Anyone here lost their virginity without telling the girl?

Anyone here lost their virginity without telling the girl?

How did it go?

I'm 24 and im imminently going to lose it to a 19yo who's all over me. Any advice?

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>losing your virginity at 24

yikes, why would you need to tell her anyway? just fuck her and thats it. It's not like you're dating her.

I actually just got out of a relationship and she took my boy cherry. Never told her until after it was over, and she was surprised but not mad or anything. Guess all those years of porn guided me.
Just don't be a pussy.

>Guess all those years of porn guided me.

dont do it.

You can do it without telling her but ultimately she will know if she has half a brain and any experience. So look at it from her perspective if it was the other way around what would you want?

Also if she makes a big deal about it then just tell her to fuck off. No reason to be desperate to bang a shitty person.

Ye if you get her drunk and let her pass out you should be able to pull one out without her noticing.
Can recommend really

I don't even know how to kiss...

Lost my virginity at 19 to 15 yo Filipina chick. We fucked for about a month and never told her she was my first. Met up with her 5 years later to hook up again. Told her then, she laughed and didn't believe me like I was joking. Oh well whatever

less is more, there you go

Wow, a 15yo girl didn't notice you were a virgin, I'll be damned.

You either have to get over your anxiety or just fucking give up and kill yourself. There's nothing we can do to help you.

>Anyone here lost their virginity without telling the girl?
Okay, so I was 17.
She was also 17.
She got me naked and faster than I knew it, she had my dick inside her and was riding me.
I started to shake and stutter, and I came in like 14 seconds.
She said, "If I had known it was your first time, I would have..."
I interrupted, "Not my first time." I lied.
It was more important to me to have her think I was a seasoned, shitty fuck than that I was a virgin.
In retrospect, I wish I'd told her in advance.

Fucking tell here, there is no problem whit it.
1 big rule: don't act like a pussy, if you would slap her ass...fucking do it, if you wuold to suck her niplle...well fucking do it, don't be insecure.
Don't tell here you are a kisses virgin, if you can kiss a girl first to going to fuck here.
Good luck user.

if you tell her shes was your first you're an idiot. girls don't want to hear shit. that's why they always act at least a little surprised because they don't WANT to believe it.

She's coming over in half an hour and I'm shaking and getting nervous. I just spoke to her on the phone and my arms and legs were so shaky and my mouth was getting dry. She even asked if everything's ok.

I didn't tell her until months later and she acted weird but we're really happy now and I fucked other girls when we were fighting so she's cool with it.

Absolutely no benefit in admitting it before the fact, she will immediately assume power over the situation. She know's she will be the best thing you ever had. She may even try to hold it back for a special date or moment. It's not worth it, act like you own it.

My first time was fine, had a few beers put my dick where I wanted it to go. We fucked for 15 or 20 minutes and I never came the first time. Porn does help desensitize you a little bit, there was never a moment where I was concerned of going too early.

this guy

I got so confused for a moment like how small is your dick if she doesn't know you fucked her then realised you just meant not saying you're a virgin which is much less interesting

ok, now go to the toilet wash your face whit very cold water, punch the wall whit your head ( not so strong user, you can't go in to the hospital right now) and go to the mirror and repeat to yourself that you can fucking do it. If you have a alcohol drink a pair of glass. When the time for kiss come don't tell here that you kiss before try your best and see her reaction, then decide if tell here or not.
reassured and dont act like a pussy, if you are in time jerk off.

Told the girl i had only done it once before and that i was shit drunk. That way i made sure she knew i was a rookie. Came in 30 sec, or so. Told her the truth later and we're still together 6 years later

but if you don't tell her it's your first time
you will bust your nut in like 5 seconds and she will think that's what you will always be like

I did when I was 16 and it was only much later on when she asked if she was my first

Just recently lost virginity as 23 year old but to a hooker.On holidays to my hometown after 3 years of not being there. Found a cheap new one. I was super scared and nervous but somehow managed to just press on. All those stupid thoughs if my dick is big enough and if ill finish once seeing girl naked in 2 sec just got pushed on a side.

I didnt tell her it was my 1st time nor I acted like im good at it. Day before ive bought pack of condoms to try out how to put them on and how it feels with it on. 15 min l8ter the girl was asking to slow down a little and my average uncut willy was more than enought.

After that met 2 other girls and it was great. Just ask the girl how she likes it and dont make a big deal out of it

trust me, tell here.

>you will bust your nut in like 5 seconds
Do people actually believe this I mean it is possible to not be a premature ejaculator you know, it's not just something you learn...

I got no alcohol, don't drink. I'm sweating so bad, she's gonna be here anytime soon. Armpits getting so sweaty, already changed my top, about to do it again. Even my breathing is shaky, thanks for the help but fuck, I'm so nervous.

bust a nut

>my average uncut willy
>willy

Fucking kek, are you 11?

I was always scared about premature ejaculation, when I finally did lose my virginity I didn't even cum, she was sucking me for 30 minutes or so, fucked her in several positions and I still had to jerk off to cum.

I'm 12, not 11

I can't even get it up, looking at some pornos I bookmarked to jerk to another time but still nothing. I think I'm going to have to blank her and pretend I'm not home, fuck.

