pic related: my ex
>be me
>2 months ago i leave fb open on gf's comp
>later that day, she sees nudes another girl sent me
>wtfgtfo
>we break up
>it's been a shitty 2+ months
>have barely talked but lately we have been texting more normally
>today, she agrees to get breakfast with me
>i think i can get her back if i play my cards right .jpg
has anyone ever won their ex back? how did you do it? / general advice thread.
The real trick here, user, is not to play your cards right, but to trap her psychologically. Make her feel like she has no one. Kill her family and friends if you must, or just make her sign a contract so she can only see you (Onision style, y'know?). Or you could kidnap her, rape her and torture her. Both work.
ive already kill everyone in her family and it's just made her sad and distant (which is why i haven't jumped on murdering her friends as well), any other ideas?
wow, such /b, so advice
You could just talk to her, make her feel welcome in your life. Listen to her problems, girls like that.
What was the story behind the n00ts?
If you cheated on her, you might get her back, if she cheated on you it's of no use.
So yeah it's probable you can get her back.
Use the double strategy, logical and emotional
Say you didn't requested the nudes, say you cant control if someone sends you nudes, say you just cant stop talking to other females just because you have a gf.
Look her in the eye, but keep some distance from her, don't come out as supplicant, make her understand that you like her but you can live without her.
The logical part is just a bridge for the emotional, women don't give a fuck about the logical but the emotional gets them every time.
Be a decent fucking human being and glad that your fucking dick can get rock hard. What the fuck op you fucking crab. she evn aggrees to have a breakfast, totalk and you already had the chance once she is WILLING to give you another chance, dont mess it up.
the nudes are of a less attractive girl, which sort of made it worse because it made her question her own "hotness". had her wondering if there was something special about this girl emotionally that she could not provide...
in all actuality i was just getting off on another girl giving me attention.
honestly I had a very similar situation with my ex, it isn't worth it. Sure you can get her back if you play on her emotions right. Girls are easy if you are alright looking and know how people work. But do you really want her back? She will probably hold what happened over your head for the longest of time, things arent going to seem the same. And she may use this to justify some shit she may do futher down the line. My advice would be to maybe try and keep a friendship as opposed to getting fully involved wth this broad. Anyways good luck user.
I take it your dick can't get hard. Erectile dysfunction. kek fucking faggot. Probably masturbated to traps so much that you couldn't fuck a normal person.
she knows i requested the nudes already, so idk about that part.
and the second part has been working because i've blatantly been having an OK time without her and letting her be aware of that via social media.
appreciate the post and support user
thanks for the advice.
yeah, i do want her back. i've had potential to be with other girls even in this short amount of time but didn't because if she found out any chance of reconsiliation would be destroyed. she did plenty of fucked up things as well before we were together so idk i have an arsenal of shit if she tries to keep my face buried in this mistake. i think we can reach forgiveness and have it be as dope as it was when we were happy.
appreciate you
It's no use user. Give up now, otherwise she'll suspect that you're trying to get back with her and she'll lose her MARBLES!
>pic related; it's me.
im fucking laughing whoremouth
Well, she might just be looking to get laid. I've had exs call me up and wed meet at a diner for coffee or whatever and catch up. Next time they call they say "I miss you. Can we we see eachother". Next thing you know youre fucking. But fucking doesnt necessarily mean things are fixed or your back together, and maybe itll be one time, maybe not. I dont understand women user, I'm just telling you whats happened on my end.
If you really like her, maybe instead of imediatly having sex when you get the "I miss you" text, go out on a date. Let the sexual tension build up and fester for a little while. I never really wanted to get back with my exs but I almost never turn down sex so..
anyway, good luck
haaa she def knows i want to get back with her AND STILL agreed to breakfast, which makes me think my chances are pretty good. i just get autistic sometimes in high stress situations and dont wanna blow it.
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The most serious attack took place on March 24th, when she was discovered at a bus stop by the brothers. One of them pushed her down, while the other punched her in the mouth. Upon seeing the mother of the boys approaching, Ida told the paper: “I thought she would stop them. But she kicked me”.
