So i've been taking care of my third cousin for about 5 months now...

So i've been taking care of my third cousin for about 5 months now, her dad is in jail and her mom has drug/financial issues. She was supposed to stay with my parents but she just got attached to me.

My problem is that she calls me daddy now she's 7 years old and somehow despite her situation she's an angel, always cuddling (she often falls asleep with me in my bed and I have to bring her to her own) never goes into fits etc.

Am I a cuck? I'm only 23 and I otherwise live alone. I'm getting too attached.

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As long as you don't molest her, it sounds like you're doing an important job. She needs stability and love. Non-sexual love. Remember, don't molest her.

>le epic 7yo gril story bait thread xDDD
>inb4 le epic pretend outrage xDDDD
>inb4 le constant bumps by pedos hoping for child porn xDDDDD

she's cute, but any perv thoughts that randomly might pop into your head went away after life the third day naturally. This situation has at least convinced me i'm not a pedophile

early on I was a little nervous because she's really lovable and kisses a lot, and one of her favorite games is where she gets me to hold her as tight as I can and she tries to wiggle out.

>No one believes you

You're an important father figure for her. Don't ruin her life anymore user. Just love her like she's your own daughter. Trust me,soon if you get old and dying she will taking care of you

Convert yourself to islam and marry her when she will be 9 yo

You should molest her a few times just to see if you like it

Sup nigga, I be dat Kris Handsum from Dateline B.E.T and we doin' a story on niggas who be fuckin' dem lil chirrin and shit. Sit cho monkey ass down right der, yo.

at least taste her pussy once

I'm worried she'll lose attachment with her real parents though. As bad as it sounds I don't think they are hopeless, somehow she turned out sweet under their care after 7 years anyway.

The thing is I can't bring myself to correct her and make her call me uncle or something.

You're stability in a very unstable period of her life. Your actions will mold the person she becomes.

Don't fuck it up.

>My problem is that she calls me daddy now she's 7 years old
She wants the cock. What a dirty little whore!

People are stupid. You're providing stability which she needs now more than ever. Just continue to be a good father figure and the rest will sort itself out.

Whats the problem? Doesn´t sound like you see it as a chore and she´s happy. Don´t molest her and everything is fine.
This whole "i´m getting too attached" thing is just stupid. As if being independent was so important that you shouldn´t ever attach yourself to something because it would make you sad if it disappeared.
Bonuspoints because shes a child and not going to betray you like many women would.

Moh the pedophile married at six, fucked at 9

I'm worried because I have no real experience with kids prior to this, didn't even have a younger sibling.

The closests thing to parenting i'm doing besides just playing and providing for her is having her watch old disney cartoons and stuff on VHS/DVD instead of watching TV. But she's so hyper she wouldn't sit infront of the thing for long anyway.

fuck her right in the pussy

Then make sure she knows that they are her parents. Just lie to her and say they can't be with you right now because of x

her mom still see's her at least three times a week. She doesn't seem to dislike her but when she shows up she'd rather stay at my house then have her mom spend time alone with her going to get food or shopping or whatever they might do.

Seriously at this point you are a father figure. The reoffense rate in US is rocket high. Look for more parenting resource but you are really doing gods work here user. Proud of you.

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usagi drop this shit.

For her that seems to be more than enough, though, right?

Get involved in her schooling. Try to look into temporary guardianship if you can. Take her to parks, zoos, etc. if you can afford it. If your parents were supposed to have taken her surely they can pitch in a few bucks for outings, right?

Don't listen to this faggot. OP, fuck that tight virgin pussy before she hits puberty all you want since she won't get pregnant.

can i babysit her?

If she doesn't really want to be with her real parents, you won't really do her a favor by trying to force her to like them

Op, you are a good guy

Trips brah

I don't want to take their kid away even if I love her. I'm single and a kid needs a mom and dad, preferably her real ones. I don't want her mom to just give up because she thinks i've permanently adopted her or something.

go back to red dittt faggit

10/10 post

I don't think she dislikes them though, she doesn't dislike my parents either, she just got really attached to me early on for some reason.

I hardly even saw her before this.

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what is this

I'm not saying this is the case but just because she is a sweet girl, doesn't mean her parents are good people. She might be sweet because she doesn't want to be like her parents.
Sidenote: I don't think it would be a bad thing to treat her as a daughter she obviously needs support and you obviously want to give it. Don't worry about being attached, just be there for her.

