Sup Forums what the fuck? Help me out here

Sup Forums what the fuck? Help me out here.
Story time
>Meet this cute girl on tinder
>She's great, and she's a good girl, not some slut
>We really hit it off, like really.
>I invite her over, she drives 40 minutes to see me for the first time
>It was great, cuddled, made out, kissed her naked from head to toe. She fucking loved it, she was here for 6 hours
>I'm making out with her and her hair gets caught in her earing and rips the skin a bit and starts to bleed. She gets worried and upset and i get a cloth, clean her up and she heads home all pissed off because of her fucking earring.
>Once she got home she didn't feel like texting me
>These are the new texts from today, I'm so fucking confused.

2/2

She's ignored me since

Smells like her realizing that tinder dating is not what she wanted.. Typical bullshit excuse, first act all adventorous and then back up all the way

Don't stick your dick in crazy.

That chick's got something wrong with her dude, just move on. Tinder is full of sluts that will fuck the first week.

That's exactly what im thinking, and it's fucked up because I didn't do anything wrong you know? Do you think I should let her go or try to fix shit?

I'm tired of fucking sluts dude, I've had my fair share. I thought I could see myself with this girl though

fuck her.
wait, you can't.

Nah it's not about you at all bro, it would habe happened with either guy shes going with after trying out tinder.
Just leave her be, talking her into shit wont work anyway when crazy bitches made up their mind about want in to be a "good girl" again..
You could Show US pix of waht youre missing out on tho

>would you be interested if i said i didn't want to have sex

You should have said "no worries" dude, you could have fucked this by saying "i'm a pretty sexual person" If this girl isn't a slut you've probably come off as a bit of a cunt.

Where's this at op?

thats right.
you just started with her and you are following her orders, don't be a bitch.

How am I coming off as a cunt, she's asking me if I want a sexless relationship. I'm gonna be honest with her.

and yeah I'm just gonna let it go, it's just weirding me out because it doesn't make sense to me

"I like you and I wouldn't mind if I had to jump through a few extra hoops. That's all I'm really saying. If you change your mind, let me know and I'll take you out on a real date. No rush."

And just leave it at that.

She's seeing someone else and the sex is better. She wants to keep you around as the nice guy/contingency plan, if shit goes bad with her new guy, but yeah she's fucking him (or her) instead and prefers that sex to your sex.
Seriousness, just leave her. Only been a month. At the very least, move on and keep her in your contacts for a fuck every so often if she is up for it but she is almost certainly moved on.

she liked the worshipping her you did (full body kissing) but wasnt that much into YOU so she took the first thing possible to push you away.

bitches be manipulative, learn the lesson

>sex is important in a relationship
>im a pretty sexual person

holy fuck you just met the bitch last night, you are one autistic motherfucker

Seems like nowadays girls are either total sluts that refuse to test for std's or they are really irrational about sex, to the point of some kind of fear.

I had a gf that broke down crying when I took her V despite her enjoying the whole time. Just started bawling afterwards out of nowhere, kind freaked me out cause she was laughing and smiling the whole time.

I don't pretend to understand women.

Yah, bitches dont make sense.

She doesn't want sex but she apparently likes you. If she's hot, stick it out and you'll be able to Fuck her everyday eventually. She just wants a relationship first cause she's that kind of girl. But it looks like you jumped the gun and said some stupid shit. Hope you're not ugly user

I think you dodged a bullet there man. That chick sounds sick in the head...

I don't think she's fucking anyone, I covered this girl in hickeys because she wanted it lmao. If she's fucking anyone else, it's some nice guy that can't fuck her well.

I'm just gonna let shit be, it's not worth the hassle at this point. If she wants to fuck we can fuck, but im leaving it at that

I agree with this dude- you totally should of said "no worries" about not having sex, Thats what she wanted to hear it looks like man.

Nah youre all wrong.. Mentioning that was Important to state his intentions

>Don't stick your dick in crazy.
This. A billion times this!

Youre wrong as well

You're a fucking idiot, I've been talking to her non stop for a week and a half over text and on the phone. She's been busy with uni and she doesn't live close. I don't get attached to people over the course of a night

Agreeeeeeeeeed! Smart on hererr

Different strokes for different blokes. If you guys wanna stick your dick in sluts with daddy issues all your life be my guest, but normally girls don't respond well to guys saying they can't not have sex because they are "sexual people".

>week and a half
>attached

how old are you OP?

..or is this bait?

