What do I do Sup Forumsros? I love her and I don't wanna fuck this up and become a neet

What do I do Sup Forumsros? I love her and I don't wanna fuck this up and become a neet.

tell her to show you her tits, send her a pic of your dick with mustard on it and say suck on daddy's big ol' corndog dick.

do you know what a neet is?

That's her telling you to go away because she's too much of a sissy to actually tell you to go away. Been there had that happen plenty of times. It's not worth your time to fight it when she's already made up her mind but is too chicken to tell you.

At least she's willing to say she doesn't want anything instead of doing the usual radio silence.

It's over dude
The way to go from here is to cut all contact from her, put all her picture on a flash drive and wipe all from your phone/computer. Don't make then easy to access

She may even try and get back with you when she realizes you not there for her anymore. Don't fall for it. Just let her go. Someone else will come along in less than a year. Don't talk about her anymore, especially to new girls of interest

this, she's trying to be nice

now ask for tits or just go fuck her sister

or brother

Say the following:

"Okay, look. I've had a minute to think about it and you're right. Maybe a relationship isn't the best idea. I think we should stay in contact though. We might as well be friends still."

Boom. Now you have more time to make HER fall in love with YOU you stupid fucking nigger. That's how this shit works. Man shows interest in girl, then acts like he doesn't give a fuck about her. The girl then needs to prove herself to said man and make him fall in love with her, thus causing her to fall in love with him. That's how relationships work. Even if you adore this girl - or any girl - you never NEVER admit it until you're at the altar.

Be friends. Be apathetic about the whole loving her thing, only ever admit to liking her personality or something a friend would say.

Show up pics
I wanna see what your so obsessed over

It's over dude, move on

she thinks your a wuss

He is a fucking wuss. Like most of us.

Sooner he gets his heart broken the sooner he gets redpilled on how relationships work and how women really are.

Don't do this. That's stupid.

I know this might be scary to do, OP, but your best chance is to just tell her you want to take a break too for a while. It immediately reasserts yourself as not being the one who is desperate to cling to her, and as a dominant figure that women like. If you really were that great she will miss and want you back, and will be able to go back since she isn't then 'changing her mind and being weak', but she's 'taking back what she wants' like a good strong BS feminist modern female loves.

You have to tell her firmly that you think you both need a break, then masterfully manouver from there. NO woman is impossible to manipulate. Normies are dumb af and putty to the right mindset.

>"Okay, look. I've had a minute to think about it and you're right. Maybe a relationship isn't the best idea. I think we should stay in contact though. We might as well be friends still."

This or just stop talking to her altogether and post pics on facebook with you and someone hotter than her

1. She feels like a burden - that's a sign of depression or anxiety.

2. Tell her straight, if that's what she really wants you will respect it and then limit contact with her. She will think it's the right thing to do at first but she'll be back a week or so later.

3. She might just not like you. Go to 2, if she doesn't like you, she won't waste your time any longer.

Tell her you're afraid you might cut yourself tonight if she doesn't love you like your mommy does. You could end up in the hospital!

dude gtfo. gtfo out now before she fucks you over with feels. a girl did the same thing to me like a month ago and said she wasnt ready or whatever. It ruined my life trying to hold on to her and i just ended up talking to a girl who was way hotter and my life is a lot better bc she doesnt give me bullshit. But yeah enough said if shes not "ready" it means she doesnt care. dont worry tho man shit will get better

The problem with this is yesterday she told me due to her "mental issues" we should break apart and just stay as friends. I put up with it for a day and wanted to fucking kill myself because of it. In her head we aren't dating anymore as is. wat do

The ONLY way this has any chance of working is if she agrees for some reason (which she won't) and you immediately start banging a different hotter girl whose obsessed with you. At which point, you wouldn't even want the ex back

She's fucking someone else. I know it hurts but you have to move on man. In a month or two she will be publicly dating that guy and you're gonna need to be ready for that as well. You'll find another don't waste as many sleepless nights as I did blaming yourself and wishing you could fix it.

You're comma splicing like a maniac there, OP.
Be careful, girls can misconstrue the simplest of meanings almost so effortlessly it starts to come off as purposeful, and evil.
Just fix it!

Stop now. You've already said and done way too much. She already knows anything you can say and really doesn't want to be with you.

