Anyone here convinced a girlfriend to go a threesome with you? Or at least introducing outside things into relationship like watching porn together or some shit?
I would really like to have a threesome with my girlfriend or watch porn with her or some shit.
Yes. It was a MMF three some though
dating this latina who i convinced to watch porn together. she used to watch a lot by herself, felt awkward to watch it with me initially, but now does it. Its pretty cool since she forwards videos/clips she thinks are hot, or shit she finds other girls doing that she thinks would be great to try out
I'd still like to hear how you pulled it off.
See that's the end goal I'm going for. Her exploring what makes her kinky and us sharing these things. So what did you say.do to get to that point?
sidenote my gf is naughty but never been a porn watcher
She actually asked me about it.
I got her interested by incorporating a dildo for her to suck on while we fucked
she probed initially asking if i watched porn, i was honest with her and told her about pornhub
at first she was pretty coy, but then slowly after a couple of months started being more open. told me she masturbated quite frequently, i got her to admit that she watches porn. ended up finding out that she watched it almost on a daily basis, especially if she was just bored. used her laptop once, before she had cleared her browsing history, found a list of sites she had been on, joked about it with her.
she loosened up after that, mentioned/showed me clips that she likes. After that we would have pornhub open sometimes if we were chilling, she would pull up her favorites while i got her twat nice and wet before fucking
Just break up and fuck another grill, don't bother with the drama. Get 3 fwb's and you're set
you just buy the dildo without telling her and then surprise her?
hmm maybe I will just slide her some sometime and see if it works. You ever use it to get ideas for you guys to try together?
Very few women are stimulated by porn. They're usually more turned on by situational things, which is why trashy romance novels are so popular.
Hey, OP, you should talk to her.
yeah, based on the shit she watched i figured out that she liked rough sex. would never have guessed but that opened up some possibilities. found out she liked being cum on. That kinda stuff, she became a lot more comfortable revealing what got her off
I tried to convince her to had a threesome with her best friend who is hot as fuck. Since I didn't want to go straight to the point I started telling her I liked the idea of group sex. Long story short, it backfires and we end up in a threesome with one of her guy friends. It wans't as bad as I tohught, tho, It was actually pretty good
pretty sweet man. Do you think I should just ask my gf was she fantasizes about and then find porn similar to it?
From what my gf told me, its not so much by the porn itself that gets her turned on, its by imagining that she's the woman in the scene.
Yeah i don't know if this makes me a cuck but i dont find the idea of her getting fucked terrible. Sorta like watching porn. Mostly thought i would hope it would open her up to bringing another girl in
fuck no
the trick is to get her to think that she's the one suggesting it. nudge her along, asking her straight up what her fantasies are is not going to work out. i promise. also sending her a bunch of porn clips is just going to make you look like a weirdo
right. im more interested in just trying to bring out kinky things into the relationship. would like to introduce a dildo too but idk how
Had one with my wife and her best friend. I met my wife and got married to her within about 3 weeks, which was pretty crazy/stupid at the time, but it all worked out and I ended up actually falling in love with her and she ended up being a great wife and friend. Anyway her best friend was in a tough spot and needed to move out of her apartment to save money, and we had a spare bedroom so we told her she could stay with us. Her best friend was pretty fucking fine, and I wanted to bone her, and I was pretty sure her and my wife had done some lesbo things to each other before I met my wife, so it didn't take much to get them drunk and get them playing around with each other. The best friend was moaning about how she hadn't been fucked in so long, and my wife looks at me kind of worried then pulls me aside and asks me if anything goes down will I still be HER man. I assure her that she would have nothing to worry about, that it would just be sex. We went back to BFF's room and got her naked and I dicked them both down. Was a pretty good night.
Unfortunately my wife didn't like how eager I was to try to do it again, so I "we" came to the agreement that it would just be a one-time thing. BFF ended up getting a boyfriend soon afterward, anyway, and moved out a few months after moving in with us. It was a good time, though. I fucked BFF a few times on the side when the wife was out, too, but that was the only threesome.
alrigth so how do you suggest nudging her into thinking she suggested it?
kek. almost every woman out there has a dildo, unless she's some frigid prude. you may just not know about it.
