So, I just shitcanned all my social networking profiles for the umpteenth time and basically just told all my so-called "friends" to go fuck themselves.
Thing is, does anyone else out there know how to stay away from this shit? I always seem to come back to it several months to a couple years later.
None of these people give a shit about me and I know it.
I don't have an Iphone, I don't text, I don't snapchat or whatever the fuck people dp anymore.
How the fuck do I stay away from this garbage when I get lonely Sup Forums?
I keep trying to come to terms with the fact that no one cares about me and never really will but...
God, do I just need to kill myself?
I'm so fucking miserable anymore, and I'm only in my mid-twenties..
to become an hero is the only real way to avoid it forever, thats my suggestion anyway!
Logan Reed
exercise and jerk off
Alexander Flores
Try getting a girlfriend.
Caleb Garcia
exercise makes me feel like shit.
Cameron Butler
ISNT Sup Forums ENOUGH FOR YOU??!!!
Robert Watson
Not a single woman on this planet who would stay around me for more than a few months.
I really wish it were an option, women don't give a shit about me.
Justin Mitchell
"Eh"
Gabriel Scott
you have bipolar disorder or Borderline Personality Disorder or cyclothymia. see a medical professional. I'm not meming here. You can get better OP.
Matthew Clark
hey me from like 6years ago
just keep hating on those fucks focus on self development and remember that all their lives are fucking shit just make sure you enjoy yours without them other than that don't go to Bills house and if somehow you end up there don't drink the night cap you will awake sore
Jayden Cruz
Been seeing a psychiatrist for years, stopped for two years and then just started going back last year.
I take meds but obviously, they aren't working anymore.
Not to mention I'll be losing my insurance come my 26th birthday.
Xavier Russell
get more badges and patches for your backpack ,joe
Asher Foster
Find a hobby you have to go outside to do, ideally in a group. Socialize around your hobby and shared interest rather than drinking parties and liking each others selfies. The problem isn't the tools you're using but how you're trying to connect with people.
Mason Watson
>and remember that all their lives are fucking shit
That's the thing though, their lives are all vastly superior to mine.
They have genuine relationships with people they see in person every day, husbands, wives, fiances etc.
I haven't seen or spoken to anyone in over two years.
Not to mention, my dog died back in August.
Cameron Gonzalez
I would recommend moving to a completely different country, preferably a continent away, and trying to build a new life. Never look back. A total change of settings has a huge effect on mental health. Move somewhere nice. Become an english speaking tour guide. Make a decent although modest living escorting americans through the islands or whatever.
Nicholas Kelly
>The problem isn't the tools you're using but how you're trying to connect with people.
But that's literally all there is to human interaction anymore, phones, selfies and all that shit.
I want a GENUINE human relationship with someone I can see, touch, speak to.
Is that really so much to ask for?
Nathaniel Butler
Hell man, I'd disappear into Germany and never contact anyone ever again if it wasn't infested with sandniggers.
Parker Bennett
oh. i think i figured out your problem. you're an unlikeable person.
Christian Evans
Yeah, I suppose so.
Even I don't like me.
Jace Sanchez
Have you tried just grabbing one and keeping her in the basement?
Jace Campbell
Take up a sport or a craft. Most of the genuine friendships I have were cultivated around a shared activity and as increased time was spent together connections were naturally made. Hell even having a gym buddy is really good for that. Just open up about your personal life without coming off creepy, people will generally reciprocate.
Nathaniel Jenkins
Nah, I'm not the type to be forceful or force myself on others.
Nolan Barnes
Ye I'm 20 and haven't had a fb or social media account in a few years. I didnt do it to not talk to my friends tho. I just text them Facebook is the cringiest socially acceptable thing ever. I don't care about anything anyone posts and I only used it to message people.
Just don't use it if you don't want to. I can see the benefits of it but choose not to.
Charles Watson
>I only used it to message people.
Me too, of course, they just ignored me.
Mason Gonzalez
>I don't like me. found your problem, fix yourself with the steps posted above, exercise, jerk off, read books, stop looking for it outside or relying on anyone. if that fails, clorox smoothie
Cameron Harris
You know, I think that's my biggest problem, exercise.
