My wife and I have an incredibly amazing sex life. We have other girls over to play from time to time. We recently joined LoveVoodoo, a swingers lifestyle sight to find more girls to come play. I've kind of been intrigued about the idea of swinging or swapping.
I have the stereotypical concerns. I'd be fine with watching her get banged by another dude, but it's the dumb insecurities. I fuck her brains out and make her cum a lot, but for some reason I'm thinking another dude is going to do something I can't. It's dumb, but I can't get past it.
I joke with my wife about it, but her rule is "no third parties." Too bad, there is a couple in our peer group who swing, and the woman has great tits. Do you have any pics you can share so I can live through you vicariously? (My wife doesn't want me to share pics, and I respect that, so can't return the favor unfortunately.)
James Edwards
Here's how to get over the insecurities: don't let another dude fuck your wife?
Evan Sanchez
No pics, user. Sorry.
We've talked about going to a swingers club to just check it out and find other girls. Maybe I'll take it one step at a time that way. Maybe talk to some of the dudes there. Idk.
Xavier Robinson
>I'd be fine with watching her get banged by another dude
Don't do it. Hypergamy is a real thing. You're facilitating her 'Alpha Fux, Beta Bux' strategy. I advice you to read up on it then you'll realize how stupid it is to allow your woman to fuck other men.
Noah Jackson
lol true
Benjamin Mitchell
>Don't do it.
Unless you lack confidence in your dick and/or your fucking skills, do it. It's fun. My wife and I started swinging a couple years ago, and things have never been better. I could give a shit about all the insecurities you 12 year-olds have about other men.
Andrew Ward
Swinging only works if both parties are completely on board. Even then it doesn't always work
Have you checked out the swingers subreddit? Seems to be pretty active.
If you don't mind a few questions, then: 1) Is the thing about the white rock on the porch true? (Heard it was to signal that you were a swinger.), 2) Are you open about swininging, and if so what do people think? 3) Do one or both of you swing both ways? (Heard that it's common for women to go down on each other, but men tend not to, fwiw.) 4) How did you get into this? Whose idea was it? 5) Being serious: why Sup Forums? (I find that people here are very openabout sex and sexuality, so I'm not judging.)
Adam Miller
Monogamy in humans is not natural. Some ppl cope by cheating others cope by having an open relationship. Either way we all just want variety after so many years with one person
Adrian Smith
I used to swing back in the day. I would pick up casual girls and we'd date for a bit, swing with other people, then I'd get sent on a MEU or deployed, and we'd go our ways. I loved it at the time, because I wasn't super attached to the girls I was swinging with, but I personally couldn't do it with a long term girl.
My advice is take it slow, use protection and be open about it. Also, make sure everyone involved is clear, you don't want something like this to get violent (unless you're into that). I think the worst thing that ever happened to me was I had a blue macaw land on my back in the middle of sex
Lucas Richardson
Or...you can reject the redpill and decide that "sex is just sex." Lemme throw you a curveball skeezax: I would love for my wife to fuck someone else because it actually helps me deal with he anxiety thst she might cheat on me. Thst relieves me from the responsibility of trying to control her behavior, which I can't do (yes Mr. Alpha, your girl can cheat on you, too...in fact, you are every bit as worried about it as I am, and probably more.) If my wife stopped having sex with me or stopped meeting my needs...we'd separate, like two adults who understand what the committment we made to each other means. Thinking like tjis makes me "beta?" Oh no! Someone online called me a name!
Gavin Ross
Human beings do all sorts of things that aren't natural. Have you ever fucked a girl in the ass? That's not natural. But it's fun. So what was your point, again?
Ryder Robinson
Please greentext the blue maccaw story. I think it might be the stuff of legends. Thank you for the clear advice. I am horny, so I have to ask: any of these girls let you take pics, and if so may we see them?
Michael Martinez
Fucking a girl in the ass isn't natural? Says who? Women have almost the same amount of erogenous zones in the anus as they do in their vaginas. Anal sex is probably one of the most natural things to do unless u are a bible thumping idiot. Monogamy rarely occurs in the animal world. Read a book
Kayden Hughes
try fetlife.com some swingers and poly on there
Nolan Miller
you shouldn't have any problem finding other cucks on Sup Forums
Colton Richardson
I'll answer the latter question: Yes, but I have no idea where they are. This was 1987 to 1995 ish so those photos may be out there, but if they are it's unknown to me.
Logan Moore
Or you can go with the flow and slut out your girlfriend like a whore, and be entertained by it.
Nicholas Martin
>Have you ever fucked a girl in the ass? That's not natural.
I don't think you understand what "natural" means.