First off, FORGET traditional family roles. You ARE her dad, and so is her dad...If she FEELS that, then you are IT. And don't EVER feel cucked, that's the societal bullshit, you shoulkd be proud and happy and thank your mom for those loving nurturing non-pedo DAD feelings...it means you came out right...keep it up user and help her fiond the road to healthy and happy and unlike many here you can feel like fucking actually DID something. You are a contributing human being to this fucked up world helping and not hurting, part of the solution and not the problemk and all that shit...

As far as her real parents, never down talk them to her and always encourage her to love them...let her know that people aren't perfect, including you, and that she has to be strong and keep her eyes and ears open and never let it bring her down, because you will ALWAYS be there for her.

7yos are heavy sleepers so you could always get a taste of loli pussy without her knowing about it. That way she will never know and still have lots of trust in you
Preteen cunt must taste like heaven

>but any perv thoughts that randomly might pop into your head

BUT YOU HAD THEM! BURN HIM!

Help her with homework
Don't let her sit at a computer for more than 2 hours a day
Give plenty of affection so she has no Daddy issues
Try to instill a wonder of the world in her
Don't let boys fuck her over(teach her before about guys)
Don't ever be aggressive, teach her calm discussion

Go watch Stefan Molyneux parenting series on youtube

7 year olds are too small to have vaginal sex with

>Stefan Molyneux parenting

youtube.com/watch?v=EUTQSoMy04w

I'm not trying to raise her to want to kill her mom.

you got lucky, from 7 to 12 is a great age, less of the chores and all of the joy. just show her what you yourself think is important in life (also support her developing interests); shield her from what you think is harmful as good as you can (internet and media shit); try to be a good role model and be the best version you can be of yourself, for her- and yourself; try and provide stability and be predictable with rules and expectations best you can, never lie or willfully disappoint her; basically: don't fuck up this chance to replicate your own beliefs and values in this world, while also creating a being that will adore you for just being there for her. it's the most precious thing.

>Don't let boys fuck her over(teach her before about guys)
Advice for 7y.o. girls

Ask your parents for advice, try to be part of her life, no one is ever ready for this sort of responsibility, just do the best you can

Listen..sriously..if her mom gives up..she ISN'T a mom...and needs YOU even more...Her mom WON'T give up...not forever, but she may be absent and let you do a lot of the work of raising this girl while she hits bottom...but IF she really could give up on a beautiful wonderful kid like that, do you SERIOUSLY want her to be back in that person's care???

>Am I a cuck?

the girl fucking someone else behind your back? then fuck no, you're not a cuck. a retard maybe, but not a cuck.

What the hell has vaginal sex got to do with tasting her cunt.
He'd just be tasting heaven by licking her pussy

You're a good person OP, just continue the job and don't molest her

take her to Sup Forums and make sure she hates niggers before she hits puberty

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This.

Use the angle "if you really love me, you will let me. . .", them report back to us user. If that fails, send her back to mom, or you are a cuck!

Sauce?

i can't believe there are people out there like this. you disgust me.

Kys

This. Probably, someone got to her already. You won't be doing any other damage, because she is already damaged goods. Also, teach her to use Sup Forums, you owe her that much.

They treat raising children like fucking social experiments.

Op in all seriousness you have become her father figure. Not her biological dad, or anyone else - you.

You are the single most important person in her life. Girls need to have a good father figure or they end up with daddy issues - unable to make good relationships, being attracted to abusive scumbags, heavy drug use, the works. You seem like a good person and want to do the right thing so you will do fine.

Keep in mind she will reach an age where she starts acting like an adult in a child body ie puberty. Shes going to start flirting with you and youre going to question wtf is going on this is so wrong. THIS IS NORMAL. Girls flirt with their fathers. Its not a sexual thing, its not them wanting to be in a relationship. This is how they learn to form healthy romantic relationships in the future. If you are kind and sweet and funny to her flirting, she will mature to seek men who are exactly that. If you get weirded out and give her the cold shoulder and ignore her, shes going to learn thats its normal for her boyfriend to do this to her - we all know thats bad. Obviously dont fucking molest her you fuck that doesnt need any explaining.

