How does Sup Forums talk to grils?

How does Sup Forums talk to grils?

>go to club last night with friends
>one kid is fearless
>walks up to every hot chick
>starts dancing in the middle of group of chicks
>etc

How does he have so much confidence?

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Stupid probably.

20 secs of bravery is all you need

just realize, they're people just like you.

He sounds like a tool

this. solid advice, even tho i can't follow it myself.
The struggle between alpha and beta wages on.

Just post more of lefty, nothing else matters now.

there is no struggle
alpha people have it naturally
betas keep talking about it thinking its just some attitude, that they can behave differently and become alpha, but it never happens
even if you try, its obvious that is an act

Ive had a girlfriend for the past 2 years and things are chill. I know when I've got it good

But when I was single, I would use okcupid and tinder, night clubs or other settings were different, really just depends on the context. I was dating this girl for a couple months, mostly just for fucking, we started talking over drinks at a party we were both at because she happened to mention a book or movie I liked

Clubs are different, the only ones I go to or did go to were ones that had DJs I liked playing, some times id meet a woman and dance, other times id just chill with friends

I've seen a few transfers. After a terrible car accident that i acted quickly in, i became the alpha of my family. You can't just change your attitude, it's a change of who you ARE. You have to be a pack leader. Always have a plan. Be the prepared one, the one who calls the shots. Start with family, eventually you gain confidence and it bleeds over to friends, and way down the line, pretty girls. Get to it now before you're too old like i am.

Related: Is it possible to stop being shy? I'm pretty outgoing but when it comes to clubs and shit I'm weak. Never make eye contact with chicks looking and stuff

I worked in a downtown bar in a city of over 3 million people.. You guy there has realized that he could whip out his dick, do the helicopter, and speak retardese, and STILL not be rememberer a month from then in the off chance that anyone that was there returns to the bar at the same time he does (the bar is a flow of ever changing faces and bodies.)

What you need is confidence, it's all you need.

You also need to stop being a manlet and become tough.

This is 100% bz. The vast majority of alphas fake it before they make it.

We're all gonna make it.

Yeah just realise everyone who looks smooth as shit is also sweating with anxiety but they are hard cunts who act cool despite anxiety.

>We're all gonna make it.
kek

If this doesn't take the pressure off you you need to actually demonstrate it to yourself by going balls to the wall of makig a dick of yourself then realise the next day nobody gives a shit.

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I was a depressed kid til I was in my early 20's before I realized I had to change. You need to be comfortable with the context you're in. I pushed myself in every situation instead of backing down I jumped in. Sometimes I failed miserably, but kept going.

Now I'm 23 and when I go partying I very rarely go home alone if I'm trying. It's total bullshit that only some people "got it". You need to understand that women are as diverse as men in what turns them on. I've known the hottest girls that refuse anything but the nerdiest of nerds (that have that little bit of confidence) because that's what they need and want.

I doubt people in this thread know anything about women. I can answer if anyone needs help from someone who crawled out of the manlet cesspool, but be honest.

Have you ever gotten to a state where you just don't care? Not caring in a sense where you realize that the worst situation is a "no" and you move along? Learn to channel that feeling of not giving a fuck. Give enough fucks to be gentle and understanding, but still have confidence to a point where you can take rejection well. Spurs of confidence can help you figure out how to control it to your own will. Its all in the mindset my dude

how to start talking to girls in bars?

>How does he have so much confidence?
Xanax

Shy is just a perspective, its hard to consider the feelings of others when yours are the ones that seem so present

If anything it just means you're better at introspection and more emotionally competent

In a club though, just be nice but also be a little bold, just walk up and say something like, hey I noticed you arent drinking, would you care to share a drink?

As dumb as it sounds politeness will win in most situations, once youve gauged interest then open up and be a little more aggressive

its not confidence, its lack of care

Horrible advice lmao....ezcuuuuse me miss would u plz fancy a drink pretty please I'm so nice let's share????? Lol faggot

just have to believe in yourself
went from being a fat beta 18 year old virgin who thought it was a good idea to date a fat 3/10 slut. fast forward to now 23, awesome confidence which netted me a great paying job full of people who value me, 8.5/10 cheerleader gf that earns even more money than me and wines and dines me regularly, a couple of fast cars, an amphetamine prescription and a bunch of girls lined up if i become single again, just in case. lifes good now.

>How does he have so much confidence?
>confidence
Can we just stop using this meme-word already? He's not confident. He just doesn't give a shit anymore. Just like any of us who is on drugs.

>We're all gonna make it.

Not all of us... Just keep going forward-

So many lies... cheer leader gf... 23..... high paying job... lmaooo

Depends what shyness we are talking about. I'm very shy. To the point where I blush and act like little innocent girl. But that's only when speaking to girls I think that are "higher" than me and are very beautiful. Lower ones - meh, don't give a fuck about them. I can speak freely with them.

I just tried (and failed pretty bad) several times, but it got gradually easier. I imagined that the girl I was talking to was this "wimpy little boy" I had to impress.

