>21
>virgin
>no real friends
>live with mom and sisters
>no finished education
>no job
>wont say I'm lazy just socially impaired, suspect autism but mom never tok me to a doctor
>do lots of housework at home because I'm the only male in the house unless my older brother is home
>help pay rent with neetbux
>spend most of my days playing vidya since I have no interests
How bad is this?
I feel like shit whenever I become self aware about this
Im in the same exact position as you, only difference im 17 and im starting school again this year. I took a two year pause. After school im gonna look for shitty jobs. Thats the only thing left to do.
you are 60% of Sup Forums's population, with the exception that some Sup Forumstards would be actively attempting to fuck there sisters and/or mother.
Just go get a fucking job at walmart dude. I was in your situation and a shitty part time retail job will put money in your pocket and help you get used to being around people again
Just drink beer. Cheers mate, you could be just like me.
>Just go get a fucking job at walmart dude
there are no walmarts here, or any place that will hire me either. I don't live in a city
Join the military then
get checked it maybe depression that a happy pill may fix and make you less socially anxious
oh and if there was a walmart here believe me, I would get a job there stacking shelves
already tried, sendt me home after 4 weeks because I was so incompetent
but it sucked anyway, wasn't as cool as I hoped. Also I couldn't make any friends, not even with the guys in my room
Pay a hooker, 1 problen solved.
just ask depression money from the government, like everybody i know always forgets to ask money. NEVER FORGET
You are obviously willing to try things then unlike 99% of Sup Forums. Just keep trying shit dude something will work out for you.
Sell your body.
are you attractive? are you athletic? how hopeless are you at playing it off as a normie?
show us your dick
To the night
Sounds pretty sweet to me.
I work my ass off at a supposed 35 hour a week office job that's more like 45-50 thanks to unreasonable targets set by clueless management for the same money as the guy driving the forklift in the warehouse.
Thanks to my shit wages the biggest house i could afford, even with a huge deposit, is the size of a fucking shoebox - seriously it's 3 rooms in total.
Do yourself a favor and don't ever get a job. I don't have time for shit; by the time i've gotten home and eaten it's practically time for bed. I have a backlog of tv and movies of over 250 hours because i just do not have the time to watch them. I have over 150 games in my steam library, most of which i've wanted to play but just have no time for what-so-ever.
Working is shit, especially when your manager is a thundercunt, your wages are shit and you'd rather die than go back.
It's a fixable situation. Do you have a problem paying for your first lay?
No finished education? High school diploma?
Because you are a piece of shit. Guess what, it's all your fault. Cheer up, it means it's all your opportunity too. Look up simple workout. Get subscription to the YMCA, (low incomes get free access) spend your time working out. No one else has that kind of time. Take free online school lectures. ocw.mit.edu
Until you find something that is interesting for you. Obviously you have time on your hands. If you continue doing what you are doing you will an hero within a year judging by your current state.
It's not the end, but get your ass in gear
Do you think life is easy? Do you think you should have just naturally rolled into something you would enjoy doing the rest of your life?
Guess what fuckboi, it's not.
Instead of playing games for 12 hours a day, how about you learn a skill. Programming, a language, whatever. There are so many free resources online. You don't even need to be social to learn that shit.
But no, you decide to say you're not lazy and blame some mental illness for being a complete waste of a human being.
You are lazy and unmotivated. I do hope for you that you realize this soon before your life ends up a complete waste.
legitkek
I tried that and I'm in the process of getting more but that like normal wellfare
I do, I jsut hope some business or something will open up here that need workers, but that's unlikely
I'm not really sure, I'm not ugly put I'm pretty pale and skinny expecially now in the winter. I have a really chiseled face thought, but no facial hair.
I've tried being a normie all my life but I'm startgin to stop giving a shit
ye but I'm not sure if I care THAT much about being a virgin
done a total of 5 years upper secondary school in 4 different fields. Carpentry, welding/metalworking, basic chemestry and microbiology, fishing and aquacultural farming
Can you fix computers? There's easy cash to be made in a small town or rural area.
Why didn't that work out in those fields?
So... go get a job?!
Nothing stopping you except your own bullshit. I know, i know, you are going to come back with a bunch of self limiting beliefs that arent actually true, reasons you cant do this, or cant do that when in reality all you need to do is go get a shitty job and work it until you find something better. You are a man, you should put your time to use and earn a living, no matter how humble, working is respectable and languishing there doing fuck all is not and you wont respect yourself until you can take care of yourself. Most people socialize through their work, drink with colleagues and so on. So it will help. So will having some money.