Puss

you're thinking way too much about it. just let it happen

Serious Lee feel like water info a cup, relax, shape yourself info the situation. Life is good when you take it easy, and it's much more easier when you are honest with yourslf and other. Tell her the truth its Always the best solution.

. Be cool Man all gonna be great.

Thanks user, I hope for the best. Any tips to help me lower my nerves?

You're going to do a bad job and shes going to know no matter what anyone here tells you. You have no experience at all, RIP.

Just let her know this is your first time with a woman but that you are definitely not a virgin. she'll figure it out.

A cigarette.

I was 21 when I lost my virginity. The girl didn't give a shit.

If you're not worried about her thinking you're just shit in bed, then don't say anything.

She won't care if you do tell her, though.

Punch yourself in the dick, you don't deserve to have one you faggot

You were misguided son if you thought that was hownits done hahahahahaahajaj

Don't smoke, drink or do drugs, sorry.

Deep breath, verry deep and a lot of these

Lame

Sex is easy. I lost my virginity to an experience girl and she said I was the best fuck she'd had. Helped that we had awesome chemistry personality wise.

All you do is go in and out. Work the clit. That's where orgasm come from. The g spot doesn't exist. Smash your pelvis on her clit. Make use of your hands, explore her body with them like you just can't get enough. Girls are psychological creatures. Just make em feel ravished and wanted.

I did. It was no big deal. I was probably too concerned with not seeming like a virgin that I didn't even cum.

make sure to update us play-by-play while it's happening OP

oh user i forgot, then the act run to /b and tell us how did it go.
Sry 4 english.

the g spot does exist, it may not make the girl cum on its own but it's there you autistic fuck. stimulating the g spot helps stimulate the clitoris from the inside

I lost mine to a hooker. Didn't say shit. Just laid back and let her go to work. Went pretty well.

The most important part, she liked it?

i say you to tell here, user :(( you ruin your first time whit stupid anxiety...

Holy shit, user you have all the symptoms of someone who is going to cum in 10 seconds

There is no physiological evidence bitch. There is no collection of extra nerve ending no nothing outside of the clit. PIV sex only gets girls to cum when the clit is agitated by the movement.

Science bitch.

Just fuck her right in the pussy even animals can do it without any sexual education

I lost mine at 30 and the girl was 19.

I only told her several months later, and she thought it was the sweetest thing ever.

holy shit OP, you're fucked.
24 and a virgin, she will drop you like a stone
24 and lying about not being a virgin. KEK
no way in the world girls don't notice that.

Lost my virginity when I was 15, I have been having sex for over 12 years now. you might as well become gay

if she aint a virgin herself then she will notice it faggot.

put your fingers inside a girl

curl them up against the inside of her pelvis

feel the soft balloon-like membrane that expands when she's aroused

congrats you just found the g spot

it fucking EXISTS. what it does may be up for debate but the fact that it's there means it exists.

that's like saying the appendix doesn't exist because we haven't found out what it's used for

bitch

I lost my virginity at 24 and the girl was 22, she was very experienced and had no idea. Said I was the best fuck she ever had. She didn't care after I told her though.

Dawwwwww. Faggot.

Yes the area exists but there is no evidence to suggest it contributes to sexual pleasure outside of all the how-to-have-sex forums you've researched.

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Dont get me referencing actual studies now...Bitch.

when i was a kid, yeah

Did it at almsot 25. The girl was very experienced.

Because I was not sure how I'd last, I fapped a few hours prior to seeing her. We spent a nice time chatting, the good feeling did certainly help. Also spent a good while just chatting and caressing her everywhere (so warm holy sh*t). Then while doing it, I casually asked about what she enjoys, sharing details made it easier if you have no idea what to do.

The only "proof" that the g-spot DOESN'T exist came from questionnaires and recorded personal experiences.

The studies that DO show physiological evidence used ultrasound.

"Science" bitch.

yes because heaven forbid you provide proof

ITT: everyone baited

Stop being a faggot. Go do a bunch of push-ups or something active to get your blood racing. Take a shot or two if you need.
You got this fukboi!

You must be horrendously unnatractive.

>The g spot doesn't exist.

>Yes the area exists

LOL you're really on a roll now

Sorry, took a cold shower to cool me down. I do workout so I can do that but I don't drink.

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Still waiting on those studies user.

Now that's just rude.

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Bitch

just have a pre-game fap before you fuck her and she'll never be the wiser.

Nah I woudnt. Just ride it out.

Show us a pic of her

I did and shit was cash. She didn't suspect a thing. Just try to hold out for as long as you can, so that she would enjoy it as much, or even more than you. Elongated sessions are the best nigga.

What the fuck kind of degenerate do you think I am that I'd post a picture of my girlfriend for you cunts to fap to?

The same kind of degenreate who would go to a chinese cartoon board and brag about how he deceived his girlfriend

I didn't brag and I didn't intentionally deceive her. I was ashamed so I didn't tell her right away, and I was positively surprised by her reaction to me telling her. It made me love her more than before, and I was moved almost to tears.

And now you're trying to justify it, without ever considering what you did was wrong.
You're a terrible person user.

Ya bro stop thinking about it. Your body will know what to do. Do what another user said to do and ask what she likes. It's cool to even ask her to show you. Follow her lead on it and have fun. Remember the point is to feel good. It's not complicated thing.