But in all honestly, that aspect isn't hard. Women don't want a cocky alpha, they want a jovial type that *listens*. I typically try 20% me, 80% her. Build rapport, bring back shit she said before, visualize that wimpy boy and seem confident when you crack a joke. Trust me, a woman thinks it's impressive just that you talk to her, so don't be afraid of being judged.

I don't see you offering any advice.

Conversation and interaction isn't hard.

I didn't tell him to go ask like a meek 5 year old. You look around, see if theres someone you think is attractive, and just go up and talk to her.

Drink something. Have you ever been drunk?
I was a completely failure a year ago and last Saturday a girl wanted to kiss me. We did it. She wanted to come home with me but I couldn't since I was going out with my friends after the party. God damn, I regret.

You are not good with women it seems. He is right. Some people just CAN be alpha cocky jerk, but they attract the women that likes it. Have you seen any mainstream hollywood movie? how often is the protagonist not like this. Women loves class, but also being aggressive not overly flirty.

Yes, u told him to ask like a needy 5 year old. Pretty much. Lmao share a drink madam? *tips fedora in politeness to 'win'"

This is not the movies. Those 'protagonists' in movies are fiction with fictional situations.... Lol???

Do schools give the day off for the inaguration?

Or did mom just leave the computer on. You should get off before you get in trouble

how you like you like an apple juice or some of my fruit by the foot? i was thinking maybe you could come over sunday morning for some cartoons. my mother makes a delicious bowl of frosted flakes. after that we could talk about my puppy.

Criticizing the example, not the point.

This

i dont, there is a reason i am here right?

go back to Sup Forums and prattle on and on about how kino spielberg is, faggot.

No shame

You broke your leg at the skate park last week and Jessica stole your crutches this morning. Now you're stuck inside all day.

as a europoor i wouldn't want to go near a skate park, just leads to rape harrasment or worse

nah its ok, with some i can talk for hours, with others not even a minute. but internally i think all women are whores and i despice them a bit, doesn't really help getting girls

This. Jewish conspiracies are my favorite openers.

you seem upset

Her name is Gemma Maree. Don't ask me how I know this

that's nonsense, skate parks have the best cocaine. they're not all whores. change your shitty attitude and it'll change your perception. you see what you're looking for.

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Keep the government from monitoring your online activity anonyourself.club

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Master body language. It's really all you need. You can read some more shit about psychology but... A good student of body language can get a woman interested in them from across the room before they have even spoken.

Exposure therapy.

Just take a Xanax and throw yourself in the middle of the bitches like your homie.

>look at all these keys

are you a janitor?

What pose are you recommending?

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we're gonna make it bra

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you can't hide being sweaty and fucked up on xanax. everyone you meet is going to know you aren't sober.

i dont do cocaine, i agree with the latter though. guess i'm just spending too much time on pol complaining that my beloved europe goes to hell, which makes you hate all sorts of people (woman included)

why so many Toyotas and which ones

This. Learn to control and how to maintain eye contact

You won't be vaporized if you talk to a girl. Worst that could happen is that they could publicly crush your frail beta ego.

Love this girl

>all toyota and honda keys

TOP. KEK.

You sure showed us collecting your parents keys.

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people always get the wrong idea when i make eyeball contact, especially cashiers.

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at the moment
>94 import Tercel
>87 aw11 mr2
>97 import ae111 trueno
>07 aurion

i like helping neglected cars, mainly toyotas

annons home for neglected toyotas

Keys to the broken down cars sitting in his front yard.

I don't believe all this "I went from fat beta virgin to chad alpha thundercock" shit

just like said
Sure there are people who can "change", but de facto it's almost never 180° change, most of the time it's just people that had some confidence/alphaness/whatever to start with going through a bad patch
All you have to do is check out how someone was like as a kid, that's more or less what that person will be like for the rest of their lives - if they were shy kids that stayed inside all day, you won't find them pulling pussy left and right 20 years later

In the end it all comes down to genetics, that's how it is and there's no point fooling yourself, these dreams of going from Chrischan to Casanova are just that, dreams
Either you're a natural leader or you're no leader at all

The only thing that does work is drugs
>Alcohol, personally speaking, doesn't really do a lot for me

>sweaty and fucked up
>Xanax
Dude, you don't have to abuse them. Just take one and get your two-step on.

Also, people get sweaty at clubs. I always hated it but that happens when people dance.

like i said dude, if you sit around all day focusing on negative things that make me angry you're ruining your disposition. you're programming yourself to be bitter and unfriendly.

>how does Sup Forums talk to grils?
We don't.

Talk to them like you would any person. Be open be funny be sincere. Be confident most of all. You can tell pretty early if they are interested in you are not. The trick at a club is to talk to as many women as possible. Once you get 5, stick with her. Then try to go home with her or take her home with you. You're bound to get laid. I got laid by 52 women in my lifetime. And I only started at 27 years of age. I'm 33 years old now.

