How to get men into rape play?

How to get men into rape play?
I been very masochistic all my life and need rough sex to get off. My boyfriend really hates being rough with me tho... I don´t get why since my fantasy is pleasing all of his wishes. I would love to live like a slave and clean,cook for him. He also dislikes that. Any tips? Also are my fantasies normal? I guess I am a bit of nymphomaniac(I need to cum 3 times a day at least)

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sounds like you need a new bf.

timestamp and post a pic of yourself.

we'll someone suitably rough.

I really love my boyfriend...he suits me in every way....this is the only problem

Most men are inclined to be dominant. Your guy, just isn't man enough. Probably a Hillary supporter.

It's going to become more of a problem. Sooner or later you'll go looking for the fulfillment you want. Don't break his heart--find someone you're more compatible with.

I thought so too...that man are naturally more agressiv/dominant.
but no he isn´t haha

Every time he reaches to touch you, pull or smack his hand away. Every time he tries to kiss you, pull away. And say, "You're too slow." (insert sanic.gif)

This presents a challenge to him. He won't get what he wants, and that puts power in your hands, temporarily. This will frustrate him, and if he buys in, he will at some point reach a break and try to seize power for himself.

It's not a conquest if you give the impression that you 'want' to be conquered.

Uhhh I will try that. thanks

>that man are naturally more agressiv/dominant.
This is a stereotype against men. And not all stereotypes are true. You have to start it slow, ask questions if he will do X or Y for you. Do you use toys in the bedroom? If not definitely start there first

I have some toys. But he is not that interested in them sadly

Newfags forget the rules. They're there for a reason. Tits with timestamp, or gtfo.

my tits have nothing to do with the thread so

Start there before you try this . Doing that will only discourage him I can almost guarantee it. Give him verbal confidence boosts each time until he feels secure in doing it and won't hurt you or do something he feels is bad or gets anxiety about.

your fantasies are normal. expecting any form of real advice here is not.

work on it. took me 3 years until my bf started to choke me a little and I'm talking barely putting his fingers around my neck. from there things improved fast. still not as rough as i like it but it is getting there.

yes I think he is scared to actually hurt me..idk

Doesn't matter. You asked for our help. You know the rules.

that be the rules hun.

I hope it will improve...the problem is I know nobody that seems to have the same fantasies as me. everyone is very vanilla around me

Toys and spanking. Get him comfortable with that first. And reassure along the way

A picture of breats you will never see irl anyway is not that great hahaha

There are no women on the internet. You don't get an advantage here. So if you want help assisting in your role as a woman in a relationship, Kek requires you to show your tits with a time stamp and we can assist you.

Post something of yourself, I would like to judge myself if you are a good sub or not

What kind of stuff get you off?

outright tell him

"look, I WANT to be abused and subservant."

Doesn't matter of your tits are not the subject. Lol. You must be new here.

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sound crap. sorry for you.

Which means we have to assume you're a dude trying to troll people. Bye.

no. you must be new here little kid.
Tits rule apply when identifying as a girl gives any form of advantage. it does not apply in this thread and tits will not be posted
it's like the age average is sinking every time i come back to this shit board

I'm going to take the bait and assume OP is in fact a woman into rough stuff, not some sad, lonely virgin basement-dwelling guy.

is it normal? Its not average, but its not uncommon. I know a lot of women in the S&M scene, I've dated a few who are into it, one in particular who wanted way harder than the sort of stuff I did to her, who I was poly with and would come back with bruises you would not believe. (and worse. ended it with her after she was branded, because it wasnt entirely consensual, certainly wasnt safe or sane.)
I've known girls who only got off on being strangled, beaten till bruised, one who utterly loved having her tits tortured with needles through them, one who liked to be fisted till she couldn't walk, one who loved being pissed over, one who wanted to be stripped, chained to a kitchen table leg, and fed from a dog bowl, and left in a cage overnight. Funny bit is almost all of them were well-paid professionals in their normal jobs.

so, normal? pretty much. Tips? Communicate. learn to talk. express how much things mean to you, and you're happy with it. tell him you love it like that, ask him to fuck harder, tell him you love him while he's doing so, say yes, that's good, all that sort of stuff. encourage him to do so.

