Looking for some advice. Girl OP here. I have been dating my boyfriend for over five years...

Looking for some advice. Girl OP here. I have been dating my boyfriend for over five years, things are fine but I constantly always find nudes from girls off of this site on his phone. It makes me feel shitty about myself, and also uncomfortable. I've talked to him about it and promise after promise they always end up back on his phone. What should I do? Should I calm down? I was considering withholding sex from him since he thinks these random nudes are better than me?

:/

tits

He always says I have the best rack he's ever seen but yet there's always tits on his phone that aren't mine

kill yourself op

Would you say your relationship is strong?

Maybe he is a porn addict

Just let him have some fuckin side, hes a guy he has a sex drive that you cant fill up by yourself. Just be glad he has chose you to be the general in his army. Go full on open relayionship and share a few bitches. Just let him know that you're above them

idk. strong enough to last this long. Honestly the nudes thing started off when we broke up for a few months. we got back together and he like doesn't know how to rid himself of that habit? idk but I always debate on leaving him because of this.

I think so too. Like he jacks off so much to porn, and when we do have sex (like twice a week) he cums in like a minute or less. He says he's not addicted to porn but I think otherwise. Like he says he loves me, but I feel like he's not sexually attracted to me.

hell no that isn't for me lol

Tits or gtfo

They are just pics. And for the love of god stop being a bitch and snooping through his shit. I am sure he does not grab your phone and look at everything. Let the dude jack off or fuck him more offten so he has no need for porn. And tits or gtfo.

Tits or gtfo

>when we do have sex (like twice a week) he cums in like a minute or less.
>I feel like he's not sexually attracted to me.
Nice work Sherlock

that's the thing. I'm always trying to have sex, like always and he rejects me because he doesn't feel like it.? like yeah go look at all these other girls but don't fuck your own girlfriend? and I bought him that phone so I can look at it whenever I want lol

I know it doesn't make sense but like I feel like if we had more sex he'd not only last longer but not have the urge to look at that stuff? like he never wants to have sex, and I don't look like the girls on those pics so I feel like he prob envisions himself fucking other ppl since his eyes are always closed, or it's dark...etc. sorry for not clarifying that. and anytime we get into an argument he hits me with the, "you're the only girl i've ever had sex with and how do I know you're the best"

You think he doesn't find you attractive and doesn't want to have sex, and your plan is to withhold sex? Sweet b8 m8

Bring up the idea and just watch the glimmer in his eyes, I can fuckin guess you probably have or wanted to cheat at some point, but imagine getting to treat the sluts hes wanting to fuck like shit. I bet he'll fucking marry you

and by the way we are both 19, we go to the same university and pretty much live with eachother.

>girl logic

also OP, post pics

>I was considering withholding sex from him
If sex is literally the only thing you bring to the relationship then maybe you should break up and reevaluate your life.

That paints a clear picture. He my have lost sexual interest in you. I wish you luck.

>Girl OP here
Faggot

Hi! Few things to start off with =]
1. Yes I answered you because you're a femanon, 'tis an awesome thing to see!
2. I'm Brian.
3. Don't be intimidated, but I'm not a stereotypical guy. If anything, I'll be the one in the kitchen =D.

Dammn has a gf who wants to fuck him a lot, and buys a phone for him? Shit where do I sign up for a girl like that. My prob is I look at porn all the time because I'm lonely

>all these serious replies

I didn't think I could hate Sup Forums even more than I already do.

I don't even want to see your shitty tits OP.

Do it. Do it. Do it. Do it! Do it! Do it! DO IT! DO IT! DO IT! DO IT! DO IT!!!!!111!!!!1!1!1!
because why not

omg Sup Forums, u r falling for this?

lol that's definitely not. The entire reason why i'm so pissed off is because I pretty much do everything for him. I cook for him, clean everything, do his laundry, his homework, I pay anytime we go out anywhere. In the past 4 months i've spent over 1,000$ on just buying him random stuff. I put up with his shit when he never wants to do anything. And anytime I get upset he makes it seem like I have no reason to be. I throw myself at him, buy lingerie, try to go out places, and he only wants to play league(a video game) I pretty much support him, and the least he could do is not have pictures of random naked ass girls on his phone that I also bought him! lol. and I mean withholding sex the 2 times a week he does try to fuck me. maybe that way he will be like well I better chill cause this is the only pussy i'm getting right now.

yes

you need to fuck him so hard that he cant jack off any more

kek

also a thing that pisses me off is that he never wants to try new shit in bed. that's probably why he feels so inclined to try to have sex with other girls, but then it'll be the same shit considering he's never down to try anything new. won't even let me kiss his neck because he doesn't like it.

