Hi Sup Forums. I am a 21yr old kissless virgin, and I wanna be more confident with women. How can I do that?

Hi Sup Forums. I am a 21yr old kissless virgin, and I wanna be more confident with women. How can I do that?

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talk loud, not obnoxiously screaming all the time but be clear and loud. be expressive and animated. wonen dont like quiet autists.
dont be an edgelord. be creative, sarcastic, and tease her.
focus on making her laugh. women like fun guys more than anything.
make her laugh and dont give a fuck what anyone else thinks

thanks, I'll definitely have to work on that.

be more confident in general, stop obsessing with women.

To get more confident, achieve things.

Don't go like this autist who is faking it.

Confidence is something you build, not something you can fake. Faking it only make you look like an asshole and your insecurity will be transparent.

You have to get a better opinion of yourself. To do that, you need to be proud of who you are and what you've done.

Quit watching porn because it destroys your perception of what love should be. Then work on not being an autist

you can skip the first part and directly work on not being an autist. Only autist think porn can give them a perception of what love should be

thing is, i've not really done anything that I could be proud of. I'm broke, have no job and most days I can't find the energy to even leave the house.

I've no illusions about porn. i'm not that autistic

>thing is, i've not really done anything that I could be proud of. I'm broke, have no job and most days I can't find the energy to even leave the house.

Go to the gym, that always helps with the confidence. At least after a couple months it will.

Are you studying something?

>thing is, i've not really done anything that I could be proud of. I'm broke, have no job and most days I can't find the energy to even leave the house.

then why do you care about girls ? You have more important things to take care of. Get your life back on track, noone wants to fuck a pathetic loser like you.

Stop being a loser, get a job, get a place, learn skills, get fit, set goals and reach them. You'll be confident if you do so.

I'm about to finish a chef course, or, the prerequisite to one. wanna start an apprenticeship but can't seem to get my foot in the door anywhere. And I can't afford a membership to any of my local gyms until i do

Leave this website, hang out with women on a friends basis to figure out getting used to talking to them. Realise they're not a different species, and if you're talking to one who don't seem to understand you, you're just talking to the wrong ones.
Join a club of some sort, if you have interests outside of fapping.

Dunno, some of that maybe.

This

You can't get a hot girl by being where you are now. But that can change.

First off, join a gym. Second, get a job to sustain yourself. Third, learn skills. Fourth, get a better job. Fifth, fuck hot girls.

So get a small time job anywhere to pay some bills like the gym. It doesn't matter what job it is. You need some fucking money, don't you?

I have been applying, but no luck anywhere. keep getting the generic "Thank you for the application, but we've decided to hire someone else" email, or no acknowledgement at all. I'd have more luck elsewhere but can't afford to move

>go to the gym

And people on /fit/ wonder why everybody think that they are pathetic loser in disguise.

You don't need to go to the gym. People who are proud of themselves for the only reason that they go to the gym are the worst. Their insecurity reeks, they're transparent, and their life suck so hard that they need to spend every minutes they have to remind everyone how heavy was the thing they have lifted, and how many protein they have eaten so they can feel better about them


Achieve things that you thing are great. You don't get true confidence only by going to the gym. You only get the kind of facade confidence that this autist was talking about

talking loud, being expressive, not giving a fuck, and having fun is not faking anything fuckheads.

telling him he just has to build it doesnt tell him shit about what he actually has to do.

"accomplish things" plenty of phd brainiacs who suck balls with women. plenty of guys accompkish shit but are terrible with women. he needs specifics turds

OP, are you even here anymore? Ask me a question specifically. I can help you

Still here. just watching this unfold is pretty informative though. You all have good points, if a bit biased (But who's not). I do need to get back in shape, I was in a good way physically a couple years ago, but it changed once i lost my routine.

>plenty of phd brainiacs who suck balls with women. plenty of guys accompkish shit but are terrible with women.

that's why you have to set your OWN goal, and decide BY YOURSELF what will make you proud. And reach these goals.

And not doing things because "you're supposed to".

You're on the right track. It all starts with YOU. Get a new buddy, or find a workout buddy.
-- increase your self confidence in all things, unrelated to females
-- AFTER that, increase your 'social footprint' by doing more things in bars (you don't have to drink if you don't want to) and other social things. Do this ONLY with a buddy covering your back.
-- After you get to that level of accomplishment you'll have several major steps, but you aren't even ready to know those yet.

gen porn, pic unrel

- I can not help you further. Our paths won't cross again. Follow my advice!

> I can check this thread in 15min if it's still here

the other fags are right that you need to develop yourself and your confidence.

but that doesnt mean you cant put effort into trying things.

like i mentioned, most women do not like quiet guys who keep to themself. if thats you, work on expressing your thoughts more.

women want to feel liberated and able to have fun with you. they dont want to feel judged or looked down on. you can disagree or even insult them but you have to do it expressively. dont start mumbling and closing off your body language like a ton of guys do.

dont be a wuss, women lose interest when you dont stand up for yourself or let her get away with bullshit. if she fucks up, call her out, and show you arent settling and will leave if she fucks up

women like flirting and trolling and joking so give them someone playful. relax, stop giving a fuck about your anxiety or what other people think and just have fun. tease them about their clothes or jobs or something.

if it doesnt come organically, then dont try it. start small and build up. youll get there but you need to put yourself out there and try.

you could go out and start from square one or use some of my tips as a ground game.

agreed that you should set your own goals and work toward them. thatll build confidence but still doesnt clue him in on how to actually interact with women

