Dear gentlemen,
I have gathered you all here today to discuss the most important of topics. Love, in quick succession I would like you to ANSWER ME
>cunt?
>age?
>are you a virgin?
>have you ever had a girlfriend?
>do you currently have a gf?
If you answered NO to the last 2 questions please give 2 reasons why you think that is.
If you did have girlfriend(s) please describe your favorite one of them all (aka. oneitits); where was she from? how did you meet? are you with her now? what happened?
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Yes
No
No
Average at best appearance
Lacking in social skills
At least you have been blessed with dubs, friend
Would you be interested in sharing a picture of yourself? you can cross out your eyes if you want..
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No
Yes
Yes
Belgium
21
Yes
Yes
No
I play videogames 16 hours a day and if I'm outside I pretend people don't exist because every type of interaction towards me annoys me.
And my favorite girlfriend (only had 2) was a half Italian one when I was 12. Because she was hot and my first. That's it.
My dream at the moment is to find success so I can live in a nice big house alone (would get some pets though) in a calm area and only talk to family when I have to. I don't want to interact with the outside world.
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No
Yes
No
Fooled around with a girl when working in a summer camp. Just some summer love that wasn't meant to last the distance.
I'm very tactile.
Been drinking my way to an early death since then because of other problems so I just worked, boxed and just not wanting to get into something serious with someone since I'm ashamed of myself.
Still managed to spend some weekends just cuddling at some girls place but never more. I'm social but I don't really like to get into serious stuff
>>cunt?
Germany
>>age?
23
>>are you a virgin?
Nope. Lost it with a Polish girl in Poland when I was 17.
>>have you ever had a girlfriend?
Yes, three in total
>>do you currently have a gf?
Yes but maybe I'll have to break up soon
This seems to be a prevalent theme whenever these kinds of threads pop up, the disenfranchised youth and all that but..
Don't you want to marry a nice blue eyed french girl and move to the countryside with her and do everything together?
Why are you ashamed of yourself user? Dont you think there are loads of girls out there who have made the same kinds of mistakes and are healing and growing just like you?
Why break up German friend?
I definitely don't want to marry. After spending practically my entire life alone (even when I had some friends in high school I wasn't emotionally connected to them) I prefer being alone.
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No
Yes
Yes
We met through some mutual friends. At first I thought she was out of my league, but she was pretty friendly towards me and laughed at every stupid joke I said.
So we were just friends for maybe half a year, then one time while drunk we made out. Then this happened again and we thought why not give it a shot.
So here we are. Things are pretty good.
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Lost it when i was 15
Yes
Yes
Didn't finish reading the OP because I'm a faggot.
I have no oneitis, all the girls had their upsides and downsides.
First one
>Polish
>LDR
>would do anything in bed
>got along great
>turned right-wing after I left her
Second
>from a neighboring village
>hot af
>very creative person
>sex was cool mostly
>could be a total bitch, had extreme mood swings, almost insane
>broke up after she attacked me physically several times
Tell us about yourself m8
Current
>excellent personality; calm, mature, good match
>very reliable and comforting
>sex is an issue tho. Penetration impossible and she tends to avoid it altogether
>shit really pisses me off and I tried everything I know. Might need to break up.
not really i'm pretty paranoid about someone recognising me
I have utterly no idea. I can be very close and personal but as well need some time alone and I feel it would be disrespectful for my partner somehow.
Things will get better anyway I believe in it. I'm still just 21, barely an adult.
mmm bachata-bOIZ
Spain, studying in the land of the germs
23
No, lost it 2,5 years ago
Yes, just only one. I had a French (((Parisian))) gf for exactly one year. Funny story is that I got to know her thanks to Sup Forums, specifically thanks to the /culture pals/ general where I got aware of the qt mine that is the pen pal website Interpals (sadly not anymore since now it's full of retarder koreaboos).
I got to meet and fuck 4 girls in real life from that site and even lost my virginity to the first one of them, a Polish girl living in the same town as me.
The one that really had an impact in my life was this parisian qt who also was the only one living in another country I got to meet, we got really well along and I decided to do a train trip to Paris to visit her for 3 nights just after only 2 weeks talking to her on a daily basis. That was the best time of my life desu, she got to show me the best non touristic spots of Paris and had a lot of fun together. I also had the best passionate sex I think I will ever experienced.