I feel the same way. I'm trying to get my wife fucked. Maybe I'm a cuck. It would be like live porn. I've been sending her crazy pics and talking about it during sex and she's starting to respond favorably.
innocent is more the word i would use for her. I'm a foot fan though and she loves indulging that, so she's not a prude in any way
Cuck alert
sounds cash. whats the best way to get away with cheating?
an ex of mine had a crush on her best friend, who is straight, and convinced her best friend to have a threesome so she could fuck her. only threesome i've had.
>calls a bisexual top getting twice the ass a cuck
>is a virgin
nice one user
Yeah. It was amazing. We all had a serious biting fetish and were in my small ass bed, just flesh upon flesh and endlessly wonderful scent of women, one was way hotter than the other, unfortunately never got with the pretty one. The ugly one I'm dating now and plan on breaking up with her once I pack up to move to the Philippians.
might try tht out sometime. Ive thought getting a substantial dildo and introducing her to the idea of a bigger cock or something just to get the live porn ball rolling
no one's going to hold your hand and guide you step by step. i've told you how I did it, figure out what you need to say and do.
>i dont find the idea of her getting fucked terrible
I used to. Until it happened
>i would hope it would open her up to bringing another girl in
It did in my case. Not the one I was aiming for but ¯\_(ツ)_/¯
how'd you do it
howd you set it up user?
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Tell her what you need. In my experience what puts women off ffm experimentation is a feeling of inferiority and/or loss of control, both of which are resolved if you make the seduction of your third party a cooperative goal.
I'm three years into a closed triad, after a few false starts with girls that just wanted me, or her. My fiancée is the best wingman (wingwoman?) I've ever had, and our girlfriend fills a gap neither of us could alone.
Tl;dr - you can have your cake and eat it too. Just play it above board, be open to negotiation, and you'll be amazed what she's open to.
So is this a warning?
I have had 3- and 4-ways with all girls, and some double blowjobs. All dank, except the 3rd girl in the 4way was fat, but was going for quant over qual.
P.s it's very sexy
My wife calls these guys "living dildos". I'm not into the gay cuck stuff but it would be awesome to see the look of fear and lust on her face. Doesn't have to be black either. I think it just turns her on more.
So you think the direct approach? Just tell her what I'm feeling?
She is the jealous, I know this isnt something she's super into
thats just some cuck shit. if you want your girl to prefer some other dude in bed, then you're some mangina beta
damn dude tell me how
Never pulled off a 3some myself.. however i did get my ex gf to jerk me off while watching a lesbian porn.
i didn't do anything. my ex suggested it and i guess told her friend we were swingers and she should try it out. turns out her friend wanted to fuck me anyway.
how do you find the guys? I'm into this
I phrased both those sentences like shit.
I meant I used to fine the idea terrible, until it happened, turns out I had a really good time.
Some time later, we brought another girl, it wasn't her super hot friend I was talking about in my first post, but she was pretty hot too
my gf is dominant, and picks out videos of facesitting/asslicking for me to watch on my laptop on my chest while she jerks me off fingers me and calls me her bitch
She's started doing it more often recently.
yeah its not some beta cuck shit just the idea of MY girlfriend getting plowed and experiencing something she never though imaginable.
how did you find the guys?
I was really close to the pretty girl for a few years, she never was physically attracted to me that much but in early high school we explored each other and stuff, basic experimentation and whatnot. Her past boyfriend was a cock and a brownie and her other boyfriend was a Niger who treated her terribly. She was really into me at one point but regardless. The ugly girl was into having sex with tons of people, or if so she said, she really never had much sex with anybody but I started dating her. Long story short I got the two of them to meet at a party and the ugly girl was trying to be nice to the pretty woman, because well she was pretty. Eventually they hit it off and become half-decent friends, honestly not very good friends but it was good enough. Simply asked if they would like to hang out at the same time, knowing that the two of them would meet and we went back to my house to watch some movies, I always set my room up as if it was a slumber party at a teenage girl's house, it always gets me laid. Eventually we were all fighting each other and gouging each other's backs while I got to f*** two pussies smashed up against each other. The moral of the story is set your stuff up for the b****** and be Alpha about it
>Using mobile
Btw prepare to be impressed by just how much dick a horny girl can take
no its still some beta cuck shit. you're clearly not man enough to get your gf to experience those things and you need a guy who is better than you will ever be.