I agree. If an earring causes a relationship catastrophe, imagine what an argument would do. Move on, don't look back.

Dude they Already were in bed making out. Not stating facts will just put yourself into The friendzone

Attached is probably the wrong word, my bad. Over that time I grew to like her more than I would just some random girl I matched with on tinder

Does OP want a relationship? Or a quick fuck?

>talking a week on tinder
>relationship
yup, truly autistic

>kissed her naked from head to toe. She fucking loved it, she was here for 6 hours
did you only go down on her and you didnt fuck her?
how was this not her way of begging you to fuck her?

Coming off a bit thristy if you were a real alpha male you would have told her the medical affects male sperm has on the immune system shit there's a woman that drinks a sperm smoothie daily she doesn't get sick.

u have met the girl once...
you sound autistic

>asks for help
>tells everyone they are wrong
OP

Doesnt matter.
Saying youre fine with not having sex will exclude you from both

Just keep talking to her user. Just be her friend and go easy on the sexual stuff for now. She seems like a faithful type, tell her if a relationship is what you want.

OP I just wanted to pop into this thread to say that your communication skills were actually really superb. I think you handled it very well, and you were being assertive without being confrontational, and you were very clearly being a gentleman. If it doesn't work out I'm sorry to hear that but if your conversation is any indication of how you acted in person/since you've known her? She's missing out.

She told me she didn't want to have sex the first time we met. So I respected that and just got her naked, with no bra and a thong

Nah im telling everyone theyre wrong, im not op

>meet this girl on tinder
>not a slut
Hahahahahshshshshshahahahhahaa

you come off as desperate, just play it cool.
it's better not to call girls out on text messages, they get salty reading em over and it can attach negative feelings to the texting you.
next time, act like its no big deal and you have plenty of things to keep you busy - leave the door open and they usually come back

also, consider she could be spreading STIs and feels guilty but needs the D

Bullshit
This.

>by not having sex do you think not having sex at all

top kek OP you showed your creepy autism

she was intrested if you found something in her, or you are just attracted to her vagina

and you respond with a line how much do you want to have sex because it is a normal thing, practiically you are begging for sex

I wouldn't write back to you either

>2016
>Not knowing how to play your way into a girls pants.

Thanks man, I appreciate that. I'm just gonna let everything be now. If she changes her mind I'll cross that bridge when I get there

mate you ALWAYS say no worries im not that arsed about sex anyway blah blah even though you blatantly are. She was just fishing the pond seeing if you just wanted a fuck and it clearly looks that way now. You serious done goofed mate im not joking. You are more likely to get some pussy by saying you arnt arsed about it cos they either want your attention and thus let you fuck them or they realise you are actually a sweet guy and let you fuck them anyway. NEVER EVER come across as a fuckboy saying you wanted the poon, wtf are you a virgin jesus christ

I think she meant "if i told you i didn't want sex THAT DAY would you be fine?"

I don't think she'd mormon out

this

this

I know it's tinder but...who do you think you are james bond, don't be talking about sex and shit after/on the first date you'll just scare bitches off stop being a dumbass and up your game

You didn't fuck her! You stupid beta ass bitch that's why you're on Tinder cause you are so entitled you think the world owes you a girlfriend. Grab her by the pussy fucking beta.

But she doesnt want you to fuck her but she's happy if you go down on her without reciprocation?

this guy gets it, you obviously hav no idea how to get a girl to fuck you lmao

>Grab her by the pussy

fuck off trump

Listen to how fucking old r u srsly

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Let it go OP. This bitch sucks. I promise. If a fucking earring can fuck with her entire being...then it aint worth it.

In all reality...shes probably nervous. She has one foot in the door and one foot out. She isnt worth it OP. Find the bitch that is with u from the jump.

Also don't listen to the beta cucks in this thread telling you otherwise they're just lonely beta cuck fag virgins too they don't know shit about getting laid they're too busy with their gay furry trap porn #Trump2016

its not about the accident dude. She was uncomfortable about the 6 hour naked thing obvs

...

I'd be uncomfortable too if i was naked for 6 hours and didn't get some fuck that's fucking pointless af

she probably was just uncomfortable with you just kissing her naked body for hours you probably should have had sex

She loved every second of it up until then, I know im not in the wrong here but im just gonna let this crazy bitch go. Thanks to those who gave some real advice.