Long sorry short I got to visit her in Paris almost one a month for a whole year and she visited me a few times in Germany. We even did a one week trip together to Italy last summer and did camping in the Black Forest.
I guess this relationship costed me about 4000€ in a year because it basically consisted of trips, we both knew we wouldn't be able to afford it in the long run and had a lot of fights on our last month together, last December.
I still haven't gone over it and I'm visiting a psychotherapist, was even about to drop university event though I just had two subjects left to finish due to my depression.
Sorry for the blog but I just needed to write this for some reason.
>my flag
>33
>no
>yes
>yes
She was a greek girl i met in a game then we met irl and the rest is history.
She was a very bubbly, kind person but at times bit of a bitch but that was great too. No we arent togather, i was a cunt to her and left her...
>inb4 waa waa what are you doing here
>Those youth mistakes we can't take back
youtube.com
It'll be alright
Sounds hard user. When you can't really settle with someone it gets very expensive if they're across a whole country. A real shame but you'll look back fondly on these memories in the future. At least you go on !
Brazil
24
Yes
Yes
No
My only real girlfriend was when I was about 13 years old. At that time I was already just as insecure and depressed as I am now. Me and my friends were all in the swimming pool of the apartment complex we lived in, and as night came everyone had gone home except for me, Jessica, and Krystal. And Jessica came to me and said that Krystal liked me. I did not believe it at all, I thought it was just another cruel joke, this had happened a couple of times before with other girls. It took a good hour of convincing me that they were serious, with Jessica swimming back and forth from one side of the pool intermediating /between me and Krystal. But it was real. This 8/10 girl, for some reason, genuinely liked my fat, ugly, boring self.
The times I had with her were great. I remember every detail, the things we did, what we talked about. She was a feisty one. She was a year older than me, and I had many, many chances to have sex with her. She wanted it. We were young teens, hormones abounded. But a combination of insecurity about my small penis and a fear of "HOLY SHIT I CAN'T GET A GIRL PREGNANT MY MOM WOULD KILL ME" cost me my many chances to lose my virginity at a nice age and with PTP to boot. Hell, I could have possibly even had a threesome. Krystal let one of her friends, Marilyn, practice kissing with me, and a couple of afternoons were spent with me in bed between them, Krystal and Marilyn taking turns making out with me. I tried to get them to kiss, but they wouldn't.
After this I made out twice with another girl when I was 18, and I haven't touched a girl since.
>flag
>21
>no
>no
>no
I just don't want to deal with all the pointless drama, I'd rather focus on my studies
>>cunt?
bong
>>age?
25
>>are you a virgin?
no
>>have you ever had a girlfriend?
no
>>do you currently have a gf?
no
I'm pretty good looking and get girls checking me out quite a bit. My problem is I am a shutin who barely socialises. I can talk to people relatively easily, especially with alcohol but anytime it gets romantic or flirty I turn into a sperg. These factors combined has resulted in many missed chances, failure and self loathing.
That being said I did go on a pretty much flawless date recently, the only problem being is the girl lives 3 hours away and I refuse to have a LDR.
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no, lost it to some tinder fling (not gf)
yes
no
> If you answered NO to the last 2 questions please give 2 reasons why you think that is.
I'm atleast average attractively, go to the gym sometimes, I just don't get out that much to interact with girls. I have had girls make it clear they're flirting with me but they're ones I'm not really interested in.
Also, I'm incredibly vain and shallow - I think others will judge me for my choice of gf. I also always think I can get better, ie. "If she likes me, that means she's not worth getting so I should strive for more".
> If you did have girlfriend(s) please describe your favorite one of them all (aka. oneitits); where was she from? how did you meet? are you with her now? what happened?
Well I've only had one so here goes.
She was in year 11, I was year 12 in mid 2015. We were in the same math class (she took it early). We didn't really talk much in class, but I always noticed she took furtive glances at me. Anyways one day on mid-year break I was in the city for some math lecture for that subject and I ran into her. We spent the day (10 hrs) together and sort of hit it off. Afterwards we'd talk a bit more and more until it was abundantly clear she was waiting for me to ask her out. I did and we hanged out for a few months at school.
