OK I HAVE A QUESTION FOR U GUYS

OK I HAVE A QUESTION FOR U GUYS

>be me 19 year old
>have my fair share of sex
>can only fuck a girl for like 10 minutes before i blow my load (every time)
>never been able to stop this I've tried edging, jerking off before sex makes me unable to get a boner for the actual sex
>don't know what do do at this point

my question is if stop jerking off completely and only have sex with girls will this make me last longer or will it make me blow my load faster every time i do fuck a girl? i have sex about once or twice every couple weeks and its usually a different girl everytime. Also can i get general advice on what you guys think is the best way to stop cumming fast when u fuck a girl.

Also i have stopped jerking off for about a week and a half now and haven't tried having sex with a girl yet and just tried jerking off today to see how long i could last without cumming at it was like not even 2 minutes (i stopped myself from cumming though and stopped jerking off after that)
im uncut BTW

Keep fucking after you blow off until you blow off again

Sup Forums is the new /adv/

>blow your load during foreplay
>get your partner off until you get hard again
>last much longer during actual sex

My strategy OP. Works out alright.

Won't they think you're a loser and get turned off if you cum during foreplay?

Order some kratom

Thank me later

get circumcised. turning your cock head into leather and desensitizing it. is your only hope OP. Not everyone such as yourself were lucky enough to last long enough to please a woman

My trick is easy. I just count numbers in my head. And break eye contact. Like, I try not to look at her especially if I'm fucking her doggy because the view makes me wanna cum. Try it out.

Life isn't a porno. Not everyone is going to last 6 hours in a six-way around the world while using vibrating buttplugs.

The only way you will last longer is if you have sex multiple times a day, or are too nervous anxious to cum.

seriously tho just bang it out a couple times, im sure by 3rd round you won't be able to cum anymore.

This. the normal thing is fuck a girl and when the guy cums sex is over. thats the norm

The worldwide average is 5 minutes, you're fine.

If u dont jerk off u would cum real quick once u get in them. Switching iy up works. When u get close pull out of her and eat her pussy. Or like the other user daid blow your first load and move on to finish her.

Think about Whoopie Goldberg.

fuck the girl, cum, make her cum with your finger/mouth, fuck her again.

Or get some viagra.

Chances are pretty good OP is fat. The larger you are the more estrogen you have, which shortens your "climax" time. That said, the average time a person lasts is 5.4minutes. "desireable" duration is 7-13 minutes.

65% of women surveyed said 16-20 minutes was too long

Tactical wank. Jack off somewhere between 1-3 hours before sex for the best result. Too early and you migt just have problems with an erection or feeling. The later you leave sex the quicker it will begin to become less worth it.

Growing up for some reason I never came as fast as possible. I would edge myself for like an hour every time I jerked off(before I knew what edging even was). So Now when I fuck, it takes me forever to cum, and sometimes I just don't. Its really really frustrating.

Edging for years gave me the fucking death grip and ruined my sex life

I think about what type of food im going to have that night. really get into savoring the flavors. when i have decided, bust with a 30 second race to the finish line then order in that fucking food before you change your mind like you already did about the girl you fucked.

Holy fuck. Sup Forums is getting more and more beta.. You guys seriously having this much trouble pleasing a girl?

You're 19, it's normal. Enjoy it, takes me fucking ages and the bitch usually quits before I get mine.

10 minutes is normal and fine, just have some foreplay and make her orgasm before you start

OP HERE i am not fat i am 6 ft tall and weight 168.5 pounds whether i eat like shit or eat healthy i have a good metabolism and have never been fat. also i am on my second cycle of 25mg of ostarine doing 1 month on and 2 months off for muscle building at the gym if that makes any difference. penis is about 6 and a little bit inches

check'd

Just have a few beers beforehand, does the trick for me

if you're concerned hop on anti-depressants. will make it difficult to cum (sounds good at first but you get frustrated long term) but if its a new relationship will help ease into things.

this is now a dubs thread

OP here i have done that trick and it does work perfectly for me too the more i drink the longer i last unless im super drunk and get whiskey dick but i kind of wanna be able to fuck a girl any time i need without depending on the alcohol.

