Just found out that the girl I've been seeing for about a year is a frequent poster on r/gonewild.
Some background: We are in a long distance, non-exclusive relationship. I have known her for ten years and we've been romantically involved for about a year now. We've met up twice this year, for about a week each. One time was to enlist her help in a project of mine, the second was to get her set up in a proper studio to record her music, a project which I bankrolled.
While we've never talked about "boyfriend/girlfriend" labels, I feel like it's sort of implied that we are together. We talk every night via skype and stay in constant communication throughout the day. She has never "gone wild" on webcam for me and our talks at night are usually to catch up on our days rather than a sexy romp.
I checked her post history after I came across a recent post of hers on gw while I was fapping earlier today. It looks like she started posting the week that was got into a big fight and I didn't speak to her for about four days. She's since been posting almost every week.
I'm not really sure what to do or how to feel. Part of me is shocked, she's never shared with me this streak of exhibitionism and certainly never mentioned these posts to me. I don't feel like I have any right to be mad at her either, because we've never had "The Talk" so expectations have never been made clear.
I'm confused, sad, and jealous all at the same time. What advice can you guys give me? Pic related, it's her verification post for GW.
Andrew Reyes
Self-Bump I guess.
Andrew Taylor
She's using you man.
Cut her loose and find a better girl.
Seriously how could you bankroll her recording studio? What is wrong with you?
Nicholas Morgan
UPDATE: After some digging, I've just discovered that's apparently carrying on an "arrangement" with someone else. Some sort of BDSM thing where she's a kitten to some guy who's her Master. She started a blog about it a couple of weeks ago...keptkittendotcom
Now I'm really not sure what to do. Like I said, we've never agreed to be exclusive so it's not like I can be angry at her for seeing someone else. I guess long-distance really is too much for her? Am I not doing enough on my part to see her? I was going to talk to her over the holidays about becoming more serious and now that I know there's someone else in the mix, I'm less secure in what her answer might be.
Should I even bring this up? Should I step up, man up and "lock that down" so to speak? I really care about her and, if I admit it to myself, I do love her. I don't know if I'm into the BDSM thing though, so that might not be a need I can satisfy.
This has been a long night. I hope I don't discover anything else. Maybe I should stop digging.
William Lee
My work is in audio engineering and production, and so part of the studio work was to get some high quality audio samples from her to use in my projects as truth data. The fact that we got anything for her was actually a bonus, and a testament to her really.
Cameron Anderson
the shitty tattoo and the words, 'poster on reddit' was a dead give away, shes not a keeper.
calculate your loses and find out what do you want from the relation ship. if you guys have zero plans to move closer, then you'll just be her surrogate boyfreind, giving you all the problems and stress of dealing with a girl with out getting sex outtta it. she gets her emotional stuff from you and if your into just emotions, like a girl, then fine have your fake girl friend.
I say make a trip to go on a real date in person, if it sucks and you feel like it ain't working in a real deal world, cut it off. If it goes good, re think shit again.
Ethan Sullivan
dude, run. she's a fucking furry to boot, thinks she's a kitten. get out of this notrelationship before you're stuck cleaning the litterbox
Justin Gray
oh kek, thats funny annon, you just fucked up.
that shit is like of she found your porn history. her kink is exhibitionism and shit, yours is traps i assume cus of Sup Forums, if she saw all your cp and traps and african BBW she would ask the same questions. think about it.
also alot of master slave shit isnt even sex. its a weird brain thing, girls are bad porn and are weird.
Jaxon Brooks
What this guy said.
There is no trust or honesty here, which means there never will be. And don't try to be friends until you're fucking someone else on the regular.
Lucas Gray
OPs day is getting worst by the minute.
Ethan Campbell
We have met, twice, in the real world and she's an absolute doll. I'm also about 20 years her senior (she's 27 and I'm 45) [yeah make fun of me all you want for being 45 and on Sup Forums, I just wanted an anonymous forum to discuss this okay?].
I introduced her to some of my closest friends, many of whom are industry people, and she handled herself with grace and aplomb. Shitty hipster tattoo aside, she's honestly a treasure.
I live a secluded, private life, and have the kind of asshole pretentious personality that not too many women have or would put up with for long. She's very patient, kind, and understanding.
I suppose these are all signs that I want her, clearly. Should I take this as a sign that she is in somewhat demand and that I should move quickly to secure her?