Then when I graduated and went to Uni, things got difficult. She's of Indian background (Northern qt kind, not darkskin southern kind), so her parents made it incredibly difficult to meet up - we saw eachother once every 2 weeks or so at some points. Anyways, this put alot of strain and we began to bicker and shit.
I was thinking about breaking up with her, but couldn't muster the courage. Then I went to some house party and made out with some Asian chick and broke up with gf the next day. I regret it sometimes, but I'm over her now.
/blog post
I'm a virgin btw, I misread the OP
> country
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> age
30
> virgin?
Yes
> gf?
Kind of (will explain later)
> gf now?
No
I'm extremely scared of women's sexuality so I avoid romantic / sexual situations like the plague. I dated a very sweet Ukrainian girl for a short time, who actually liked me more than I liked her, but she broke up with me before we had time to make it official. The reason? She is hardcore religious and wants a man of her own religion. Needless to say, I made it clear from the start that: 1) I wasn't going to change my values for a woman and 2) I certain wouldn't ever convert to Russian Orthodoxy. She thought our relationship was going nowhere so she preferred to break up after a few weeks rather than "wait and see" which would have been worse. I wish her the best, she was always good and sincere to me.
I don't have problems meeting women, getting dates or "being myself". I don't lack the looks or the skills, but I lack the motivation. It's not just that I haven't slept with anyone, it's that I'm not even interested. On my list of priorities, getting a gf does not even appear.
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Yes
No
No
I got shit-ugly during puberty and also have a passive personality where I never moved in social circles where I interacted with girls plus I've never had a crush on a girl until I started uni and by then it was too late
Hungary
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No
Yes
Yes
don't have a favourite, they were/are all cunts in their own ways
>cunt
no u
>age
24
>are you a virgin?
no
>have you ever had a girlfriend?
yes
>do you currently have a gf?
no
I got really passive lately and can't force myself to approach girls even though I feel lonely af all the time
oh and I'm also extremely paranoid and anxious when it comes to serious commitment, which is also a reason why none of the relationships so far never lasted longer than 6 months
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Yes
No
No
I've never shown any interest in women cause I just assumed it was a no from the looks of it
Guess I've got low self esteem
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No
No
I'm poor, a manlet, and I prefer to be alone than being with someone I don't love.
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no
yes
no
I had girlfriends but I don't wanna talk about it.
You should've converted Jorge, it was a sign from God telling you Catholicism is wrong.
isnt more like you have no self esteem and are worried that you'd be with someone who doesn't love you not the other way around?
kept reading until I arrived at "Indian"
good riddance user
Im glad you found a great match for you user but if you cant penetrate her then shes not getting wet from you and her attraction to you is not as strong as yours to her.. or maybe she suffered from some kind of assault or molestation as young one and now affects her sexuality, knew tons of girls like that back in my home city
Brazil
24
Yes
No
No
Autism and i hate people, especially women.
posted this to pol and got ignored so here goes, i need advice ;_;
Idk man im kinda getting cucked atm, my oneitis had a kid from another guy (after i rejected her) and now she came back and wants me, i see her every week at her house but i made it very clear i wont take care of a child that isnt mine and shes ok with that but im slowly developing feels for her.. idk what to do..
Last 2 no because I've just never been bothered about romantic love. I just don't get the same rush others must get when they go on dates.
Thats definitely not a LDR user, i had a 3 year relationship with a christian girl from palestine.. that was hell because we were really into each other but her passport was literally worhtless so i had to fly in to jordan every couple of months..
that ended 2 years ago and i still think about her everyday.. i wish she was 3 hours away i would drive every week no problem
>cunt?
flag
>age?
19
>are you a virgin?
yes
>have you ever had a girlfriend?
no
>do you currently have a gf?
no
It's both desu. It doesn't matter because I'll always be alone.
súgd meg nekem
leave her you dumb fucking working class scum
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20
yes
no
no
I'm socially awkward
Have no female friends
Merci mon ami. Oui, c'est dur mais nous devons regarder vers l'avant.
J'ai appris la plus belle langue juste à cause d'elle. Je ne pense pas que j'ai perdu mon temps après tout.