>19 male
>dropped out at 14 cause depression and anxiety
>stay at home for the last 5 years
>never had a job
>will end up homeless or killing myself when i have to leave my parents house
OP what do i need to do to get money from the state?
Pay no attention to this whiner. Go earn a living.
DO ARMY !
You dont deserve money from the state. You should get a job.
as long as you foam roll everything should be fine
yes, I did ask the scool if they needed someone who can work computers and IT but they didn't
doesn't fancy me at all
I have had jobs in the aquacultural farming but it's the same as all the other, I just don't find any joy or reason in it other than to get some money, and the money is reaally good
just go to the benefit office and ask. If you actually have depression and anxiety it should be easier
You need to start working out and get a job. You should keep helping around the house.
Get in a trade, I'd recommend plumber. Be a helper. Just work and learn. No one gives a shit if you are a socialization master as long you work and learn. Of course if you are lazy and stupid then I don't know what you should do.
what job? i dropped out at 14 and never had social interaction since then.
go get some job applications you lazy fuck. how fucking hard is that? you've wasted at least 3 years doing nothing, it'll take about 1 week to apply to a dozen places near you. the fuck man, it isn't that complicated
You dont have to love what you are doing. Dont you understand that?
You need to earn a living. You are righjt to be horrified at your status. Get a fucking job and keep it until you find something better.
What other jobs did you apply for?
would rather die than to work as a plumber
What the fuck do you mean "What job"? see all those people walking around out there? they all have jobs. there are lots of jobs.
Literally any fucking job. Like mopping the floors at A&W.
Are you a Brit? I understand what you are saying. Young folks are sold a bill of goods which they never get.
getting fit literally both cures autism and virginity
but you'll need discipline to workout on a regular basis
you should kill yourself op
or do opiates
This guy gets it
yeah but people who work in a job like that, end up doing stuff like that for the rest of their lives, i would rather be dead than do that
Me too
t. Pipefitter
Fucking kidding me? well paid respectable job.
What the fuck is wrong with you, you arrogant shit bag unemployed sponge?! there are people who would give their left nut to have good job like that.
>a bunch of self limiting beliefs that arent actually true
this, I don't get why so many millenials on Sup Forums have convinced themselves they can't do... anything, anything at all. Depression and social anxiety and all that probably play a factor, but it's almost like they want an excuse to continue being lazy.
get the fuck out there and start somewhere OP, anywhere. If the retard that fucks up my order at jack n the box 90% of the time can land a shit job, so can you.
Why is that? I'd really like to know. I am an electrician myself but plumbers seem to me to be the most skillful and in demand.
Well, I like that you have your priorities straight. Maybe you should bump 'I'd rather die' up your list a bit. Perhaps you could do us a favor and move it above 'post on Sup Forums'
This is the best advice I have ever seen. It applies to *literally* everything. Thanks, user!
>just get a job
This is how Americans think the world works
unless you wanna clean toilets or gut fish for a living, you need to do a lot more than "just get a job"
Why the foam roll under the bed?
i dont care about what people would give to have a job like that, i only care about me, why da fuck should i care about others?
NO, they fucking dont!
Everyone, literally everyone starts somewhere low in order and you fucking claw your way up.
What on gods green earth makes you think you are entitled to anything? GO FUCKING EARN IT. GO MAKE A LIVING. BE A MAN.
Well can his daddy get him in the Union?
corporate slavery. we spend our entire lives busting our asses to make rich people richer. I hope a bloody revolution happens in my life time.
Fucking rights.
you start there to get SOME money flowing, then search for better jobs or get an education. the guy lives with his mom so even a tiny trickle of money is a better start at life than the nothing he's currently earning
Start building stuff yourself in DIY websites and stuff.
It'll make you feel proud of your creation.
Or learn to program stuff.
NEWS FLASH FUCKFACE:
People get shitty jobs to make a living while they work on improving their lot in life. NO ONE wants to do it, but they do because sitting your mothers house being a useless tit doesn't advance you. You need to earn a living, you need to contribute to your family.
listen up kid, grandpa's got some advice...
What a faggot
Switch your job you fucking loser
Start a hobby like art to make you feel like you're doing something, work at a shitty fast food place. Practice social skills with family. It might suck but it's a start.