---RULES OF Sup Forums---
(Specifically 30. and 31. in this thread)

Newfags....

If a "femanon" is using her gender to get attention then rule 31 applies. Using gender as an attention seeking method is fine as long as she follows rule 31 BUT until then she should be ignored. Tits or gtfo.

First off, verify that you are in fact talking to a girlo (R.30).

1. Ask for a TIMESTAMP or a very specific request (eg. "draw a big circle and a smaller circle inside that big one on your hand and take a picture of it")

2. Verify the timestamp is real. Look at it. Are any of the characters the same (copy/paste). Does the ink look genuine? (or drawn on in photoshop).

3. Check the filename. Always check the filename. Any picture from Sup Forums has a easily recognizable filename (easy to change but people forget). Are the pictures all of the same filename type?

Everybody should be doing this for attention-seeking females (or more likely attention seeking males posing as females). Are you jerking it to a cute f 18yo OR are you jerking it to a m 48yo?

I'm going to post some examples below of where I've trolled 100+ people at a time and MADE A MISTAKE or got away with it because people weren't asking the right questions.

It's not even about being a newfag/oldfag at this point. It's about not being retarded.

30. There are no girls on the internet.

31. Tits or gtfo - the choice is yours...

Shut up. Get a job. Leave this guy alone. Thankyou.

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>---RULES OF Sup Forums---

this

OK. Thats far to much investing in a guy who doesn't give back. If this is true. Keep in mind people can be very resourceful that may be the reason he is still with you. If this isn't true. Ehh food for thought.

not posting tits when this thread is specifically about my mans having Sup Forums nudes on his phone lol

everyone tells me i'm too invested in the relationship but i'm 5 years in. I don't want to give up just yet. We got into it earlier and I cried a bit and he apologized for being an asshole and a liar(about this) but he always does and the same shit always happens lol. idk whether or not to let it go or just dump him because idk if it's a big enough reason to.

>secret to getting a great gf like this
>be a complete selfish asshole
>got it

5 years is a long time. Good on you for not wanting it to end but, imo, if he isn't keeping promises, nor showing sexual interest and not giving back. That is a relationship with no future. A ship doomed to sink.

---RULES OF Sup Forums---
(Specifically 30. and 31. in this thread)

Newfags....

If a "femanon" is using her gender to get attention then rule 31 applies. Using gender as an attention seeking method is fine as long as she follows rule 31 BUT until then she should be ignored. Tits or gtfo.

First off, verify that you are in fact talking to a girlo (R.30).

1. Ask for a TIMESTAMP or a very specific request (eg. "draw a big circle and a smaller circle inside that big one on your hand and take a picture of it")

2. Verify the timestamp is real. Look at it. Are any of the characters the same (copy/paste). Does the ink look genuine? (or drawn on in photoshop).

3. Check the filename. Always check the filename. Any picture from Sup Forums has a easily recognizable filename (easy to change but people forget). Are the pictures all of the same filename type?

Everybody should be doing this for attention-seeking females (or more likely attention seeking males posing as females). Are you jerking it to a cute f 18yo OR are you jerking it to a m 48yo?

I'm going to post some examples below of where I've trolled 100+ people at a time and MADE A MISTAKE or got away with it because people weren't asking the right questions.

It's not even about being a newfag/oldfag at this point. It's about not being retarded.

30. There are no girls on the internet.

31. Tits or gtfo - the choice is yours.,.,.,.

thank you for the great replies guys. And yeah I know...Idk whats wrong with me. I feel like it's me who's wrong a lot of the time, and then this just makes me feel like absolute shit. I always ask him why he doesn't leave and he can never give me an answer other than because I love you. But if he did, he wouldn't be a liar...right? I mean nudes of girls he will never fuck. but still not nudes of me...idc if he watches porn either, or jacks off. it's just this gets to me on another level for some reason. probably because it could be like any girl we know.

It's called a guy. It's what they do. Just let it be

Whether or not op is trolling. The topic interests me.

everyone I know irl tells me to leave him:( but I don't want to. I just want to figure out a way to fix it. Now I want to try to lose weight to look like those girls in his pics...