Pretty straight forward explanation of beta cuck.
Know your partner's schedule, no phone shit like calls or texts, and cheat with a girl that respect's boundaries and knows to not be all cute and intimate in front of your partner if they end up in the same room with each other and you. It also helps when you live with the person you're cheating with so when your girl steps out to go to work you can just fuck and shower real quick then go about your day.
It also helps if you make the money, you're the MAN, and you're not a complete asshole. I'm pretty sure my wife thinks I fucked her friend on the side a bit, but she can't know for sure and as long as I'm not cheating on her now and I treat her well then she acts like she doesn't know or care.
MFF threesome here. My girl loves kissing girls when she gets drunk. So it just took some light encouraging. She convinced her best friend and was one of the best nights of my life. My girl always is down for anything. She has a hot cousin we talk about all the time so far they have made out and gone topless, she has also shown her some sex pics and vids of us. My advice user is baby steps and patients. I always let my girl lead so she feels in control of the situation and not pressured. Also alcohol.
This is our last exchange. CL is the best option but you have to sort through a million creeps and weirdos. We have not yet actually done it. She's close!
I agree. It is a bit beta. But still hot to see your gf stretched like a pornstar
Damn...
Two questions:
1. Please elaborate on how you keep your room set up
2. Pleas elaborate on the two pussy thing. What position are we talkin here
My gf knows I'm the fucking king. Just wasn't blessed with a baby arm cock thats all
Wtf is wrong with you amerifags? You want to introduce something 'spicy' like porn to a relationship? I cant even imagine how bland and boring your missionary sex for the purposes of procreation must be. It disgusts me.
im loving these text conversations.
if you didnt use the best option then how did you find them?
If shes sucking on a dildo then shes doing it for you, not for her. Maybe you need to think about what turns her on
>missionary
But. But how else will you be able to lock eyes and whisper "I love you"
Yep - jealousy is a shitty part of any polyamorous relationship and there's no way around it, but remind her: it's a good sign.
She sees you with other women and the first thing that flares up is a sense of possession - so let her own the other woman, too. Wanting to be better than the competition is perfectly natural, but she'll never know for sure if she is unless she gets involved, which at its core is what jealousy is... the desire for involvement.
Have a sneaky affair and the jealousy of your partner will destroy both relationships. Have an open one and jealousy will turn her into an absolute freak in bed. Really you should be worried if she's not jealous - it signifies a lack of investment in you.
Even if your girl is not a prude and open minded chances are she will be very cautious about sharing her sexuality with you. Even if you are already fucking. Girls are trained in the west from a young age to hide their sexual desires and only dole it out in small bite size pieces for fear of being labeled a slut.
Also they will be hesitant to reveal that they watch porn and what they watch for fear you will judge them based on their tastes. I spent years on the internet and Sup Forums before I met my now wife and when I found out she was into hentai she was so goddamn embarrassed and obviously scared of how I would react. I just told her it was hot and sent her some stuff I'd seen over the years.
We are much more open now but this was still several years into our relationship and it still terrified her.
The easiest way I can describe it is how you feel the first time you drop your pants in front of a girl and you're worried she wont like your dick. If she was to laugh at you, you would be destroyed. So the best way to get a girl comfortable is to put your cards on the table first and show her what you like and let her know you won't judge her.
If your girl has no fantasies and doesn't watch/read any porn or masturbates chances are you got a dud lay. If shes not even interested in expanding her horizons it's time to go she will only have sex early in the relationship to make you happy then get sick of it once the honeymoon period is over.
You make me sick. Please stop
That all makes perfect sense. I guess I'm just curious what you think women want to hear when you're convincing them to open the relationship up?
Did you try asking her? Seriously, I've ruined so many relationships in the past because I wasn't upfront about fetishes or sexual desires. The girl I'm dating now (open relationship-3 years) I told her the first night we went out the kinky shit I'm into. Just don't be a pussy.
She hasn't been fucked by a horse hung guy but she has ageeed that it would be awesome. The next step is the hard part.. finding a guy and getting over the nerves.
Shit that your wife? Nice.
So what's the next step teach me sempai
That's her. Idk what the next step is. I'll Keep talking to her about it. It makes her wet as hell. It takes time but I'm sure she'll agree to meet someone soon. Finding the right guy is totally on me.