The young girl was admitted to hospital with a head injury and two loose teeth. The police have been notified, but in defiance of the report the girl has been told she will be beaten six more times.
Now she says “I dare not go outside”, because friends of her rapist will telephone the brothers if they see her in town.
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my advice would be dont talk to other girls you dick
OP give us a pic of yourself or a description. we'll decide whether you stand a good chance by looks alone.
we have hooked up one time back in december and just before fucking she transforms back into emotional woman instead of horny bitch and we never fuck. that was almost the last time we've communicated.
i'll definitely not try to fuck this time and next time to build up sexual tension and feelings of desire. good advice. thanks for post.
that's how i've been able to prove that i'm "changing" for her. easy.
no pic
5'11"
164 pounds
medium build
6.5" dick
white
25 years old
$45k salary in creative field
she's 28 and cute AF
hair colour? what sort of clothes do you wear?
I love how some people read OP stories and decided to give him advice anyway.
This is dumb kids stuff.
>He uses her pc to sext pics to another girl.
>break up
>wahh he feels bad because he is stupid
>she agrees to see him again
>should I show up to see her herp derp
You people shouldnt be dating with the chance of breeding with anyone right now, clearly she is as fucking dumb as you are.
Please, get a vasectomy before you guys have sex.
brown, i dress well enough for her to have dated me for 8 months and fucked me semi regularly for a year before that
hey god tier relationship expert, everybody fucks up
are you a smart guy OP? girls like intelligence (at least, the decent grills)
retarded enough to go on Sup Forums, smart enough to have a college degree and a salaried job in my field.
i've got it all
Yes, they do, and when you do, you learn and move on.
OP hasn't hit that place yet or else he wouldn't be here.
Sadly, the only anons willing to give him advice are his peers, which they are wrong too, and just makes it worse.
Golden Advice: Chalk this up to being dumb, find another nice girl and try hard not to be dumb like that again. Its NEVER going to be the same with you ex as in your gushy member'berries, you squashed that forever. Just move on. Doesn't sound like you really loved her anyway, amirite?
I'm just gonna say you should move on youve already screwed up and you did for a reason
Don't talk to her and just wait awhile, not worth op especially from how you describe her
appreciate the post
i have this romantic idea that our relationship could be better because we know how to not hurt each other in the future, that we can grow together instead of rolling the dice on a new relationship where there isn't such an explicit base of future respect...? idk maybe i'm autistic and have seen too many movies.
Yas 100%
sad not many will take this advice and keep staying in half baked manipulative relationships and keep themselves from being better men, such is love and love is blind
is it so much worse that i received nudes from a girl instead of jerking it to some rando getting plowed on porn hub?
i haven't given her a description here, other than being cute AF
Well mate, you got bored and started looking for some new pussy.
Now you are just sad because you bed is cold at night.
The same thing will happen when and if you two decide to " try " again.
But don't underestimate the power of denial I guess...
first part is kinda true. i wouldn't have cheated IRL but i'm numbed to the internet...
hopefully she's in as much denial as i am xD
I've never done it, and I've done the exact same thing you're doing right now. I followed the advice of Sup Forums, read fucking books and manuals, sacrificed animals to the gods, etc. In my experience, once women make up their mind, you're fucked. I've got an ex that I still talk to on a regular basis. We broke up fourteen years ago because I cheated on her. She'll still regularly bring that up, and when she does, she's just as mad now as she was then. Best of luck to you.
Can we get the nudes you were sent?
For research purposes....
I see your point but if that's your logic then it doesn't matter, you're dealing with a woman
Would you feel comfortable talking to her about jerking off to pictures a girl you were chatting with? No, you probably kept it secret because you know it's shameful. I'm just gonna say again you should break it off and just not talk to her, I know it's hard especially if you talk everyday and are lonely when it's over but it's much better this way. Fix yourself up and start again, feel comfortable with the person by being honest itll lead to a much more rewarding relationship.
jesus this is dscouraging.
thanks for the post :(
i'm such a great human being that i deleted them
thanks user
we definitely don't talk every day, and i'm working on fixing myself up. have been honest and will answer any question she has for me. i think this was my last dark secret... other than going on fucking Sup Forums of course.