Dude... just... no.....

become a BEAST
don't think about how fast you'll blow your load because that shit will psyche you out

and stop taking shitty supplements, they're all bullshit

i haven't fucked in almost a year and a half...idk what happened guys

Interesting. How is that going? Time to climax is usually tied to estrogen, which CAN be from things other than weight. If you dont get gains Id personally see a doctor and have your estrogen levels checked.

However at the end of the day, you arent really that far below average, and if you really can last 10 minutes at a time, you are above average for most people.

This user also has the right idea, though it is horribly frustrating. A pint of whiskey means I can get hard and fuck...forever. Nothing short of some pornstar shit will get me to nut. Ive gone an hour and a half before I was simply too exhausted to keep going and I needed some serious dirty talk and a firm handjob to cum.

you are right i do think it is mind game for me i have always been self conscious and the more i think about not cummins while fucking a girl it just makes me cum faster its hard to stop once u start thinking about it. FYI ostarine is not a supplement it is a SARM and cannot be found in any supplement store i do agree that supplements found in stores are bullshit but this stuff u can only get online and im not sure about the legality of it here in canada and i have noticed rapid muscle grown with it at the gym enough to know that it isn't a placebo effect

What sort of pseudo science is that

you're gay, stop trying

don't know, never tried it. I just eat a lot of chicken

quitter. everyone needs to bust and power through the sensation like its nothing at least once before they die, other wise i question if you're really a man

Which part?

OP here i do believe i have high estrogen levels in my body because although im 19 i still look like a kid u know what i mean? i have a babyface and always get carded at the bars. i do feel like i am a little feminine because i feel like ill never grow facial hair or grow out of the "kid" body and into a man body at his point

I am with you on this one, don't be a quitter

OP here i have secretly cummed in girls before and kept going (none got pregnant or anything obviously and blamed them fore creaming all over my dick and they never knew it was actually me cumming) but i lose my boner like 3 mins after that and can't get it up anymore

never stop jerking off, thats not natural.
smoke some meth and you will last for hours

>that's the norm
I can't find an expression to tell you how much of a retard you seem to be.

What does "that's the norm" say?
What kind of argument is that?
>Sup Forums
Alright I see.

I don't have any trouble pleasing women. This is just a trick in case it gets too hard to focus sometimes. I didn't say I have the same problem he does. That's what he's asking for and that's what I'm answering. Whatever you tried to do there, didn't work.

do long division while you have sex to keep yourself from blowing a load

OP HERE ok so I've been doing somme research online and i think im gonna start jerking off again but not to porn only to my thoughts i know i last way longer jerking off to my brain then i do jerking off to porn so i will do that from now on and we will see how that goes when its time to fuck a girl

if you get really good at jerking off you will see what a bad replacement sex is

>is on /b

Dont listen to morons who say they last hours fucking.. they are either lying, virgins, or their women have painfully raw pussies and they are bored and unfulfilled while these dumbasses pull out every few minutes trying to last longer, drying their girls up and taking away the rhythm that gets them off.

20-30 minutes (including foreplay) is more than sufficient, You'll even fuck more as its not taking up so much of a day. Adults got shit to do and dragging out sex for hours is retarded kiddy stuff.

Do math problems in your head, just simple stuff like addition or multiplication can turn you off a bit

foreplay my friend the normal lasting of actual coitus is 7 minutes

believe me im a virgin and went to 1 sex ed class

This, was on paxil for years (evil ass drug to get off). But I could beat a pussy till it was raw, next to impossible to finish. :(

Do foreplay with her for as long as you cant take it. Hit the clit and g spot and make her cum so when you stick it in its already sore and puffy so your time will be about the same but she'll feel more destroyed, and may ask for breaks during sex so you can even make it go longer. I always do this and i usually last about an hour and i cum like 2-3 times but she cums way more because of the foreplay and dick. Just be handsy user and just that alone will double your session and she will not move afterwards.

>If you're not using condoms perhaps you should give them a go, despite their problems they will help you last longer.
>Also, variety is key, try and mix up your positions and perhaps take a quick break from fucking if you think you're gonna blow, and eat her pussy instead.
>If all else fails try numbing creams or just resort to pegging.