I need advice/Interpretation, story is already green texted

I need advice/Interpretation, story is already green texted

>Be me 21
>Break up with gf of 3.5 years
>Total wreck so move in with parents again
>Get good paying job
>Life looking up
>Buy new vehicle
>Sad and Lonely on inside and vow to be picky af
>Birthday comes up and I’m all alone
>Cry myself to sleep
>Start talking to girl from my hometown 800 miles away
>Hit it off
>New years is coming and I want a good one
>She calls me pet names all the time and we have shit tons in common
>She says we’re like soul mates, think exactly alike etc
>Continuedly says how she wishes I was there to cuddle her
>Says her roommate wouldn’t like me because he’s a little bitch
>New years is in a few days
>Finally ask what she thinks of me coming out to stay with her
>1/8

>She freaks out in a good way super girly reaction
>Would be her best new year’s ever
>So I drive out
>I get there and we meet up
>Go to her place
>Walk in see her roommate
>Not only is it her ex but a kid I used to punk out in h.s
>He’s like 5’7 130lbs and I’m like 5’10 275
>He immediately grabs his shit and leaves with some b.s excuse
>Whatever lulz
>Stay up till like 6 a.m. with her talking about life etc.
>Finally go to bed
>We hangout all day and have a blast together like we’re best of friends
>Night comes around
>Exbf comes home
>Fight ensues
>2/8

>Sitting on porch smoking as they argue in the garage
>Don’t want to fuck his shit up because she has to live here not me
>He tears off crying and leaves
>She comes up crying and gets in her truck and tells me to come with
>lol okay
>Turns out the little fucker pushed her on the ice and she fell and hit her head
>Beg her to let me catch this little bitch
>She says no it will only make things worse for her
>Oblige unwillingly
>Takes me to gas station to buy a bottle
>I pay even though she hands me the money
>We go back to her place
>She gets the idea to go get her friend like 30 miles away
>uhhhh wut
>She’s bi not that it matters but you’ll see here in a second
>Her friends some 19 year old pregnant bitch with big tits
>Whatever I came back for my new year’s kiss
>Pick up friend
>Midnight comes and goes
>Lamest shit ever
>Its like 1:45 so I stand up and proclaim I’m going to bed
>Cough Cough come get the dick bitch
>I lay there for like 20 minutes until she comes in
>Grabs her pillow and blanket and says hey you get the big comfy bed to yourself tonight
>I say, well if I wanted the big comfy bed to myself I would’ve stayed my ass home
>3/8

>She scoffs then turns to leave
>Full speed turns around and runs and jumps on me in a full bear hug
>you’re the best user
>”yeah”
>She says yeah?
>YUPP
>She leaves and I pass out with slight tears of disappointment running down
>The next day is full of her ex officially moving out and her friend and her cuddling
>Convinced I got long distance cucked by a bi chick and pregnant bimbo
>Ex Leaves under my supervision and scolding
>She decides to take preggers home
>Good bitch
>She gets back and we hangout more
>Says I saw her at her worst and no one in her family has ever seen her cry
>Tell her how feelings don’t bother me and whatever
>She has to work tomorrow
>Ask her how much she’ll make tomorrow
>$80 for a full day’s work
>Tell her I’ll take her on a trip tomorrow for lunch and ill pay her the days wages
>She’s super giddy and happy again
>Sleep together and cuddle etc.
>4/8

>Good happy morning
>We eat lunch at a place I chose
>Exbf was talking for almost 2 years about taking her here
>lmao wut
>its literally 3 hours away
>have a great day and start to drive home
>she tells me she hasn’t ever done anything with preggers
>Says she went through like 5 years of emotions in the few days I’ve been here
>Okay that’s understandable
>We get home she elects to sleep on the couch while I catch up with a local friend for 2 hours
>come back she won’t wake up to go to bed with me
>Uhhhh Okay
>Go to bed and wake up at 2a.m to piss
>Her dog is diarrhea shitting all over
>wake her up to tell her
>she’s kind of pissed and doesn’t do anything about it
>Whatever
>Wake up before she goes to work
>Dog has been shitting all fucking day
>5/8

