Does love exist? I'm actually concerned

Does love exist? I'm actually concerned

No. They're emotions and chemicals in your head. It's not a physical entity and it's not something that's guaranteed. Emotions can change rapidly, especially in women. They can love you today and tomorrow despise you.

You do you.

>Chemicals arent a physical entity

>emotions and chemicals in your head

>emotions and chemicals

>not something

>in women

>emotions and chemicals

>not a physical entity

>in your head

>in your head

>in your head.

So, lets call those chemicals love, then it exists, not as a physical entity, but more as something you feel towards someone or something, right?

kek

How can love be real if mirrors arent real because eyes arent real

- JADEN SMITH

KEK

>How can love be

>mirrors aren't

>eyes arent

>mirrors arent

>eyes aren't

>arent real

>eyes

Yes, love exists. You will know it when you find it. You can love a cat, a tree, a sunset. Sometimes you find a woman who will love you back. I have had only one that loved me like I loved her, but of course I fucked it all up.

When you find it, you will know it.

It's a warm fuzzy feelig but nothing special

p.s. I want to rekt riley

yeah but not the fairytale, romanticized bullshit you hear about

Love is accepting someone's flaws and appreciating someone for who they are or some shit, not searching endlessly for the "perfect fit"

Fuck no. Love is a social construct made in an era where keeping couples together was essential for survival of the species.

Since we no longer have any motivation to make couples because we are already overpopulated, pushing the economy down (which keeps me amusing since more people SHOULD mean better economy) and getting your ass handed to you in court after marriage.

So... The definition of love changed to fit the feminized society. It is a one night thing now, Thus depending on your personal concept it might exist or it might not.

>of course I fucked it all up.
How did you manage to do that? Tell us more please

This was many years ago. In short, we got together shortly before college. We went to different schools, hundreds of miles apart. I felt she was so pretty, and so much better and hotter than me that I felt lucky to be with her... and that was true. But she really loved me for me. She was just as into me as I was into her.

Long story short, depression and fear of her cheating got the better of me. This girl was never going to cheat on me, but in my mind she HAD to be cheating on me (she went to a party school). I began to lose it and would just yell at her on the phone all the time. I ended up cheating on her with a skank at the dorms. Told my friend and it got back to her... but she still stayed with me.

I ended up being such a problem that she broke up with me and never spoke to me again. She now has 2 kids, still looks 20 years old and I am Sup Forums.

Pic is not far off.

Love exists, anyone with life experience will confirm. What most people call "love" is two things. Being "in love" with someone is a very powerful but transitional thing and is the thing that can blind us and allow us to go to extremes. Love (true)is a permanent unconditional status that develops after a time and it is that which keeps relationships active.

>It is a one night thing now
You can't have a one night thing with a sunset or so, I mean, being in a couple is an agreement to have sex constantly right? You can barely make an agreement with someone you can't stand, so you make a bond with someone you tolerate, that can be called love right?

That beats everything

yeah it's a chemical reaction developed to keep the human race alive so by breeding
but don't forget it'll always fade away after a while..
Happy long term couples are either lying/pretending or they became good friends which allows them to be happy together but it's quite rare.

Yeah I think ya blew it too.

Stop talking about love you fucking cocksuckers. That's just a god damn shity additional dopamine that gives you that feeling. Just another dose. You can get dopamine by any succes.(In your case sucking a dick faggots

>by breeding
Explain gays.

basically this. it sounds edgy as fuck but sadly science backs it up

not for you

That may be true but if you find someone cool you actually enjoy doing shit together and don't hate being married or "tied down" in a relationship.

Yeah we argue here and there I also argue and have had fights with my best guy friends over the years but we're still friends.

Yep. I totally fucked up. I was mental.

She wasn't just hot, she had a heart of gold and was innocent AF. We lost our virginity to eachother.

On the brightside, she was bad in bed and I got to explore skankfucking in the years after. I miss the shit out of her though, she was prime wife/mom material.

Yes, but love is just not for you. It is for happy people, not miserable cunts like you.

the human bone structure is constructed in a way that'll keep the body supported and your vital organs safe
>explain osteogenesis

well... fuck user, shit happens. it's either a new branch of evolution or a mistake

>explain gays
a person who is sexually attracted to people of their own sex.

>explain osteogenesis
Osteogenesis imperfecta is caused by defective genes. These genes affect how the body makes collagen, a protein that helps strengthen bones.

>that feel when you see an image you originally cropped after it's cycled around for a while

Yeah, but that would lead to kids being made. If love is just a chemical reaction meant force you to breed, gay love shouldn't be a thing.
Or is that gay love is actually the only pure form love that exists?

Yup. Oxytocin and Vasopressin.

I was implying evolution can make mistakes like you, you imbecile

What is love?

My autism runs deep. Like 6,093 feet Grand Canyon deep.

Yes. Its just the most difficult thing to achieve because it requires two truly mature individuals to be committed to each other in an environment where they can be free to honestly express themselves.

