Help me be a better dom Sup Forums

Help me be a better dom Sup Forums
my gf really enjoys sub dom daddy stuff & being extremely submissive in bed. I'm fine being rough & dominant when horny, but I always feel bad & stop if I hurt her, plus she really enjoys the whole "daddy" thing, but I feel cringey when doing it and unsure how to continue. She now wants to progress to bdsm & harder domination, tying up, spanking, gags, coming home & just using her regardless of what she wants etc etc

Need advice on how to be a better dom , things to do, say, how to carry on when i'm scared i've hurt her, infographics for things like spanking, tying up etc are also appreciated

Obviously this isn't all the time, but I want to get better at it for the occasions when she really wants it

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No problem OP! Sounds like you are homosexual! Did i help you today?

she also loves all kinds of pain, & really wants to be able to do anal if there's any advice on easing into that (so far there's just been blood & pain & crying, who the fuck can keep a boner through that)

HA, good one friend! slight flaw is I hate butt stuff, of all descriptions

bump

just take some meth bro

first thing first, agree on a safe word, as well as a gag-safe-word, so if she's gagged or choked she whould do "hmmmf hhhmf hmmf" to let you know.

That will help you with the problem of not knowing when to stop - just don't fucking stop until she screams the safe word.

Also, try inventing a few rules and giving up spanks for breaking them, they love that.

you should discuss it whith your gf, if she loves you she will understand. if she doesn't agree you can just beat her she will like it anyway

I tried that, she just screamed it all the time whenever she got even a little scared then had a go at me for stopping

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next time she does that slap the fuck out of her and tell her to take it seriously.

Force her not to use that unless she HAS to

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What this guy said. Then you won't give a fuck plus you'll last much longer. Also a safe word helps.

Read "The Control Book" and a book called "Domination & Submission" for a crash course.

Legit

I've had my ass whooped on several occasions growing up, upper thigh area hurts like a bitch, especially with a leather belt. Even worse when you try to cover yourself up and you catch that belt across your hands and wrists. Good times man, good times.

Not going to take meth

For if she's gagged, get her to click her fingers or something similar. Very distinct noise that won't be done by accident, also tell her if you want her to enjoy herself she needs to take the safe word seriously. No point saying it if she's not in too much pain/uncomfortable. If she keeps it up, then just fucking continue regardless one night and see how she reacts after, might teach her a lesson or may let you know where her boundaries actually lie.

ill give this a go
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is there some kind of progression of shit you use?

Also any advice on kinda daddy role play?

I'll be honest, I didn't read the thread till just now, I just replied to the picture I saw.

That said I have no idea

give her what she wants you fucking pussy

Useful, bet you'd be amazing at this

She's there for you to use like interactive porn. Do you care about the porn you watch or its feelings? Or do you just use it to get off?

Apply that to her and use some open handed violence if you don't get your way immediately

Me

Except this is asking me to get off to porn I don't like, and this is a terrible example, really I'm the porno for her

As someone who's in to that kind of thing, you should maybe experiment with different situations, maybe there's something you'd like that doesn't involve pain, you could have her dress up and act like a pet or servant for instance.