Honestly, are there any legit ways of coping your whole life with being ugly, unattractive and unwanted or are you just better off killing yourself as soon as possible? I'm in a very dark mind state, I really need your opinion on this one.
Honestly, are there any legit ways of coping your whole life with being ugly...
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stop being a pussy
I cope trough working and routine
Save up the bad feelings, drink them away, and repeat. Also >>/r9k/ faggot
play something like dark souls it will help. to quote Zaeed Massani "rage is a hell of an anesthetic"
drinking beer helps most of the time
Meh, it is just a matter of holding on to what matters and let everything else slide.
So to me what mattered was education, career, getting a good retirement, and enough money to do what I want when I want.
Just don't count on any real help from outside and you'll be OK.
Or you could just kill yourself if you feel living is too much trouble.
I dont know how old you are, but find a passion and git gud. Whether it's some kind of art or science or whatever, just focus on it as much as you possibly can. You may not be attractive, but you'll become an interesting person who is really good at something. Trust me, if you boost your confidence level and are interesting enough, women will dig you. Money also helps.
You're alright, man. Figure out what your life revolves around, decide if that's healthy, work on it. Working out apparently helps improve mind-state a lot, though I've only just recently started doing that and haven't noticed any major improvements so I can't speak from personal experience.
Oh, so having feeling nowadays makes you a pussy? Thanks for the heads up.
So you cope by being detached from the reality. I used to smoke my sorrows away but then it started messing with my cognition so I had to stop. Don't think I wanna go on r9k though. It's really not my thing. I'm just pissed off that people place value on something that is in no one's power. It's pure fucking luck, and you judge me upon my luck.
I'm so uglyy how do I cope guys ::''((
if this is your biggest hurdle in life you have no right to complain
What's a hurdle worth complaining over?
Not to make an argument, just curious about your opinion.
You could call me detached, but my work is important and makes a difference for some people. I'd usually drink once a month so not an alcoholic.
See, life always sucks but you never wanna just give up because you'll never know what you'll miss. You will never know what's right around the corner. You can always look for help if you need it but if your like me and hate the thought of needing help, make friends no matter how hard it may be. Friends can help even if you don't want it. So don't kill yourself because that shit isn't worth it, that shit will make me sad too. You don't know me but I care so like stick around and see what happens.
literally anything else
you have a great life if this is your biggest complaint
Money can't buy someone to like you. I am going the same route, but it just doesn't feel sufficient. I feel like I will have to buy people. I'd rather off myself.
Thanks, but that's what I'm already doing. It doesn't feel adequate though. Feels like I have to try 100x harder than to get the same response unlike someone conventionally attractive.
Yeah, heard working out as an advice a lot. No idea.
Gimme a real answer here.
I am not the OP.
If you don't give a shit, it won't bother you at all.
I take solace in the fact that I have a massive cock, even though no one will ever see it consensually except for my doctor.
life is short times goes fast you will sooner than you think
killing your self is never an option...better days will come... you sure need to get ur ass up befor that happens but if you do it... you get to the point where u gonna laugh about this situation ur are in now... i dun it myself and so can you too
>feels 100x harder
Sure, it's gonna take a bit more work if you're an uggo, but you should be glad that you're not a vapid pretty boy.
I haven't been laid in ~7 years because reasons, but when I was in my late teens/early twenties, I fucked many beautiful girls (some not so beautiful) and had some pretty awesome girlfriends (some not so awesome). I've learned to live without a girl and without sex, and I'm actually pretty happy with it -- as for the rest of my life, it's fucking terrible kek.
How old are you? I take it you've never had a girl?
The idea that this kind of shit alone is enough to make life not worth living is retarded. Eat pancakes. Travel places. Play video games. Enjoy porn. Holy fuck, what are you even getting at?
If you are completely incapable of enjoying anything this world has to offer you, then you're clinically depressed and need to seek treatment, or start cultivating a healthier lifestyle.
I just can't not give a shit. That's not how I am as a person. I seek gratification.