Connor Cooper
Being worried a bitch is going to cheat is definitively beta you eloquent moron
Julian Rogers
My wife and I started swinging about a year after we got together, I was fucking her 5 times a day and she still wanted dick so I asked if she wanted to try and she was happy to. We've had ups and downs because of each other for different reasons but it's never been about swinging, we both have a great time watching the other get fucked and it's the little twinge of jealousy that makes it fun sometimes. She's been with probably5-7 other guys and I've been with probably 15 other women, she finds a dick she likes and asks them back while I never fuck the same woman twice. We recently went on our second break from swinging and I have been cheating on her behind her back, now I"m hooked on wanting different pussy and she wanted to stop to raise kids. That lasted about a year, now she's already asking about me finding her somebody to use again, meanwhile I've fucked 4 women she knows nothing about and it hasn't caused any problems, once we even stopped and talked to one in the store and my wife was like "Didn't you fuck her at that party a while back, must be why she was talking about that" and that stupid bitch was trying to tell on me and get me in trouble, laughed so hard in her face the next day and tied her up, fucked her ass while she cried and told her not to contact me again. I left her tied up for her boyfriend to let her out, why she wanted to get me in trouble is beyond me but fuck that bitch. Anyway, swinging is fucking awesome, also you should probably wear condoms but I don't, I like to cum inside pussy's and mouths so I just kind of cross my fingers and look for anything nasty before I start fucking. Good luck!
Parker Foster
So the macaw story
>1991... I think >Just picked up Corporal >I was seeing this girl for a while, but she moved away so we split up >We had been swinging for the last few months >Still being single, I would hookup with other swinger couples (not cuckolding, only did that once, never again) >This couple had a nice house >I want to say 6 bedrooms, ocean front >Me, and 2 other couples start drinking >I'm balls deep in this 40 something, when someone gets up to go to the bathroom >"WAIT NO" >Guy who owned the house yells to the guy going to the bathroom, which was attached to the bedroom >I ignored the noise, but immediately felt what I thought was a shoe landing on my back >I feel these talons on my back and feel these massive wings flapping over me >I look back and see this giant fucking blue bird on my back, and lock eyes with him >I flew (lol) off that bed and protected by dick like it was going to save my life >I had seen combat once before that, and that was still (at the time) the scariest moment in my life
That's it, nothing crazy
Jaxon Roberts
I have not tried it and I advise against it
Carson Taylor
Then I'm beta. Oh well.
Adam Johnson
if ur gonna be a cuck, dont be a bitch cuck.
i was fucking this guys wife and she would snapchat him pictures then he watched us live. i guess her moans mustve pissed him off cuz he got really angry and kicked me out
no worries though, i still occasionally fuck his wife
Joshua Robinson
Thank you for sharing. I think it's a funny story.
Alexander Ramirez
Holy shit. Hyacinth macaw is the most rare drop in WoW!
So can we get some swinger pic in this thread or what?
Oliver Fisher
That guy is a pussy.
Jack White
It's sex, not heroin. One of the waysyou find out what you do and don't like is by trying it. Adults recognize that sometimes experiences provoke difficult emotions. Since they are adults, they handle them.
Jaxson Rivera
Then define it for me. I taje it to mean, "used for it's intended purpose." Actually, by this definition, monogomy IS natural.
Thomas Butler
Monogamt occurs ALL THE TIME in the animal world. ESPECIALLY among humans. Which book did you read to disprove this?
Charles Perez
Thank you for answering the question just the same.
Juan Moore
Me and my gf fuck around with other people. Always together, that's the rule. But why the fuck do I want to talk about it here? I'll just get called a duck and the conversation goes nowhere.
Dylan Rogers
Yes.
Nathaniel Fisher
Forgot to attach pic...sorry!
Zachary Carter
>Im worried she'll cheat so i give her permission to cheat
Brilliant.
Justin Watson
Used to swing with a girl I had an affair with. Went to a couple of swinging clubs and after meetin people with her we got invited to a lot of parties. I didn't care much about her so seeing her fuck other girls and guys didn't bother me.
Landon Nguyen
Because other people who won't judge you are interested. On Sup Forums, no matter what you say, someone will call you a "faggot." So what? That doesn't maje *you* a bad person. Seriously, this is one of the few places online where you can be open about sex without fearing judgment, because the judgment is so predictable that it becomes meaningless.
So please share. Stories, pics, anything...I'm married and this lifestyle isn't an option for me. You'd be doing me and the woman in my life a huge favor.
Dylan Hernandez
Sorry user, I walked away and thought this thread died. 1. I've heard that, but don't know it to be true anymore. I assumed it was true in the 70's when swinging was big.
2. I keep my sexual business as private as I can. We both do. So we haven't really discussed anything with others, outside of the internet.
3. She is bi, I am not.
4. My idea. It was just something that sparked my interest while browsing this swingers website.
5. Because I'm bored and was on here. Also, through the bullshit and children on here, there are actually some people who give some halfway decent, first person advice.