Sure, I did T and C throughout High School and even had a "buff" body for years.
Funny thing is, no one found me attractive regardless and the pain just piled on until I couldn't take it anymore.
I've always thought my biggest issue was my inability to deal with physical pain.
Of course, being overweight nowadays doesn't help either.
David Robinson
have you tried looking at other people as individuals who are worthy of moral consideration and whose lives are every bit as nuanced as your own instead of as cardboard NPCs?
Grayson Lopez
Stop being a pussy. Go talk to some chicks or joing MGTOW
Owen Gutierrez
Uhhh, yeah.
I mean, I don't EXPECT anyone to like me, I've always expected the exact opposite actually.
I.. I just want some intimacy in my life user.
That's all I want.
Joseph Morris
I live in a small town user.
There's nowhere TO meet chicks.
Bentley Johnson
To me it just seems your strategy needs some work. Anywhere you live on earth you'll have different kinds of groups with different ways of life.
I had friends which I loved, but we abused drugs. Now I've got friends where I share more intimite, healthy connections. This was a lot of work on my part to get out of the downward spiral of depression and low self-esteem. You gotta have 1. Patience and love for yourself, these go hand in hand (you can't use the same mindset to solve a problem from which the problem started) 2. A healthy lifestyle with nutricious food, exercise (I prefer exercise that doesn't take me any problem to get motivated to do) 3. This one is the most important: have a clear vision what you want in your life. What are your desires? Writing it down helps. 3.2 Cut those desires down in small pieces so you can actually make it tangible and realistic. 3.3 Start doing the things which require the least effort. Most people aren't acting on their desires because they want to go from A and only see Z. Don't skip the alphabet. 4. Starting meeting new people, do workshops, whatever works for you. And don't expect results immediately. You know the position you're in right? It took time to get in this shithole, so take your time to get out.
Good luck and best wishes!
Colton Foster
find a qt bf its way easier than finding a gf
Nathaniel Gutierrez
Well you have to go out and meet real people. Thats the first step.
Jace Barnes
I'm not gay.
Brayden Myers
>1. Patience and love for yourself
That's what I'm afraid of user.
I don't think I can love myself.
Brandon Wood
Anyway, I appreciate the responses guys.
Even if I seem totally disagreeable.
I'd went into this expecting the thread to 404 pretty quickly.
Kayden Barnes
I am not; but if you're afraid to love yourself or believe that you can not love yourself, then you will accomplish only that. Develop an ego. Make yourself think; "I'm better than everyone else in my own way."
James Perez
You're probably depressed cause you're overweight and your confidence is shit right now. Work out.
William Johnson
My twenties are the only period in my life were I've even been even close to overweight.
Used to maintain around 170 lbs, my confidence was shit even then though.
Thomas Martinez
But I hate egotistical people.
Henry Cruz
Do you have any hobbies? cause "idle time is the devil's plaything". Sounds like you're thinking too much
Nicholas Price
Just vidya and jerking off, I read a lot as well.
I don't enjoy very many things.
David Rivera
Dear user,
Well I can understand that. It makes perfect sense you want to get out of this situation ASAP. And that you don't live yourself because you got yourself in this mess.
Just remember a lot of people have been in this situation and you aren't a bad person even if you are making yourself suffer (or others). You have all the right to feel like shit. So just take baby steps. Even the tiniest step you can think of for your recovery.
Heck, this call for help is one genuine step. But that's the way to go. You don't have to worry about what others do.
If for example we're speaking about how to upgrade your life in the easiest ways. Keep it as simple as possible.
If it's exercise: Just take a walk. Or do only 10 jumping jacks. If it's socially, just say hi to ONE stranger/passerby during your walk. Social contact is also a muscle you have to train. You will become more comfortable with it, the more you do it. Same with intimacy and sex.
Don't go giving a fuck about what others value in your process. As long as you keep working on it, you're doing good. You might have ups and downs, you might even get discouraged. Just take it easy, keep on keeping on.