Youre making a huge commitment here, be aware of that. Maybe she wont always live with you as she grows up. But she will always be seeing you as a father figure. Youre a very good person for doing this - you are literally shaping a little human being's life and it appears that you really want whats best for her. And no fuckhead helping raise your biological blood is not being a cuck she shares your fucking genes, you should feel honored to have that responsibility.

Oh and good fucking luck dude i mean it. Im not mature enough for that shit so i wouldnt want to be in your shoes but mad respect to you.

Not behind your back
>Is your girl fucking someone infront of you, to humiliate you and you get off on it?

If no, then you're not a cuck.
Cheating as an exsample is not cucking.

Never assume a kid needs both parents. I had a friend in high school who had neither parents. He just had a legal guardian, and he turned out just fine.

Why do you guys keep assuming I'm going to be caring for her forever? it's only been 5 months. Did she really imprint me being her father that much? She was attached to me before she was calling me dad.

This op. Idk if you are a pedofag but think of the damage it will do to this little girl, who relies on and trusts you so much. Take care of her op,

>never listen to overwhelming evidence and common sense. Listen to my anecdote of my friend who I think turned out okay.

you are living the dream.
let her sleep with you, and gently touch her body. nothing more. just enjoy her soft and warm body.
on the other case, try to turn her in your sexy toy.
nothing beats underage cunny.

Just treat her like you'd treat your own daughter, you're awesome OP!

You 2D fags will never know how much better it feels to have a little girl fall asleep in your arms and then you pick her up and tuck her in bed.

Your onahole shit will never do that.

a few more years and she will mature physically then when it's time to cash in and reap the rewards. she will suck ur balls dry while calling you daddy

If you are a deep sleeper be careful my cousin was touching me from around age 7 till she was cought by my girlfriend at age 10. It was embarrassing to find out she was like that with me luckily we are still close today with hardly nothing more hahappening after.

>Just treat her like you'd treat your own daughter,

I don't know how. I don't know if I will know how to add "structure" or whatever. She's just been a good girl. She does whatever few things I ask, doesn't throw fits, goes to sleep at a reasonable time etc. If she acts up I don't know how I would handle it.

I never expected my faith in humanity to be restored on Sup Forums, thanks dude, keep being a father for the girl!

why don't you let her sleep with you? are you a pedo?

>only 5 months

Nigga this is a 7 year old we are talking about. 5 months is like half a school year. Thats shits like eternity for a 7 year old. YES you have made that much of an imprint on her. Her real parents probably never did any of the shit youre doing for her so of course she is crazy attached to you and sees you as her father and rolemodel.

This is a child. You are thinking her mind operates as an adult but thats not the case. Shes at an extremely impressionable age where her mind begins to stop thinking in terms of magic (santa, easter bunny, the stork bringing babies) and begins thinking logically. Shes going to be learning a fuckload of shit and its now up to you to make sure its the right shit.

Again you probably wont always be taking care of her. Buts its safe to say you are now permanantly her father figure. Even if her parents take her back in or something, you can still visit her or take her to the zoo or to the movies or on nature walks or a fucking museum idk. Remember if shes not with you still she will cherish those outings more than anything in the entire world and you should be very warry of that. Those will be opprotunities to teach her about life and manners and to shape her into a nice woman rather than a slutty cuntbag bitch like shed turn out because of her parents otherwise.

>be careful of your 7 year old daughter molesting you

what? Why would a 7 year old do that? They haven't developed sexually.

>Your onahole shit will never do that.

what makes you think i don't tuck my onahole into bed when i'm done making love to it?

RESIST ANY SEXUAL TEMPTATION TOWARDS HER
GO ALPHA
GET A WOMAN (no rape tho) AND FUCK HER BRAINS OUT PERIODICALLY

Dude just keep looking after her and worst case Ontario adopt her. You basically missed all the early shitty parts of having a child, which is the baby stuff. It'd be like having a new best friend for a little bit and you can use her to pick up chicks, it's a win win

as soon as she hits 16 , slam that pussy

Because she was molested by her mom's stupid bf when she was little and she didn't tell us till me and my girlfriend talked to her.

your onahole can not fall asleep in your arms because it can not sleep.

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Are you the moms boyfriend? Be honest.

No I'm not that asshole I'm her cousin. He's lucky he took off when and I can't find him.

