Problem: For porn and girlfriends i can get a boner no problem. But for one night stands i get slightly nervous and will have limp dick for a few hours and then it usually is forced mentally into working.
Anyone else have this problem? What is the solution? I have a girl that wants to hook up next week and i don't want to have this problem come up. Also, do those sex pill from gas stations work or are they bs?
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you're self conscious. need to bet comfortable being naked around strangers
how do i do this? I have no problem getting naked around girls or my friends. I am fine with my body but when things get sexual i get nervous...though i am confident enough. probably private school to blame for this
I've fucked girls before, n after I got to talkin to em I realized I didn't really like em. then threyd come back later die more cock and even tho they look good my dick didn't care.
alcohol helps, being secure enough with yourself is one thing, you are comfortable with your body what makes you self conscious is somewhere deep in the back of your head you're worried about what she's thinking, its not uncommon we all look to impress at some time or another
true. when i get boozed up or like hangout with them for a while it is better. I am a little worried about whiskey dick though. I think i was always taught pre mature sex was bad and that was the cause of me being nervous for one night stands. I think it is less about body or dick size and more about mentally being comfortable with the girl
Thats your fail safe valve. Your body knows nothing good will come of it, so it shuts down.
funny story
i lost my virginity to some skanky girl. it took me like 4 hours to get a boner. after i fucked her i ended up getting mrsa from her nasty UTI cooter
it makes a huge difference, matter of fact I considered banging a heffer once just cause she was so cool, like her awesomeness made her attractive, also she wasn't like a sloppy kinda fat so that contributed
i think if i was able to just spend like a day hanging out with them and just laying down with them to " go to bed" then i could easily sport a bone and get it on. It is just so weird when i show up at their house and like ten minutes later their clothes are off.
most girls would have walked away after like 40 minutes. That should have been the second indication it was a mistake.
exactly, I had a booty call that would only come around after midnight, she would get ahold of me like an hour or two before she planned on coming in, (escaping her bf for half hour or so) so its like the pressure was on to preform n that never helped the situation. like always being rushed and then the pressure to preform made it tough sometimes, so I would get a Lil tipsy before she came over n that helped tremendously
since then i have fucked 5 girls and went pretty far with many others. Same thing with the winky happened for a lot of them I have confidence, looks, and humor which i think helps. Also, i shoot below my standards
ill have to try that out. Now that i think of it i have had better luck when i can find that sweet spot with booze
ALways had this issue, it's all mental but really hard to anticipate
Cheated on my wife with a few gals and he first time was always shrivel and nervs
I'll go to the Thai massage parlour once a month to practice overcoming nerves as I like to be hard when they come in the room.. most times I'm soft as hell until they start massaging and then he awakes much to their delight
A good tactic is to have the girl tell you why she likes your cock, girls that have said that I'm bigger or better in bed than their husband, bf or ex will ensure diamonds each time
i'll try that out. Would going to those "massage parlors" where they give happy ends help with that? Just get me used to doing something " bad" or comfortable with strangers?
before I started boozing, always felt like the sec would be better if she had time to kick it for a bit smoke one n let the sex just happen, being rushed or being expected to preform at the drop off a hat never really had the greatest results
I feel you. it is like a pop quiz
when your girlfriend is so ugly i get why you dont get a boner
Ever try trazadone? Doc prescribed it for insomnia, but it just gives me a raging hard on instead.
my gf isnt ugly. nor is your mother. nor any of the girls i have been with :)
no never heard of it. Is it prescribed only?
Yes. It used to be prescribed for depression, but now it's used as a sleep aid apparently
Stop Fucking ugly bitches.
Just buy some cialis from the dark web and use it for the situations when you feel pressure to perform. You can get it from your regular doctor too but it's expensive that way
that was one of my plans. But is there any over the counter shit?
also bumping with tits
she is evil
Maybe some placebo shit but if you want it to work for sure get done cialis. I went to the urologist and he gave me a sample pack with thirty 5mg pills for free to try. Take two and you can break concrete with your dick. When that runs out I'll buy off the dark web
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why the dark web when i could get a prescription
Very expensive at pharmacy unless your insurance covers it