User, what would you do in this situation?

user, what would you do in this situation?

I date a very attractive girl, like 10/10.

She asked me to co-sign a $30,000 loan, then $10,000 when I turned her down on it.

She told me if I didn't help she'd find someone who would and threaten to marry a man for his money.

Then she let it all pass and treated it like nothing happened. Then one day we got into an argument and she slipped it in she was unavailable and a married woman.

I didn't reply to that text. Since then she's been trying to get back in contact with me (like telling me happy birthday, trying to call me multiple times, and buying me a gift when I never picked up).

We been together over a year and truly had good times. She let me know at the very beginning of the relationship she was looking for a man that could support her (never knew what that meant until later).

We had sex a lot, she was around me 24/7 and we basically lived together.

She had to work out of state (legit job) and quit talking to her for the last 2 months since she said she was unavailable. She apologized and been seemingly trying to go back to our normal state before that argument...

Should I keep her around or drop her when she returns? I intentionally been ignoring all her calls/text for the past 2 months.

I could probably easily fuck her and have a relationship with her but WTF? if she is actually married I know it has to be fake..

For now im continuing to ignore her.

You found yourself a right sociopath there. Unless she's Russian. That would be normal behavior if she were Russian.

She is Russian.... I'm not shitting you. Please advise me more...

You need to break up with her immediately. She is trying to manipulate you, and will continue to do so.

Also be wary of false rape accusations, it's possible she'll do something like that when you break up.

Rule No. 1. Never get involved with a Russian.

Rule No. 2. See Rule No. 1.

This is what I suspected. That she is manipulating me. I stopped responding to her and haven't said much to her within the last 2 months. She's been trying to contact me every few weeks and I ignored those calls. If I texted her it was really short. I basically stopped talking to her.

Well what do you want out the relationship? She doesn't seem like she'd be a loyal girlfriend if she flaked out on you over the loan. That's a huge red flag. But if you're just trying to get your dick wet go for it. If she really had a change of heart she'll prove it to you in some way. If you're always stuck with the bill and she still expects you to provide in the long term I'd stay away from having a romantic relationship with her.

>We been together over a year and truly had good times

year aint long.

You should do one of the following:

1) never contact her again block her
or

2) tell her you miss her, hook up, pound her pussy a bunch, video her, then dump her

#2 is risky since a class manipulator won't really give you what you want, just use it to get what they want

question: does she have a pimp. how many other guys was she seeing while she was seeing you. how recently did she move here? is she a citicizen?

I noticed you started this thread by telling us (and yourself Im guessing) how hot she is. Dont let this be a huge thing. If you marry her, you are saying you want to be with her UNTIL YOU DIE. If she drives you crazy, she probably will for the next 50 years.

stop
run or kik her out NOW
call cops if need to
call friends over to be witness your side
if have to get out physically
dont let her get u into domestic violence bullshit traps

nah, she will drain the bank account, get tons of loans in his name, and be gone within a year.

I like that OC.

Yeah, or this. Lolol

She told me UP FRONT she needed a man that could support her.

She also borrowed $1000s from an ex boyfriend
She would accept trips to Hamptons and the likes on a PRIVATE JET by wall street bankers AGAINST MY APPROVAL and treated it like it was a friends get away thing. FUCKING people she had just met too.

She told me over dinner (remember I am suppose to be her bf) she went out to dinner with a wall street man that sold his business for $40 million but she didn't like him.

WTF?

Then after all of that shit she'd act like NOTHING was wrong with it. Come home, cook me dinner, watch tv, joke around and fuck. We did this for a year and when she left 2 months ago to work I started to think things through after our argument which I referenced above.

Itssss sooooo weird to pretend like everything is cool with her in front of her friends (also russians) and her friends actually seem to have normal relationships with their bf.

its like I have no outlet to complain or say shit. All my buddies think Im dating a hot as fuck russian girl but have NO IDEA how fucked up it really is

Lol, that is not a girlfriend.

yeah she is dating multiple guys. I'm not sure why you are even in the mix.

she is probably lying about the wallstreet shit, or she would have fucked them already. you are getting straight up played.

I'll bet if you went through her phone(s) you'd find a couple other guys like yourself in there.

sorry did I say "dating" ? she is a fucking escort, she probably has a pimp, and you are just a potential $30,000 to her.

