21/m, about to graduate with a law degree. I have a job lined up as a commercial property lawyer next year in january >set to graduate with first class honours >been rejected by over 100 girls. yes literally i count them. i am NOT shy, I can be confident and assertive but I can also be quite normal as well. very adaptable personality. I am just ugly >rejected by over 5 escorts (prostitues) ive been talking to. just had a chat with another one who said she was "fully booked out" >went to a brothel when i was 20 years old. they wanted ID, and I didnt want to show, because at the time I was doing an internship for a government department. they told me to leave
what to do. suicide is not an option because im too scared. i do think about it a lot but i can never muster the courage.. plus i want to attend my graduation ceremony before i do anything rash
NOTE: In Australia, you can study law after high school, and this is what most people do - i know it is different in the US where it is a postgraduate degree.
please do not tell me to be more social or to ask girls out. believe me i am very social and i have asked over 100 girls out and all of them have rejected me. ive never had a girlfriend, never kissed. the simple fact is that i am not physically attractive. i know that is a boring reason and people like to find other reasons, but at the end of the day it is absolutely correct.
Elijah Thompson
post pic of face pls. i want to see if you're actually that ugly or if you're trolling.
Also, just lower your standards. Find an ugly chick with good hygiene and take her to pound town. Women can practically smell other pussy on you, and it makes them want to compete with the other chick.
Elijah Howard
Nigga you just ugly as hell. No cure for that.
Maybe try a new style, get a friend to give you some constructive feedback on your aethetics. Appear to be rich and douchey and successful.
Or go the opposite route, and give up asking people out and set up online dating profiles. You sound like a nice enough guy, evem ugly dudes can get a bite on tinder or some shit if you make it clear that you're successful and kinda funny.
or kill yourself, none of us really care. You sound like you're only here to complain and validate the fact that you think you're doing everything right and you just have shit luck or something. You must be really fucking ugly, or not very pleasant to be around. Or both.
Andrew Young
i have tried lowering my standards lol. believe me, everything in the book ive done.
Jacob Stewart
This, but also post face.
Ethan Roberts
>went to a brothel when i was 20 years old. they wanted ID, and I didnt want to show
Your only problem is that you're a fucking idiot.
Eli Miller
rape?
Joshua Fisher
Reason is because I was doing an internship at a government department. If that kind of thing is found out your career is literally over.
Gavin Wright
No can do.
Again I'm working as a lawyer and I would like to protect myself from any future repercussions. When I say I am ugly please just take my word for it
Christian Jones
Obviously not..
Aaron Walker
how about fuck you post your face sage
Daniel Brown
>When I say I am ugly please just take my word for it
If there are no pics, we have no reason to believe you. You are studying law. You should understand this.
Luke Jackson
>I've done everything in the book see >you're only here to complain and validate the fact that you think you're doing everything right
if "everything in the book" isn't working, you must be a world class piece of shit, or you actually haven't tried everything in the book.
Getting girls isn't that hard. If you are likable, someone will like you. So start considering that you might actually be unbearable to spend time with.
Nicholas Johnson
That is an absolute rule. I have a Facebook account and I don't even use my real name on it, and I have no photos or anything.
A lot of law students do the same thing because employers will search you. This is something that affects you in a very real way..
Sorry, no pictures. I am ugly - just believe it. If I were attractive I wouldn't have these problems.
Just assume what I say is true.
Asher Sanchez
Play Eve online
Easton Bell
post face with a bar over your eyes, then. otherwise, fuck off.
Henry Myers
> 2016 have money, ugly AF, no plastic surgery. wtf OP
Nathan Baker
>just assume i'm ugly and I've tried everything possible and there's absolutely no way it has anything to do with my personality
what the fuck are we supposed to tell you? You're delusional. kys
Nathan Davis
Being likable is something I've tried.
The thing is if you are likable people will say you need to be "tougher" and "alpha-male" ish. If you are confident, people will say you are overconfident and need to be shy. Yet if you are shy you will get the opposite feedback.
That's what I mean when I say I've tried everything in the book. There is always an excuse or reason that is invoked, because no one likes the one simple reason which is that I am physically unattractive
At the end of the day that is what matters I'm afraid
Michael Evans
Just try to be good on your personal shit, I don't fucking know why is for you all the acceptance from a woman so important, Just be good and stop to be so superficial. it's irrelevant your degree, pretty sure that you are superficial and an asshole.
William Reed
Plastic surgery? No fucking way LOL....
Believe me it wouldnt do much
Wyatt Wood
>Just assume what I say is true.
no, and no potential employer will look at this thread and if he does there's nothing to find
Liam Thomas
That's because you're only trying to emulate a persona and it's obvious. It's like the uncanny valley but for personality.
