I used to fap once a day ever since I started fapping and I was always fine but about 2 months ago I started fapping 3-4 times a day and now I feel like my sex drive is dead. Scrolling through Sup Forums seeing all the ass and tits and they do nothing for me. When I fap I have to stroke for a while, sorta like "forcing" my dick to get hard, and orgasms are pretty weak. I'm only 19. Oh and I'm also severely depressed most days, but I can't remember a time I wasn't depressed. Don't know if it has to do anything with it though.
Isaac Peterson
What was your motivation posting that image? Also why not use the lack of sex drive and depression to get yourself a better job. You dont care, why not take a risk?
Jackson Reed
are you on any meds? they can affect your sexual desire
Connor Roberts
I'm not on my home PC and I only have my tattoo ideas folder. Currently looking for a job but don't want to work for less than $10/hr... eh I'm on doxycycline mono for my acne but I don't think loss of sex drive is a side effect, I might be wrong though
Angel Edwards
Any family history of diabetus?
Robert Richardson
Yeah my dad and my grandpa. My dad has like 6 older brothers and they're all fine too, so idk
Kayden Campbell
Have you known love?
Elijah Hill
How can you not have a job but have insurance that pays for vanity?
Nathaniel Johnson
Could be a problem with that, do you see a doctor and get blood work done regularly?
Ryan Allen
Pimple cream for the unemployed? Is this a indicator of your priorities, or the wealth of your environment?
Grayson Jenkins
Nah I'm a kissless virgin I don't know if I have insurance or not but I pay for all my medical shit out of pocket I have, everything is fine. I've always been told I'm a very healthy person. Last time I got sick was maybe 3 years ago
Mason Ramirez
Wow on top of that you are quite dumb too. How come?
Do you realize how your whole system is drugs, and when you cum you roundabout interact with the whole of the organism? Not even going into the psychological effects of it which are as evident as the sun at high noon.
You have not only fapped yourself asexual, but very likely also braindead. I am not even joking, but I suppose at your stage, dealing with reality can go only by either joking or lying.
Justin Nelson
I've never done drugs, I've just been on antibiotics, if that's what you're trying to tell me. I don't understand big words in english
Andrew Smith
Do you have long term plans? Or are you just floping from moment to moment. Concerning on small useless details like face blemishes to eat up time, entropy, and your dwindling self?
Eli Thomas
stop fapping. I used to fap 5-10 times a day, took a 3 week break and then started getting harder as ever
Carter Jackson
I want to get done with community college so I can transfer to a university. That's as "long term" as my plans get, besides wanting to get married and whatever. Still haven't decided on a major. But yeah, most of the time I'm just doing nothing. I let my skin get out of hand and is now ruined, so I went on doxy (and accutane will come after) to prevent it from getting worse Will try this
Camden Jones
Flopping...
David Lopez
>this nigga
No I don't imply that you do drugs. A biological organism such as yourself works because of drugs. Even your personality is a "product" of a certain mixture of chemicals in your system.
Doesn't mean you have to take drugs. Fapping is a drug itself because it is done in order to release a brain chemical. How is that not drug-taking?
Lucas Scott
i need some help, all my life ive been fapping a lot, by daily standards, always got hard, never had a problem, im 20 now, and i notice i dont get hard just looking at stuff anymore, i have to actually touch myself, it also goes down quickly. had this problem 1 year ago, but it somehow got fixed without doing shit. could have sex 5 times in 2-3 hours without a problem. but now it came back again. wtf is the problem? i do get anxious about my health, as im a hypochondriac. any ideas guys?
Caleb Bailey
I'll just add that by the 7th or 8th orgasm I would cum and nothing came out which is the most depressing feeling ever. Once you go 3 or 4 days without fapping your sex drive kinda shuts down untill you fap again then it returns
Henry Parker
>mfw this makes much more sense to me now
I still don't understand how people beat their dick 10 times like it's nothing, and always have room for more. I went from once to 3 times a day and I'm suddenly I'm asexual and braindead?
Hudson Sanchez
I feel you two. Same here tho I am 25 soon 26. I like to imagine its just because I also fap to much and not even when aroused just for stress relief. All this forciing keeps my sex drive low.
Lets start no fap.
Nolan Wright
If you continue you will very definitely experience definite results. Obviously.
If you would put that time and energy into something else you would find yourself growing in a different direction. Like this you just arouse yourself, strengthen some impulses while weakening others. You literaly steal from yourself when it is done compulsively.