I dated a girl like this once - she just loved fucking different guys. she stopped while we were together, but afterwards we remained friends. And I can tell you - when a guy flew her to greece for the weekend - she fucked the hell out of him, along with the other girls he flew out.

jesus I hope you dont lick that pussy.

I got through 4 lines and i already know enough to say leave that bitch. She is poison and you will regret it every day of your life if you stay with her. Attractiveness fades. Being a bitch is forever.

If she actually had the gall to threaten to leave you and marry a man for money, well you have your answer about what matters to her and ill give you a hint, its not you.

'' All my buddies think Im dating a hot as fuck russian girl but have NO IDEA how fucked up it really is''
TELL THEM!

She referenced me as her bf to all her friends. Her Russian move loves me and calls me her "son in law". Her mom is the only decent one in her family, and I consider her my Russian mom. Her mom treats me better than she does.

She publically acknowledged we are/were together and all her friends know/knew me as her bf.

She is a citizen.

I went through her phone. I think I found her "husband" as they have these really fake convos about lovey dovey shit, but I think I gathered it's who she is "married" to and its so obvs its fake. This was before she left and she told me she got married and I didnt know if she was shitting with me to get me to co-sign the loan or if she actually went through with it.

Then I saw her ex asking for $xxxx money back like she promised she'd pay him.

Then i saw the guy who sold his business for $40 mill texting her like a fucking 5 year old sounding desperate as fuck and she essentially ignored him the entire time

So since you know she is playing you, game on. Start fucking her for YOUR pleasure, and yours only. You know the resentment you probably have for her doing that to you? Take it out on her in bed. Fuck her in the ass, don't ask, just stick it in. If she says ouch, just keep fucking. If you are lucky she just lays there taking it, better if she is crying as you blow it up her colon. Bonus points if you pull out of her ass before you cum and shove your dick in her mouth. When you come, be vocal. "Oh yeah bitch take it" Shit like that. Get her to blow you, and HOLD HER HEAD then just start fucking her mouth going deeper till she starts to gag, DON'T SLOW DOWN JUST KEEP STABBING HER IN THE THROAT WITH YOUR DICK. When you come, just force her to deepthroat it, she will struggle, tough shit. Hold her head down, until you are done cumming down her throat. Eventually she will get tired of it and fuck off. Or, you may get lucky and find you now have a fuck slave. Start to bring restraints in, more hard bondage, electrical BSDM is awesome if you hate the bitch. I have this sort of cattle prod shocky thing, zap a chicks clit with that once and she knows who the fuck is in control. When you get bored with her, throw her out the door, half dressed.

LOL. BUT YOU ARE RESPONDING TO A FAGGOT WHO HASN'T LEFT THE HOUSE N 900 DAYS

RUSSIAN WOMEN ARE ACCUSTOMED TO ALPHA MALES AND MEN WHO WILL DOMINATE THEM. THEY DON'T DO WELL WITH PASTY WHITE 400 POUND ESTROGEN FILLED FAT FUCKS.

you poor sad soul, making up storys to a bunch of anons to make yourself feel good. i pity you

Yeah it was 2 new york faggots. they met her at a party and own a private jet. They invited her and her hot friend to the hamptons over the weekend and invited them to a polo match.

i saw on her airbnb account they dropped over $2,000/night on her and her friend. She blew up at me when I asked if she fucked them and then called me childish for ignoring her the entire weekend she was gone. She told me she thought they werent attractive, but basically she couldnt pass up a chance to go like that.

OP here,

So when she comes bck do I continue to ignore her like I have for the past 2 months or do I fuck her?

I think in her mind she is worried she lost me and has been doing shit she typically never does to be really nice to me and get me back

Jesus man

what the actual fuck is wrong with you

If she gets defensive, it is always a 100% certainty she fucked them.

I was being childish, I basically didn't talk to her the entire weekend and then as soon as I called her I accused her of fucking them (well all I did was ask) and she blew up like i was being unreasonable.

anyways shes been gone 2 months. comes back soon. i been ignoring her the entire time. she bought me a gift as an apology for what I said in OP and i never picked it up. she knows this and offered to give it to me when shes back.

i think i could very well fuck her when she returns. should i fuck her or just keep ignoring her?

if i fuck her then she will want to hang around me a lot again im sure... and i like having my time alone now

I would just consider it a loss man. Stand your ground and just tell her to keep all her shit, and go the fuck away. I dealt with a crazy in a much similar way and then found an amazing girl that I plan to marry soon here, been together 5 years now.

