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Hey Sup Forums,

Can anyone give me advice on how to get away with cheating on my girlfriend that I live with?

I am planning to meet up with a chick I made out with at a bar last weekend. My hope is to get her to invite me over/invite myself over to her place. Any idea how to execute this smoothly? Where should I meet up with the girl to start with?

I'm trying to smash new girl once and then cut if off.

Also, any tips on not getting caught or possible excuses to my woman are also good.
Share experiences if you have them.

I have a few thoughts about the subject, but I want to get some more advice before I begin the mission.

I already know it was stupid to live with my girlfriend, but it was to save money on rent and avoid a weird roommate like last year.

women will always find out and once she does youre fucked
its better to not do it

New girl seems like she's down to fuck on the first date, so thoughts on where I can take her initially and how to transition to her place would be lovely.

I have a good excuse. I usually go out with the guys on a certain day and stay out late. I can use it in this scenario as long as I don't overuse it. Also I'm going home for break the day after, so if I get a hickey or scratches I can probs play it off.

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Why do you wanna fuck her ? Do you need a selfesteem boost ? You know that your life doesnt depend on sex. Cheating will only dirten your picture of yourself more. You wont find anything in a sexual encounter based on a lie. The only thing thats down this road is depression. Talk to your girlfriend, try to find pure happiness with her. If you cant you can still fuck around as much if you want. But dont pull others into the abyss of your weak self counciousness, because thats what its feeding from

Yeah I was kind of just hoping for some adventure and a little self-esteem boost. I don't think I'll feel too guilty or get rattled.

I just want to enjoy my youth.

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I dont know where the“ fucking a lot= enjoying youth“ thing comes from. You should work on finding real adventures, go hiking or something, also your selfesteem shouldnt depend on sex (neither on a realationship). Go inside yourself and ask yourself if you really need this. Know the diogenes=übermensch meme ? Its basicaly true

Dude, it's pretty fun for me. I can do other things like hike as well. I just miss the adventure of being with new women.

Obviously I plan on using protection. Just as an added note, my girlfriend may be moving back to her home country with her family in May anyway (family issues).

If its really what you want, then itts time to tell your girlfriend. Like i said dont pull her down. Ifyou want the secure feeling and the adventure of beeing with new women this is the wrong way, the only right way to do this is a open realationship. If you cant live without fucking around and your girlfriend dont want this kind of thing you two should sepperate

*the secure feeling of beeing in a realationship

I think an open relationship is out of the question. I have to respectfully disagree. I think this is just something I need to get out of my system, not necessarily end the relationship.

Do you really believe having random sex will get random sex out of your brain permanently ? I tried that, i cheated on my ex countless times, everything i wrote,i had to learn the hard way

I suppose you're right. I appreciate hearing about your experience. However, I think I'm still going to risk this. It's just a grass is greener on the other side scenario. I'm fairly happy already, I just feel a bit bored with my living situation. If it does end up happening, I will try to keep it just once and rein it in.

How long did it take you to get caught?

I dont believe youll find anything on the other side, but if you need to go this way i wish you the best for it and hope you can walk it proud without hurting or instrumentalising anyone. Just remember thst some stranger on a site full of gayporn and pony r34 told you that caring for others is the way to true selfesteem and a step towards pure happiness. That said im gonna fap to said pony r34 now. Take care user

Ask yourself, how would you feel if she was doing the same to you? If you would be hurt by it, then don't fucking do it

But that's life, isn't it? I certainly won't be rubbing it in her face.

I hope you get herpes

Ok, I'm out. I forgot that everyone on Sup Forums is now a moralfag