Hey Sup Forums I need an advice. So long story short I got a girlfriend recently but I can't have sex with her. Handjobs and blowjobs are okay, in fact they're really good but every time it comes to sex I lose my erection either just before putting it in or straight after. I find her really attractive so I have no idea why it's happening.
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have more forplay, relax more.
other than that, internal fear of vaginas?
i don't know dude, i'm just a stranger on the internet
kill yourself
Nerves and/or condom. Just get her to go on top and grind on you for a bit. Or you can rub against her. Then when you're hard just slip it in. It doesn't matter if you lose it though just try again later. Your mind can fuck up sex a lot.
Your nervous, take 1 viagra and fuck her. After that your dick will know what to do.
OP IS A JEW
u might be a faggot
your relationship is toast. Enjoy it while it lasts
seek hypnotherapy, fixed it for me
also might be a faggot
Stop masturbating for a couple weeks and you'll be rock hard inside her bro
This.
where can I get some viagra quietly?
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The problem is psychological. And since you lost your boner once, you think about it every time it comes to sex and you lose it again. You need to talk to your gf and explain its a psychological thing. Once you have successfully penetrated a few times it will all be okay, you just need to get over this bump in the road.
Or you're gay.
Doctor's office
Basically you're thinking so much about trying not to lose your boner, it's making you lose your boner.
This OP
I had the exact same problem when I was with my GF, not beating your meat can help you stay hard, but just be sure that you're willing to not beat your meat for like a solid week at a time at least, if not longer. Because the moment you start doing it again, it's game over...
Can't because she gives me a hj/bj every other day so I'd need to stop that as well and I don't want to
OP stop masturbating and explain to your gf that you over masturbate and you're still very nervous about sex. Hopefully she'll understand because that is why this is happening. I know because it happened to me multiple times.
Boi pussy never makes one go soft, bro. It's the answer.
this beating your meat frequently, destroyes nerve ending on of your penis glans
Actual viagra can only be gotten from a doctor or a drug dealer (although most dealers won't have it, except for maybe ecstasy dealers who occasionally cut their MDMA/speed with boner pills). Yohimbine is much cheaper, legal and easy to aquire. Usually if you want to make sure you get the quality stuff you need to order it online, but if you're a little braver you can find some in those herbal energy pills they sell in gas stations, although those pills are often a few different things mixed together, you occasionally see packages with multiple separate pills, if you get those and can correctly identify which is which you can just take the yohimbine.
it doesnt really destroy them, it just desentises them
I highly doubt it would actually destroy the nerve endings. If that were true you'd probably never fully regain the feeling in your glans, given that nerve endings usually don't grow back once destroyed.
I get pretty soft. Assholes are nice to look at and all but if I see one with a set of balls hanging near it I lose my boner pretty quick.
You dont lose you erection from condoms.
Some people get less stimulation but that has nothing to do with keeping an erection.
Most likely stress.
Got the opposite problem, hard cock round the clock!
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>kill yourself
kek
It's performance anxiety
I'm with my gf for 8 years now, but for the last two I've been taking anxiety meds. I'm not really sure if it was an actual side effect or just psicological because I've read it could be, but after that I had problems with taking to long to orgasm, and after that with keeping an erection at all.
I've since changed meds and it's much better now, but ir kinda stuck with me. So from time to time I have a bad couple of fucks where I get anxious during penetration.
Just chill and explain that to her. She probably noticed it already, so it's better if you just open up. Tell her since the first time it happened it's getting worse because of your worries. She'll be ok with that.
I found that I had a similar problem, but I also found that I did fine when my (now ex) gf reciprocated more with foreplay. She was a bit selfish and a lot of the time, wanted me to work on her with hands mouth, then when she'd gotten off, just kinda laid there and told me to do my thing... nothing doing for me then. Got pissed off at her once and just said "why don't you fuckin blow me" after she whinged at me, and to my surprise, she did. That got things going nicely.
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get a bit drunk, like 2-3 beer drunk. inhibits self doubt.
this too.
stop jerkin it and use a cock ring.
Are you circumcised?
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You jerk off too much.
It's already been said, but stop jerking it/watching porn. It's killing you.
Source: the same thing happened to me.
This is appearantly a problem in men who masturbate too much.
Could fuck my ex no problem all the time when I wanted to, but its a fuckin workout so Id normally blow after about 10 to 15 min and that was it. We broke up and I soon got a FWB, sex was ok at first and didnt last that long bc I too wouildnt perform that well, but after spending more time with her and having sex several more times, I got much more comfortable and we had a great fuck session a couple weeks ago. For me at least its just a comfort thing, if im not comfortable with you I wont perform my best.
same thing happened on my first time dude, you just gotta give it time, keep trying, i eventually got hard enough to fuck her and she told me that i was her best fuck.