Women go to clubs to get fucked. You're not a miracle worker.

nude pics? seems to be a slut

What do you mean by once you get five? Like, stick to the 5th one you talk to, or talk to five girls without the expectation of anything happening, and then try harder once you get in the zone of talking to chicks without any hangups?

thats why i'd never pick a women from a club because those degenerate whores can go to hell

im sorry but thats bullshit, life is what you make it. you can be whatever sort of person you want to be. you are a beta cuck if you think that and deserve to have your fat gf fucked while you watch

This guy here again
The guy you're talking about it so confident because he's done it so many times. The only downside that he could suffer is that the girls wouldn't really want to dance with him. Big deal. Till just walked up to the next girl. I've gotten so confident that I'm to the point where I can talk to a girl and if I feel a good vibe, I can actually take my dick out and let her feel it. If she catches my vibe, I usually get laid. This has work for me 2 out of 2 times. So a 100 percent success rate. But you have to know what you're doing.

settle down, this is a family restaurant.

>go to a club
>consume coke
>????
>profit

>you can tell pretty early

Exactly. Just talk, talk and talk. Just like with any other thing. You can't be perfect from the get-go.

Take it as a phase in your life. You're not doing it to find a spouse. You're doing it for confidence to eventually find someone worth a long term relationship. If you never get the confidence, or if you start a relationship by one of the pick-ups, you will aim too low.

I am beta as fuck, but with try and observing some alpha friend I can tell you a bunch of things :

1] Look matter. Make peace with that. Yeah there is the 1 on 100 ugly boy that banged the hot chick, but keep in mind that not the rule, but the exception. The key is not bothering with it, not because you feel more confident ect. , but because if look matter, but personal taste matter too. I have a lot of female friend and you could be surprised by the diversity and "level" of what they found attractive;

2] Trying and failing is better that not doing anything. I know it sound like fiest level stupid thing, but it's true. If you fail at least you are learning something, you are "playing". If you don't go and try nothing will never happen.

3] Don't make it a holy crusade. First thing you want is to go out and have fun, yeah I know getting laid is the top of fun, but if you start it as a work you will start to overthink it and the thought will annilathe the action.

4] Alcol is your friend and your enemy. Alcol help you lessening your inibhition, but too much and you become the 10th drunk idiot trying to hit the girl.

5] It's not big deal. If you start taking with a girl you have to start like it's nothing special, don't overdue that even the opening should really be something easy. Really sometimes when I am out of the club waiting to enter I simply start by generaly looking throught the girl and saying something like "It's cold I just hope they let us enter soon as possible" or other bullshit like that.

6] It's not big deal. If you start talking with a girl that you don't know neither of you really expect some deep and meaningfull conversation. You are just stranger that are meeting att a social event. What you do ? Where you live? You come often here? Are just good question.

What kind of parks are you going to? Times?

This is a wise decision.

You will meet nothing but troubled sluts at nightclubs. I've met most of my women at those and they were all really terrible people.

Lying, cheating, hooooors.

You think everyone is terrible.

>trying and failing
>don't make it a crusade
>balance with alcohol
>don't overthink

I concur

Went to a casino with prostitution.
Maybe 20 dudes and 200+whores
Still couldn't talk to the women despite not needing to say anything other than 'damn youre sexy how much?'
After an hour of silent gambling finally bought a pussy.
Back to my room and fucked, think all I said was 'nice boobs' and later- 'I think I need a new condom and position now.'
Was neat to finally get a cum but just prooved to me women are a waste of money and stress.

the majority of humanity is terrible and useless, yep. the world would be better with a radical population cut

Cont.

7] Depending on social situation my average time from "Hi" to start kissing is about 1 minute. Really it's usually very clear when a girl want you to do more than kissing. I dound a key point that let you understand this. It's not big bullshit like eye movement or lips biting.

Simlpy do the gesture of you know when in the past man take the girl hand and kiss it. You have to put the hand in that way, you just don't have to take her hand or kiss. You just have to wait, if gave you the hand you can go kissing the girl otherwise better you wait.

talking to girls 101

>tell them you were born in West Philly
>you spent lots of time at the playground
>your hobbies include: chillin out, maxin' and relaxin' and coolin'
>you been in a fight with a local gang
>you have now moved to (your current city/town) as requested by your mother
>you have relatives (aunt/uncle) in (your current city/town)
>the vehicle you drive had dice in the mirror
>you have been known to be disrespectful to cab/uber drivers

You are what you can convince other people you are.

No, just 99% of female clubrats.

And you.

Got one tip that's all you need.

The 5 second rule. Get in a bar. Decide immediately the table (ppl) you want to join. Join them right away after ordering your drink. Talk.

BUT if they say no, DO NOT join another table that saw that happen. They will think they're the 2nd choice. Scoot away to the COUNTER and wait for the pop to change / strike up conversations at the counter.

One minute? Damn, that's quick. Tell me more.

I think you should talk to whoever and just utter whatever comes natural

even "Hows the weather this bad ?" Trust me, even if its stupid you should say it because what could go wrong