Nathaniel Russell
>something i can't
that's the point of fucking other people tho
Ayden Campbell
Fucking duck
David Roberts
My wife and I want to swing, but its really difficult finding people >You trust >You find attractive
Sebastian Cox
It is. You deal with feelings by facing them. Instead of trying to control the woman you love, you accept that you can't control her. This is 100% logical, even though I know you were being sarcastic.
Jayden Wood
OP here, I truly thought this thread was headed for 404. I've been reading, and lots of "guides" are saying to go to a swingers club or swinger event and just spectate and talk to others first. Get a feel for it. I'll obviously need to talk to her and get some real feels on things before advancing at all. I'm kind of excited to dabble into it, and a little nervous as well.
Thanks for the input, swinganons.
Oliver Hill
same. only found one couple and that was on a vacay 2 years ago and the couole lives too far away
Adrian Peterson
There were like 10 lies in this post.
Camden Robinson
Thank you for answering my question. Part of Sup Forums will always involve pure faggotry. I am also mpressed that people can have mature and sober discussions.
Josiah Price
Where yall from?
Have you tried Swinder? or other apps?
Gavin Wilson
canada, northern ontario. small population but near a big city. never heard of swinder
David Campbell
what other apps are there
Logan Nelson
Its like Tinder, but yeah. Not much luck on it.
The people we end up finding are like, fat as fuck, or look like they do a lot of drugs. Both of which we don't like.
Sebastian Butler
All the rest are shitty versions of Tinder/MeetMe etc. Swinder was the only one with a focus on couples.
Ryan Diaz
ah fuck. where are you from. we tried fetlife but im pretty sure it sold my wifes data becausr she started getting all sorts of junk email and sex related bullshit a few days later. might try again with a throw away email
Isaac Jenkins
OP here, I had to set us up a Yahoo e-mail account just for this reason. The trash e-mails are nuts. I was also a dumb ass and responded to some Craigslist ads. Ugh!
Grayson Phillips
We from US->Louisiana
Levi Gomez
Well, since that dude called me a fucking duck, I guess I'll share...
Mostly we fuck with another guy. None of that cuck BS, just lots of hard fucking. We give her a lot of wine and then take turns. Sometimes we do a DP, if we get her in a good position. She really likes it when we both cum on her at the same time, too.
We've also hooked up with a few couples, sometimes it goes well, sometimes not.
Once went to a sex club/sauna type place. It was kind of a sausage fest. Let a couple guys fuck her while others watched.
How's that sound?
Nathan Nelson
Not sure if this website is any good in North America/Canada but Fabswingers works very well in the U.K. Hook ups and keeping in touch with people on the scene party invites etc
Isaiah Garcia
seems okay.
Got pics of your wife?
Wyatt Foster
Honestly sounds like you're a beta and your wife doesn't nor will never respect you as you have no respect for your self.
The sad truth is is the majority of men are just blatantly laughing at you behind your back. You are by all measurable standards absolutely pathetic and I suspect men like you have a higher percentage of suicide.
Goodluck and Godspeed my little Cuck.
Ryan Parker
Is your girls name Amber?
Brayden Gutierrez
What do you do for a living? How good is your life?
I really want to know if you are as "ALPHA" as you are trying to sound.
I can almost guarantee you wouldn't be on the internet calling people cucks if you were truly alpha.
Joshua Richardson
nah bro
William Powell
>Muh respect >by all m, m,muh, muh, measurable standards >Absolutely pathetic
Nathan Perry
Nah, I'm not claiming to be ALPHA AS FUCK. I am average in every way. So is my gf. We just like to fuck, a lot. She still respects me, I still respect her. What's the big deal?
Life's pretty good, man.
Tyler Young
The average man doesn't let other men fuck their wife to alleviate their own anxiety over cheating.
You're below average bud. You're a cumstain.
Jaxson Long
So stop clucking 'cuck' at people. Shameful.
Liam Butler
Guess I'm not average. Oh well. I'm not worried about her cheating, either. And it isn't cheating to fuck with other people when we all agree. Christ, every single time I post about it, the judgemental assholes descend.
Christopher Cooper
By all means imagine me any way you want if it makes you feel better about other men fucking your wife.
Who I am and what I do isn't relevant and you'd not believe me anyways.
Either way I can help you: stop watching so much porn and allow your wife to regain her humanity and dignity. You'll stop the cuck stuff overnight.
Godspeed friend
Nathan Clark
Just like the boy I'm responding to above. Ie. Not man. You can fantasize about the potential reality of my own experience if it makes you feel better about being on the literal bottom rung of self respect and pride when it comes to being a man or even a member of civilized society.
This has nothing to do with me per say yet it has everything to do with me fucking your wife.
