You can discuss that problem with her but if she doesn't want to listen just leave her end it on good terms
Nathan Thompson
It's not going to get better, it never does. Don't get married to anyone by the way, retard.
Jaxson Rogers
If you really love her and want to stay with her COMMUNICATE. It's so fucking simple. Number 1, set ground rules. No threatening divorce or breakup as a tool of argument. Arguing is okay and beneficial for couples if it is done in a constructive manner and isn't done with spite. Number 2, talk to her about what's wrong. Say that it hurts when she insults your family. Find common ground in the fact that "Yes they are a little shitty sometimes" but communicate that it hurts you for her to berate them constantly. Communicate in a way that is understanding.
David Roberts
>She is constantly threading me about getting a divorce ( not even married yet) if my family continue their behavior. HAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHAHA
Mason Moore
>Welcome to the new Sup Forums >Where your feelings are number one priority and we "care for you" >We are politically correct and help out others that feel down instead of letting them know that being an attention whore is a bad thing. Good job faggots, fucking newfags
Elijah Collins
>Implying most marital problems can be just "talked about" remember relationship therapy usually doesn't work idealistfag
Jeremiah Watson
Leave the bitch, your life with her will be hell. Trust me, i have 2 legs.
Jaxon Lewis
>I unironically want to marry >woman started fucking my brains before I even married her >what do I do Just fucking drop her.
Christian Cox
Stop being such an altruistic fuck, just dump her cold body in a ditch and upload her nudes.
Jackson Turner
Kek.
Tell us the terrible shit your family has done in the past and then I'll give you my honest opinion.
Lucas Baker
Borderline personality disorder!!! Run for your mutherfucking life you fucking better off dead fucking faggot. Trust me. You do not want to go down this road. I rode it for 10 years and I honestly wanted out after 6 months. I'm much happier now. Borderline personality disorder, research it.
Levi Harris
In my experience, two people who want to stay together can if they're not lazy fucks and are willing to put in minimal effort. It requires talking to each other like adults and listening to what the other says. I know we live in a society that just throws shit out instead of fixing it but it is a lot more satisfying to fix something.
Christopher Lopez
dump her ass man, family always comes first
Isaiah Moore
Hahahah check this newfag out. Thinks blood means family.
Charles Russell
Have you told her how much it hurts you for her to say those things? At the same time, have you listened and supported her about any bad things your family may have done to her? Has she told you everything?
Jaxson Rogers
>Well guys will be getting married in less than 5 months
Stopped reading right there. We can't fix stupid.
Connor Collins
Sounds like someone is lonely
Owen Ramirez
>two people who want to stay together Implying OP's wife-to-be isn't already thinking about divorce. Takes two to tango and it's usually the woman who doesn't want to sit it out, hence more than 75% of divorces are initiated by the woman.
Jeremiah Gomez
She's threatening divorce already? You should believe her.
Dump her immediately, or risk the hit to your wallet a few years from now with the divorce proceedings and alimony/child support payments.
She basically said she's going to fuck you over. Take the hint.
James Turner
True, if she's not interested then it is over
Nicholas Anderson
>unironically marrying in 2017
Jace Walker
Wow. Are you like, 15?
Easton Jones
Your uneducated and ridiculous family is not going to change. They will also not stop being your family.. If she won't understand that, dump her. In fact, that she does not get this without you having to tell her is a red flag. Dump her.
Hudson Sanders
if your fiance threatens to leave you because she doesn't like your family, then she truly doesnt love you cuz love takes sacrifices. she is a cunt and you should not be with her. simple
Gavin Harris
Kill yourself..
Camden Cruz
you're fucked at several levels man, last thing you should do is to get married... or even worst having children
Asher Peterson
user of the year award goes to ... user #25105
Logan Miller
only legit post i've seen so far
Sebastian Cox
Kids... in the spring of 2017 I was being kind of a slave, you know, kneeling to a woman that bitches about things I cannot influence...
Jaxson Bell
If she is already threatening you with a divorce, your marriage won't last long. She is not ready/willing to put an effort to build a stable and strong relationship with you.
What do you think that would happen in your wedding? My guess is that she would demand that your family wouldn't be there and if they were, she would be a cranky bitch the whole time.
Please leave her before she can destroy your family ties and takes half of your money.
Noah Peterson
Im on the opposite side of things here
My wifes parents got divorced and she likes to put all the blame on her ex-husband, but theres a lot of shitty things she does that tell me it wasnt just him. So on occasion Ive told my wife that her mother could be very petty, stupid, etc and we are usually in agreement most the time.
I think the trouble comes from when its seemingly unwarranted criticism or when its "I get it, enough already" and the both of you really arent on the same page. Since that appears to be the case dont have her drive a wedge between you and your family. Be a man, draw some boundaries.
Juan Miller
Just tell her how bad it hurts, if that doesn't stop it let your bullshit family rape her to death and then feed the body to pigs
Luis Sanchez
wut hev dey dun rong?
Jayden Campbell
Actually, missed that divorce bit for some reason.
Fuck that psycho bitch.
William Bell
>MUUUUM look at me i'm on Sup Forums so i must be mean to ANYBODY!!
Ryder Green
Must be a trusty guy. I'd lend you my car if I knew ya.
Hudson Lopez
Algorithm to find the right person: 1. Date a lot 2. Start a relationship with the very best 3. Stay toghether for yeeeeears 4. Engage to test for yeeeeeasrs 5. Ask your friends and familiy 6. No red flags? Marry if you must
Bentley Martin
Anytime she says she will divorce you, just say "Theres the door."
Any flak after that force a conversation about it, say this is a dealbreaker if you keep doing it.
If she keeps doing it or does it and isnt apologetic dont stay, its that easy.
Carson Lopez
>constantly threading me about getting a divorce >not even married yet
Are you guys sure MGTOW is a meme? Because I know people can actually be this retarded.
By the way OP, if this is legit; Dump that ho' ass rigth the fuck up you stupid cunt!
Jordan Brooks
I think OP already knows what has to be done. But he loves her that's why he hesitates. With a little common sense from Sup Forums his necessary action will be more decisive.
Daniel King
>But he loves her Then you must end it in good terms before you hate her guts for getting half your shit because you were too much of a dumbfuck to walk out when you had the chance.