Oliver Hall
Oh man, Good luck, been trying to do no fap for about 2 weeks. Longest I made it was 3 days. Kinda sad imo.
Jaxson Ramirez
Now you see the next retard flies in from stupid town.
He goes from one extreme to another. Are you an action hero or something?
That is what excessive fapping can make of you.
Nolan Davis
Sorry I'm a bit late, but I've recently been feeling the same.
I used to fap every single day, and I just kind of lost my sex drive. I've recently begun a kind of "fap every other day" thing, and sometimes I'll intentionally skip another day, and I gotta say, it seems to be working. I feel better since.
Mason Reyes
Still just as disfunctional of a sex drive than the rest here.
What made you guys like this? I mean you guys seem to have a relationship with sexual pleasure like you would have one with smoking a cigarette. That is quite horrible, don't you think?
It's almost a story about a sexual being made bankrupt by its own sexuality, or rather imature handling thereof.
Ayden Lopez
Of course its horrible and as you see we are suffering and looking for advice.
It is comforting that people had the same experience and still found back to their sex drive, so why bother if you are intact.
Zachary Powell
Because I am actually somewhat surprised of the accounts written here.
I fap rarely, only when arousal comes by itself and also only then when it is neccessary.
I can't tell how often it is because it does not follow a regular pattern. But just for the sake of visualizing it, it's not even once a week.
I have had different times, but not nearly as sharp as you guys have it.
Getting out of a swamp like that is not easy.
Noah Campbell
I was full of energy and did nothing but browse b all day which is full or porn. And I'd workout and smoke weed which just makes you Hornier so Id be able to cum 10 times a day
Gavin Smith
Yea you got caught by people who are not stupid, and who make money with your considerations.
Do you realize how many people come here regularly and cannot leave? How they are drawn back constantly only to live through the same shit over and over? And how it all drains their energy until they are reduced to what people "meme" or "joke" about as "The Average Sup Forumstard"?
You have no will. Lost it in exchange for..well..this.
Before anyone here starts to lash out I will kindly inform you, that there are ways "out of this". But only for those still capable of honesty towards oneself and a genuine desire to change something.
The rest is doomed by their own decision.
If you take it lightly, choose to meme it out, the shit will continue. All these people joke about reality because they feel they cannot cope otherwise.
Anthony Turner
No its actually not. Right now I become aware that I am gripping my dick more often than I should, out of boredom or routine, idk.
Its hard to but this has to stop!
Oliver Perez
Well then I congratulate you on your first successful step into a healthier direction. Your next enemy is your inability to remember.
Maybe now you say it must stop. Tomorrow a different you, call it the "horny you" will state a quite different account. Will he care about the decision you have made today?
Make plans, be prepared, know yourself and remember, or you will come back sooner than you would wish to, and you know that to be true as it has been so before.
Chase Anderson
The fuck what is your point. That's a long way of saying "people get addicted to what they enjoy". I hate when stupid people give these long drawn out pointless responses
Noah Johnson
Yeah but thats the thing with everything, right? Take workout, grade, relationships. To change something you need to the will and the focus.
Sometimes the most important changes are triggered by only the slightest moment of "enlightment".
Luke Bailey
But you get the point. I am not responsible or related to your impatience and/or lazyness. Neither am I here to write especialy for You. Are you the action hero I wrote about earlier?
Well yes but "have to" is a rather harsh way of looking at it when compared to "willing to", wouldn't you agree?
I mean would you rather be fully willing and motivated to become active in your life, or having to do things for the sake of some other mans rules and measurements?
Liam Adams
I do agree, but often it is having to be willing to change something, so from now its just a debate of literal or figurate speech or philosophy.
Hudson King
Is that not an actual thing to you?
To me it is not figurative speech or philosophy at all. If I live like that, then what part of it is philosophy?
What part of being dependant on others is not an addiction? Dependancy is Addiction, is it not?
There are ways to change things, but only if one is willing to. That is the very first step that anyone could ever make. Only after that comes your thought of "having to do".
Justin White
OP here. I am seriously gonna nofap, I'm tired of this. I'm gonna shoot for a month but I'll be content with 2 weeks.
Kevin Scott
Fuck this thread just made me cum to such a realization. Deathgrip is no joke
Ayden Harris
This shit is as real as anything that has seen the light of day.