First off

1:. Don't molest. However seems like you won't and never will. That's called being an adult. OP good

2:. How is it cucking? She's family. And even if the parents seem like scum bags or at least unable to

3:. You get to raise a little girl. Fathers and daughters have good bonds. You will determine the type of boys she likes

With #3 you need to be on your best. You need to teach her to work on things and use her mind NOT just be some whore. She will probably be very attractive when she's older. Question is do you want her being sexy and dumb. Depending on men for support. Or do you want her to be a respectable and well thought out lady who will only be with a guy whose worth her love


Don't fuck up OP. Molesting isn't your main problem. That's easily beaten. Don't do it. It's raising her to not be some drugged out mess which will be hard

Do you kiss her on the lips?

I didn't sign up to adopt the girl though guys, even if I want to keep her I don't want to get to attached I try to fight against the parents or something.

She's technically supposed to be with my parents, I think i'm kidnapping her or something.

this. so much this. listen to him OP, that's good advice.

>people on Sup Forums saying "don't molest"

>Guy has the huge job of having to care for a child. Not only that a little girl whose parents sound like shitbags who will only harm her

>People posting "lol kiss her faggot. Lol panties. Lol she wants u DIC"

Trolling is weak here. But I'm not sure if just idiots who are under 18 or actual pedo pervs who I hope never have family of thier own to raise


I wish I had more lil cousins or something to chill with. I have ONE I barely see and a few I'll never see (some family are distant and never talk)

One I have is your typical 9-10 year old boy. Plays Minecraft and all that cringe shit. But it's cool playing games on xbox with him. I buy him games and shit. ..

I wish you luck OP. I hope she ends up in good hands. Which hopefully is yours. Not some faggot pedo

there is literally no way they're letting a 7 year old stay with a random MALE family member.

this whole thing reeks of bullshit.

but then again, it is Sup Forumsullshit, so...

reverse psychology

what is you mongo's fucking problem? all he's saying is that he should be there for her and not worry so much about labeling; also that he should provide stability and forge a relationship with her she can trust to fall back on. both of which are the most important things for a child, and are doable for OP in his situation.

and that disgusts you? don't know what your problem is, I really don't.

OK. Are your parents good? See what they say. If they are fine with it maybe they like the idea of thier son being responsible. Raising a kid is seen as a pretty mature thing. (if done right)

But don't be afraid to ask your parents. And don't be a /r9k/ beta who hates women

>Ask your fucking MamA for help. Yes before your dad. Assuming your parents are good your mom will have a lot more experience with kids. Don't forget OP mama wiped your ass before you knew your own name

Also look for a GF. Not to sound rude but girls love kids. If a girl knows you raise your cousin she will probably love you. Girls love kids dude. You see a girl going Babyface for puppies? Well little girls make girls fucking max love.

>not a single pic of the cousin

user now you're just being ridiculous.

How is OP random

And not everyone is a raping pedo idiot. Plenty of guys raise kids from family or (sadly) less desirable situations. And don't end up molesting kids

Hell I was afraid I'd be shitty with kids. Met my 1 year old cousin Tommy first time last year and he loved me. Smiled like crazy they told me he cried for like an hour after I left. I went in thinking I'd be horrible. Etc. Left feeling sad that I'd never see him in along time. It sucks

Whose they? Her mom doesn't mind and her dad and the state thinks she's with my parents.

I know i'm on Sup Forums but I do look like I have my shit together. I am a little self-conscious though, it would be easier if I was living with a girlfriend or something.


Do you think i'm retarded?

she actually looks a good deal like the girl in the OP. but her hair is slightly curly and a little thin (still blonde)

Woah OP please post a pic of your 7 year old highly underaged cousin with parental problems on a website that would actually find a way to find her or OP to ruin someone's life.

Dude it's not some whore that cheated on OP. Or some 16so year old slutty sister with her high school cunt friends. It's his little cousin. Why don't YOU post your face on here you cunt? Afraid? Shy? Pusssssy!

>How is OP random
>third cousin

pretty fucking far from being related

>And not everyone is a raping pedo idiot.

and i never claimed they were (is that a guilty conscious?)

>Plenty of guys raise kids from family or (sadly) less desirable situations.

yeah. grandparents. uncles. brothers. people with direct relation to the kid. not third fucking cousins.

Are we talking anime version or manga version?
Because he goes to town on that in the manga.

>Her mom doesn't mind
her opinion matters little

>her dad and the state thinks she's with my parents.

and there's where you're fucking up big time.

because if something happens to her, you have literally zero say in >>anything