Benjamin Sanders
is she litrally drinking out of a water bowl??
Brody Hall
>long distance, non-exclusive relationship :D
>get her set up in a proper studio to record her music, a project which I bankrolled XD
>I feel like it's sort of implied that we are together Please stop, you're killing me lol
>What advice can you guys give me? Nigga... just wow. You're beyond pathetic. My advice is kill yourself. Is this a YLYL thread? Because I lost really hard here.
Bentley Cook
taken from her blog....yeah I don't think you two are in any sort of relationship, bud
James Scott
You should talk with her about this and let her know you're interested in a relationship with her. If she shuts you down just move on. Wouldn't be fair to the other guy if you didn't.
Connor Ross
Move quickly?
Dude, she's already getting buttfucked by some dom. She literally said that she wished she could learn to sculpt because his features deserve to be cast in marble, shortly before comparing him to Caesar.
What you need to do is not spend anymore goddamn money on her, ffs.
Alexander Young
That's comedy gold.
Luke Miller
yo so you didn't mention that she's also posting recordings of her getting off on r/gonewildaudio....does that not disturb you??
Ian Peterson
1) You said you're in a "non-exclusive relationship" so why is any of this bothering you? Are you sure it's not one sided on your part and you're the creepy stalker?
2) You're posting her pics on here as well as a link to her private blog so it shows what a catch you are
assuming this isn't a troll and you're actually real, you're super pathetic
Samuel Brown
Lmao he should just stop because he cant handle being just a fuckbuddy and there is no honest communication between them
Dylan Barnes
you want to pursue her romatically? just read her blog b/ro, she doesn't want romance kek
Gabriel Gutierrez
>I've known her for 10 years >She's 27 I'm 45 OP wtf why would a 35 yr old man get to know a 17 yr old girl
Adam Moore
1. It's not necessarily bothering me so much as it is making me question if I have been remiss in avoiding commitment for so long. I fear I may have lost my chance.
2. To be fair, these pictures are public, as is her blog.
Nolan Baker
you can't insist on exclusiveness, but you are still part of the relationship so if you don't like what she does, feel free to leave, as you too, are in no way obliged to do anything for her. I'd leave and look for someone better than her, because it seems she's basically just a camwhore, using people to get what she wants, but it's up to you. Just know that, simply because you have no "right" to change her, it doesn't mean you have to put up with her either.
Austin Fisher
Well, ROUGHLY ten years. Closer to nine. I might be a creep, but I'm not that kind of creep.
Henry Brown
And a follow up, what would cause you to reconnect 9 years later?
Nathan Smith
If the reason you are staying is because you are lonely then you are about to have a shitty rest of your life. There are more women in the world. She doesn't even seem interested in being in relationship; If you guys aren't exclusive after a year. Just move on. Try to meet people and stop being lonely. That will probably help with being an pretentious asshole at the same time.
Robert Adams
you fell in love with a whore and met her twice in a year, each time giving her what seems like a substantial amount of money and (i'm assuming) had sexual relations with her
prostitute - noun - a person, typically a woman, who engages in sexual activity for payment.
sound familiar? sound like what happened between you and her? well if it doesn't, it should. the fact that you say "wuv u boo boo xDDD xDDDD xDDDD" over the internet doesn't change a thing about it. she's a whore, a literal hooker, and you've fallen in love with said floozy
snip it off before it grows into something truly hideous, OP. just pretend i'm a second conscience of yours saying the same thing you've already been telling yourself
Nolan Howard
this.
I would keep her around as a fuckbuddy but OP sounds like a pussy bitch who wants a church girl who never blows him. he can't handle a piece like this.
tl;dr OP is fag
BTW - i don't think a girl like this likes "nice guys", if your being "nice" your being walked all over IMO
Kayden Morgan
oh you idiot... she is going to break your heart.
she is into you clearly for the daddy issues, you believe in her music and your kind and listen and show her off to your cool friends. she thinks of you 'like a really cool dude'. not to mention the shit anons are digging up on her blog about how she doesn't understand love? she is messed up homie. I was ok with the internet tits and BDSW but common man.
she is going to wreck you. sorry bro, ive been trying to ease into it, but this is going to end really badly. your going to see her one more time, lean into a kiss, and god knows how she is going to react.