I joined a multi-level marketing franchise where you have to force yourself to talk to people to make money. You get use to rejection and have no fear about talking to anyone because you learn that where are millions of people out there. Why do care what one thinks of you? Practice Practice Practice. You will fall on your face and you will get hurt but if you keep trying you will be good

You guys have been really helpful, so, thanks heaps. I'll definitely have to work on all the things you've mentioned, and see how it goes. I have my course in the morning so I'm gunna log off for now but thanks again
Seems like the rest of Sup Forums needs this kind of support haha

i stand by all my tips but from a more general perspective, try this

get a pen and paper. make a realistic list of what you want in a girl. do you want hookup? relationship?

write the qualities you want in her.

then make another list. what YOU need to do to get a girl like that. like i mentioned, relaxibg, having fun, being more expressive should be good for any woman.

anyway good luck op, put yourself out there. you miss 100% of the shots you dont take remember that. you got 1 life so you can be a wimp and never committ to women or you can make the best of your time here. you have nothing to lose. girl rejects you? plenty out there. millions of potentials. the only thing missing is your effort

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>TSB Magazine on fb will get you started

don't listen to them OP!
Keep this up for three more years and you'll become a wizard!
Save your strength for that day!

wizard is 40 though. I'm not up for 19 more years of this haha

woop, meant 30. still, I'd rather not do that

i was very uncomfortable with girl until i just started talking to them, without any sexual inetention just dank talk. stop seeing them some kind of goddess u cant reach, they have the same fears as you, probably even more than men considering their insecurities of their looks

Not way to inherently fix it. Just dont be a fucking retard. Do something that will boost your confidence. Work out. Think better of yourself. Its not like females have some sort of magical "betterness" that makes what they think about you any sort of relevant. Talk to them like you fucking would with any other of your friends or family. Fucking retard. What the fuck makes you scared from a woman. Fucking cuck beta faggot. OH noes they have boobs and vagina suddenly they superior or something? What the fuck are you afraid of. Not like every single male on the planet automaticall ythinks youre the best guy on earth. Some people like you some dont. Why does it matter if its a girl or not. Fucking cunt.

tldr: better your life, faggot.

Not op here , but can relate , thanks for all your advice guys , was feeling depress but i feel better now

go out and eat some mdma and watch you pull pussy every time

may struggle with getting hard but you'll get use to fucking club sluts with a floppy

Punch your v-card, even hiring a prostitute. Much of the guys just lack confidence due the pressure society puts on being a stallion and all this shit. Fuck, see what's the deal, and you'll see that most of your unsecurities and anxieties are unfounded.

user is part right. Self confidence comes from within. If you try to fake it, you'll only look like an asshole to people.

The best way to build your confidence is start dong things that you didn't think you could do or scared to do.

That leads to not being afraid of making mistakes or failing. That leads to achievement. achievement leads to confidence. rinse and repeat.

gl anaon

thank you so much anons , the worst thing is that i already know all of this but can't seem to do . A few things holdm e back

these days women seem to like fake and corny

how happy are you with your life by being fake ?

Go to the gym and fake confidence, we'll see where it gets you. It's an anonymous board, you don't have to pretend to be happy because your car is nice, and your stomach is flat.

i thought it was about getting women, not about being happy.

Women have never liked the guys ho are really about what they do anything. Only the dudes who pretend to be about something. It's almost like they PREFER the fake version. Maybe it takes the pressure off

what's the point of getting woman if it makes you miserable ? how pathetic do you have to be to think your only chance at being liked is to pretend to be someone else ?

You sound bitter and delusional, as if it was women's fault if they aren't attracted to loser like you.

Women, wants to have admiration or at least esteem for their bf, they aren't like you ; ready to settle for anything with a pulse and a wet hole

start kissing them.

also try farting loudly while in their presence.

Thats true , but so you're saying that if we have acnea for example even not that much they couldn't be "proud" then or it could be something else , like wtf ?

The problem is you see women like goals. You see some ass and you wanna get all up in that and you're treating it like you're getting interviewed by them. You're only projecting to them what you want them to see or the lack thereof.

Just be yourself and talk to them like you would a guy (to an extent) and it'll come. Also learn how to actually enjoy things in life without a woman and then you'll see women are just an extra thing that makes your happy life even better.

Unless you're desperate And fall for a whorish cunt like 99 percent of the people on here.

Its not easy to do that for some people , for myself i'm alone since way too long , i don't talk to anyone , i need social contact and sutff. sorry to have feelings

Go up to the girl you like. Say hi and ask her about her day. Compliment her about something with her looks. Tell her something funny, so she giggles. Grab her right in the pussy.

I mean, yeah, I'm young, and have a high sex drive. A lot of wet female holes would be pretty good.

I do have dignity though. And I just see a lot of guys selling themselves out, pandering, to get women. Whether it be acting gay to get closer to women, or pretending to be gangsta when they couldn't bust a grape in a fruit fight, or carrying a guitar everywhere when they can only play 4 chords. And it seems like in the past where women would call this behavior out, now they reward it. Probably because they're fake too.

Just my thoughts, take it or leave it

Because they are fake, shallow, independent and free.

Now, don't take for misogyne though I don't care if you do, but the abolition of the nuclear family is to blame. And the more the time passess the harder it gets to people to see the truths.

>TL DR? If you want the puddy get your hands to shake and bake it
>Most women are fake and to get them you gotta fake it till you make it
>Or you could be a stupid fuck, find a straw in a hay of needles to get a perfet girl that isn't fake and falls for you