I'm scared guys. My girlfriend might be pregnant. I'm 24 and only make $11.25/hr and she is 22 and doesnt have a job...

I'm scared guys. My girlfriend might be pregnant. I'm 24 and only make $11.25/hr and she is 22 and doesnt have a job. We've been together 5 months and i really like her but i don't think we're ready for this. I'm losing my shit what should I do?

Man up, it's going to be all you raising this child.

how pregnant? abortion is an option. so is adoption. i was adopted and its beyond amazing to give someone that cant have a child the ability to raise one.

keep it in mind.

get an abortion you fucking retard.

In two years, if you're still together, then get married and make babies. But if you're not still together, then you'll know you made the right choice. Children who are raised in single parent households are fucked. Don't fuck your potential child by having him/her born into a home that's bound to eventually fall apart.

Talk to the thousands of children moving from one foster home with abusive foster paretns to another and see how they like it.

Idk when i asked about what she wanted to do if she was pregnant but she said we can figure that out if when we find out for sure

This. Although, how does someone go about making sure their child is adopted by good parents and not just shifted from foster home to foster home?

faggot...i was adopted as a baby. not in fucking foster care.

contact "catholic social services" and put the BABY up for adoption. or have an abortion. not too hard.

perhaps you dont understand where the kids in foster care originate from

Idk how she feels about it. The topic has never come up before and now she doesn't want to talk about it until we know for sure

Buy rubbers. Done. When you confirm

Kick her in the cunt then kys

I had a nearly identical situation recently and about 2 months after the abortion, going through this fked her up and now we're on a break wich might not end anytime soon, so anyway you're fucked

She's not ready for it either it sounds like. Either abortion or start looking for a higher paying job. Don't be a shitty Dad

there is a timeline in which after a certain amount of months (i believe its 3 months) that abortion is no longer an option.

Dude don't flare up my paranoia with this. I'm inviting you to my home don't shit all over it

I'm halfway through paramedic school right now

do it op

Don't kill your child. Raise that little fuck to be successful. You can do it OP.

What?

If anything it hasn't been longer than 2 weeks

I have no idea what you should do, op. It sounds to me like youve planned very little for your future if even at all. Any advice i give you today will be forgotten in a week anyway. But i give it anyway.

If you are attractive, become a waiter and go to an applied technology college. If you arent attractive, learn how to wrench because thats all youre probably good for at this point.

But idk if i can. I'm scared I'll fuck everything up

go to a Planned Parenthood, be sure to say you have no cash at all. they're cool.

I was aborted. My life is even better than yours. OP just have an abortion

Talk to her about it and how you dont wanna do this too early in your lives. let her know you're committed to her and say things like you'll have other chances at it in your later years with her. just sorta.... trick her into an abortion with sweet talk. Same way you got her to fuck your sorry ass.

Every father feels this way. In the end, all you can do is try your hardest to give the kid a good life.

I have a career plan already its just not at the point i want it at yet

lol in Venezuela economy is so fuckep up you live a king's life with $11.25/hr

dude, relax. it doesn't have to come to you being a dad.

here's a list of scenarios which are absolutely not unlikely
>she's not pregnant, you can breathe out, and make sure that never happens to you again
>she is pregnant and she is willing to get an abortion
>she is pregnant, doesn't want an abortion and is willing to put the kid up for adoption (sounds savage but some couples will adopt a baby straight after it is born and keep it)

All parents feel like that. Everyone has doubts. You can do it.

say what you said to us, to her. we've been together for 5 months and i really like you, but i don't think we're ready for this. we can't support this kid in the situation we're in, and going through with the pregnancy will fuck up both our lives. a child is a huge responsibility and a lot of work. i've been in your exact position dude, she refused to hear what i was saying and was going to go through with the pregnancy, she actually said
>well if you're not going to be there for our child then i'll run away and be a single mum
she actually said that man, that jobless bitch said that to me while i was at work, in front of customers, i popped my top man because it's so fucking stressful. she ended up having a miscarriage because she took acid and went on a rollercoaster at a theme park but that month was the most stressful thing i've ever been through.
afterward she said that she knew what i was saying was right, but she couldn't help reacting like that because her hormones were all fucked up and crazy from the pregnancy. just speak the truth no matter how scary the situation is. good luck bro my heart's with you

that's not why you should be scared, you should be scared that you'll spend the majority of your adulthood raising a child you aren't sure you wanted to have and bringing your young and free adulthood to a grinding halt. like you can obviously raise a child, it's not rocket science, it's about the amoung of time and effort it takes more than your ability. it's about whether it's what you really want. you only get one chance at this whole fucking living thing, kinda gotta want to know that this is what you want

man up bitch, raise that child, get on welfare, niggers do it, why don´t you,

weź zycie w garsc spierdolino

Thats fucked man

Take life in a handful of spierdolino?

doesn't really matter considering you can't work in the US and live in Venezuela...

Idk man its just so fucked

You have to start thinking about somehow getting a raise or a better paying job and she has to get a job. Even if she has to work 20 hours a week minimum wage at a grocery store you need to save up that extra money before she can't work anymore. Also seriously consider saving money up and going to a quality obgyn for an abortion.

