I cum way too quick when I'm with a girl. Need tips to last longer. What has worked for you?

I cum way too quick when I'm with a girl. Need tips to last longer. What has worked for you?

When you're about to come imagine Trump licking your anus, that'll hold you back a few more minutes.

But that's what I think about during...

just made me cum

get circumcised.

hahaha fuck thats some funny stuff thats some good improv comedy right there

depression

...

Angst meds

Havent came since

perhaps have her give you a handjob until you cum and then fuck her 10 minutes after

Just get cucked and watch

Read the Tao of Love. Great techniques. I went from 5 to 45 min practicing that stuff.

Go ask the doctor for prozac because you're "depressed"

Instant delayed orgasm. Well not instant, takes a couple days to get going.

Try some exotic position periodically

Bate before you date.

There are these little sprauys that you can buy online, you spray like a wiff or two onto the tip of your dick and you'll last about 10 mins longer.
"Ejaculation Retardation" try googling those words together see what you can find.

Just jack off 15+ min before you fuck her. Then you will be able to fuck her for like 40+ min straight before you have to cum again.

the problem with that is you are far softer

Squeeze your dick harder when you masterbate

Sertralin, OP. It worked wonders for my mind and my penis.

Find a girl who's easily satisfied

>Edging works miracles and is fun.
Inb4.... Google it, quick draw

Piss in her and pretend you cum.

>I cum way too quick when I'm with a girl. Need tips to last longer. What has worked for you?

Become gay.

lol ftw

>I cum way too quick when I'm with a girl.

Switch to guys. Worked for me.

Was it really necessary to greentext quote the entire text of the OP you are replying to?

Fap early in the day like 2 hours +
You will still be horny after that but not soo quick to cum
>fucked a black girl once cummed in 10min

NOT THIS AGAIN

Tramadol. If you can't get that, a little kratom works too.

Try one of the numbing lotions they sell at Adam and Eve. Keeps you from getting over stimulated too quickly.

Wear a condom. Seriously.

Also, the older you get, the "longer" you are. Just give it a few more years. Trust me, when you're 50 years old, this won't be a problem.

Yes, looking at this will help. Thanks

I just imagine Will Smith is walking down an alley in an empty city and trying to figure out where he is. There's no people around and suddenly he shoulder bumps into another man on the street. It is another Will Smith. Then they pull out baseball bats and fight each other.

I started fucking dudes.

>Was it really necessary to greentext quote the entire text of the OP you are replying to?
He thought so

just keep going after you cum, thats how i do it.

I can get off like six times, i get tired of physical exertion before my willpower runs out.

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>>Was it really necessary to greentext quote the entire text of the OP you are replying to?
>He thought so

ah k

Take her dick out of your ass and put it in hers, should buy you a couple of minutes.

Think about sports (icehockey, baseball, football etc.) thats at least the trick i use and has always worked for me

>when I'm with a girl
well, be with a guy then

start hating your girl. hate sex=best sex for bitches

>cum way too quick

You need to desensitize your penis OP.

You're going to get some really bad advice in here. Things like "fap before you fuck" or "think of something else". These address the symptoms but not the root of the problem. Here's what you should do:

Get some 150-300 grit sandpaper and softly grind away the edge of your your corona - that is the edge of your penis...Google it if the term is new to you. After you've sanded the edge smooth over the treatment period, you can control your own reaction to sexual stimuli.

I'm easily the most qualified person here to be giving you advice. I am completing my PhD in biokinetic physics and your specific scenario is actually a component of my original research. This research consists of years of study regarding penile sensitivity and culminated in a peer reviewed, double-blind longitudinal study of 200 participants and optimal results were obtained from moderate friction with 200 grit sandpaper for 5 minutes, 2 days a week for 6 weeks. It will cure your sensitivity, guaranteed.

bla bla stfu phd of dicks

This is legit, did it a couple years ago.

EXACTLY HOW FAST DO YOU CUM?

are you able to even get started?

If so how long do you last?

>You're going to get some really bad advice in here.


you meant in your post

If you're not doing kegels you're fucking up all other advice is shit

bullshit. You are not well rested then. of have low blood pressure.

When I was with a girl,
1. came quickly. because who cares, I liked her, she was hot and we are fucking animals - our sex normally shouldn't be longer than 1 minute btw.
2. licked her pussy, got hard again fucked her.
3. then we watched some shit and I fucked her again.
4. went out to grab soda and food, ate and fucked again.
went to sleep, and we woke, she pushed her butt in my balls and we fucked again.

so girls don't care if you can sustain your dick up.

I also had pretty bad nights when I am tired after like 10 hr shift, go drinking and after 10hr + 6 hr low key partying we fuck.
I try my best, and the girl, fucking solid 9/10 is so pretty and I can barely sustain hard erection when she is blowing me. I came and felt like shit.

So here's a tip - be active, work out, don't expect good sex after long nights, unless you are really in party mood (i.e. you are full of endorfins and just want to rock, instead of think about bed and next workday).

just keep going after you cum, thats how i do it.

I can get off like six times, i get tired of physical exertion before my willpower runs out.

yeaaaaaa right

No, this is basic science. Grinding away the corona is hugely beneficial. It essentially accomplishes the primary benefit of circumcision without having to go through invasive surgery. OP should dull the corona and sandpaper is legitimately his best option.

ED in later years

Dude, intense masturbation is key. I jack mine twice a day whether it needs it or not. Not including splurge weekends. When I fuck I basically choose when I splooge.