>moved out last september
>22
>lived with single mum for 21 years
>Oldest brother of 3
>second in comand chain after step dad
>finished high school
>chronic condition
>had 2 gf's till now, lots of sex
>alot of good friends, 2 best friends i would die for
>help my poor ass family as good as i can with state bux
Could be worse right? I can't work for my own money because i lay in bed most of the time because of painz.
>get job
Or
>go to school
Fixed
Well you do get to outside and do something you are uncomfortable with. Sitting home accomplishes nothing
BINGO!!!
Start somewhere, in many ways you are in a good spot because you dont have a lifestyle to maintain or friends to keep up with or mouths to feed. You can live lean and uncomplicated. Get a tiny income stream and a gym pass and get fucking going man!
This
People who grow up in a rich country don't realize most of the people on this planet fight everyday to survive (just like every free animal)
So, if I have a Masters degree, married with a beautiful wife with 1 kid with a well-paid job in a multinational i'm in the 0.01% of Sup Forums population?
this is me
I'm 35, got my own place, a job I love, great friends, great family.
So I'm about to lay some fucking truth on you son, from the voice of experience.
When you look at the people you want to be like do you think they woke up one day and then just had all that shit? No. They got it in a lot of very small steps.
That's all you need to take. Small steps. Ordinary levels of effort applied consistently over time lead to extraordinary results. Apply pressure and time and coal becomes diamond.
Think about what you enjoy doing and find a way of making money from it. I love puzzles. I love fixing things. I like computers. So I got a computing degree and now I'm a software developer and applications analyst. I love it. I get paid to do something I'd probably be doing anyway.
But it doesn't have to be directly related and that's the thing that gets people. Say you love skateboarding for example, you think "oh if I want a job involving skateboarding I need to learn to be a pro skateboarder, I'll never have any chance" and go cry in bed. WRONG BITCH!! You could study journalism and travel the world writing about skateboarding. Or architecture and design skateboard parks. Or PR and promote skatebaording competitions. Loads of different jobs with what you love as the central point.
A man needs to be challenged to have self respect. You get challenged, you overcome that challenge and you bank that knowledge. So you know that if that problem ever comes around again, well you've beaten it once, no problems. There's your self confidence and self respect.
cont...
>hurrdurr don't get any job at all til you can land that $500k/year exec spot
U should get a side job working for cash.
Don't listen to anyone itt, OP
they just wanna make you into a wageslave so they don't have to suffer alone, they're basically jealous
Enjoy all the time in the world because you have it, spend time expanding your mind as an induvidual and love your family
never fall for the "muh productive member of society" bullshit
Stay comfy
Stay NEET
Do you watch your nutritions a lot?
Stop samefagging with your gay pepe
Easiest way to be challenged is through meaningful employment. You get the self respect but also you get the respect of others as well. And once you have their respect you can have their friendship too. No one wants to be friends with someone they can look down on.
With the job comes money and money brings an appartment. You've now got a job, friends, appartment, flat, you enjoy the feeling of knowing that you can get shit done and *boom* girls notice that shit son. Bitches don't want a guy that mopes around all day, they want an equal.
Job.
Family.
Friends.
Money.
Bitches.
Self Respect.
Happiness.
All waiting for you. It's a pretty shitty world sometimes but most of the time it's fucking amazing. No one can stop you going out and making a great life for yourself except you kid.
Take one small step.
Good luck.
AMA.
>be 18
>dont talk to dad much
>talking to dad
>convo gets rude
>tells me some people just arent cut out for life b
Well I am both envious of you and I am sorry for you. What is your chronic condition? I hope you are cured.
>21
Still young
>virgin
Who cares dude? Sex is overrated honestly
>no real friends
Being alone is way better
>live with mom and sisters
If they're not toxic at least you have some support
>no finished education
Same as me and I started a business that enables me to live without working.
>no job
Start a business mowing lawns or something.
>wont say I'm lazy just socially impaired,
suspect autism but mom never tok me to a doctor
You'd have to be a fucking autist to be "social" in the modern era. If you're not social with the majority of these piece of shit socialist liberal retards, you're doing something right.
>do lots of housework at home because I'm the only male in the house unless my older brother is home
You're contributing which is good.
>help pay rent with neetbux
Also good, but better if you saved that money to move out instead, and contributed with housework instead.
>spend most of my days playing vidya since I have no interests
Same as me
Unfortunately it's not as easy as that unless you want to flip burgers or be a telemarketer.
