Whats the point guys. I love a girl who im too much of a pussy to ask out, even if i were to i doubt she'd say yes...

Whats the point guys. I love a girl who im too much of a pussy to ask out, even if i were to i doubt she'd say yes. 22yo virgin here. Why wouldnt i want to kill myself?

Unless you're mad ugly or fat you can just find a girl on tinder who'll pity fuck you

Source: Am a girl, pity fucked a guy once

ask her out. if you get denied, it doesn't matter because you can find another girl.

oh im the pussy. 1 year+ no reply

Pretty fat, pretty ugly imo. Dont want a pity fuck. I want someone to love me

Its not that simple. Shes my best friends sister, if i do it wrong i lose 3 friends not 1

Lose weight, go to a gym, groom yourself.

post pic

i was all those things for the better part of a year. no i won't do a single fucking thing now.

what's your advice for a poorfag? I don't ask girls out because I don't have money for a date

What and spend the time i don't have there? I work 40+ hours a week and i go to college. Plus what's the point in getting fit, it wouldn't do anything. I'd just be a loser who's in shape

i have money. you are worth some money atleast i literally immediately asked you if you wanted to go to that pizza place.

Thrifty dates can be cute, my favourite date so far was when I was taken out to the park for a homemade picnic (sandwiches, one of those cake mix cakes that he made before hand, fruits), the pet store to look at the cute little foster puppies, and a midnight stroll.

Cater to what you know the girl is interested in!

Id rather not. If i dont i can still lie to myself and convince myself that im not that bad. I dont think i can handle the honesty that anonymity gives a person

idk but she keeps going on about how much money she has. wat do?

Lol then have fun being dateless virgins? Don't expect to get results when you don't put in the effort. This is why I hate fatties.

Does it sound like she's offering to foot the bill?
One of my exes used to brag about how much money he had and then practically beg to use it to take me on expensive dates.

go back to reading roosh and his near homoerotic vision of manliness

post a pic, we can help you figure out what you need to change.

22? lol I'm 33. Just wait. It gets worse.

thats no good for me. i am very uncomfortable in places that i can clearly not afford and if she pays for the date, my neurotic upbringing will come out and i will start spilling spaghetti everywhere

I'm a girl but keep on pigging out, I guess.

Then like I said, offer the thrifty dates! If you do it well enough she won't even be thinking about the lack of expensiveness

I'm pretty sure all i need to change is my pulse. Honestly i just made this thread for attention but fuck I'm just pretty sure I'm gonna end it while she's away on vacation next week that way she won't know about it for a couple days

If you're trying to say that you're going to end your life just because you don't have the balls to ask out a girl, I can't bring myself to give you sympathy.

fucking away again at this perfect time
this is golden opportunity right now and you are away and im supposed to suspend disbelief and continue assuming you are a real person. now thats a big ask

She leaves Friday

ok

Well its not really that simple. I mean i could drone on and on about how every aspect of my life is terrible. I really love this girl. I just dont think she could love me back. Honestly i dont think anyone can love me. Idk why they would want to

Jeez, you even come out as pathetic in your post.

Build some confidence in yourself.

Oh trust me user someone can love you

Im not sure what your post meant. I mean she leaves for vacation friday, she'll be back in a week. Her leaving isnt what im upset about though. Like the other day we spent hours driving around talking about life. We were just hanging out like all day, and then nothing since

I am pathetic. I dont have any confidence at all. Im like the most generous person, im the best employee at my place of work (both of my bosses have told me so) yet i hate myself. I dont get it, and frankly i cant take it anymore

REEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEEE

Im sorry but i honestly dont believe you :/

I have no problems understanding how pathetic you are now.

My intention of saying that wasnt trying to get you to believe me, but it is the truth regardless of what you believe. For a matter of fact truth doesnt give a shit what you believe.

I get that it comes off as retarded, im just fucking used to being used. If she's just using me too it wouldnt surprise me. My own brother uses the shit out of me all the time

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he will learn. i have faith in him.

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You hate yourself yet you do absolutely nothing to fix your flaws, so in order to allow yourself to do even less work, you continue to hate yourself further because you still haven't realized that the simple fix to your issue is to fix them at their core.

Ask yourself why you hate yourself. Write them all down on a piece of paper or a fucking text document. Google how to fix each and every problem and build yourself up mentally so you won't have those problems anymore. Also, once you build yourself up mentally, you'll be capable of understanding other things that you hate about yourself, which will let you to repeat the cycle over and over again until you're confident about yourself.