It doesn't matter what she thinks in her head, you have to tell her what's what. That's what men do. It is so easy to manipulate people into believing and doing whatever you want, just be incredibly confident that your plan will work. It's your BEST course of action, even if it's not ASSURED. Stop being a little pussy beta bitch "wat do wat do problem is though, omg wat do, I can't try this she alre-" blah blah, you sound like a girl dude. Stop being a beta faggot and do what we're telling you. This is why she doesn't love you in the first place.

>You'll find another
And user lived happily ever after without being fucked over by the female equivalent of Chad.

True shit, I started dating my girlfriend after she broke up with her ex. Eventually started talking to her less, and she started talking with me. That's how you get a girl the simple way. Become someone important to them and then pull away a little, they'll realize they like you.

she's already fucking another guy.

Beg and plead and whine. Offer to just be her sex slave and wear a collar and a French maid's getup and clean her toilet for her and drive her to dates with real men. And fluff her pussy before she fucks other guys, and clean her up afterwards. And love love love her yummy!

Shit works every time. She'll melt.

she looks like a slut. nice hair + glasses = classic slut combo

call her a nigger, trips confirms this is the right thing to do.

the cuckening.

Lol, "smart is sexy"
>doesn't even have bad eye sight
It only works on pornstars, and very few at that

>Please talk to me
Game over user, no girl wants a whiny bitch

she is cheating on you, time to move on

Lol I did the same thing once. Just have to unfriend on fb and move along. I let that shit drive me into the ground for a really long time too. We were together 6 yrs, she did some really horrible things to me and I was too much of a retard to do anything about it. Lesson learned after that. Fortunately from what I've heard the girl got pretty fat so there is that.

homie its over, even fi you do get back together it will last days and you'll get worse. trust fam.

Just said this and she said, "You sure??" I don't understand women enough to know what this means.

you already fucked up when you said she wasn't perfect.
You could try something like "I can't get my mind off of you, you're the most amazing girl I've ever met and I want to do whatever I can to make this work, even if it means taking it slow and seeing how things work out."

she's not nasty enough to tell you straight that she doesn't want to bang you. Game's over mate, find yourself another girl.

Have had to do it a few times. The first time is always the hardest.

sounds like a narcisist who wants attention

Tell her "THe only thing I'm sure about is that I want to keep seeing you. You light up my life and I would want nothing more than to be there with you"

It's done brotha, sorry.

Anything you do or insist will just make your value lower in her eyes. Let her go and watch how she comes back months later. Then, you decide what you want to do.

Only thing to do as of now is begin your mourning process. I prefer to do it with lots of booze, sluts, and friends, but to each their own.

she's getting dick from sooooooooooomeone else

sounds like you played her at her own game. well played user

And you can add "if you don't feel the same, then that's ok. but I think I'll need some time for myself to sort stuff out. Talk to you later?"

this shit happened to me not more than a week ago OP, it will not get better, we got back together for a couple days and she moved back to her ex, and maybe she is a burden on you but you may have blinded yourself with a false love like I have. You'll be ok, you wont turn into a neet, you'll find someone else.

You're hopless user.You are clearly socially retarded and she can do way better. You should have instantly known to say 'Yes' without delay and diddying about, like a real man would. You have no confidence and are not assertive. Imo you should either say nothing because you hesitated and leave her hanging or you should have a gender change and let guys fuck you instead, because girls don't like floppy betas.

it means that she didn't expect it and she's afraid that she cant play you no more. as in, your response has affected her self esteem because she thought she had the upper hand until now.

You're obviously undatable. Got a teeny weenie? Or did you ejaculate prematurely one time too many. Seriously, why'd she dump your ass? Deep down, you know the real reason, but it's so damn hard to even admit it to yourself. It's hard to face being a loser. But you'd feel better if you just admit it here, now, to us. Trust me.

Now what the fuck happened to your happy little relationship, user? You fucked up! How?

Phew, boner-inducing appearance

>And you can add "if you don't feel the same, then that's ok. but I think I'll need some time for myself to sort stuff out. Talk to you later?"