Joseph Torres
Guess I should mention I was diagnosed with assburgers at an early age.
That's probably why I'm so fucked.
I behave fairly normal compared to the asspies they liked to clump me with when I was a kid though.
Sebastian Rogers
>and you aren't a bad person even if you are making yourself suffer (or others).
Landon Evans
>any girl worth fucking >not a facebook junkie
yeah, ok
Bentley Long
That's the thing too.
I don't wanna fuck a fatty.
Isaac Butler
I wish I wasn't such a fucking coward, so I could just blow my brains out and get this all over with.
John Harris
I have ASS as well, and I'm doing fairly good socially. Not a virgin anymore and pretty likely to get a GF soon. You know these labels are only useful to get professional help or to consider what kind of situations you want to expose yourself to.
That people with any kind of autism cannot change their life or behaviors is 100% bullshit, imo.
Take responsibility and control of your life. Just consider breaking patterns takes time and continuous effort.
You can do this.
Evan Nelson
>Not a virgin anymore
How'd you do it?
I had a GF once back in HS but I'll be fucked if I could ever pick up on subtle body language or social cues.
I sincerely doubt anyone has ever really wanted to fuck me but I dunno... Maybe I just couldn't notice.
Noah Bailey
That would be the easy way out. I wouldn't recommend it. If you get out of this, work it through, instead of running, consider how thankful you'll be of yourself you took the effort.
Nathan Price
I'm sure those around me would be lifted quite the burden if I did.
John Sanders
You pricks have got me bawling like a little bitch.
Thanks a lot.
It's okay though.
I've been sitting here crying all fucking night.
Lincoln Sanders
Well fair enough: I have a more social/intuitive kind of ASS. But I bet there are programs out there where you can actually learn how to pick up those cues and how to act on them.
You could even make it more structured for yourself and make it a project. I know people with ASS can work with structured.
I would go about it like this: If person in front of me does A I will do B. When I found out B doesn't respond positively on B, I will have to think about what is C. And work my way from there.
Also I followed a flirting program which gave me some pointers. I don't pick up everything because I refuse to become an asshole/bad guy.
Levi Reed
Work a job in an isolated place with limited internet access. For example, go work on a fishing boat in Alaska.
Nicholas Ortiz
Having someone die in your vicinity is the greatest burden I can think of
Wyatt Allen
STOP BEING A CRYBABY FAGGOT!
ENLIST IN THE MILITARY!
BECOME A MAN!
PROFIT!
Christopher Bailey
Fuck man, I went out to eat with my folks months back and we had this cute as fuck waitress that was flirting with me.
Like 9/10 out of my league cute.
She was serving me Whiskey and such.
I just had it in my head that just because a chick flirts with you, doesn't mean she's interested in you.
I've always heard some women just do it for fun.
We went back to the same place a couple times.
Never saw her again. My life is defined by missed opportunities.
Samuel Jenkins
user, I wanted to join the Marine Corps out of High School.
The military doesn't take asspies.
Mason White
If this guy can get laid, anybody can
Andrew Wilson
>The military doesn't take asspies.
LOL! STOP BEING A FAGGOT!
THE AIR FORCE IS BASICALLY 90% ASSPIES!
ALSO, LOOK AT THAT ARMY TRANNY FAGGOT TRAITOR "CHELSEA" MANNING! SOMEHOW GOT IN THE MILITARY DESPITE BEING TOTALLY FUCKED IN THE HEAD.
THERE IS A LOT MORE THAN THE FUCKING MARINES! SHAPE UP!
Aaron Turner
>THERE IS A LOT MORE THAN THE FUCKING MARINES! SHAPE UP!
All other branches are inferior to the Marine Corps.
>fem-waitress's flirt with men-customers maybe she wanted a tip, and not the little one in your pants
Nathan Martin
As long as you deleted that shit proper it should be pretty difficult to get your social life back so just ride the wave and you'll be a loner in no time.
Cooper Cox
Well, duh. Asshole.
John Fisher
Liar
Nathan Stewart
I'm 100% serious. I've never gotten swept up by this texting, selfie, iphone meme.