That doesnt happen often in our society.

Also
>thinking only physical things exist
Its almost like E=MC^2 as a function doesnt exist either.

This is actually one of the most reasonable comments on Sup Forums i have read in few years

are you retarded? Lol there's something in evolution called mutations. Being gay is a mutation. Sex is a motivator for straight couples to fuck and have kids. Gays are the same way but its just switched from Male on female to male on male. By the way you type you think love and sexual attraction are the same thing.

What if gay love is just a mental disability releasing chemicals on the wrong gender?

They're attracted to their partners not for breeding, but for some other reason. Call it what you will, "disability" or love. I'll go for the second one, because that makes more sense than so many people having the same "disability" throughout all of history.

>its just switched
you are actually retarded if you think it's as easy as switching from male on male to male on female

bisexual

it does, but just for a brief moment. But find it fast because you will not after seeing the world for what it really is.

I'm retarded

I kinda agree with this but that's like saying any other emotion doesn't exist because it's in your head. Love is irrational like humans.

what about other disabilities like OCD and schizophrenia? They have been throughout all of history as well. being gay is just another form of the brain not working correctly, thinking that what is wrong is right.

he's not saying people actively decide to 'switch' but that the neurochemistry gets toggled genetically or gestationally or developmentally, depending on your theory of sexuality.

Good point, I guess bisexuals being attracted to someone of the same sex as them is the purest form, rather than gays attracted to people of their own sex. The difference here is that schizophrenia stops you from functioning as a normal human being. Bisexuals are the same as anyone. They can also experience the chemical reaction that urges them to breed. The difference is, they can feel it for people in general, even people of their own sex, if they like them enough.

So to correct myself, the only pure form of love is that of bisexuals in a gay relationship.

love is just lies. nothing more nothing less

It does but not for you OP never ever for you

Love is patient and kind; love does not envy or boast; it is not arrogant or rude. It does not insist on its own way; it is not irritable or resentful; it does not rejoice at wrongdoing, but rejoices with the truth. Love bears all things, believes all things, hopes all things, endures all things.

Most people confuse love with apathy.

Too much Ken n' Barbie, Disney Princess, high expectations of what "love" is supposed to be. The notion has become too commercialized to see what real true love is, even if it is right in front of your face.

Take OP's pic of that girl, since it's his example. You want "love" from that girl, assuming "love" is that intimate connection. But you want the package deal, you want the intimacy AND you want to have that hot sex kitten image as well.

You spend more money on a girl like that, courting her, than you would on a hooker/escort, but you're looking for the long haul, so that would be called an "investment". And in that investment, you may find she doesn't have all those 'intimate' qualities you desire. Maybe isn't "soulful, intelligent, selfless,"....

>...."BUT SHE IS SO FUCKING HOT."
>/diamonds.

....and that is where the mistake comes in. You hope to shoe-horn those intimate qualities to preserve the "full package girlfriend" (girls do it to with guys as well, so gender-vice-versa), and you still want to call it love. But as you continue to struggle, you find out that she's isn't pretty on the inside, as she is on the outside.

> "..should've rented a hooker then."

So then you break up, come to Sup Forums, and wonder where true love is.

I could tell you where it is. It's that ugly-duckling you went to school with, who you ignored, and possibly teased on occasion. That weird looking girl who lost the braces, and frumpy clothes, and took up cross-fit and yoga after grad, took 3 trips around the world, modeled in Tokyo, join the peace-corp in India, and won the Booker prize for her short-story she wrote about her 'sexy phase' with a French mistress who fell in love with her.

She looks exactly like OP's pic, but she's lonely looking for love (that she couldn't get from the French mistress, read the story) because she spent her whole life surrounded by vain pricks looking to fuck more than love.

>This thread

It does, you can find it inside of Reiley Reid's asshole

No

"Especially in women"

Jesus the neck beard is real here. People are people. I know whiny bitchy men who will cheat if they get a chance, and I know strong loyal women and vice versa. Point is if you treat women like a different species you've lost already. Stop looking for lust if what you want is love. Go out and talk to people, men and women. If you have trouble talking to women, try someone you're not attracted to first, then you'll realize they're just people same as men. When you find someone who's personality compliments yours well, who you can see being your best friend and you are attracted to, well then you found it.

Happily in a relationship for four years with my best friend.

We've lost him guys he's gone forever

I think it depends on how you look at it. Factually speaking, you know if you love someone around 20 seconds of meeting them and there is a chemical reaction in your brain. That doesn't last long though. Realistically love is a decision that both participants choose to do every day. It's a choice. I think that gives it far more meaning anyways that someone would choose to love someone for decades on rather than some magical force binding them.

i dont think you know what apathy means: lack of interest/ enthusiasm.

only a illiterate retard would confuse apathy with love

not all shall pass there genes

I feel you and agree with you, but that second to last bit seemed a bit like self aggrandizing projection.

Chill out.