How often have girls come up to you or made it obvious they were interested vs you having to initiate...

How often have girls come up to you or made it obvious they were interested vs you having to initiate? Are the girls you've messed with had or have a relationship with girls you ran into because of work or school?

Assuming, I know

Literally zero. Women don't generally approach men because they are socially incompetent.

Well in my early teens I never realized but there were many. I was too stupid to notice the signs. I'm not that great looking. about 8/10 at best and I've had girls that were literally 10/10 act stupid around me and find excuses to be close to me. I just wish I wasn't so stupid and noticed the signs while I had time.

this

About 50/50 actually

See I feel like that isn't completely true, especially if your attractive, seems like they make it easy for some

girls will never make the first move but will drop a lot of hints hoping you notice

Alright I must be ugly then, or just too odd maybe. Feel like with all the people on this planet it shouldn't be so difficult to find someone you have a general connection with, or even someone who wants to fuck and be done with it

Yeah, I'm pretty good looking (7/10) and good socially, which is a skill. No one is born being good at social interaction, it requires practice.

My catalyst is alcohol. I have pretty bad social anxiety, so alcohol allows me to loosen up and interact with people in a genuine way.

Fuk, the level of porn is increasing, do I need adblocker?

Are you me goddamit?!?

I mean shit I'm not really bad at being social can take a minute for me to loosen up but for the most part I'm not completely inept, just seems like shit never clicks.. I guess I can admit I've never really met anyone I felt was really ideal in a since, I mean does anyone? I feel like people do..

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This usually only happened at the start of a semester in Uni. They'd talk to me for a day or two at most (sessions), then stop altogether with little or no explanation, and even go so far as to purposely avoid me.

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Maybe your standards are too high.

Don't put the pussy on a pedestal. Classic mistake.

hi mgtow how's your dry dick?

Darker than the rest of my body and STD-free.

>implying everyone that has sex has STDs

Stay woke fam.

Better safe than...

>a divorced father paying child support every month while scrubbing the puss-seeping barnacles off his dick

>standards are too high.
Never understood this. Is it so bad to want sex with savvy, intellegent women who wont throw you under a bus for sex and shiney things?

As soon as you realize women are the same imperfect, flawed beings you are the better off you'll be, and whatever you do don't listen to these mgtow losers that will die sad and alone.

Body language is key. Picking up on the little hints women drop. They mostly feel like they can't be overt, but the subtle clues can tell you lots. Match your body language to theirs and you'd be surprised how often you can score. These is also something to the body language you are projecting. If you are closed off you won't get as many bites so to speak.

I'm more, RSD, purple pilled. Girls are nice. Freedom you create for yourself is nice. Sharing expirences is nice. I've dated good chirstans and hardcore freaks. You're right tho. But hey, maybe I like to stay alone.

Hm, maybe that or I just live in a shitty area, feel like I just don't run into enough of the kinda girls I'm into;

> not obese
> similar interests (is this rare too? Like Why THEORY Duck Are Some People Together) this is where chemistry comes into play right?

Good stuff

I have social anxiety too but not even alcohol helps because I simply don't understand the concept of socialising.

Autism?

What would you prefer, in an ideal world?

What don't you understand about it?

Not sure if it's autism but I was never able to make real friends my school years. People kind of accepted the fact I was there but didn't really care about me.

Every kind of social interaction is exhausting to me, which sucks because I really want to have friends or a even a gf.

Thanks! It has helped me land some whoppers! Women are silly fickle creatures that also operate on a subconscious level like us men. Appeal to their reptilian brain and their baby making hormones over ride their social constraints.
Pro tip. Look for hair flips, shy smiles, eye contact linger then 3 to 5 seconds. Laughs bigger then the joke deserved. If they cross their legs mirrored to yours. If they find an excuse to touch, such as grabbing your wrist to look at your watch, or to feel your shirt, or touching a tattoo that is visble.

Back then were you waiting for someone to bring you out of your shell? Basically there wasn't anyone around you felt like you related to?

Not really, I felt like I was always trying really hard to get people to like me, but at some point I eventually gave up on it. It's not that I'm not a nice person, I just suck at conversations let alone even starting one.

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Are there any people you talk to on a daily basis? Even family counts, if that's all you've got I think it's a start, I know a lot of conversation is stream of consciousness, if you just go with your gut feeling it can help to get past the anxiety of just being yourself, can feel like the one thing you shouldn't do but it's actually works

yeah, will try that. shit is really hard for me...