Even though looking back on it all sucked, I admit it was hard to leave, mostly because I looooved fucking this girl, even though she fucked around on me. I think the instability is what kept me there for so long, it was exciting. But in the years since then and all the responsibilities Ive taken on, bills, longer hours at work, Im so glad I left that shit, lol

This man speaks the truth. Stay the fuck away from Russian chicks. Seriously, run.

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She wasn't a girlfriend you idiot. She was fucking other guys.

thanks man. i wanted to break down before making this post just to fucking text her like i used to (before going silent on her for 2 months).

you know normal shit. ive been debating whether to pick the gift up (at her house) and decided against it.

I know she would go back to me, all it takes is me texting / calling her-- she tried several times to call me and i rejected each one... (but made an execuse).

Anyway. it hurts. I unloaded 100s of pictures of her and us on vacation this exact time last year... just really shitty.

i wont text her today. ill go another day strong.

im sure when she is back she'll text me again and want to meet up.

Funny shit, same experience I had.

LOL...WITH WHO? YOUR MOM IS RUSSIAN? FUCKING LONELY ASS CUNT.
IT'S FRIDAY NIGHT CUNT

tell me your experience, im OP. I dont know why slav girls are like this. i miss her extremely strong accent. fuck man this thread is gonna make me weak.

im trying not to text her. no fucking clue when she returns (I wanted to find out and text her) but i think its end of the month...

i have no idea what she thinks about this... i used to call her EVERY DAY and she would get mad because she didnt want to talk every day while she is out of state.

i went from that to straight up ignoring her for 2 months after her argument with me. i never acted this way with her and she knew how crazy i was about her.

shes been trying to pull me back in (slowly, e.g. liking all my insta photos, trying to call me on NYE, leaving me a nice message etc) and I deflected all of those attempts.

Dump her period. She may of had a good reason to ask, but how she's asking, isnlike she's going to break up with you anyways.

If you don't do it now you'll wish you did soon. Shes already stated loyalty to money over you, that is an irreversible. Go look for a 8/10 or 9/10 who grows into a healthy infuatation with you.

She's basically saying pay me 30k or I'm going to break up with you. But women like that just going to use you as a social stepping stone to cheat/grab a richer man.

Better not have anything joint.
And always get your shit back before breaking up with an Asian woman.
ALWYAYS. Yes Sup Forums Russia is in Asia.

Do a pretend relationship.

Guard your heart, but pretend you love her, then fuck her like a whore. Really disrespectful sex.

In my mind I did break up with her, plus she is out of state. As I stated I ignored her for 2 months but I think she is flying in end of month. I think once she flies back in she'll try to meet up with me again and even let me fuck her. But I do't know if I should get a fuck in (she is literally very very hot) or just keep what I am doing now--- ignoring her.
She also isnt used to men turning her down, so she may see this as a challenge. I dunno what she thinks, I havent talked to her in a while. She left me a nice voice mail wishing me a happy NY though which leads me to think she still cares about me

Seriously OP, this is called a Natasha.

All this is a setup for your money. They drain all they can.
Unless you up to having a wife repo'd being extorted/strong armed for money or left for dead, you should ghost her.

Ok thanks. Should I continue to ghost her when she returns, or is it ok to get some fucks in? Right now I am continuing ghosting her text / calls for the last 2 months but as said earlie think she comes back end of this month

How do you think they pay for that jet? Whatever whales they land? The oral STD's this woman must have.

She's letting you nibble. Leading you on.
Her friends will start showing up again.
They aren't pimps. They are Russian mob.

Problem with you being naive is that you're too naive to realize that you're naive.

Fuck her one last time, after the fuck you just say "Well, this is our last fuck, bitch. Get the fuck out and close the door on your way out." And end of the story your money cuck

>sooooo

I recognise this gay blowjob

ok thanks.

thanks man

I know beauty fades and I know she has done some fucked up manipulative things but hard to not think with your dick. im proiud of myself ghosting her these past 2 months tho. just hard to get how sexy her ass is when i doggy'd her tho

No contact.
Change you locks.
I'd your truly wealthy, you take vacation, raise insurnace, and notify local police.

You cant ghost someone for 2 weeks or 1 or 2 months. Ghost means fucking ghost.

OP dont release people kill people for 5k in in this world.

and Still talking like she's special...

thanks for setting my head straight. this is what i needed