If that doesnt work, honestly, you need to accept that you may just not be compatible. there are plenty of places on the internet - like fetlife - where you can start to explore that more, and find doms who are into exactly the stuff you are. But above all, be honest with your current partner. Dont be the shitty cunt who does it behind his back.

>basement dwelling virgins pretend to be women on the internet.

being humiliated, rape play, being pissed on, deepthoating, I have a lot of kidnap fantasies also race play(I am asian).....

because men are told over and over, in many conscious and subconscious messages, that they should NEVER be dominant, or act dominant towards a woman in a modern society. Why? Because they risk too much if they do that.

The girl changing her mind and turning her fantasy into victimhood (on a whim because she's not happy about something)

Somebody else catching a glimpse of the dominance and thinking that the girl is in danger and whiteknighting in response.

Et caetera.

you posted it. well done!
we are so proud of you!
now you can go back to your trap/rekt/ whatever the fuck thread that makes you feel cool and self fulfilled on the internet

>triggered

this is obviously a trap thread since real women don't like rape, just like society has taught them.

I am a girl and making something like that up would be sad indeed hahaha. I don´t see how it would be useful since I am only talking about my boyfriend and I....

yes. byt retarded kids as yourself every single time.

If none of these methods work and it is simply that he can't be dominant or assertive enough to do it for you sexually, but you love him and don't want to go without him, put it to him that the only way forward is for him to be your "emotional" or "non-sexual" boyfriend, and take a dominant lover who fulfills your needs (this will probably mean your bf won't fuck you any more because a real dominant man wouldn't share you, but you would be satisfied)

I was abused as a child so maybe tht is why I like it idk

Nice! My girl has the same fantasies. If she wants me to be rougher on her, she teases and plays on my emotions untill I hurt her the way she wants. Win win for everybody!

What kind of kinky things did you do already? My girl loves being choked till she passes out:)

He would kill himself if I ever fuck someone else. He is very emotional I´d say

Log into Second Life and free your fantasies. There's a thriving BDSM scene in there.
Lot's of princesses and wannabes, sure, but also lots of serious mean dominant dudes and real submissive girls.

The last man I had sex with fucked me in his car. Choked me, pulled my hair and told me to de a lot. after that he made me walk around with his cum on my face

Sad to read that. I was taking a jab at modern feminism that would consider what you're asking, even if concensual, as rape, and lynch your boyfriend for that.

I love watching more dominant stuff, but I have trouble acting it out. On my ex I practiced spanking, choking, and hair pulling/grabbing. Tried orgasm denial and ruined orgasms (for her) a couple of times but that didn't work so well - she was just frustrated and didn't want to fuck anymore ... lel.

My partner would see that as cheating

unless as a guy I hate being manipulated emotionally.

or if she goes a little too far/mean/uncalled for and snaps me out of the mood

I hate feminists. They make my kinks look like crime ugh

My girl is into this too, first time I really got into it was once when she had me choke her out while I was fingering her, opened my eyes to how hot it could be. Maybe try that op?

choking sounds like a good start

like what?

Well then...
There are a lot of submissive wives cheating on their vanilla husbands in there. They are having a blast.
It would give you a lot of information and direction about what you like and need.

yeah not too bad. It'll show him he isn't actually hurting you and he can stop when he wants etc etc

that is true....

>kek'd

I think cheating is what gives them the thrill.

Meet me in SL at Bell Gardens (101, 22, 22)

Find a new boyfriend. Finding a guy who is willing to give you what you want shouldn't be hard.

Just cuff and gag yourself and present your ass to him when he comes to bed.

Maybe he'd be into cucking and you could fuck someone else?

Fuck that. Meet me in Tampa at Bush Gardens. I'll be the guy on top of the elehNt with my pants around my ankles...y'know, because I don't want to waste any time.

You need to drop this guy. He's too nice to drop you, so you need to do it.
This is the situation that I'm in. I'm not a sadist. My gf needs to be beat and choked and roped to get off. She told me from the start and I wanted to give it a try but I just don't get off to it.

he likes anal so that could work....but he would gently penetrate me hahahha

Post your most sexy underwear. Or how about a nice slave pose; on your knees, legs a little spread, hands in your neck and an open mouth so we all can see your fuckhole:)

I don´t want to loose him since I really love him and his character

gagged and cuffed? I think he'd be a little rougher than usual. Go from there. I know it would work on me, and I am similar to your bf - always fearing to hurt if I go too far.