Everyone wants a cushy office job so unless you can suck a mean literal or figurative dick in interviews, tick a number of diversity boxes (eg black wheelchair bound lesbian with downs syndrome) or are willing to spend every hour of every day custom tailoring and sending CVs to every single employer in the country (99.95% of whom won't even acknowledge receipt of said). And yes you need to custom tailor those fucking CVs; employers will spot a generic one from a fucking mile away; i know because i've been quietly advised about it by a few interviewers.
>Easiest way to be challenged is through meaningful employment.
Retard.
Easiest way to be challenged is by having other people work for you and going on daily cruises and adventures with the money they make for you.
THAT's how you experience life. Work is always shit tier no matter what the fuck it is. Only a fucking drone thinks any kind of employment is meaningful.
>virgin
Who cares dude? Sex is overrated honestly
When you say this everything else you say is ignored. You are just being nice. Sex. even if it is fake is important to virgins in every aspect of life.
...
Yeah I stopped giving a shit about custom tailoring anymore. I just spam generics.
If some retard wants to pay me $10/hr to do backbreaking labor outside, or mind-numbing office work inside, I'm gonna send him a generic resume. Because he already advertises the fact he doesn't respect me by not offering a fair wage, so why should I give a shit about him to custom tailor a resume?
Everyone wants to hire SUPERMAN for $8/hr 29 hours a week on a rotating schedule that requires on call at 2AM. Oh, and you need 5+ years of experience to even consider a shitty job lifting boxes.
Employers are retards for the most part who expect everything in exchange for nothing.
I've had a lot of sex and while it's great it's nothing to base your entire life around. It's just a fun thing you do like vidya, Netflix, or other hobbies.
With drugs though, sex is fucking amazing.
Yeah ignore this. Make personal approaches to locally based employers. Approach HR and hiring managers personally via linkedin.
No, You misunderstand me. I can lose my job at any minute. My coworkers and other trades may suspect I am a virgin. But they do not ask. If they did I would quit immediately. So no job. I hate virgins.
spoken like true children.
REKT
Im in the same boat op. Only my teeth are fucked up which is the root of all my problems.
I have depression. Cant get my teeth fixed due to no money, cant get money due to no job, cant get job due to social anxiety which in turn is caused by my shitty teeth.
Its all a fucked up cycle I cant break.
Try looking up Avoidant Personality disorder and see if it's your thing. It was for me.
I suspect that many of my fellow NEET manbabies simply have extreme anxiety and just don't know it. If you can get help for you it, you can improve your life.
Guess again. I manage my own business and no longer work.
You're at a stage in life where you are basically forced to work, so you've convinced yourself that it helps you in some way so you don't wake up to the fact that you are literally giving away irreplaceable moments of your life to someone else you're making money for.
Start your own business. Trust me, not working is a totally different lifestyle. It clears your head. And you don't have to convince yourself it's a good thing to be a slave for someone else.
That being said I pay my employees the maximum possible out of respect since most of my previous bosses were pieces of shit who lacked the decency to even pay their workforce properly. I'd rather pay my employees fairly and live lower middle class without working than pay them shit and buy useless expensive crap I don't need or want. I will NEVER have one of my employees work 12 hours a day for me and come home to find their fucking electric shut off due to lack of payment, or having to choose between rent and food despite working 50 hours a week. Like I had to experience myself.
Fuck. Work.
Why would you love your job for being a virgin? Are you in the porn industry or something? And they required experience?
This fixed my teeth. It's called Novamin. Only obtainable in the UK or Italy but not the USA. You can still order it through customs from Amazon though but it takes a month to get to you.
100% worth it. My teeth were so bad they had black marks on them. Now they're white after 2 months. Astounding.
Make sure it's the European or British version that contains Novamin. The shitty US version doesn't contain it which makes it worthless.
>just start your own business
Can you stop RPing here? You've giving people shitty advice just so you can pretend to be cool.
OP sounds like he has difficultly dealing with simply going outside, the idea of starting a business isn't even on the table. Not to mention the fucking resources, time, and energy that takes.
Its a trade, They all think I am very intelligent but they wouldn't respect me or listen to me if they definitely knew I was a virgin. Some may suspect that or think I am gay but don't say anything. Most of these guys aren't exactly enlightened like you.
Also combine Novamin toothpaste with some kind of Xylitol toothpaste gel for maximum results. Brush your tongue and roof of mouth as much as your teeth.
I use NOW Foods Xyliwhite + Novamin Sensodyne
Don't feel so bad about yourself man, not everyone in life needs to succeed. That's just something Hollywood make up.
As long as you're happy just live life moment by moment.
Also get lifting.