Blake Smith
Thinking of going to all the brothels I can next week. I'm sure there would be one which would just let me in.
The fact that I've been rejected by prostitutes, to me, is a fucking joke. I have the money, and so it shouldn't be a problem at all whether I have ID.
Josiah Collins
This. The thread will be gone in 10min anyway
Noah Mitchell
I can be myself too.
But then when I am myself you will say that I should be different. When I am different you will say that I am trying to emulate a persona.
Nothing will ever be sufficient
Bentley Fisher
i am the kaos. i am the almighty. i have returned from my slumber because you have summoned me. i put all of you on notice. my power is reaching out to you. you cannot escape. your age is at an end. mine is just beginning.
Asher Cooper
>when I am myself you will say that I should be different
lol, why do you just do what people tell you like that, then? You're creating your own suffering.
Charles Sullivan
why aren't you a trap yet, OP?
Caleb Foster
It really took you that long to figure it out? When you're young looks are the most important, bitches wont care about your money until later on (or at least not as much)
Gavin Hernandez
There are probably over 15 people reading this thread.
Given that you can reverse image search on Google (and given that I dont know whether my photos are even online) + the wide range of other risks, I do not post photos of myself online
As I said I dont even use a real name for FB, I have no photos on FB. That is the way most law students/graduates conduct themselves in Australia. It affects employment. people will search you. I am not posting an image of myself online to a bunch of strangers. If I wouldn't do it on Facebook, and have never done so on Facebook, you will not convince me otherwise. All I ask is for you to just accept that I am unattractive. I'm not going to be able to prove that. I know I am because people have told me, both guys and girls.
Jayden Kelly
You take a new pic of yourself, newfag. Don't post it anywhere else. Just post it here, and it will be gone forever.
James Gomez
become a girl OP
Isaiah Lewis
More of the girl in the pic
Austin Collins
Again, absolute rule. You will not convince me no matter what you say. See above reasons
Hunter Sanchez
Then go kill yourself, because nobody here can help you. You act like being ugly is your only problem.
Levi Brooks
If all they care about is my money they are no different than a prostitute. And I would rather see a prostitute because that way I could stop any time, without the emotional attachment
Love is only for attractive people, unfortunately. Exceptions exist but they are rare.
Ryan Williams
OP you should transform into a dickgirl, you'll never get laid otherwise
Adam Lopez
As I said I don't have the willpower to commit suicide. I think about it a lot but at the end of the day I acn never muster the courage. It just feels wrong and I have a natural compulsion against it so strong I don't think I'll ever come close to committing suicide
Blake Morgan
>Love is only for attractive people
love is for no one faggot and you don't want love, you just want to get your dick wet
Sebastian Price
>Love is only for attractive people, unfortunately.
I bet being a sad sack of shit makes the ladies wet.
As I said I am an adaptable person. I can be myself. I can be really positive and uplifting. I am be confident. I can be meek and humble. None if it works.
Gavin Thomas
>Has a successful life with a good job >Thinking about kys because mean girls turn you down Nigga quit being a little bitch, girls aren't everything
And I have had many different guys and girls tell me that I am unattractive, rating me below 5/10 on an honest assessment. I don't need more negative feedback like that because I know it is the truth, and there's nothing more to prove. Just accept that I am unattractive. I don't break any absolute rules.
Julian Nelson
Or post nose down. And if you're afraid of ppl you know seeing, post in the middle of the night.
Colton Morgan
you srsly don't know what a shemale is??? this is what you should look like to get laid you ugly piece of shit
Cooper Bell
You want women? The answer is money! A whole fuck of a lot of it in your case brother.
Xavier Wood
That isn't an option... lol. I appreciate the humour though
Landon Scott
Read the original post. I have money. I went to a brothel, I've asked online escorts - they all reject me for one reason or another. It's always because they're booked out, too busy or not in the area. Either I have the worst luck or escorts/prostitutes are harder to engage in Australia than it seems.
Adam Kelly
you have undiagnosed autism
Ryan Lopez
>i can be myself people say i should be different
ding ding ding, we have a winner. You're an unlikable piece of shit.
don't act like the world is out to get you and there's no hope just because you're ugly. Seriously. the fact that you are in this mindset is already annoying the fuck out of me, and it makes you really unattractive to like, literally everyone.
I am ugly, and I am a shy little beta boy. I get girls by making friends, being nice, and noticing the things girls want me to notice. I rarely make the first move. You can do it too, if you cut the delusions and stop convincing yourself that looks are everything.
looks aren't everything, you are just really fucking obnoxious. start being yourself and just cut the depression low self esteem stuff. and stick to that. It will work, eventually.
p.s. sex isn't that great and you'll be glad you didn't waste your time on brothels. It's a lot of work if your girl is a dead fish (which is most of them tbh). Get a pocket pussy, its honestly better like 90% of the time.
