A few weeks ago me and my girlfriend have finally decided to have sex, it was both our first time and I was horny beyond belief during foreplay, but as we stripped down, put on the condom and readied ourselves in position, I was losing my erection very quickly and just simply couldn't keep it up, after some lengthy mental motivation I was finally erect enough for penetration, we fucked for around 10 minutes but I started to limp out so I lied and said I finished. lately she's been basically throwing herself at me to have sex, but anytime things start to get heated I just can't keep it up enough for intercourse. I've stopped masturbating in the hopes that maybe it was the issue, but I still can't muster the drive for intercourse.
What do?
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Asher Martinez
It's simple, come out of the closet
Leo Allen
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Lucas Parker
how often do you watch porn?
quitting jerking off will probably help, but watching alot of porn will desensitize you.
do you find her attractive?
Charles Martin
Make sure you condom isn't too tight and make sure you're not a giant faggot.
Josiah Jenkins
Overthinking ma man, it takes time but you'll get there. Not jerking off is a good start
Alexander Thomas
You're average Sup Forums user here, so I watch pron on the regular. At least once day, however recently I've completely distanced myself from any sorts of porn. And yes, I do Find her attractive, she's very fit and incredibly well proportioned. Far out of my league. Pic of gf
Josiah Hall
You're psyching yourself out. Have you talked to her about it?
Jordan Hall
Not entirely, though I probably will here soon, I even went flaccid during some blow a week or so ago, she was pretty understanding about the whole situation though.
Ryan Allen
Let me fuck her. I can do it right
Owen Nguyen
Just stop stressing yourself out about it bro. Sounds like performance anxiety to me.
Wyatt Parker
Thank you user
probably so, she's really into bondage and BDSM, some high expectation to live up too.
Camden White
Any time OP. And to the rest of you feel free to send your bitches my way. 303/720
Justin Morales
OP here
I'm going over to her place tomorrow and she's expecting some sexy times.
Any advice on how to not limp out? Is it just a mental game?
Oliver Moore
100% mental because you have a functioning penor. therefore it is your mind that is causing it not to work.
stay away from porn, no jerking, more confidence.
shit man, just dont worry about it. have fun in the moment
Hudson Cook
First of all, think positive. If you find yourself having trouble getting it up, just tell her that it's not her fault and you still find her attractive. If she cares about you, she'll understand. Just take it slow. Avoid distractions and don't drink. That'll just make things worse.
Aiden Long
yeah and its worse when you start to worry about your performance. My best advice I can muster is erections are all about blood flow to the cock. .. Exercise a little before you guys hang out, get your heart rate up. Run a mile or do some pushups whatever. Get your blood pumping. I dont know if medically it helps, but in my mind it makes sense, get your blood pumping at active heart rate, help blood flow .. maybe its just a placebo but after exercise i am more confident I can get a rock hard erection and then I usually do. Also condoms fucking suck and sometimes make it hard to stay hard. look for ultrathin, but be careful, they break easier. Also, have her suck on your dick a little before you put the condom on. good luck
Jeremiah Evans
Thank you Anons for the advice, something I very much so needed, perhaps my penor won't be so stingy tomorrow. Was worried the maybe I could have had Erectile Dysfunction, but it's more than likely just me stressing myself out about the whole situation.
Josiah Russell
little bit of booz and weed can help with the nerves. Just don't over do it.
Matthew Bailey
I've had similar issues before. What you need to do is get into the mindset. Besides, do you really want her to find something else to satisfy her?
Make her say or do something that turns you on.
Aaron Fisher
Probably won't go over well if you suggest it, but fuck condoms man. I have trouble keeping a boner, or really feeling anything, with a condom. If you do it raw and actually achieve penetration, you won't go limp.