Alexander Williams
We have stayed in contact over the years and it was around this time last year that she came to me with some recent music she had been working on. My partner really dug it and since we have to listen to the same sample countless times over in our R&D, we used one of her songs as the sample. I decided to offer my services to her and involve her in my music mastering project and as we talked, a deeper relationship blossomed.
Luke Brooks
>While we've never talked about "boyfriend/girlfriend" labels, I feel like it's sort of implied that we are together. We talk every night via skype and stay in constant communication throughout the day. She has never "gone wild" on webcam for me and our talks at night are usually to catch up on our days rather than a sexy romp.
See this? This is where you fucked up. Lick your bruised ego and stop assuming shit like this. You're more than likely DEEP in the friendzone.
Jose Fisher
Let's be clear, I don't think OP ever explicitly said that they banged.
For all we currently know, he is an ATM laboring under the delusion that they are "romantically" involved, which judging by her commentary on romance, is just wishful thinking.
Alexander Cook
I think it s a b8
William Morris
The only right answer is to move on. Grow some fucking balls
Brayden Howard
well, if that is the case, then that's significantly more pathetic, and my recommendations apply tenfold
Jack Davis
Just go fuck her
David Sanders
its amazing how certain people will be nice to you when you have something they want. It seems you want more than she does - it should always be the otherway
tl;dr OP is still fag
Cooper Bailey
Seriously just go visit her and fuck her brains out
Brayden Lee
errrr.. does she live in texas by any chance?
Noah Bailey
so all I need to do is call her kitten, let her call me master, tell her that her music is ok and then I get to fuck her? cool
Anthony Reed
Have you even fucked her?
Christopher Hughes
Show feet
Kevin Anderson
RIP quads
John Jackson
We have had sex, more than once.
Brayden White
this whole thing has got to be bait
an elaborate hoax, the brainchild of some VERY bored and VERY lonely basement dweller
if not, then we've strayed even further from God than i could have imagined
Jack Sanchez
yo OP, seriously.. does she live in texas?
Xavier Murphy
>r/gonewild Get the fuck out of here with your /r/eddit bullshit drama.
Matthew Hughes
not OP, but her bandcamp says that she's based in Austin, TX
Jace Watson
or some whore looking to find a sucker pretending to be a sucker. it gets deep man...
Chase Cook
You don't get to have a say, bro.
Her body. Her choice.
Either leave her or let her do her thang.
It's 2016. Women have power.
Easton Hill
Why is nobody repeating this?
OP was NEVER in a relationship with this girl, ever. He was her pen pal and bank account and he couldn't see through it.
Levi Lopez
>met twice in real life so twice? so just keep doing that and don't ruin it. just stop giving her money and show up in person more, if shes still into bangin you then well enjoy it, but if she gets upset at you for not giving her more shit, then well you figured out why it wont work.
Isaiah Ortiz
if her names kat then i fucked this girl twice in october. sorry dude.
Isaiah Thomas
>We are in a long distance, non-exclusive relationship stopped reading here. gr8 b8 m8 i r8 8/8 have a (you) anyways
Justin Lewis
OP, from what you typed it sounds like you were never actually in a relationship with this girl and assumed because you two talked frequently that she was your girlfriend.
You're disillusioned as fuck. All you've done is pay for her interests. She definitely doesn't think you're romantically interested in her at all, you've only proven to her that you're a doormat
Justin Cook
Alright, divide the total amount of money you have spent on her by the number of times you have had sex with her. Quotient is how much she costs as a prostitute. Go ahead and post that calculation for us. If above 200, you are getting ripped off.
Gabriel Gray
Sent her a PM to this thread.
I know this is bait, but I'm interested to see what kind of response she'll throw to this.
Michael Peterson
this guy is just being used for a record contract, that shit is common as fuck.
Liam Garcia
Yeah, hi. Not OP but can you give us a little context here?
Jaxson Lewis
White knight cuck
Jason Evans
She goes by Kat. We were really on the outs towards the end of October, too. When I get upset, I tend to pull the silent treatment and I didn't talk to her for about four days.
I'm not really sure what to say. Are you two still regularly seeing each other? You wouldn't be this "Master" of hers?
Jacob Russell
WHAT THE FUCK AM I READING RIGHT NOW!?