Don't add anything when you're winning. Don't ever ask anything as a question 'Talk to you later?' sounds like you're still trying to subtly cling like a cuckfag

Happened to me recently, you're better than that mate. Will hurt like fuck at first but you'll get over that shit. I was seeing this girl for ages and I asked her to be my girlfriend, she kept avoiding an answer. Finally asked her to give me one weeks later to which she said the same shit as your girl, never felt worse. Days later - never felt better. Don't think about her. Block her from everything so you don't see her, trust me daddy

so what is happening now OP?
no more drama?

op firstly, youre doing this over facebook. It's already a joke of a relationship. Secondly look at your responses compared to hers...that's a nono. lastly...you are seeming desperate to keep someone unwilling around you need to reassess you life. You dont need another person to make yourself worth something op.

the more upset you seem over her NOT wanting a relationship is solidifying that its NOT going to work in the future.

tell her adios and go poke something else.

>You sure??
yeah dude, women can hurt you incredibly bad and with little effort. that's one cringey, cruel, snarky, bitch-grade, two word response. you should stop fucking texting this cunt. there are better girls out there. dude, does she even play video games? huh? nah I bet not

don't say "talk to you later?"

for the love of anything

Fair enough. Valid points. Scratch those.

Now wait ten minutes then ask for a pity-fuck.

seems reasonable

She plays a good bit of Nintendo. But she's way more of a movie fan like myself. Anyways doesn't matter, we're seemingly just friends now. I stopped replying to her after she said "Thank you for understanding."
I'm just gonna go eat something, find a porn flick and sleep.

Word

ay lmao what a bitch
don't you want revenge at least?
she probably won't e your friend anyway

I can't. I'm not ready for a relationship
>with you

The second chad thundercock shows up, she'll just jump on his dick like "hey i think i'm ready"

what they all said, she is too scared to tell you she inst interested.
Bugging her will just make her less interested

girls know in first 10 min if they would fuck you, trying to work from friend to lover is stupid and dangerous

Yeah I'm aware of this user, I'm just waiting for it to happen so I can get over it sooner now at this point

This indeed.

Take the hint OP. She doesn't want you anymore. Now don't embarrass yourself any further by sending any more messages to her.

first thing I thought after entering the thread

I mean, not much you can do. You can just accept it and move on, but remain friends if possible. Sounds like she probably wants to fuck around. You should too.

She's trying to edge a response outta me saying she's sorry. Kek

With so many women in the world, how do you even get hung up on one bitch who makes shit difficult? Move on

Had a similar experience myself. Girl said doesn't want a relationship and that I deserve better. Moves to neighboring state to go back to college (has gone back and forth for a while) immediately gets a bf kek

she already has men she knows lined up in her head... your just not her TYPE and it wouldnt work anyways, someone else will be

the way you sound makes you look like a pussy in her eyes, you try to be delicate with your words instead of being straight up.
Thats the reason she's not telling you "fuck off" straight up, "I'm not ready for a relationship" is her being nice to you. Unless you're both in your 30's then there is no such thing as not being ready. She needs that dick as much as you need that pussy. Tell her what you want her to know, fucking around the bush gives mixed reactions, she doesn't know what you want.
Don't be a beta, go in for the kill

for real nigga? or not OP?

Fuck that! Now go make moves on her friends

She recently moved to my town and of all her friends I've met only one was a girl. But she's my bro's gf so I'm not gonna do that to him.

"I'm not ready for a relationship" is girl talk for "I have feelings for someone else", abort mission.

shit in your hands and rub it on your chest

Literally the first thread I've seen like this where OP didn't act like a sniffling little bitch and broke the girl off instead.

Well played, OP.

You just dodged a landmine of crazy and needy.

Don't do this. This guy is a virgin and has never been in a relationship.

I know it sucks, but it's already over. Sorry, Sup Forumsro

Just be done with it ffs. She's not interested so go find one who is. You're only wasting your own time with her.

Actually Sup Forumsros. One more inquiry, she has this thing with elephants, they help with her anxiety problems, and I drew a sketch and colored it then printed it onto a board. Should I just keep it for now and see if she comes back or just give it to her for Christmas as planned?

Move on.

But knowing you, user, you'll do the complete opposite of the majority of the advice here.

Gonna need some
>green

This is bullshit straight out of some pick up seminar for loser college students. Real life doesn't work like Hollywood. Healthy people don't prove themselves or play games. OP clearly needs to move on before he looks any more desperate.

If you're gonna keep it, give it to her only once she fucked other guys and realizes she wants you.

Who cares? Stop being a doormat and go find someone who wants to be with you. And "nice guys" finish last so just be real.

Nice guys don't finish last. Pussies that are afraid to be a man and flirt finish last.