Made me kek.
I hope you're right mate.
Yep, I'm 20. And I look at myself in the mirror everyday and just don't believe what I'm seeing. How could something so misshapen come out of a womb? It's funny. Food for thought really, I never judge anyone for what they do, who knows what lead them to their actions. I'm not of course justifying serial killers, but then again they didn't choose to be mentally ill either. Life is a pretty shitty game.
>eat pancakes
Kek
>"Dr., I just can't take it anymore, I'm so depressed I can barely get out of bed in the morning and cry myself to sleep every night"
>"quit your whining and eat some fuckin pancakes"
You see this ugly ass dude? I don't know if you're familiar with Charles Bukowski, but he was a writer/poet, and he was knee deep in pussy.
In fact, he wrote a book called 'Women' that you should definitely read.
I need money to travel, which seems like the only thing worthy right now. I will get that money, assuming I don't end myself before I get my first job. I've been playing video games for the most of my life, as you have probably guessed. Porn is becoming dull. I will never have the real thing. I agree with what you've said, but it only works so far.
There's much more to life than romance. You might as well be asking if there is any point going through life knowing that you'll always be too short to play professional basketball. Live, laugh, watch good movies, read good books, eat good food, watch the sunset. When you're dead it'll be too late to do any of those things.
Only if you set your own self worth based on how attracted woman are to you. Even attractive guys get fucked over, girls are hell regardless.
Have you tried manning the fuck up? Sure you're ugly, fuck it. You don't have time for that. Go to the gym. Go back to school. Seek a higher paying job. Get the hell off Sup Forums. Anything.
Oh boo hoo you aren't a super model. Fucking narcisist.
Shut the fuck up. At least you dont have severe anxiety so bad you cant speak in normal life.
Fuck I hate you people. "WAAAH THE WAY I LOOK RUINS MY LIFE".
Get a personality.
go outside. read books. read factual books. get smart. when you feel shitty everyday it's because your everyday life is shitty. change it or end it, changing is better but ending is easier. it doesnt sound like you're the kind of person who tries.
I see your personality is doing you a great deal of good, assuming you know people. Let's tackle your points, first of, how can I be a narcissist if I'm ugly and don't like the way I look? You gotta look up the term and get to know what it means better. Secondly, who are you to assume I don't have anxiety myself? What makes you think that? This is what you sound like right now:
>i think that my problems are worse than anyone's and that completely nullifies your problems and you're not allowed to feel unhappy with yourself
Jeez dude get a clue.
I tried. I tried lifting, but I'm so skinny I immediately injured myself. Fuck it, I'll try again. But as I've mentioned before, all of this works for a set amount of time. After that, you're gonna have enough of this bullshit. That's the problem. In my opinion you can't cope forever. Once it pops, it's done.
That's far from what I see my self-worth in. But I feel deprived of something I've never had. It's natural to me as a guy. I know that there is much more to myself than how I look. But the core of the problem here is that most people don't see past your ugly mug. It's that simple.
Whatever, Hunchback. You might as well kill yourself instead of whining on Sup Forums, you fucking prick.
>feel bad for me guise :(
Just workout and try and be as fit as you can. it will make you feel better about yourself.
Yep, you've got a terrific personality. Amazing, mate. Anyone would wanna be your friend.
I don't want anyone to feel bad for me, there are plenty of ugly people just like me. I just want to know how to cope better. Please don't feel sorry for me, there are people that are off way worse than I could ever be. But that's not the point.
Back when I did, it really made me feel better.
nigger
>not op
i'm just to lazy for that stuff, and too afraid of people
Atleast Im not ugly lmao
NIGGER
Yes, you are. :^)
And also take steroids. You have nothing to lose.
Tell me again how sad your life is
Gotta be honest, judging from how offended your are in your responses, surely a lot better than yours. If I was such an asshole aside from looking what I do, I'd offed myself ages ago. Good luck mate.
Who says Im offended :^)
The way your responded screams "butthurt"..
>U MAD
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