USA
22
Yes
No
No
Offensive appearance
No friends
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No
Yes
Yes
I was a beta orbiter from 12-13 till 14 and that girl ended up being in the same class with me in hs. I was over her at the start of 9th grade. Fucked up with a chick by telling her some bullshit about how we could hire a prostitute together (I was almost 16, she was almost 15, it was a joke, she was retarded for getting mad for it). Then I got together with one of my classmates as for some reason we started speaking right before she ended up breaking up with her bf. She took my virginity, but she was crazy. When she wanted to break up with me she started seeing another guy before we actually ended things.
I had no oneitis, the girl I had a crush on ended up ugly and I got over her anyway, also she got involved with more dubious guys, some ending up in juvie. At 17 she was fucking 2 guys, both in college (we were in hs), they did not know about each other, but they came back to our hometown at different times so she was able to have her way with them. In 8th grade she asked me when do I believe that a girl should have sex for the first time, and she didn't believe 15-16 is fine, as it would be too early. She had a bf from 7th grade that after a year, wanted to have sex with her. She trusted him but because he insisted she broke up with him, after 1.5y of relationship. Then, in less than 3 months of being with another guy, at 15, she has sex and low-and-behold, did 2, sometimes 3 guys in parallel at 17-18.
Now I'm together with a great girl. Here's tits for your please, pic not related.
semmi kül, csak gyereket meg családot akart én meg még sehol nem vagyok
fucking normies reeeeeeeeeeeee
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yes
no
no
>Bad case of yellow fever
>Few asians here
>low status
>personality of a rock
hány éves volt? együtt laktatok? egyébként jól kijöttetek? mit jelent az, hogy még sehol nem vagy?
t. Andrei Yurevich Dyakvetoff
I won't change my values for a woman and neither should you.
>24
>No
>Yes
>No
She was depressive and we knew the relationship wasnt going anywhere as well as myself moving so we called it off
Went off fucking dudes a few weeks later so it wasnt a bad call
>cunt?
Flag
>age?
24
>are you a virgin?
Yes
>have you ever had a girlfriend?
Yes
>do you currently have a gf?
Yes
Even I sometimes wonder how I fucked it up this bad
How can you be a virgin being in a relationship and having had gfs before?
Are you or your gf ultra puritan or something?
>this flag
Didn't read but I guess you wrote about your struggle to fuck a fellow Romanian of the female gender.
Just for your information, I can fuck any Romanian for 30€ for 20 min, blowjob with a condom on though.
>first gf
Puritan when I had with her (now a slutty coalburner)
>second gf
Wasn't ready for it or something. Cheated with her now boyfriend.
>current gf
Lives far away, haven't met that often or long IRL.
It's not rape if you pay for it, Mehmet.
>cunt?
Yes
>age?
23
>are you a virgin?
No.
>have you ever had a girlfriend?
I don't think so?
>do you currently have a gf?
No.
>2 reasons
Ugly
Autism
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34
no
no
no
>cunt?
USA
>age?
21
>are you a virgin?
yes
>have you ever had a girlfriend?
no
>do you currently have a gf?
no
I'm ugly.
I'm a manlet.
I'm not super bright, college dropout.
I'm lost for words when talking to any girl.
I work a shitty job.
Germany
20
No
No
No
>tfw I will never be in a relationship
US of A
22
No
Yes
Yes
>>cunt?
Flag
>>age?
21
>>are you a virgin?
Yes
>>have you ever had a girlfriend?
No
>>do you currently have a gf?
No
Shy, depressed, poor, no social skills, scared of sex
>cunt?
niggerland
>age?
21
>are you a virgin?
yes
>have you ever had a girlfriend?
yes but no it was long distance
>do you currently have a gf?
no
Because I lack social skills in real life and there are much more better lucking and charismatic guys out there so what woman would waste her time with an autistic faggot like me anyway.
About the distance girlfriend I met her online and we both liked each other so we started 'dating' (then again, it was online).
Told her many times I'd try to go her cunt and visit her, she got tired of waiting after several months and we stopped the whole fiasco for good.
it's called an "oneitis" for a reason
don't be a cuck
belgium
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no
yes
yes
>describe your favorite one of them
the actual one by far, she cannot be compared in any ways to the others. she is the most incredible, interesting and lovely person i've ever met. I met her few months ago by a friend of mine. I think i'll develop powerful feelings for her but it's not the moment right now. Her brother passed away this tuesday and it will take her time to go over it, i'll try my best to be there for her and be useful but it's not easy since i don't know her for a long time enough.