Don't listen to that faggot. The only way to fix this is a last ditch grovel "My head's as fucked as yours" line. You just message her something like

"Yo sorry for being weird the other day I was just a little confused and hurt cos we had a good time and i really like you blah blah blah, I'll give you space hmu whenever....etc etc etc"

>It's not you, it's me
Fuck this cliche, don't waste ur time dude

OP I think you know that the earring thing was bullshit. Realize that the entire time you were kissing her naked body that she was wondering if this is what she really wanted. The earring thing was just an excuse to leave. Now you've shown your cards and she won't be comfortable around you cause you confirmed her suspicions. If your fine with this then move on, if you aren't then you shouldn't have been autistic in the first place. If you are looking for a quick fuck find another girl on tinder. If you were looking for something more with her, own up to your shit and tell her that you think she's special or some shit. Either way, stop being a faggot

Virgin

You're both fucking dumb and not reading my thread. She didn't want to fuck on the first date, I tried to fuck her and pull her thong off. SHE DIDN'T WANT TO FUCK. She wanted to do everything else but fuck

this. shoulda said "sure no problem". next time you're eating her out, she will more than likely want your dick inside her. This was a move to see if you're interested in sex or her, and you kind of failed. this has happened to me, i go to a religious school and many of the girls ive been involved with dont want to have sex (until marriage), they all change their tune once you make them cum a couple times without your dick.

So if she had a thong on she wasn't naked get your story straight cuck lord

no. u

I would've given up within the first 30 minutes

EXACTLY MY DUDE. She was probably thrilled to be a "bad girl" for once and then when you went home she was probs like FORGIVE ME JESUS

you sound like a wet fucking beta blanket

Jesus you're autistic. She had no bra on, just a thong which she didn't want to take off. Her words "gotta leave something as a surprise for next time... "

fucking this

Naked means naked. She wasn't naked. OP is a faggot.

she wanted to fuck and you didnt give it to her, she realized you were looking for something more than that and shes not interested. She just wanted to fuck and is too ashamed of herself to say so.

This is what girls do, but this is textbook as fuck. Trust me man, I know.

no. u

also you're fooling yourself if you believe anyone on Tinder is even remotely innocent

Bro, honestly just be chill. Believe me, i know girls like her and she's much deeper than what she seems like on the surface. Like WAAAY deeper. Don't ask so many question, and also don't be sappy. If she doesn't want to go any further, don't worry about her, instead of making things worse.
This is pretty much the exact same way i met a girl who had emotional disregulation and schizophrenia...

Seriously, just say this:
"If you're talking about a staying pure until marriage kind of thing, then I'm sorry to say it, but you're probably right to think it wouldn't work.
But with that said, I don't just want to Netflix n chill with you, I want to get to know you. If that means taking it slow and getting to know this 'old' you, then that's exactly what I want to do.

Could you tell me about her?"

>sex is important in a relationship
>in a relationship
>a relationship
>relationship

That's where you went wrong. You meet the slut off tinder, not e-harmony. She wanted the dick not a wedding ring. You're too clingy bro. Your fluent in cling-on, aren't you?

I genuinely just think she's crazy after these texts and im cutting ties. You guys made me realize that so thank you.

She's not crazy you idiot, you are! Kill yourself you autistic sperg.

Nvm u just ruined everything with the second screenshot. You're clearly too lost to understand that some things are not to be told to someone u just met. She's probably never going to talk to you again, she obviously has a completely different face of her that is as a result of a complicated background.

Only fault I can find is the part where you said you were a sexual person, kinda weird. But honestly the people bitching about how you said "relationship" are fucking retarded, she obviously wanted something like that. What you said about sex being normal might've come across as you making her a booty call, but if she is too immature to accept that sex is important to dating then no real loss here if you're not with her.

I really don't give a fuck at this point, you live and you learn. I'm over it

Dont reply to her and find another bitch

They're all fucking bonkers once you get to know them. At least make the effort to find out for sure.

She could just as easily be a "good girl" who freaked herself out by letting things go too fast with you. I think she really was being real with you. It's not an uncommon phenomenon with girls who aren't very experienced to let go just a little bit in the heat of the moment.

Ask her about the old her at the very least

Seriously OP go to this site and read and learn how to game girls.

Dude chill.
This guy knows his shit.
Tell something more of her.

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OP is a fucking faggot.

But he's not just a autist faggot.

He's a yuuge retarded faggot who just lost any possible chanve wih this girl.

Unless she is a total whore; And a bigger autist than OP, which I highly doubt.

This is the most accurate and relatable post i have ever seen on Sup Forums 0.0

>good girl
>not slut
>first time meeting kissing making out
ok

virgin