Abort, the baby or the relationship.

I have abortion money the whole problem is i have no idea how she will react to me asking her to abort

If she is pregnant i just can't up and leave

I understand, but you need to ask. Spend some time figuring out the best way to approach the situation. Do not push it mercilessly. The reality is the best thing to do is for her to get an abortion, but you need to let her (guide her) to make that decision and DO NOT MAKE IT FOR HER or she might not go through with it or even worse just straight up start resisting. Anyways, use 200% of your brain to figure this one out or you're going to be giving up the next 18 years of your life supporting a kid you don't want.

You can abort. And to leave the relationship just channel your inner porch monkey and skidaddle.

Leave her and the child, set yourself free, fake your death and live your dreams in the forest with the trees that you belong with

No man I'm not like that i can't

I don't want to leave her though

Better hurry before Trump, and Mike "Christian Taliban" Pence take over!

Then bring her with you OP

if its been less than 2 months than abortion shouldn't be too bad. but yee, adoption and regret or keep and regret

Hop in a time machine and put a condom on your past self, you tremendous faggot.

I usually pull out but idk what happened

Kill her.

If you two decide to keep the baby,You need to have a serious sit down with her and explain that 11.25 hr isn't enough to support a fucking child. She needs to start carrying some right before you both get dragged down into a bottomless pit of white trash. Also, if you don't want to pay child support for 18 years you should either find someone who is willing to sign the baby's birth certificate or you need to stay with her.

You have to pay for abortion? Damn dude, I'm not a fan of socialism but free abortions in my country is pretty sweet

Kill her.

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I have no idea if she'll get one though

Father of 3 here.

Get another job. Or two jobs.

Kids can be expensive, but most of the needs (food, clothes, medicine) are easy to provide.

Kill her.

Raise that kid. Let her have it on weekdays and you take it on weekends. You made this decision now man up to it and raise it as a single father. Eventually your life situation will be better, and if anything all these hardships will hopefully raise a strong person. Good luck OP.

Kill her.

You need to man up, David.

I work everyday I'm not in school

Punch her in the stomach yelling "KNOCK KNOCK"
Then when she stops crying and says "who's there?", yell "NOT THE BABY ANYMORE"

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Kill her.

And then kill her.

Why didn't you kill her?

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One Word: FALCON PUNCH!!!!!!!

OP, just know that if she has the baby you can make it work.

Warm her cooch up with an hour of foreplay; finger her up a bit and get up to her cervix. Then lube up a coat hanger and go in for the kill

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get a fucking abortion

Its not up to me though

I hope so. I don't want to but i hope so

Do not feel forced into abortion, even if your girlfriend is pregnant you can always put the baby up for adoption, especially if you don't feel you can give it the life it deserves, if you don't want either, just take it one step at a time, there are people who can help you, seek out your parents advice, do not go for money unless you know you can pay them back and tell them that.

sometimes, these kinds of things makes you ready...

k

This whole thread reminds me of a shitty version of the movie "juno"

OP you are a faggot. Man up.

you need to control her so that she never leaves you. If you were really a man you'd do this psychologically but it can be achieved physically. TBH that's the easy part because you still have a child to raise. ABORTION AND DIVORCE ARE NOT A STEP FORWARD. BE A MAN AND FACE YOUR FEARS.

Dude, get to some place where you can find real advice. Sup Forums is a mixed bag of horrible to great, and you often can't tell which is which.

Tell her you want to be e a man and raise the kid to be better than you - ya know, teach him about condoms and anal. Yes, lots of anal. In fact, you should fuck her in the ass now, to show her how much you love to anal her. That you want to be a good father but only if it's full anal, not some part-time or weekend anal. That sort of anal that makes a man anal a woman like she's never been analed before. The sort of anal that changes a woman. The kind of anal she's been dreaming about since she was a young woman. Like anal, anal, not that fake anal you see on TV. And for fuck sake, don't forget to tell her how much you anal her everyday. That your anal for her grows more anal everyday. That you know you can't, but if you could, you would anal her deeply all day long for the rest of your life until she dies. That you too want her to anal you back because you know she can despite everything that's happened. That one day you hope your child will anal her as much as you anal her. That your child will learn what anal is from watching you both anal one another and you will anal your child as deeply as you anal her - one big anal family - connected together through your anal for each other.

That'll talk some sense into her.

Next time, fuck her in the pooper.

Apply job in Samsung in few months u degenerate cuck

What's it like dating a bum user?

We do anal but i just like the vagina more

Shes not a bum she just doesn't know what she wants to do

Well if she doesn't figure it out in the next week make her ass apply at McDonalds so she can start bringing in some cash for your bastard child.

She used to work at a mcdonalds but she hated it

Well she needs to get a job in the next two weeks or she'll walk all over you for a lifetime.

Abort the fucker. You have only been with the girl for 5 months, you have no idea whether or not she is crazy.

>Man up, it's going to be all you raising this child.

This..

Get an apprenticeship for something. Make like atleast 13 an hour while learning a trade or job

This is one of the few good things about being an ugly loser virgin like me :) I don't get bitches pregnant and have to worry about paying for abortions or anything