Thomas Thomas
Ok, so you are ugly and you have tried "everything in the book". You won't an hero and you reject all advice in here.
What the fuck do you want /b to do, again?
Christopher Russell
go back to the brothel with a legit id and get a root you faggot
Lucas Wilson
Not for prostitutes. For gold diggers.
Zachary Bailey
I have Asperger's syndrome. Undiagnosed but I know I have it based on my own assessment of myself, etc.
But it's actually not that bad. People say I'm really outgoing and social so to some extent I think I've concealed some of its symptoms well. It takes a bit of work but hey.
Jonathan Young
It's a loser generation of women grading themselfs as the center of the world and alot of them just gold diggers. and harder to approach than ever
;_; tfw no girlfriend and tried.
Jayden Cruz
Again you tell me to cut the depression low self esteem stuff. I can be very confident, assertive, outgoing, social and proactive. Makes zero difference.
Waste my time on brothels? Brothels won't even accept me. Or at least the one I went to. But I'll be visiting more. And we'll see what happens. I literally spent 2 months going to shopping centres and streets and asking people out. I've asked girls out in university - many of them - from different classes. nothing. im honestly done with it
David King
U mad bro? You’re going to have a well-paid job and you’re considering suicide?
Cooper Perry
>wide range of other risks
"I'm sorry user we'd like to higher you as a super high level executive but we have it on file here that you asked an anonymous internet chat room of 15 people whether they thought u were ugly" Yes
"Did you post your face?" Yes
C A S E D E N I E D
maybe the reason whores reject you is cuz ur such a pussy
Gabriel Green
I don't reject all advice. I respond to comments. If there is sound advice I will take it
Christopher Diaz
>adaptable personality. Don't adapt to them, women hate that. they want a man with their own personality >rejected by over 5 escorts (prostitutes) I've been talking to Don't speak to long with escorts, escorts are the three G's, Get in, Get off, Get out they really don't like getting to know their tricks.
TL'DR you're doing it all wrong
pic is somewhat related, I have escorts move in with me, I tell them they're fucking stupid when ever they are. They respect that
Justin Wood
>I have Asperger's syndrome >i'm also pretty depressed
holy shit just kys faggot, people like you make me wanna puke
Charles Stewart
See reasons above.
I wouldn't go in with fake ID either if that's what you're suggesting. I'll be working as a lawyer next year in a private law firm and this kind of behaviour is sack-able. only option I can think of is to go to every brothel I can find in the map (as long as it's reasonably close). im sure there's one that'd let me in
Charles Adams
In my view there is little difference between them. Gold diggers are even more harmful because you are losing money long-term. Prostitues = 1-off, and you can quit any time w/o the emotioanl attchment
Anthony Martin
>thinking you're an alpha male for making whores live with you
i think ur a degenerate
Charles Ross
Read above. I've thought about suicide, but would never do it. Can't bring myself to it - can't muster the courage. It's harder than you think.
Leo Price
lmao why the fuck did you make a thread if you're literally gonna deny everyone's advice. There's no magic answer, you're in denial about the reason you cant get girls.
You're a bitch, and no one likes you. It just so happens that you're also ugly, so there's nothing redeemable about you at all.
You also speak as if you feel superior to everyone, like you would never open your mind up an be convinced of another view, since you've "already tried everything". What a naive, close minded way to think.
You're not here for advice, you're here to validate your depression and let us convince you that you should wallow in misery, since you're too much of a bitch to even kill yourself. But hey if you do, let me know and I'l send you my paypal. I could get a lot more girls with your lawboy money.
Caleb Nelson
Again that is a false representation of what could occur.
It would be possible to ascertain my identity if I posted a picture (e.g. reverse image search, recognition, etc.). I don't think I need to explain this further... the risks are obvious and well documented. Just do google searches. These things happen often.
Caleb Rogers
>"I have Asperger's syndrome"
OP confirmed actually autistic, this explains a lot.
Nigga, the entire problem with autism is that you don't realize it when you say or do weird shit that rubs people the wrong way. Chances are you say and do weird shit all the time, you just aren't capable of noticing it unless someone tells you.
For example an autistic guy I know has godawful table manners; chews with his mouth open, holds his fork in a fist, makes a mess, talks with his mouth full of food, etc. I've brought it to his attention, he forgets 10 minutes later because he's just fucking autistic. That's the entire problem with autism: antisocial behavior that the sufferer doesn't recognize is antisocial.
