So I suffer from social anxiety and it's nearly impossible for me to meet new woman unless they come to me first. However my sexual urges are going crazy and I really need to fuck but this won't override the fact that I'm scared shitless around women I don't already know.
But here's the thing, a very passable tranny hit me up and wants me to come fuck them to let out my sexual frustration, should I do it or will it fuck me up with real woman even more?
social anxiety is a result of you not talking to enough people. Social skills are like a muscle that need to be worked.
social anxiety is made up bullshit for cuck faggots who can't get poose on their own
You're a fucking pussy and a faggot.
Just get an escort. That's what they're there for.
I can tell you're 15.
That's bullshit.
I second this pay for sex. Itll be good sex with a (hopefully) hot woman
Well, I mean, you get to choose who it's with. That's kinda half the appeal.
How can someone be a cuck if they can't get pussy?
Nope, I agree with the first poster. Do you really think people who are good in social situations actually enjoy talking to strangers? No, we don't. I hate making small talk with people; I'd much rather be with my friends or on my own. But, it's better for me and for other people if I make a bit of effort, ask them some questions about their lives, pretend that I'm interested in them, than standing there in silence. And the more you do it, the easier it gets. Or you can just go muh social anxiety, not make any effort at all, and have a lonely life.
I don't normally agree with Sup Forums medical opinions but I think this is largely true.
Everyone feels social anxiety. Everyone. In a society where we have minimized live social interaction there is less necessity to have to learn to deal with this.
Calling it a medical problem is mostly bullshit.
This is true. Just push yourself and find out. Then when you stop socializing, it will become difficult again.
Only fuck the tranny if you don't care that the tranny will want to take her turn fucking you.
If you don't care about a dick up your ass, then go for it. It's a free world, but happy.
If you do care, then dojn't, cause that makes you a selfish lover and an asshole. Tranny wants to get off as much as you do.
If you can't approach women, women need to approach you. Get fit. Get famous.
Or get rapey.
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I assume this is shitty bait.
If not remember that men are way more judgemental of appearances so if a good looking piece of queermeat wants you to go fag city with them that means you are good looking and should have an easy tie with chicks.
Unless they were drunk and there was no one else around, in that case dudes just do dude things no matter who they date.
True if you're going to be a faggot you have to go full faggot also nice dubs
I also suffer from debilitating social anxiety, and I'll be honest with you OP; if a passable transwoman was hitting on me, I'd take her up on the offer.
The fact that I'm mildly bisexual helps, of course.
Cold shower. Meditate. Go for a run. Lift. Whatever.
Work on your social anxiety. Had it once; got through.
do it faggot
oeff, you're that asshole making it awkward in every train station. i try avoiding eye contact but you fags still manage to talk to me im just waiting, i dont know you don't talk to me i don't care
Haha, no I don't talk to people at train stations. I don't care about you either. But if I'm at a party or at university with people I don't know, then yes I'm going to try to maintain a conversation.
Be funny.
Bitches love funny. And corny.
oh oke than it's oke
do it
>cuck
>can't get pussy
pick one you fucking idiot
True, however there are people with legitimate anxiety disorders that make social anxiety much, much worse.
i have the same problem. when a hot women talk to me i get quiet/ don't know what to say and i blush like a motherfucker. i can't make contact and when there is contact its never from my end. plz help
this is how some 1 with social phobia knows when some 1 else is faking it
its not called social anxiety disorder .. any more its called ..social phobia.
its not been called that for years and has been removed from the books for many years now
so if you use an old defenition you're fake ?
This isn't true. Actual psychologists (you know, scientists who study the mind using the scientific method) agree that some people experience social anxiety far more severely than others. It's not always a result of lack of practice being social. It's often due to how they were raised, childhood trauma (pre-memory, sometimes), or chemical imbalance.
Don't trust just any user on Sup Forums for real mental health advice. Do some research from a reliable source.
Or people don't read psychology textbooks and were diagnosed years ago. I'm 33, I was diagnosed with an anxiety disorder when I was 12.
What now, faggotry?
A lot of psychologists still call it social anxiety disorder because they feel that that is more descriptive.
Have sex with the tranny. Maybe you'll like it and find an actual comfort zone. I don't mean to be a dick, but you seem like the kind of guy who has no social life, and coming from a guy who has no social life, give up on ever dating a ten. It just won't happen unless you become wealthy and powerful. Anyway, what I'm getting at is if you end up enjoying fucking trannies more than women, then there you go, problem solved. Unless you insist on being some closet fag who won't enjoy life because somehow happiness can only be linked to vapid bimbos like the one you posted as an image.
This is why I suggested an escort. Fuck a few actual tens. See that they're really not all that.
Don't fuck a tranny unless you actual have bisexual leanings. It'll just make you feel like shit.
yes if you look up the old defenition to the new defenition you well now see there not the same any more and the old defenition is now called a new disorder . and they have add new criteria you must meet to get the new disorder if not you an fall in to the autism spectrum disorder
if you only meet the past criteria then its autism.