You already have the answers yet you don't want to look inside of yourself to fix them. Fucking fix them already. Quit being a broken piece of shit. Don't tell yourself that you'll do it tomorrow, either. Do it right fucking now and don't hesitate.

Basically dude

My flaw is that i hate myself with no reason to. Like i said im a great employee with a great work ethic, i have a lot of friends whom all care about me, im doing great in school, i constantly give to others, in fact ive talked a couple of friends out of situations like my own. But i still hate myself. Its been 7 years since i kissed a girl, and i cant help buy feel jealous everytime i see a couple. I cant help but just think, "hey wouldn't it be great if i could have that?" Then after that i convince myself im stupid fot thinking that could work and sabotage my own intentions. I dont know what the fuck is wrong with me

>ask her out.
>Its not that simple.
>i hate myself. I dont get it, and frankly i cant take it anymore

>OP cant ask out a girl yet OP can kill himself

Holy shit dude just fucking ask her out. Dont be so dramatic. If youre really good friends with her Im sure she wont take it the wrong way.

I cant process how someone would be able to kill themselves yet not able to ask out a girl.

I guess you're right. Idk how i would do that though. I mean if i did and she said no idk what the fuck i would do, just nope the fuck outta there?

inb4 OP is Densu

yes??? duh? you're not a fucking child, man up

>i hate myself with no reason to
>X number of years since i kissed a girl
>feel jealous everytime i see a couple
>I dont know what the fuck is wrong with me

What the fuck? You are droning about your deepest desire and you don't even know about it?

Alright, I can understand that you want a partner. You've somehow centered your 'pinnacle of success' around your incapability to have a relationship. Just go out and find a fucking girl that's similar to you and try to hit it out with her. If you want, you can try online dating sites.

What I can tell from your message is that you want a lasting relationship and kids. Just about everyone wants that deep in their heart, so I can guess that you're no exception. Be strict with the girls that you take out on dates. Sure, you may have to sift through ten girls to find the perfect one for you, but still, you'll find her.

Also, if you want to find her, you have to get rid of this droopy attitude you have about yourself. It's a weakness. Girls don't like weak people. Don't even try to lie to yourself and try to hide it from them. They will find it, and when they do, they'll make it a problem.

Like I said before, write a piece of paper to list out all of your flaws and go one by one to fix each and every single one. It will take time, sure, but you have to start somewhere to stop this damn cycle you have with yourself.

Sorry man im just a fucking pussy. My little brother has had like 80+ partners and hes a fucking scum, and i cant even get one girl. It fucking gets to you after a while.

Just be understanding. Make it simple, and make it sound like youre not a huge fucking creep. Like "Hey do you want to do something later like see a movie?" Or some cliche type shit. Build up a lot of time before you do it to

DO NOT OVER THINK THIS. THAT WOULD BE YOUR BIGGEST MISTAKE.

Youre already overthinking it dude. Just relax, do something that calms you. I hope she likes you back user I really do but you need to take this less seriously.

Maybe it's because you're a pathetic fattie who doesn't want to lose weight and whines about not having balls to ask someone out.

It's not hard to change yourself.

Idk man I've only spent around $30 between two girls so far. I don't do expensive dates.

Want dinner? Okay, I'll cook it.

Do you two text each other a lot

You're 100% right. In my eyes i am nothing because i cant get a girl. And you're right about the lasting part too. I dont give a flying fuck how many partners i end up having. I just want someone to love me. The thing is, i already do love this girl, i love her more than I'm comfortable with, im exposed to her, one look could cut right through me, which is very uncommon. The problem is, is she knows how depressed i am. She has her own issues as well, and ive done everything i can to help her through her tough times, she even keeps telling me i need to open up more. Im fucking afraid that if she really knows how i feel she'll just think im crazy, i fucking think im crazy

I mean we do that shit all the time. Her and i hang like fucking 5 to 8 times a week lol, but how do i transition it from that to dating?

It's a lot simpler than you think. A simple question like I said. Just be really calm, do you want to do (something she really likes to do) she will most likely respond yes and you say would you like to go as a date. I can tell this has been on your mind for a while and that's never good

You're right is has. Ive almost told her a couple times but i always convince myself not to. Ive been wanting to tell her for about a month. I guess i really wont know until i ask her though huh

Woah there, dude. Take a breath in and breathe out. You're not crazy unless you allow yourself to be.

Congrats on the revelation by the way. You'll have a lot more of those if you continue on the path that you're on right now.

And that woman sounds like a keeper. Ask her out and stick with her. If she's showed that she's interested in you, then no doubt that she'll be around you for a long time. You can only fix one problem at a time, so don't worry about her problems for right now. Ask her and then worry once you're in the relationship.