Christian Taylor
Fuck I am kinda, renting my extra room for $120 a night, getting laid any time I want
Brody Torres
I can also haev my own personality. That is part of being adaptable, in my usage of that word. I can be totally natural and be myself, or I can be confident or humble. None of it works - trust me.
escorts literally reject me... i havent been able to successfully arrange a face-to-face meeting or anything. they are harder to engage than you might think
Jaxon Morales
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Justin Reyes
doesn't offend me at all lol
Jacob Garcia
you dont know the true life of ugly people when people actualy want to have a coversation with you. Usualy they keep it short and meaningless and leave as quick as possible or just leave instantly. Humans are realy fucked up when it comes to this.
Camden Turner
Again, not denying advice, simply replying to comments. If there is sound advice I will take it. I am not in denial, nor am I a "bitch". I agree that I am ugly.
Not trying to validate depression either. Not going to wire you paypal money. Sorry lol, most of what you have said is very wrong
Brody Williams
Idk dude out calls, just ask >Rates and restrictions?
Jaxson Allen
This is correct. You aren't the first person to say this. And I've had similar experiences to what you've described. Maybe it's that, but that wouldn't be the main reason.
John Stewart
nothing you can do if you are genuinally ugly, not to mention the fact that being staggeringly ugly Will make your life miserable even if you are or will be succesful. Just go for cash, and you'll be able to force yourself into the best pussy. You'll be unhappy, but there's always worst, and here on /b you'll not break any sweat searching for it, am I right?
Tyler Lewis
that way it looks to them like you have used a escort before
Zachary Moore
>21/m, about to graduate with a law degree. Not at 21 you arent. Maybe you cant get women because you are a liar.
Eli Taylor
then be done with it and stop denying everyone else's view points.
you made a >wat do? thread.
since you don't actually want to hear what we have to say, either continue living and stop wasting our time, or kill yourself. You're awfully fucking stupid for a law student, and i doubt you'll make a good lawyer considering how flawed your reasoning is. And you'd make a terrible boyfriend, since you're making it clear you can't handle the blame of any preventable circumstances. You'd rather sit there and say "it's not my fault, I've tried everything" and just whine all day long. I'd love to punch you in the fucking face honestly.
Joseph James
After they trust you , you can treat them like whores, they love it and don't charge
Benjamin White
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Blake Turner
Buddy continue on with your fucking life choices and your gonna be lawyer. You can look like a dogs ass it won't matter your gonna have so much money bitchs are gonna be begging to get with you
Luis Turner
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Luis Watson
Dog just chill, If what you are saying is true..... Youll get pussy when you start your job. All the chicks who suck at life will be all over your dick
Zachary Garcia
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Gavin Taylor
the irony of you denying an entire thread full of people accusing you of being in denial, is fucking mindblowing.
There's no hope for you, keep being a pretentious twat and blame your looks. Plastic surgery is basically your only option if you're so fucking adaptable to any likable personality type. The advice you're looking for doesn't exist, cunt.
Henry Carter
"But that wouldn't be the main reason" If you're that convinced it's because you're ugly, what's the point of your thread? You know the answer already, nobody here can help you appear less ugly.
Plastic surgery, suicide, or just fucking dealing with it. Don't put pussy on a pedestal, women are overrated.
Sebastian King
How ugly are you then if no pics? U got ugly teeth? Eyes too wide apart? Big nose? Big head, ears whatever? Get a good haircut, shave or a nice beard.
Look when i was 20 i had pimples and a ugly little stub beard. I consider myself normaly attractive now without pimples and with or without beard. But when i was 20 i managed to fuck a cute girl that was 18 at my summer job. No problem only did it with talking and made her laugh. Then i clean shaved and got my hair cut and she was all suprised of how good i looked.
It must be that you are an asshole when u talk. Sure you should put yourself over women when talking but you need to understand that you should also show them that you like them. Dont be like idk about you all the time when you talk show them little love and give compliments(not too much though).
Mason Reed
So if you're a 5/10 then find yourself a 5/10 maybe make 7/10 babies.
You probably want Jennifer Lawrence looking bitch to suddenly confess her love for your dick like in your favorite hentai but get real
Samuel Reed
>I agree, I might be autistic >but being autist definitely isn't the main reason
yeah, you're right. My friend has an autistic brother and he gets mongoloid pussy all the time. Even autists get laid.
You are just the bottom of the barrel, the scum of the earth. You were born to lose the survival of the fittest, because your brain and body comprise all of the least likable traits a human could have. According to you, anyways, since you have tried everything at the ripe young age of 20 and already convinced nothing else will work.
You're so fucking dumb, its a crime. You are what school shooters are made of. Impossible man babies who can't find any answers to their problems, because they purposefully reject the most obvious answers.
Your genes wont make it and you won't leave any significant mark on the earth, just off your self my man.
Aiden Rivera
jlaw is a 5, people are crazy. Shes so fucking average looking