>She’s pissed because she has a long day ahead of her and dog shit
>Tell her I’ll clean it up
>Still pissed and leaves
>Texts an hour later apologizing for being a bitch whatever
>Ask her what she needs from the store
>Uhh just t.p
>Look through her fridge and freezer
>Shits empty af
>Go to store buy 60$ worth of food plus t.p and cleaning supplies for the shit
>She comes back from lunch right as I get back from the store
>Dog shit still there
>Doesn’t give a fuck about all the shit I bought and complains about how shitty her days going
>Okay….
>Clean up shit then go hang with the homie
>Literally lives a block away
>leave at 5:08 get angry text at 5:09 about where the fuck I am because I have the key
>Get text as I pull in the driveway
>She asks wtf
>My reply “sorry I’m late, I got lost on the path of life”
>She doesn’t know wtf to say
>lulz inside
>Get inside and its super awkward and distant
>Take the hint and tell her I’ll give her her space
>Says she is sorry and she wants me here but just wants to be alone
>pack all my shit and say by to the dog and her
>she doesn’t even get off the couch to hug me or anything just keeps saying sorry and not keeping eye contact
>Decide to head to friends for a bit before leaving
>6/8

>Decide to leave as its snowing pretty hard and I’ve got a 12 hour drive ahead of me
>Have this hunch to drive by her place
>Her ex’s truck is there but her car isn’t
>Get pissed and drive straight through the storm to home
>She texts me when I get home asking if I made it home safe
>Have a few days of awkward texting until I finally ask her
>What are we? What the fuck happened
>I just want to be friends user I thought I made that clear to you
>Okay cool it is what it is
>Then here comes my issue
>7/8

>I want to come out to your place and spend my birthday week with you
>Ask her what she wants to do
>Youre in charge of that
>Says she doesn’t want me to pay for anything
>Wants to spend the time with me
>Uhhh are we friends or do you like me?
>That’s the conclusion of the story and I need opinions on how to interpret the whole situation
>Thanks for reading guys
>8/8

"Youre in charge of that" im assuming she wants the dick but u gotta make the move? idk maybe u werent direct enough

I'm not super interested in sex, what I mean is I would rather have a meaningful relationship with this chick, I could find whores to dick down anywhere

then what i'd do is play it by ear when she comes out for the weekend, sometimes waiting to make the move till it builds up is more meaningful, leads to a longer lasting relationship. see how the weekend goes then decide from there? it's ez for u since she'll be the one driving. jsut be wary cuz she did all that weird shit, she might be unstable. i guess see if that happens any more

Same here.
Also she seems very ignorant and like a person who you shouldn't trust, idk just my opinion

She made one thing clear drunk bowling is on her list of to do's, I just so happen to have a bowling alley like 3 blocks away lmao

im person #1 who replied, i agree with this guy. girl's probably untrustworthy, she seems kinda cray. i'd still have her out for the weekend cuz why not, u already said ur not too emotional so hopefully u wont get attached

I really dig the chick, but talk about throwing mixed signals

hope you've got a fetish for being cucked. that is all you can look forward to with her.

I can deal with clingy and crazy, my concern is loyalty and being an attribute to my life, making me happy and me doing the same

You really think thats the case? I don't deal with that shit and have no problem walking from any shitty situation if thats who she is

Back out. These chicks have been emotionally abused and are looking to do the same to you.

If the thread dies I'll repost around midnight central time, I want a good analysis of this shit

Sounds like she doesnt feel the same watly about you, but doesnt want to tell you. That or she's unaprieciative as fuck

Thats what I thought but what throws me for a loop is why the fuck she wants to come spend her birthday week with me in my queen bed in my parents house

Dr. Phil here.
Really user, I think you should see her. I mean, she's far from her home, hopefully her issues wont follow her. You'll see what she is like when she is relaxed. You'll most likely have lots of fun like you did have the first day.

Downside of this though might be that you could fall harder for that carefree chick that comes on *vacation* and that most likely isn't who she really is. Like it never is with vacation people. Again, most likely, when you take greater interest in this girl and start thinking seriously of her, it will backfire hard.
Obv. no one can say for sure what she is like, (well her ex could lol) but the signs that she showed at her place are really quite alarming.