You opened her eyes while she was out? ,That's it? Next time, stuff your dick in her ass, she probably will open her eyes all the way by herself;)

oh I hope he will be. Maybe try that when he comes home

Yeah, that is a thin line

They don't make anything happen if you don't accept the shame. I come all over my wife's face, fuck her ass while calling her a whore, etc. and we have a very loving marriage. If a feminist does not want a guy to treat her like this, it is very easy to prevent that, since there's no question that it constitutes a crime. But if you and your partner have talked about your desires and she has told you where her boundaries are, then there is no reason you shouldn't have porn-style sex within those boundaries as much as possible,

The thirst detector is off the charts!

yep very sad

I am amazed you newfags and OP have never heard of fetlife.com . OP, go to fetlife.com and both you and him make accounts there. He gets to compete with other men who are into the stuff you're into, and you get to get better / more informed tips on your particular kink.

Also if you eventually break up over not being fulfilled sexually [sorry OP, it's only a matter of time unless he changes, and 90% of people never change], you'll already have some kinkier friends and prospects for someone that is into what you're into. It's like kink facebook.

In addition, to make him feel safer about hurting a woman and not going to jail about it, get a sex consent app, or template for a sex contract proving that you both consented to rape play. Try tuckermax.com for that.

Hope this helps OP, best of luck.

-nerdgasm91 on fetlife.com

Then you have to make a choice, sweetheart. All relationships involve compromise. Do you *need* to be treated like a slut? Or is it something you just *want*? How happy are you with boyfriend? Do you feel that you would be happier with a guy who gave you exactly what you wanted sexually? Those are the questions you should be asking, not "Do I love him?" and "How do I prevent myself from hurting him?" If you are with him and your heart's not in it, you are hurting him plenty.

So you did anal aswell? Did you fucked with a girl? I would like to know more details, fappin and you know it slut! Do you get off knowing we are all fapping at your stories?

Bravo! This is great advice. Take note.

Ha... Your BF doesn't like being rough because he couldn't last long enough. He needs to desensitize or something

I don't even want to begin to know the mental issues behind that....jesus. What a fucking god damn headcase whore.

My advice is go to your local ghetto and walk around in skimpy clothing. You'll certainly get what you want, but be careful what you wish for bitch.

They probably do, but don't say it in public. Your fantasies are extremely common.

Holy shit you sound exactly like my girlfriend and me. She sort of got me into it by easing me into it. Start little, and work up. Make sure you tell him how good it makes you feel and how you love it when he dominates you. Start with some little spanks just playing around, or him giving you directions, and just work up slowly from there once he gets comfortable with it.

Grentext?

this guy cut people's selfie sticks jajaja
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Op, do you dress up for him? What do you wear? Are you more into slutty or submissive like a slave? Maybe you could tease him by writing dirty stuff on your body and send him a pic;)

I am bi so yeah had 3 gf. I don´t care if lonely boys fap to me hahahaha

hahahahha no he takes like an hour to cum. It is very hard for me cause vanilla ex is boring for me and he takes so long

Exactly what a trap would say.

Except for this guy. Didn't read entire thread before later fetlife post -nerdgasm91

why tho.You never talked to a female I guess. We are using Sup Forums too...

Sorry, what?

Nice, maybe you could post one of your exgf;) please support the FAP:)

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>hahahahha no he takes like an hour to cum. It is very hard for me cause vanilla ex is boring for me and he takes so long

If this is true without inner lubricated condom/ condom, then he likely has Low T. I had that problem, and couldn't get off in a reasonable amount of time even with the small continuous lotus fleshlight (better than any woman will ever feel, raised my expectations WAY too high for my first sexual partner.). Anyway have him get a blood panel done that checks for low testosterone.

Yup I hate one of them anyway.

He is circumcised maybe that is why

She is now a drugged up bitch

YES.

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She loves posting this shit online hahaha

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>He is circumcised maybe that is why

Nope, as a person who is partially circumcised, I assure you - circumcision increases friction and helps you get off faster.

then idk why. He just lasts long... He does not like it tho. obviously he wants to cum