My girlfriend isn't anorexic. She doesn't desire to be skinny...

My girlfriend isn't anorexic. She doesn't desire to be skinny. She just claims there isn't enough time at University to eat. However, with winter break, she went home and still lost weight. I am fearful. I know she isn't abusing dietetics-- but, I think she's just not eating. I had her promise she'll eat two meals a day. However, she counts a single bowl of oatmeal as a meal. I think she's only getting around 800-1500 calories a day... It's scaring the shit out of me. She always claims she's "not hungry" and that she's "stuffing" herself.

I know she doesn't care about her looks as she refuses makeup and rarely wears a dress. She only wears a dress is required (i.e. wedding).

She's 5ft 6in and 105 lbs-- meaning her BMI is 16.9. She's very underweight. Ideal weight is 118 - 148 lbs.

She forbids me posting a picture of her. Though, I posted a picture of a stranger that looks very similar to her. My girlfriend is just a little bigger in the arms-- but her stomach is almost identical.

Sup Forums, help me. How do I make her gain weight? She always claims she's full and so forth... We go to different universities so I can't monitor her-- though, she won't lie if I directly ask.

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Careful what you wish for op. I'm did exactly the same thing and now she's gotten way too big. As in it's unsafe to try and have a baby. Wish I would have just left her alone in the first place

Anorexia is a mental condition and needs to be treated as such. Usually it comes out of a desire to control her life when she feels there are many elements that she cannot control.

When someone is anorexic, they honestly believe that they are overweight and will try really hard to believe that they aren't hungry when they are. A lot of times, there will be periods where they lapse and give into their hunger and go on a binge.

Another sign of anorexia is if they seems shameful of eating or try to compare their eating with other people. They will sometimes eat very little in public then finish their meal or eat more when other people aren't there.

Anorexia doesn't really necessarily have to do with looking pretty. It's apparently about keeping control over something in their life. At least, that's what I've seen and learned in people around me.

This. two years ago mine had a perfect thigh gap. Now the gap is gone and her legs are chafed all the time.

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lol

marry her, guaranteed weight gain

How's her breath?
If it's bitter/sour then she's probably anorexic

Wish I could. But, I fear she'll die. I won't lie. Her body is very attractive. But, she used to be 120lb, now she's 105lb.

She's losing weight too rapidly.

your gf is a fat fucking whale who needs to lose weight, get real

Surprisingly soft. She doesn't have problems about breathing.

I have no doubt she's going through the processes of anorexia. It's just she's "never hungry.

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Somebody above mentioned control issues. That's definately true. She can't control anything in her life. So, maybe that's why? I don't want her to die...

So, she's anorexic, then.

This. She'll be a lardass in no time.

>she won't lie if I directly ask.

>woman
>won't lie
Pick one

Hate to tell you friendo
trying to "make" people change is a waste of effort
been there
best you can do is try to get her information, be open with your feelings and be willing to walk away
gl

look up metabolism you weird body controlling fucktard

She clearly has a mental illness, so get her to seek help or get a new gf.

Oh my man, I dated an anorexic gir for about half year, she was so cunning, she managed me to believe her diet was 'healthy' til she started to get real fucked up. I tried to convince her many times to get professional help, I failed, even her family failed, anorexic people are way too complicated for unprofessional persons such family, friend and relationships.
I obviously dumped her, after a couple of months she was hospitalized 'cause she'd faint several times a day, now she's recovered, even tried to befriend me, I obviously rejected her friendship 'cause I'm still hurt and I just wanna forget thag bitch.

Good luck with that, user.

Wow, OP is a major faggot today.
>being a whining bitch will do nothin, just ignore it, not your problem

i fucken love thigh gaps

she looks healthy if a bit on the thin side,,cute,if her bloodwork & liver enzymes are ok,creatine ok,minerals,,all ok, she is good to go
cute lil beanpole

It's not her, get some reading comprehension you piece of shit

would fuck, let's have more pics

I know everyone else is jumping on the bandwagon to call your girl anorexic but let me weigh in on this:

Your girl is 5'6" and 105. That's a bit thin, but she doesn't sound anorexically thin. Some PEOPLE (men and women) are just naturally much thinner. Some people's bodies just DON'T change until they hit like 30 or 40 without extreme bulking (think 5000+ cal a day plus heavy lifting) and it sounds like that probably isn't a priority for her.

It's probably true that she's stressed at school, especially if she's new to college. Some people do the opposite of the "freshman 15" where they lose weight instead of gain. Most people at least in the USA eat when they are stressed, but there are also many people who can't eat a thing when they are stressed.

Thirdly, there may be an underlying medical condition she isn't comfortable sharing with you depending how long you've been together. She could have IBS, Crohns disease, celiac disease, etc. Things like that can cause weight loss when they flare and people tend to stay thinner who have those conditions.

You should ask her if there is any medical reason aside from stress/anxiety at school that might be causing her not to eat a lot. But for a young girl who is naturally thin, a single bowl of oatmeal IS a meal, user. If she isn't someone who works out a lot, if she kinda just floats through the day (normal walking/sitting... no exercise or gym days) then that's perfectly normal. Most people overeat a lot and will tell you differently but they are wrong.

We are trying to help, you should post a pic of her. Its not like she's on Sup Forums right now

Nigga there are obvious red flags you ignore with your dumbass over educated bullshit

Don't negotiate with her about how much she eats, and don't nag her every meal. Instead. have a heartfelt talk to her and tell her you really feel she needs to see a doctor about it and get some advice, just generally check how she's doing and if she's getting enough nutrition and what could be done to help if she isn't.. guilt-trip her into it if you have to, just get her there.

Once there, tell the doctor about these issues, have him confirm to her in plain english that she has a big problem, and try with the doctor to make her accept referal to a specialist, to work out a plan, where she changes her eating habits over time and doesn't get to deside her own portion sizes, you do, and at uni, i dunno. a friend or something..

Then avoid talking about calories fat contents or bodyweight around her, especially about whats in food

Goodness! How do you get that fat?

I'm not saying there aren't red flags, I'm just saying that those red flags could be innocuous. He shouldn't jump to the conclusion that something is wrong like anorexia based on what he wrote here. It could be literally fuckin anything. Maybe she is anorexic. Or maybe she's swallowing so much cum at college she's never hungry. There's only one way to find out

my sister had anorexia, i didn't know, i never even suspected until it was announced by my mother, and they started portioning her meals for her and not letting her go until she'd eaten it all.

If you suspect.. blood test for lack of nutrients is one of the few ways you can be reasonably sure if she's healthy or not

Easy fix, get her into fitness. Dead lifting and all that strong is sexy bullshit