Girlfriend originally didn't like knowing that watched porn. Tried it herself and got hooked on lesbian strapon videos. She loves it and wants it done to her now
great ass on her. good luck
Mainly what they want is reassurance that you're not trying to segue into a new relationship and end the one with them, or replace them.
Secondarily they want reassurance that what you're asking for isn't that freaky - so get them onto the literature. Google has plenty of resources on the subject.
Be careful with your terminology. It's not "your" new partner, it's "our" new partner. It's not cheating, it's ethical non-monogamy. Remind her she wouldn't dump a dude whose kink was bondage or anal or whatever - all the New Girl is is a way to satisfy the kink, and you're trying to do the right thing by discussing your relationship like adults rather than drama it out like teenagers.
Most importantly - remind her you can't do it without her. You don't want a new girl - you want an extra one, and you want to share.
I want my girl to be fucked by a group of guys, I wanna see her as the piggy in the middle with a circle of cocks slapping her face at the same time with mine.
I can't help it, I love that slutty scenario, I'd love to see her be so slutty like that and I can't stop myself. I get an instaboner just thinking of that shit.
wow, great ass, i'd love to share her with you, i'd worship her ass in front of you too
This. I have a lot of fetishes and i just talk about them. I have done pretty much everything I want.
MFF threesome
Pissed on her
Been peed on
Pegged
Fucked all three holes in one session (in the dirtiest order)
Fucked her while calling her another girls name of someone we know
Those are the highlights
My girl has no fetishes but she loves to make me happy. So all I have to do is ask. Also alcohol.
I have this fetish where I seduce an Indian girl (from India) into wanting to fuck me even though she has a shitskin Indian boyfriend, eventually getting her to fuck my white cock in front of him.
I'm the same way man. Gotta start with just one other guy and work up to it.
She's agreed to the IDEA of one giant dick and that's a good start.
Now, said Dick needs to be attached to someone who is sane and not a threat to the relationship.
>I'm the same way man. Gotta start with just one other guy and work up to it.
We're having this hot idea of looking for "candidates" and calling it "recruiting". She wants to see them as toys and then we'll look for them, preferably online and holding interviews to make sure they fit her criteria - "big cummy cocks" that match mine (that's the way she says it).
Please come?
Cuck and gay.
My girl recently had her first TRULY hung guy.
So worth the wait
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Did you watch? Feelings of jealousy?
Cucked hardcore
Why don't you 2 stop with the beard and just fuck each other already.
Yes I watched. No jealousy.
I was impressed by how much he was able to stuff her with.
When my girl gets drunk she usually talks about wanting to have a foursome where we both pick a girl to join us. We'll probably go somewhere like vegas to do it.
I realize this doesn't help answer your question, but I think every chick is different so it just depends on who you're with.
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Actually he did such a great job and was gentle on her at first.
I've never seen her so wet
Long time cheater. Have 2 girls on the side at the moment (19 year old ive had for 1 year and the 29 year old I've had for 4 years.) I'm 30. Wife is 27 and we have been together since highschool. Bottom line, anyone can cheat. To cheat and not get caught takes skill, intelligence, manipulation, and most importantly money. Cheating is not cheap. If you try to be cheap and cheat you will fail. You need separate identities. You need a to tell the truth to the side chicks. I'm married and happy and this is being "best friends" (lol that line... works alot) feelings will get caught, know it. Prepare for it. Any other questions about cheating I'll answer
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is it worth it? I don't want to risk my relationship
Sexy
Pic related, my wife. Work gradually into things like porn. Find her kinks. She got into sharing pics on reddit and loved peoples responses until she got bored of them and wanted dirtier stuff
Op has 2 phones and erps with himself.
That depends on you man. I can't answer the question that only you yourself know the answer to. People cheat for different reasons. Mine were multiple one was because I wanted to have sex with more than one person before I died. Tbh my kid is suffering because if the time I'm spending with the side chick's so I'm about to cut the time with them way down. So I suppose my answer is yes in the selfish short term but for me it would be no in the long term
Right. Because conversations like this never actually happen irl. It's much more likely that he pays 2 phone bills for the sole purpose of tricking you.
Yes.
I got her into several threesomes both with girls and guys.
We have done so much kinky stuff you wouldn't believe it.