But if she doesn't accept, take that as a lesson. Don't freak, just keep calm and try again with another girl.

Convincing yourself not to is the worse. I'm one of the most insecure people on the planet and I'm not trying to be a huge faggot or anything but I've been told by plenty that I have no reason to be. It's your consciousness giving you these ridiculous scenarios that will never happen yet we believe them. Once you break this barrier there is no telling what you will overcome and I'm saying this from experience

>ask her out
>she says no
>kill self

I mean maybe she has maybe she hasn't? Does her trying to get me drunk every weekend say anything? Also thank you for your wise words. My mind is my own worse enemy. I let what i think that others think about me, control how i live my life. And i am tired of it. Ive only been alone this whole time because i convinced myself i deserve it. As i type this i am starting to remember a lot of nights where she fell asleep on my chest watching a movie. Fuck shes probably pissed i havent asked her out yet.

Do you realise how pussy you're sounding whining about a girl?

People who seriously take relationships too seriously in the age of unlimited high speed porn are absolutely the scum of the earth.

I'd get it if you were a chick but goddamn are you a huge pussy

It used to be worse than this too. I used to be so damn paranoid about everything i wouldn't even go on roller coasters. Like id just imagine them breaking and killing everyone in the most ridiculous of ways when i was younger.

love will only end up hurting you why give up lonelyness for regret betryal depression sure theres a chance youll get happyness bliss and love but its not worth the risk

Porn =/= relationship

An alcoholic's weakness is the very drinks they consume. Yes, she is trying really hard to get closer to you by trying to get you drunk. Just ask her for fuck sakes already. If you're already doing this much with her, no shit she wants to be closer to you.

Okay now heres the real question. She leaves on friday to go on vacation, do i tell her before or after?

After, obviously.
But a vacation? Where to? And for how long?

That's what i thought. Shes just going to Universal with her family for a week

Bro, your post pic says it all "no lives matter". it doesn't matter what she says when you ask her out. You will grow a pair and you will ask her out. Tip: have a plan when you ask her out (Where are you taking her, what are you doing, what time are you going). Tip2; be a gentleman, don't expect sex. Tip3; Have confidence is the most important thing you could do.

Never implied porn would substitute for a relationship.

People who genuinely feel like they *need* to be in a relationship in order to be happy have probably never

>Assembled furniture on their own
>Rode a Skateboard in an abandoned missile facility
>Played with fireworks in an open field
>Gone to a music show
>Cooked a feast for his/her friends with a charcoal grill and a stupid amount of steak.

Sounds legit. Yeah, just ask after she comes back.

Well Id think of a pro/con list I know thats gay

>Pro(s)
She'll be excited you asked and cant wait to get back fueling your anticipation for her to return
She might say maybe and come back after time to think about oit

>Con(s)
Youre asking her before a trip and shell most likely not want to think about this if she doesnt like you
Shell say no and will come back and it might be awkward
She most likely wont want to here this before a trip with her family

Id stick with the first user and say after

BUT NOT RIGHT AFTER

Ask her out after a couple of nights out together shell be most happy then

who is this qt 3.14?

First and foremost i always respect women, i would never EXPECT sex in any situation really lol. But yeah she really likes sushi so im thinking when she gets back ill take her to one of those fancy places with the angry asians. She'd love that shit

Galko
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whoops my mistake
that's otako
damn nips and their weird names

Yeah i was thinking the same thing, in the chance she says no, i wouldnt want to mess up her vacation at all

Thanks for all you've said user. Honestly you've made more of an impact than i expected coming here

There's the plan. Now solidify the date and time. Ask her to this sushi place with 100% confidence in all of your words. It's all about delivery.

Ok then take the safe route and ask after. Thats your best shot at her.

>so im thinking when she gets back ill take her to one of those fancy places with the angry asians. She'd love that shit

Well I really hope it works out for you man, try and overcome this degrading state of anxiety. Also please update us when you ask, Id love to know I just hope Im browsing then

I've done all but the missile factory, but damn now that sounds like something i gotta do

Mhmm. That's why I'm here.
You would not believe how many people ask for advice on Sup Forums per day.
Anyways, take care.

OP, Are you fucking retarded?
You're friends with this girl, yes? I assume form other posts.
Ask her out you dumb cunt, I can't even talk to girls never mind be in a friendship with one.

She'll say yes if you just ask.

Thanks guys! :) sorry about being a whiny shit at the beginning of this, but im working on it. I will definitely let you all know. Look for my post between the 26th and the 30th, that will be my window