Serious question to all cuckold out there, since this seems to be a huuuge fetish atm.
Do you truely accept being a cuckold, or do you consider it to me more like something of a short term fetish, where you enjoy it while you have the fetish, but you kinda wish you werent a cuckold/ beta male/ loser in the end?
>not a cuck myself
But, my friend and his gf who have been together for 3/4ish years regularly has me come fuck his gf. He partakes too. He's in a band who tours often and when he goes on tour, I go fuck his gf. We take pics and send them to him. He gets off on it.
That doesnt answer my question at all. You just randomly shared your personal situation. But thanks for the bump i guess.
My wife has given other men blowjobs but that is where we draw the line. We do swing but we only soft swap partners.
I get to have blowjobs from other women while she is sucking other guys. It's fun really.
Cuckold is either in you or its not. If it is, you cant shake it so you learn to wear it like a badge
But dont you ever have this lingering feeling where you are worried that she might lose respect for you because you arent living up to your biological need to "claim" her?
Well, that's not cuckolding, that's swing.
Good for you.
I dont agree with that. Watching a ton of internet porn can develop fetishes. Im sure that there are many people out there who fap to cuckold porn but kinda wish they wouldnt. Undoubtedly, some of those people have gotten to a point where they actually let their wife or gf so something with another man, which they might regret afterwards.
So you are kinda saying that biologically determined 'beta males' are the people who become cuckolds?
I wish i was not ...like this...wanting my wife to fuck other men...loving men looking at her..seeing her nudes pictures..but i am addicted now
this is her btw
We've been together 12 years and married for 10. We hit our mid 30's and decided to push our sexual boundaries. Just having fun.
Some faggots would consider it cuck because my wife is touching other men. We've don MMFF, MMF, MFF, public. Just having fun with sex.
So you weren't like this before? Don't you ever think that it is just a fetish that could go away over time? Theoretically you can unlearn any fetish.
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That is the best, man. Explore all of your fantasies while you can. Don't let your relationship become stale too soon.
>decided to push our sexual boundaries. Just having fun.
Yes i understand that but that decision does not take in account what i wrote in my question. I personally would be kinda scared that you might start to slowly lose respect for eachother over the years, since we are quite literally biologically programmed to negatively respond to a partner that doesn't "claim" you for themselves.
Its only getting better. Been trying to coax her a little to do some cam work. Her tits are just made to be cummed on
Allowing your woman to fuck/ give a BJ to another guy is about the most beta thing i can imagine.
Biologically speaking it is better for both parties to seek other mates after producing.
Monogamy is a more modern construct
maybe, but i am just a normal guy otherwise...just have always wanted wife to be a whore
tfw all these people getting cucked and cucking and I can't even get a girl.
>Let your woman fuck other guys! It's great!
Is this some kind of fucking psyop? Civilizations fall because of shit like this.
I find that hard to believe. If we arent monogamous creatures than why is jealousy towards our partners one of our strongest emotions we have? There are plenty of monogamous animals in this world and it sure as hell seems to be that humans are one of them.
Not really a quality seen in primates other than humans. Then for most of our history it didn't matter. About the time Abrahamic religions started becoming dominate did mono relationships become more common. Post indigenous peoples don't follow one man one woman life styles.
I swear they're putting something in our water to cause our men to become cuckolds and traps.
>in our water to cause our men to become cuck
woman are more open now also...
Yeah, it's called liberalism.
Did you know that estrogen from the birth control pill cannot be properly filtered out from water, so over the years the levels of estrogen in tap water keeps rising and rising?
Same applies for medicine btw. The amount of hormones and old people medicines in water keeps going up
should i NOT be putting pictures on here? new to this forum??
Maybe, but evolution can go fast, in those 2000 years wolfs also went from wolf to chihuahua. And just look around. You cant seriously claim that it is some huge conspiracy or social construct where people decided to brainwash ourselves into thinking we are monogamous. The fact that 99,99% of all people want to be monogamous and feel one of the worst emotions known to humans when their partner breaks that monogamy, should be an indicator that we currently, probably are quite monogamous.
Yes you can, it can usually actually be quite good at drawing attention to a thread and keeping it alive. Its also a NSFW board so go ahead and post that genitals
you can tell me what you want and say and explain and etc..
one thing is fact. if you are a cuck or enjoying seeing your wife/gf fuck other guys, then you dont love her. or dont have self respect.
at the first you gonna think that its some funny shit where you can trust her thst shes only going doing when you know it/are around...but the time will come, where she gonna do it where she can do it.. and also at moments where you dont need it or arent horny...
there is for sure a reason , when they say :
never share your own wife or own car with somebody.
sooner or later you gonna regret it..
lol..tits too
This is one of the things that i can imagine being afraid of yes. Are there any cuckold who are acutally active in being a cuckold who also have this fear, yet still cant get over their fetish?