I predict your next boyfriend will be physically abusive.

You're already with a guy who mentally abuses you, but you don't see it.

On a side note, porn or pictures on a phone downloaded from Sup Forums or anywhere else on the Internet is not cause for alarm or jealousy. It's natural for a guy to want to look at naked women at just about any time of the day or night. If they are REAL girls he's actually communicating with, and those nudes are from those girls, RUN. NOW.

sometimes looking at naked pics makes me think of the chick I'm with...however, I know that it's a rare emotion among guys.

Best suggestion is that you stop looking at nude girls on his phone...

well here's an old screenshot of a convo we were having. yeah I use kik because he does

post your tits

no joke, my uncle is a pastor and a few years ago at Christmas he just came out and mentioned his porn addiction. apparently he would fap in his church office as well as house constantly. somehow he managed to hide gigs of porn from my aunt for years on their computer. many keks. but yea when it comes to porn addiction, the guy has got to be jacking it constantly.

they're always from girls off of here. which is whatever. and I know my mom tells me that too. and so does my best friend but i'm hard headed and he used to be awesome and I just want it to be like that again. i just don't know if it ever will be. and if he hit me it'd be done I have pepper spray id spray his ass lol. it just sucks because i'm nice, and I always tell him no other girl would ever deal with him and he says that he wouldn't treat another girl the way he treats me. well he said that the last time we got into an argument and i started crying after and he apologized

Your thinking about the now. What about the future? This relationship has to menu cracks to withstand time.

just give that nigga hickies while he sleeps also finger his b hole with no warning

anytime i'm not home (at class or I go to my apartment) he's fapping. it's ridiculous

lmao he's a light sleeper but i'll try to do that to fuck with him

that's what I always think. I don't even know how we got to the five year mark honestly. i'm just too far in to let go idk

Tfw someone I know has that exact name as their summoner name on League

Easy solution. Put pics on male nudes on phone. Subtly show them off to him. If he gets jealous, ask him how he feels.

lol that's not his name on league. He stole it off of someone who he played with once.

Now that's just reason enough to ditch him smh

smart. i'll probably do that. hmm wonder where I could get pics from

that wont work it needs to be lesbian porn then he'll ask if she's down for a threesome

Don't do this. He'll probably get interested in being a cuck and soon, you will be fucking another guy while holding his hand.
Unless you want this, in which case DO IT.

lmao that's ridiculous. although, I must say, I've been on medications for the last seven years of my life that kill my libido, so I don't know what my urge to fap would be otherwise. but still, I know I at least wouldn't be so retarded to do half of the shit he is doing. but at the same time you've got to think that if he was doing something that most people deem to be socially and morally wrong wouldn't he try to make it harder for you to find out about it? dunno, but food for thought I guess.

>nudes started after we broke up

You should be thankful you got back together.

Fuck him often. Suck his dick as much as you can. Get him off his porn addiction. It was all because you broke up briefly and he turned to porn and now he can't turn back. Instead of asking him to promise, do something that will show him he doesn't need porn anymore.

I don't want that at all lol. and considering he's the only guy i've ever fucked i don't think i'm down to have sex with randoms

---RULES OF Sup Forums---
(Specifically 30. and 31. in this thread)

Newfags....

If a "femanon" is using her gender to get attention then rule 31 applies. Using gender as an attention seeking method is fine as long as she follows rule 31 BUT until then she should be ignored. Tits or gtfo.

First off, verify that you are in fact talking to a girlo (R.30).

1. Ask for a TIMESTAMP or a very specific request (eg. "draw a big circle and a smaller circle inside that big one on your hand and take a picture of it")

2. Verify the timestamp is real. Look at it. Are any of the characters the same (copy/paste). Does the ink look genuine? (or drawn on in photoshop).

3. Check the filename. Always check the filename. Any picture from Sup Forums has a easily recognizable filename (easy to change but people forget). Are the pictures all of the same filename type?

Everybody should be doing this for attention-seeking females (or more likely attention seeking males posing as females). Are you jerking it to a cute f 18yo OR are you jerking it to a m 48yo?

I'm going to post some examples below of where I've trolled 100+ people at a time and MADE A MISTAKE or got away with it because people weren't asking the right questions.

