : you.
Gotta rebuild yourself, your time here is limited, that bitch dont deserve your time and thoughts.
Date other girls, even if they dont match your standards, go outside qith your friends, travel.
Go to the gym, run, learn something new, you need to go out and see more people, people who deserves you.

>he taunts me with it, saying he's just uding her for an easy fuck

Next time he does that say you've been HIV+ for several years.

The fuck...


This is what happens when everyone gets a trophy and a safe space.

Grow a fucking pair of balls, realize that women do not belong on a pedestal and get fucking cracking on building yourself up.

You need to separate emotion from relationships, bottom line. Treat women with respect and all that, but don't fucking fall in love. Get laid, have fun. Have multiple partners, don't get anyone pregnant.

This. All it takes is a simple look down to realize that pussy is beneath you. Stop elevating that shit.

>You need to separate emotion from relationships
yeah because that's how relationships work.

>This is what happens when everyone gets a trophy and a safe space.

right because people feeling like shit after a relationship ended only started happening after 2006.

if you think of women only as a pussy and think they're beneath you then you're the reason why normal men get shit from feminists. ofcourse they're not better, but they're not worse either.

Faggot. Relationships are not limited to the emotional/physical interaction between male and females who agree to see each other romantically. You can have a relationship with your fucking barber. You don't get jealous of your barber of he/she cuts someone else's hair do you?

People have always felt like shit about their relationships ending, however only in the last couple of decades have faggots pined so goddam hard over obviously disrespectful partners and taken an unreasonable amount of abuse from them after the fact.

Man, how can you be such a faggot. If she cheated on you, then fuck her man Bitches Aint Shit. But if the guy comes over to you and says you are a fucking cuck and makes fun of you, you should break his jaw man.

Go learn a fight sport such as Muay Thai or MMA so you can actually destroy someone in a fight and stand up for yourself. Help yourself out dude

i feel very bad for you and the women you're in a "relationship" with.

Just to add and clarify:

Your best bet is to redefine how you interact with women you have a sexual relationship with. Keep things much closer to casual and leave the heavy emotions out if it. How you deal with the other dude is the same way. Leave the emotion out of it. Your goal is to have everyone see what a faggot he is for trying to fuck with you on something you don't care about. You look strong, he looks like a weak faggot who can't be happy with getting laid alone. As far as your concerned, you're on to the next couple of casual relationships and could give a fuck about what these two are doing.

Rinse and repeat. Wait until the women your fucking are less interested in bars and clubs scenes to consider letting more heavy emotions come into play.

I'm married and therefore have only one relationship of the type you are referring.

You clearly have some serious trouble understanding that there are many different types of relationships one can have.

I feel very bad for you and the people you have only one kind of relationship with.

You're a fucking pathetic pussy. Beat the FUCKING SHIT out of that cunt, and tell your cunt girl friend that he said shes just an easy fuck to him.

This gets OP nowhere except maybe arrested for assault.

Indifference is the most powerful and appropriate response to shit like this. In fact, I'm willing to bet that user's girl gets dumped once her fucktoy realizes that he's lost his power over user. Girl loses, fucktoy loses.

user rises above all of it and moves on like a boss.

of course you are with that mentality. and i'm typing this from my castle, i might net reply immediately, i need to go feed my unicorn

are you a mountain gorilla ? we have laws against that here.

So, what your saying is you have no substantive response?

Thought so.

Thie guy nailed it. I actually don’t know when all this bullshit started but it was definitely around since the 80s. Betas everywhere.

i really fucking doubt that the guy is literally only fucking her to get at him

what do you mean ? i thought we were both just talking about our imaginary life ?

lol comparing a marriage with the relationship with your barber

not getting sarcasme, genuine question are you autistic ? don't have anything agaisnt them, my cousin is autistic and this is very much how he acts.