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I met a girl online and we were truckin' on the third date. It soon became clear to me that she is schizophrenic. Literally schizophrenic. I'm trying to get her some psychological help, but I need to back out of this situation for my own safety. But she's getting really weird, saying I just used her for sex and that she's afraid she's pregnant (I never even came any of the times we were truckin', porn fucks you up FYI). My phone is like a salvation army bell, relentlessly ringing with messages ranging from how she wants to spend time with me, to me being a selfish womanizer, to random non-sequiturs. It's only been 3 weeks since we met. How the fuck do I get myself out of this situation without bringing forth the full wrath of crazy (pregnancy accusations, lawsuits, etc.)?

I only wanted to meet a nice girl online ;_;

>You're clingy and it's making me feel uncomfortable
>It's only been three weeks and already you're being weird
>I don't think we can keep this up. Sorry. Bye.

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become unappealing, but dont be a dick.

this is what I'm thinking, it may be the only way. Do you have some ideas of ways to be unappealing that aren't dickish?

don't wash your dick then ask for blow-j

You forgot the golden rule user: never, EVER, stick your dick in crazy. With that said, & probably have you going on the right path.

ever though at telling her that you dont feel conferble like this and that you would like to end it ...

I know man, I know. I just thought she was 'quirky' at first. Guess that is a flaw in getting entangled with strangers!

Of course. I'm just trying to get out in a way that doesn't send off a 5 star insanity alert

Kek

Last time I broke up with a psycho, she slashed her wrist (deep, but horizontal), took a picture, and tagged me on facebook with the caption "look what you made me do"

All in all, went better than I expected. Sometimes they're more self destructive rather than Shiva Destroyer of Worlds. Depends on what you have on your hands

what the fuck you think could happen if shes realy "broke" then she wont be able to do anything. if he/she/it is trying to fuck with you thats the point were he/she/it will stop anyway and i dunno what else could happen

Yeah just be really boring and emotionless

Every time I hook up with a girl on PoF or something I use a fake name. I make up a completely fake backstory, tell them I am older/younger, use textnow for a phone number and never let them see my truck(it's in the shop). You can block them on any dating app and they have zero way of contacting you.


Any time a girl gets weird you just bounce. Busted a nut inside her without protection? Bounce. Bored? Bounce.

If he is good at sex it may not be enought

She doesn't sound schizophrenic, she sounds borderline personality disorder.

I stayed with a girl like that for 3 fuckin years trying to get her help because it was intermittent and confusing as fuck.

Do yourself a favor and consider it a blessing you saw this early. You need to be FIRM with her. Tell her you won't be seeing her anymore. Don't say sorry or anything else emotional she can latch her claws into. Say this:

I won't be seeing you anymore. This relationship is not working for me and I have decided to stop seeing you.

Then block her.

Anything less or any show of empathy and she'll think in her fucked up head that she has a chance and you'll never get rid of her.

does she know where you live? or where you go to school or work? does she know your date of birth or your full name?

block her number and social media accts. don't talk to her anymore. if she finds you or stalks your house then you need to get a restraining order. youll need to provide her name and a detailed description of her. if she sends nasty texts, emails, letters, voicemails, videos, etc then save them as evidence. keep a journal as well with date, time and what she's doing.

I do have a large dick. And I'm already boring and emotionless, so not sure how much more boring and emotionless I can be.

I guess I'm naive. I was trying to find an actual girlfriend, not a fling, and didn't realize this kind of crazy was lurking out there.

Yeah man, she's been to my place a number of times, and where I work as well as all that information.

There is BPD, but also schizophrenia. Complicated stories of past lives, 'clairvoyant' hallucinations, tenuous connections between words and events. It's very sad. I saw a video of her from within the last year and she seemed completely coherent and extremely intelligent in it, and now just borderline unable to function in society

If she's really crazy, I don't think the way you act will change anything so this

Either way you gotta bounce bro. Trust me, it's easy to want to help someone, but the bottom line is they have to help themselves, literally no one else can help them.

Usually it's a lifelong curse, they'll "get better" for a month or so. Then revert back, or get worse. It's a constant cycle. It's just who they are, they'll deal with it their whole life.

Ok, Sup Forumsro, I hope you take what I'm going to tell you seriously.

It's going to be tumultuous for awhile. You're going to have to deal with this for at least a few months, then diminishingly for a year or more.
Send her one message stating unambiguously that you are ending the relationship and want no further contact from her.

You will get a lot of messages and various, escalating attempts at contact. Here's the important part: no matter what she says or does, you must not respond or react in any way.

Each time you reply in any way, even if it's to tell her to stop contacting you, you buy yourself another 6 weeks of attempted contact. Every response after that first message is contact she wants. When positive responses are no longer possible, she will switch to seeking negative responses.

If she leaves you 20 voicemails and you finally call her to tell her you don't want her to hear from her anymore, the only message you give her is that the cost of reaching you is 20 voicemails.

Block her on social media. Forward her number directly to voicemail or block it, but do not change your number. Obsessive types always manage to con your new number out of somebody you know. Do not threaten her , do not antagonize her, do not attempt to publicly embarrass her. Do not give her a reason to make you an enemy. Do not send a friend or the police to threaten her, as this will only hurt her dignity and at the same time show her that your threats come to nothing.

There will be various excuses and ploys to try to elicit a response. She may even harm herself with a suicidal gesture. Actual suicide is not likely, but if she does that she's doing you a favor. No matter what, DO NOT RESPOND!

Am I being clear? One message and one message only, and no further reciprocation on your part.

yikes.
then you gotta tell her, through text ( not in person cause she might flip out and attack you), that you dont want to see her anymore. then block her. save all messages. if she turns up at your place or work then call the fucking cops. then get a restraining order. dont fucking play around with this girl anymore. if she's as crazy as you say then stay away. just because she's a female doesn't mean she wont stab your ass.

Not OP but I keep that in mind, nice help user

Thanks guys, guess I just need to be firm and doesn't afraid of anything

You're not likely in any danger because she hasn't had enough time to fully invest in your relationship to the point that she derives her very identity from it. It's those people, after a long relationship, that are likely to turn to violence: "he's my everything, and if I can't have him nobody can" type of shit. Usually it's men who do this, but crazy bitches do it too.

She's definitely crazy and obsessive, but cut off all contact and eventually she will get her tentacles latched onto someone else.

This guy is also right

OP, the girl I was with for 3 years who was like this - it's like this to a T. You respond? You get "X" weeks of attempted contact.

Whatever you do, don't fucking sleep with her again. I made that mistake. I broke up with her, stopped responding, and she finally cut ties with me - we hadn't spoken for like 2 months. I was dating other girls, etc.

One day we were attending the same event, like 3 months after we last stopped talking. She messaged me and being the idiot I was, I thought .... Well, maybe she moved on... cuz I did. So I responded. Seemed fine at first. She seemed super cool about the whole thing.

Well, one thing turned into another. She seemed cool enough about it that we met up at the event and only a couple hours later we were in a hotel room fucking each others brains out. Granted it was some of the best sex I've ever had, but it wasn't worth it. Literally 10 min after sex was over she started her same drama bullshit. I walked her ass back to HER hotel room where she was staying with another guy (who started crying when he saw she was with me coming back at like 4am, kinda lol'd but kinda felt bad for him since I knew what he was going through)

It took another 6+ months to drill it into her head that we weren't getting back together and it was a one time mistake.