Colton Wright
Hi strange cat fetish lady, you have ok tits.
David Watson
kek this is a great thread.
Jack Collins
god, imagine if she comes in and starts posting timestamped pics and requests. OP will be fucking shattered.
Connor Nguyen
to be completely honest, i don't know. she's into dom shit and she used to call me that when we were fucking around. like when i choked her and shit. i didn't think it was too weird because well.. she asked me to choke her.. so.. yeah..
Zachary Jenkins
and sorry, to answer we aren't regularly seeing each other. she was taking pictures of a show my buddy was doing. we fucked a couple of times and then i stopped returning her texts.
i'm not going to lie, this is kind've surreal.
Levi Powell
OP don't respond to Searching through her post history for 1 minute on reddit, she's stated she goes by Kat in several posts. This is easily accessible information that you're being baited with.
Then again this whole thread is bait.
Noah Adams
stop talking about securing her, you idiot. just talk regularly with her like a normally adjusted adult. bring it up without being a bitch. say yeah I was jackin it and found you on gonewild. teipped me out, can we talk about it? I liked your pics (cause you did, you even jacked off to them faggot don't lie)" and tell her how you feel. keep in mind you arent in a relationship with her unless I read wrong as I casually glanced through the thread. in the end keep things cool with her. whatever. faggot.
Henry Miller
I didn't have sex with anyone in October. It was a cold and lonely moth. Stop yer trollin. Thanks, I think they're pretty ok too. You are a 45 year old man. Why are you looking to Sup Forums for answers? We can continue this conversation over skype.
Eli Nelson
Holy shit she has a terrible skin
Hudson Foster
...
Brayden Ortiz
THIS FUCKING THREAD
Oliver Martinez
no wonder all of her pictures are of her in the dark.
Nolan Campbell
OH SHIT BASED
Hunter Mitchell
Holy shit dis gon be good
Evan Bailey
Status: HAPPENING!
So, how right was I with this post? Summed it up pretty well, no?
Lincoln Ramirez
I'm unconvinced. Sharpie in pooper.
Juan Howard
>45 year old man
Isaiah Flores
I prefer this angle of you to your face tbh but, 2 questions 1. Have you ever met a razor? 2. Did you ever "earn" your tail?
Jackson Gonzalez
HOLY FUCKING SHIT
Robert Young
..is that a worm on her asshole?
Luis Miller
i know.. although to be fair though, all of your information is pretty accessible.. i found your facebook, your flickr, and all that shit through your soundcloud page (where you listed your real fucking name) which you linked to your gone wild account.
y'know.. it doesn't make a whole lotta sense creating a private reddit account if you're gonna link it to your real name anyways. you should really batton down the hatches if you're gonna be whorin' it up over the internet.
Aiden James
bahah. This thread reminds me why I keep coming back here. Thanks crazy cat lady and pathetic user
Grayson Morgan
that's a hemorrhoid, user
Jace Rodriguez
Does this belong to you?
Isaiah Evans
looks like she can fit a whole lot more in there than a sharpie b/ro
Asher Anderson
...
Bentley Barnes
Valiant effort. You managed to convince me.
Colton Bell
dam girl u got a big pussy lol I could fit my skull inside that thing haha
Daniel Miller
this thread needs to be archived as a warning to all about the risks of social media relationships.
Michael Foster
We're archiving this shit yeah?
Jaxson Scott
ay i bet you could give a reverse birth ahahahahahah
Wyatt Myers
Epic shit
Jose Martinez
> We've met up twice this year, for about a week each. > [...] >I feel like it's sort of implied that we are together
Man, be careful. This sounds like your brain might play some tricks on you. You are obviously in love with her, but maybe your brain tricks you to believe it's mutual?
Best way to find out is probably to go to some neutral, public place, maybe a cafe, and have an open chat regarding feelings. Do not try to convince her to anything, if you want an open, honest answer from her. If she does not want to meet, then you have your answer already. (if that's the case, sorry then :-(. )
Benjamin Morris
fb: katherine.donovan.180
for posterity.
Dominic Collins
SHUT THE FUCK UP AND READ WHAT'S GOING ON HERE.
Thomas Clark
music: 6 tits: 6 face: 6 kek: 10
Austin Brown
it says in her reddit comments that Katherine gehl donovan is a pseudonym, can anyone figure out what her real name is?