Masturbate, but every time you are about to cum, stop.

Don't let yourself cum before 20 minutes.

I'm an actual physician and I advise against oral medication such as anti depressor. Lot of side effects without mentioning the risk of withdrawal effect when you stop. If you already tried everything possible like exercise more or use different position or pauses during sex there is still something for you. Lidocain spray are super efficient. It desensitizes your dick after 5 - 10 min and you can last much longer. In my home country it's called Kenergon but I think you have to get a prescription.

Actually no. The corona can be resensitized with topical gels. Prevalence of ED 5 yeas after treatment showed no statistically significant variance between the study population and the control group. This is a safe treatment option for OP.

kegels. zinc. korean ginseng. lidocaine and a condom. google these things.

Preach

Pinching yourself works.

Also, I try to think of something not related to sex in any way, but not so off putting that it makes me lose my erection. For example, I think of a bath full of rubber ducks all quacking at me. Don't ask me how...but it works.

You are full of shit

Best ass. Best ass I ever licked. You know it. I know it. Everybody knows it.

This homeboy speak da troof, innit

Sometimes i do some simple but hard math like doubling numbers. 2, 4, 8, 16 etc. when you get past 2048 it gets tough enough to be distracting.

You, sir, are an overly-educated artard.

I can confirm that this works.

we found our fan of the guy who is into eating out his own cream pie

fucking gross. fag.

on a serious note, try slowing down, changing positions, some i have the ability to last for hours as long as i'm not in missionary, dont know why, makes me cum like a balloon ;

I just think of my ex-wife. That pretty much puts me right off.

You actually googled it holy shit.

well, to be honest, i have tried a lot and nothing seemed to work at all. i just came in the puss at about 2 minutes maximum.
ive got really upset and nearly suicided.
but then a great idea came to my mind.
since my childhood i have a very scared arm and i noticed often, that i nearly feel nothing on the scared skin.
so i believed it could be the same way with my dick
and got it circumcised.
and guess what mate, it worked. I can fuck pussy and anus now for hours straight without a problem,
i mean ok, it looks nasty and disgusting now, but who cares, nobodies gonna see it anyway while fucking.
so mate, the one and only working method to last longer in bed, is to mutilate the most sensitive part of ur dick.
get a circumcision ;)

Don't do it with a girl then

Have you ever slightly burned a fingertip and your feeling of touch becomes a little numb? Do this with the head of your dick. I know it sounds retarded but trust me it totally works.

Now I'm not saying physically burn your dick, that's just retarded. Hold your dick like an inch or two away from the flame. Make sure to get the top of your penis head and the tip as well

this would open the door into a new dimension

take low dose DXM about 2 hours before action. like literally threshold recreational dose, say about 150mg

always remember porn is not real. every time the camera cuts the male star is taking a 15 minute break and giving his dick an ice bath.
they can cum and just have it edited on to the end. they are almost always using enhancing drugs and tools of some form, viagra, possibly DXM as I have mentioned but I doubt it, dick pumps, the aforementioned ice baths, the fact they have a filming crew of guys egging them on and they are banging a whore with whom they share no intimate relationship. also cocaine or lidocaine/novocaine help a lot.

you don't have to bang for an hour, much less without cumming. if thats what you want to do then numb yourself and keep a pace and take breaks. or you could just go ahead, bust a nut, take a break and go at it again and have a nice session with your lady friend.

but yeah if you want to show off try low dose dxm.

Sertraline fucked me up pretty badly as someone with actual depression. Can't remember an extended period of time when I was more miserable.

Be careful with that shit.

i didn't read any of the other replies. they're probably all wrong through, cuz they're virgins.

I find the only way to last longer, is

a) have more sex. or jerk off more.

in addition to

b) alter the rhythm at which you are fucking.
Don't go all jackhammer like an idiot, right out of the gate. Slow it down to start.
Also try other positions.

When i fuck a girl doggy style, i cum in 3 seconds... But in missionary, or with girl on top, i can literally fuck for hours. (or until i get bored)

Happy fornicating!

Honestly, just fuck a lot more. Eventually the stamina will build up. I used to be like you, and now I can keep up nearly indefinitely, and just will myself to cum when she's getting sore. All I did was practice, and the more people you can practice with, the easier it is.

back to the oven shlomo
Probably stop contracting the thing that makes you temporarily stop peeing. It makes you cum faster when fapping but it might be undesirable for sex.

Too real man. Too real.

I actually have the opposite problem, I find it hard to cum. Basically a combination of death grip and the fact my first girlfriend didn't really like sex, and always got annoyed at me when I came and made a point of saying how "gross and messy" it was. Since then I did everything I could to not do it, and it took a while before I managed to cum with my second girlfriend.

And yes, I've only had 2 girlfriends and slept with 2 people, and I'm nearly 28. You may laugh at me. I laugh me.

I'm pretty sure that would finish me off

Focus on her pleasure. Fuck slower. Whenever you are about to cum stop, grab your dick with your index and thumb (not from the sides, but from the front and back) and press it. Repeat every time you are about to have an orgasm.

One thing I found is when my girlfriend felt like she was about to cum we'd slow down and switch positions. Even taking the time out to just stop, return to light foreplay for a bit, and changing positions, can really help slow it down and make it last longer.

Fap a lot, and practice delaying your orgasm while you fap. This skill will transfer over.

so did I
>tru story
Now I have trouble getting a boner with slam girls who aren't hotter than a 7 or 8

this was me at 16 too user