It's not even about being a newfag/oldfag at this point. It's about not being retarded.

30. There are no girls on the internet.

31. Tits or gtfo - the choice is yours.,.,.,.

he does. he even sleeps with his phone in his hand but sometimes i'll take it when he's sleeping and it falls out of his hand. happens once in a blue moon and it's fucked up of me to do it i know but I just do it hoping he isn't doing that.

we broke up a year ago around novermber 2015...got back together in january of this year. and I do all of that. like i'll even suck his dick when he has stank dick. I really don't know what to do anymore. I gave up my dream school because he didn't get in. For this. LMAO

That is a good way for him to carry a picture of your tits instead of random grils

november *

How many guys have you fucked, OP?

You're 19, been with him for 5 years, but you talk like you have a lot more sexual experience. Fucking slut.

He's probably just scared you're gonna break up again so he has difficulties committing fully.

Ur fat as fuck

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To try and get him to last longer try edgeing

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Just him. But keep in mind i've been having sex with him since I was 15. We used to experiment a lot but after we got back together in January it's just been blegh. I mean i've sent nudes to a guy who wasn't him when we were broken up but I don't think that counts as fucking lmao.

That's a cat.
They don't normally wear clothes, idiot.

Kill yourself.

post more pics of cade

Girl, I'll be your man, takes forever for me to cum and I got a nice dick, a job, an apartment, and I believe in monogamy.

But srsly leave his bitch ass.

Disgusting. So you sent another guy nudes but you won't send your boyfriend who has a nude fetish nudes.

You're stupid as fuck, and I would dump you immediately.

Hey OP.

Ive been in a long distance relationship for years.
It were also 4 or 5 years.
Ive been smiling and had a reason to smile on the shittiest days.
For about the last year in our relation she were less and less into camming and doing stuff.
She didnt want me to visit her, because of her parents. I offered her a million times to visit her.

She told me she started to watch porn. I told her to stop it and do things with me instead.
She pierced her titties, bought a dildo.
I always thought I could get along with it. Somehow I did.
But also critisized it once in a while.
Anyway confusing story ends:
Few months ago. Very stereotypically situation "Hey I found someone else and wanna try".
Which I didnt think that would ever happen.

Since then, since the breakup I lost my cute smile and my positive thinking.
I could have had many girls before the breakup But didn't take any of them. Not even when my heartbeat was rising and feelings and emotions became VERY intense.
I have been loyal af.

Now I think Ive been so dumb not to take just any and all girls I could have taken.

That I lost her doesnt mean any less to me, than that God finally rejected me.
I mean God by using God. I dont mean her by using God.

Still feel like all this is just an odd dream. I didnt even really cry about it. I cant.
I lose some tears sometimes. But Im too fucking weak to cry.

What I mean is.
Fuck this world. Fuck Everyone and Everything and Anyone and Anything.

It all doesnt make sense in the end anyway. It doesnt matter. So mess with him. Mess with people.
Lifes a mess so fuck it. who cares.

I wasted my best years working on a relationship that didnt work out.
I thought itll be worth it and work out in the end.
O well... FUCK IT!

Stop fooling yourself...

Lol thanks considering you don't even know what I look like. But if you guys care here ya go. Not that my appearance really matters. Like I said i'm not stick skinny like the bitches on his phone and like I said before I want to work out so he can't use my weight as an excuse to have that on his phone when his own girl looks better

I've sent him hundreds...and I wasn't in a relationship so who cares

I'm so sorry about what happened to you...and i just always fear that will happen to me but I just think i'm too good to him and if he does he will regret it. the right girl will come for you and I hope you feel better.

dont put this much effort in it.
in the end it doesnt even matter.
stop fooling yourself.

+probably he likes chubbies a lot more irl

Same thing happened to me ._. I feel ya man.

he told me himself he doesn't like fat girls and I asked him why he likes me then and he said that i'm not fat. but I sure as hell don't look like the girls on his phone.

maybe all this means is that I should just let him do his thing and i'll do mine and find someone who is actually loyal. idk it's just I feel like in this day and age no one is. he always says that he doesn't cheat on me, and good luck finding another guy that doesn't. partially why I don't leave him, but this stuff sure does feel like cheating to me

Again, you're retarded.

Obviously he cares.

he doesn't know.

and if he did then who fucking cares I wasn't dating him...and like i didn't even know that guy so whatever