David Butler
Life is good man. You revere and worship a false God and it's why you're average. Sex is probably a good modifier in your life and I suspect you have a porn addiction too.
Again just grow up and focus on more important facets of life. A family, self respect, career and finance and possibly the ability to give back other create a sphere of influence that helps push us forward as a species....
Orrrr....Just sit around watch porn and let other bulls smash your wife.
*shrug*
Logan Reed
Although the idea of spitroasting my gf with someone else is arousing in my head, I know if I ever saw her with another man's dick in her I would never be able to continue dating her. I know it's my ego talking, but I'm just being honest with myself.
We've talked about having a 3-way and I told her if it ever happened, it will only be MFF and never MMF. Luckily, she is 100% cool with that.
So now the hard part is finding a "unicorn" and while we've come close, so far we haven't been able to seal the deal
David Edwards
>monogomy IS natural And orthography isn't.
Aiden Hughes
Literal autism
Lucas Price
That's a pretty neat imagination you got there.
Carson Murphy
Beta cuck This is the literal definition right here
Owen Williams
Not wanting to be a cuck isn't an insecurity. She wouldn't need other people if you were really satisfying her.
Adrian Wood
Indoor plumbing, glasses, computers, money, shitposting here, contraception, antibiotics, cars, and millions of other things aren't natural either. Doesn't mean they aren't good things.
Caleb Wood
kill urself you fucking cuck
Jacob Robinson
Love the 'no condoms' in the pic, you can almost smell the chlamydia.
Jacob Peterson
Thank you for sharing.
Grayson Butler
both monogamous and polygamous relationship types occur in nature. birds dinos and homo sapien after rise of agriculture mostly form monogamous pairs. but y tho.
>sharing females is beta
I would argue
>restricting yourself to one female for life is beta
you're missing out on a lot of pussy (and ass) you coulda been getting but instead you're fapping to a swingers thread on Sup Forums. give it a shot if you trust your partner. OR BE CUCKED BY YOUR OWN FEAR.
Kevin Watson
Really? To me it sounds like he doesn't give a fuck what you or any other guy on this planet thinks of him. Funny how two people can read the same words and come away with two completely different meanings. It's almost as if everything wrre open to interpretation. But you're probably right: you should be able to tell him how he has to feel, and he pretty much has to accept it. Because you said so.
Austin Long
I screenshotted this and will show it to my wife later. The part about "shitposting here" made me zozzle. It comes naturally to me, fwiw.
Levi Gomez
I amvery happy for you, user. I mean that sincerely.
Lincoln Torres
You can attack my spelling if you want. I'd rather you take a shot at my argument, for obvious reasons.
Jack Green
Well, I tried. It went the way it always does. Maybe I ought to head over to reddit...
Lincoln Taylor
To paraphrase Frank Herbert: "Fear is the mindcucker."
Austin Jones
Kekd, fake af And if real, then you're a pos undeserving of any trust your wife put in your nasty unsafe ass, hope you get found out and burst into flames
Nolan Taylor
Or stay here and take it. If I werekeeping track, I'dsay that I've been called a:
--faggot --cuck --poor speller
I just need "nigger" and withthe free space, I can callout Sup Forums "Bingo!" Every time you do that, a beta cuck "slips" and gets his girl in the ass for at least a brief instant. Since, apparently, I am a beta cuck...that could be me!
Isaiah Clark
My wife and i are swingers. We've been active for about 4 years, married for 13 years. I totally understand the insecurities. As long as you both are totally open and honest worth each other and you trust her and she trusts you and you don't feel like you question it, go ahead, swinging is fun! But if there is even a tiny bit of doubt, do not do it. It will ruin your marraige. Good luck user.
Brody Collins
i'd be into it but idk if my girl ever would be. the thought of sharing her with another man or woman really gets me going, and other way around too
Lucas Thomas
Start with getting a fuck friend and sharing these ideas with her and if she digs it experiment with her. win/win and you dont lose your gf. thats how i started.
Henry Jones
Idk op i let my man fuck other girls cause it's hot but keep reigns on him contacting them. My line is outside of bedroom contact. Like he fucks my best friend and then we all go out but outside of bed neither will cross the line. My insecurities are likely the same as yours. Thats how i deal with it anyways, i find the girls, i contact them, he approves their face, we fuck, only i have the green light to talk to her after. Try that, see if you like it
Nolan Allen
>Second-guessing your own gut-feeling of, "This will make me uncomfortable and I won't like it," with sex just because somebody woman-logics you with "lol ur just like insecure"
If your gut is telling you that being the only cock in your kingdom is your thing, then stick with it and claim your throne.
Trying to get clever and talk that part of you into changing is fucking dumb.
Carter James
contraception isn't natural either. why should we use BC?