So I found out yesterday one of my closest friends...

So I found out yesterday one of my closest friends, somebody who had supported me and been a father figure to me may have only been all that to me because he possibly wanted to fuck me (police came around and asked if he'd ever touched me when I was underage) AMA

For how long did you know him?

8 years

friendzoned?

>8 years
No one chases ass for that long. Obviously he wanted a bit more then that.

I'm out of his league. In fact when the officer asked if we'd had any sexual relations now or when I was underage I replied "please, I'm out of his league"

Yeah, that's what I think too. If he never got close to you in a sexual way, he probably really liked you as a friend.

How old was he comparatively? Also, did ya wanna fuck?

We worked together also

I think he's 45 now

So where is he now? In jail?

The reason they were asking is because they'd had other reports of him being extremely close with pubescent teens over the years.

what'd he get slammed for?

They have no solid evidence of him having sexual relations with any minors, they've had multiple reports this year about him though. I think they highly suspect him for it though. I worked with him at a youth centre, he was very close with a few youngsters but never gave any signs of being sexually into them.

I wouldn't believe this at first. Charging someone with rape or pedohpilia is the best way to destroy a man's life nowadays, even if it didn't happen. The fact he got along with teens very well, makes it even easier.

I think the problem is they don't have any of his suspected victims themselves come out and say he'd touched them

Because they don't exist, yea. Have you talked to him since the police was there?

Also before anyone asks, no his dick as never been in my asshole.
One of the reasons I find it hard to believe is the fact he never tried to impress me in that kind of way, I assumed if he wanted to fuck me he'd try to seem attractive ?
Also when we worked at the youth centre he blocked someone that had suspected child porn on his phone from working there and had a rant about how disgusting it is. Maybe that was him hiding his liking of it ?

I messaged him saying "you didn't tell me about the allegations being made about you ..." No reply yet. He sleeps till noon on weekends usually

Or maybe he just got along with preteens without it being sexual in any way. You never really know, I get along with 12-15 year old girls really well for whatever reason and it doesn't mean I want to stick my dick inside them.

None of his 'victims' have been touched or anything so there's no crime yet.

Personally that's what I think. He cares a hell of a lot about teens as he thinks they don't get fair guidance or support in modern life. Also every youngster I've known him be close to was someone that needed help. Ones parents would best eachother up and openly ask Him to spend time with the kid to get him out the house. One was suicidal and living on the streets. I myself had severe anxiety and depression. My best friend also did. I don't know what to think really. If I try work it out in my head I could see how either way could be possible.

Well none have openly admitted to being touched from what I understand.

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Also if he is into teens why didn't he hit on me ? Not only could I not get girls, I couldn't even attract a pedo. This is not good for my self esteem.

>one of my closest friends, somebody who had supported me and been a father figure to me >"please, I'm out of his league"
You sound like exactly the sort of person that you don't invest time in unless you want to fuck them.

Allegations are just that. Judge your relationship on your relationship and his actions on actions and not intentions.

If it comes out he diddled someone else and you can't respect him fine but maybe and might are shitty things to sink quality relationships over.

>posted from 1st world county where the age of consent is 16 for a reason