Sup /b, I have a question.
So I matched with this girl on Tinder, and I think she's really cute. The problem is, I don't have a job and still live with my parents. I've been trying to get a job and move out, but it's really godamn hard right now. Anyway, should I stay single until I've got my shit together? I don't want her to think I'm a giant loser who doesn't got anything going on. What do?
hoe old r u/ her?
I just turned 22, she's 23.
I'd say hold off man. A gf would just bring you down unless you get a badass chick who can motivate n shit
Checked, and yea that's what I was thinking. Maybe just be friends with her for now, and then more when I've got it together.
Dude,
I don't have a job either and am living with a "gf" 20 years older than me, and I go and fuck chicks on POF and Tinder all the time. Just make up some story about how you're always working and only have time at night. Tell her you have your own place, but your brother is crashing there. Offer her to have you come visit her at her house after your job hours which is like 1 am. Then go and caress her, kiss, then fuck her.
Works for me every time.
Pretend to have a good job and life. Act like you're just in town for the week (makes it easier anyway). Get a hotel room when you want to bang her.
I'm in the same situation and I've decided to stay single. Life is fucked up
I would do this, but this is one of those girls you actually want to have a healthy relationship with. Hard to explain in text.
Indeed it is user, as soon as I seen her it was an instant, deep attraction. So it's especially fucked right now.
"actually want to have a healthy relationship with"
matched on tinder.
Nigger you fucking dumb
Yea yea I'm aware of what Tinder is mainly used for, but why not give it a shot.
just fuck her dude
go to her place and fuck her
or have her come over to your place and fuck her
or rent a hotel room for the night to fuck
don't get all head-case about it
You're probably right user
just be your self.
If she love you then it dosent matter that much, and what you are today is not who you will be tomorrow.
In life things goes up and down, both your life and economy and you have a job and you do not have a job.
Dont worry about it.
If she is real and serious she will help and support you and you can build something together. If it is not good enough for her then she was properbly not really in love or interested and just a gold digger
I dont have facebook, can i have tinder without giving too much personel data? Creating facebook for instance require a phone number.
trust me
stay objective
don't overthink it
unless you're tryna fall in love or some shit
lol, he wants to marry someone who accidentally matched him n tinder. also getting a job and moving out is pointless if you dont have a skill, trade degree or whatever. you may as well kill yourself
>30yo
>tell every tinder match I take care of my little brother, so we can't go to my place
>met a qt, she falls in love with me
>she becomes my GF
>after a month, I still never showed my place
>she's ervous and start thinking all kin of weird stuff about me
>finally, I take to my home, introduce her to my parents and my brother
>she still loves me
>what Tinder is mainly used for
men, to get laid
women, to get a BF or to receive tons of compliments
I have a serious relation with a girl I met on tinder, and I know at least two more guys like that.
Thanks user
two more guys who had a serious relationship with your girlfriend?
I think you have to have a Facebook for it.
I do want to fall in love, mainly because I'm tired of being alone. It's a equal mix of wanting to fuck and love too I guess
>just be friends with her for now
hmmm that might turn out not to be a good option on the long run though
be careful with that user
just jerk off, and either get your life together or kill yourelf
Ask her to meet up and shit, then dont respond for a while then say "nah, sorry i already jerked off"
that will really impress her
At what point in my post did I say "marry"? I just think shes very cute, and if dating is an option, I'll take it.
Got a good girl user
topkek
i only date people i can see myself marrying, thats why i dont waste alot of time. just fuck em and gone. but personality is more important then looks anyways. like obviously looks are important AS FUCK but personality with looks is hard to come across as fuck
Lol yea probably would user
nigga, you stupid? leaving with your parents is the new norm. fuck that bitch
I know this better than anyone, my ex was a 11/10, but our personalities were so different that I was just basically with her because she was so fucking hot
She is on tinder, she is not going to wait for you to get your shit together. You either try it now and see how it goes or move on.
Kek
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your so funny
Probably right
i got facebook, now i dont want this shit to be connected to my phone
i mean i got empty new profile, hope thats enough
you're*
and yes, he was.
you'll only be asked for a phone number if you don't have 50 friends on facebook. Just add porn actresses and youtube 'celebtrities' and you'll be fine.
Seize the day user or in this case grab her by the pussy. Just get a job so you can rent a motel by the hour , greasy but whatever.
those people have any impact later? random people are fine too?
Do it now or she will move on
Its much easier to date when you're not a scrub yeah. How old are you and you still dont have a job and live at home? If you're 20+ get your fucking shit together
You need Facebook but tinder doesn't show too much info. Only a profile pic and your age possibly.
profile pic is required?
how about those 50 friends?
Not his fault your sentence structure sucks the fat chocolate logs out of your girlfriends boyfriends ass.
>30 yo
>lives with parents
why? Why are so many people cool with being scrubs?
and your a newfag
because I had to take control of the family bussines and got stuck here
Not him but in London the average house is about a billion pounds so half under 35's live with their parents.
Where are you from if you think that everyone at +20 years old should have their own place to live?
Dude, swat off slime ball. What do you know about being a newfag. You're probably an oldfag and doesn't even remember.
I say go for it. She might be in the same boat but together you could be free.