Can we have a whatsap group about this, what do you think?
Not sure how i would explain to my gf that i am in a cuckold discussion group
First of all. Retard. Having a fetish does not have anything to do with how you act in the society. Being cuckold does not require or mean that you are a "beta loser". It is just a turn on, for no apparent reason.
It is really sad that people lack the intellect and capabilities to separate and understand how things work, just because of their lack of sexual experience. Sorry m8. Doesnt work that way.
More like 10,000 years but still that was forced evolution not natural.
Why would anyone think a guy who locks his penis in a little cage and then licks other guy's cum from his wife's pussy is a beta loser?
Now i dont think you understand what an actual cockold is.
I watch cuck porn but I also get girls to cheat on there fiancés and would never cheat on my gf if I had one soo idk I doubt I'm the type of guy you were trying to ask
I thought I nailed it.
>Disclaimer: the idea of cuckolding is disgusting to me, so my viewpoint is inherently biased. My feelings notwithstanding, I try to make no personal or overly emotional judgements on cucks.
This is my personal theory, so take with many grains of salt.
I'm older than most Sup Forumstards and I've been around the block a few times. I'm not hugely successful with women or anything, but I've gone from total autist worrying about penis size, to teaching myself just enough to sleep with a handful of girls, including a pseudo-threesome with two dorm-mates and now in a 2+ year relationship with a kinky live-in girlfriend (one of said girls). Also traveled and settled in Europe now.
The one thing I learned about being a man in successful, traditional relationships? It's hard. Being the dominant one takes a lot of physical and mental work. Being the leader of your relationship takes a lot of work and it never stops. Being successful with and attractive to girls (i.e. being a dominant man) is a never-ending effort which never really stops, but which has to look effortless to work - drop the ball too much and for too long, and all but the most loyal girl will fall away. Add to this the breakdown of traditional relationships and relationship morality (i.e. cheating is less societally shamed, open relationship are more the norm) means added competition (from hot, dishonorable players) trying to make a play for your women.
(part 1/2)
The gross result of all this is that if you're trying to be a traditional, strong man who commands the love and loyalty of your women, you have your work cut out for you. Plus, you need to work it out for yourself - fathers are more and more absent, and societies/communities of men are no longer as common as they once were, which were great (for better or worse) for teaching lessons on manhood. Plus, many more societies are becoming (again, for better or worse) more comfortable with the idea of matriarchal ideologies. Great for intrinsic, societal sexual freedom, equality and protection of those in need... but less so for a society which can inherently teach you how to be a dominant man.
So if a traditional, male-dominated, monogamous relationship where the woman does not or cannot sleep around, is the result of (true) male dominance, then why does cucking exist? Why would a man want the reverse of this?
Simple answer; I think it's easier. Like I said, society has no real road-map for dominance and manhood anymore, and it's simultaneously becoming more promiscuous (for women, and the few men who can take advantage of this). Giving up that control, giving up that continuous effort, including sexualising the loss of being the dominant sexual partner - so much easier then all that work you need to be a powerful, dominant man. Just.. let someone else do it. Let someone else turn her on and get her into it. I'll just fuck her as the piece on the side.
As an aside, this also (partially, not completely) explains the rising numbers of gender-fluid, effeminate young men.
Anyway. Just my 2 cents.
Should probably also add - cucking is disgusting to me as the CUCK. As the bull? That's different.
ITT people that married whores and can only keep them by letting them continue to be whores.
that is true, to try and stop her..she would divorce
>one reason more..
I enjoy watching homemade cuck porn because I like watching a woman enjoy dick from someone other than her man with no strings attached. No way in fucking hell I would ever allow my wife to do it though, even considering I know she doesn't want to. Fuck. That.
I thought I was a cuckold but really whenever I think about it properly I hate the idea of someone else fucking my gf, I'm jealous af.
I think what I like is a mixture of interracial, voyeurism, and a little humiliation and the best way to encompass those three is through cuckold videos and text. I do like the fantasy of cuckold though, but the idea of making it a reality is not for me.
Yes, though, I do wish I didn't have these tastes.
wait for the 10 year mark. marriage is death.
Already there.
>you are watching too much Alex Jones
its a fetish for sure
actually an element of bdsm or femdom more than anything
>do you accept being a cuck, short term, regrets ect...
Its something I am enjoying and if I stop enjoying ill stop doing it.
I dont care enough about everyone's identity politics and general panic over their own identity confirmation. Thus I dont really care that I like this fetish and how that everyone seems to have a crisis about it in some bizarre attempt to confirm their own "important" identity.
I dont think having a kink makes you anything other than someone with a kink.
Get over it man. People gonna get freaky.
You dont like freaky? what are you doing on Sup Forums.
One love nigga
Coming up on 7 user. Marriage is great, as is the regular sex/BJ's whenever I want. It's offspring that kills it, which is why we are holding off for now.
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