Can someone explain the appeal of hookers to me?

Can someone explain the appeal of hookers to me?

Part of the reason sex is so great is because the woman actually WANTS to fuck you. She's legitimately attracted to you, and for no other reason than that sucks your cock, let you shag her etc. Not only that, but she actually likes you, so she'll stick around afterwards, and will likely come back again.

Hookers, on the other hand, often don't find you that attractive, is only doing it because you pay, will leave after an hour, don't like you, have had ENORMOUS amounts of sex...

I don't know... I just don't feel like it'd be that great

Maybe other people have different opinions about what they enjoy about sex, you autist.

then dont buy a fucking gooker then?

jesus, why would i care what you think.

Are you so certain the women youve dated and fucked weren't with you for perceived material gain?

hmm, not sure, maybe it's got something to do with the inherent nature of human being to not put in effort if they don't have to- like deep down, there is a conservation of energy thing going on, so lazyness makes sense? I mean we've kind of comodified everything,and I suppose this is just the over version of comodifying people, in an overt easy to understand way, and that is why I think it's an issue- morally, anything that can bring about harm we take a view on, but most of the time that requires introspection- prostitution is an easy one. It's a safe bet most aren't doing it because it's their dream job, and from that and illegality, the world it inhabits is dangerous and illegal. Even if it is something they want to do, you can't side step the fact there is a more profound risk involved with this line of work that say, working in an office. I think to really understand the appeal of it though, you have to have a pretty debased view of the kind of people you want to fuck- I'm going to go with it's usually a male client, and a woman sex worker- in this instance, you have to have a pretty fucking pathetic view of women and people as a whole to participate in it. I guess this might be why 1/3rd of people visiting sex workers regard what they are doing as a form of helping them- when in all actuality, they would be far more productive to put in some legitimate introspection of their own character, and try to cultivate a balanced and nurturing relationship. Bear in mind, you are asking about this on Sup Forums where it is a hoard of basement dwelling neckbeards who have probably mediocre social skills and an overall shitty attitude towards women, so, maybe you'll get a sincere answer that goes a little further than 'it's all they are good for' or some nasty shit that is a veil for deep seeded personal issues. I'm interested too

i can only imagine that it must be pretty nice when a woman actually wants to be with you, but for me that will always remain in the realm of speculation...

You pay them to leave

Yep

OP is talking about relationships not fucking.

Who gives a flying super fuck if the bitch likes you? As long as I get my nut, I dgaf

Quit being a cuck faggot OP

the question then is, why do you feel like that? And regardless of that reason, is it good enough?

>She's legitimately attracted to you

Is this a joke ?

Hookers are great, you dont pay them for sex, you pay them to leave afterwards

see, you actually sound retarded. You're also ignoring that it is possible to have sex with people and not be in a relationship- But you seem to be to caught up in being a cunt to think any further than 'as long as I nut' you could just as well be fucking a warm dead person by that measure- would you fuck a warm dead person?

Virgin detected.

This isn't OP, but I agree with him- I think being into the idea of paying them to leave stinks of insecurities. Man the fuck up and don't cheap out on who you could be- fucking pansies.

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A. Supply and Demand. If you have hardly any sex you really really want some.
B. You don't have to satisfy them or be all clingy afterwards.
C. They are really good at sex because they have had it so much.
D. They let you do things other girls won't, and wont judge you (or if she does who gives a fuck shes a whore)
E. I've never had sex with a hooker so this is all speculations.

Definitely a question a women would ask.
TITS OR GTFO!

>will leave after an hour
This.

Because they can't get a real girl to fuck them dumbass

What if you value your time over all the time and effort it takes to maintain a relationship? not to mention the strings of monogamy.

variety. same reason guys like different porn each day. fuck the same girl for a year and it starts..... to fade. 2 years and man... i want to try some other thing

You pay a whore to leave and cut ties... wtf is there not to get.

There are things you'd do with a hooker that you probably wouldn't even dare ask a loved one to do without risking them leaving you. And other people are so ugly that fucking them is like an obscene fetish in itself. And so if someone wants to be a lightning rod for that clientele and make money doing it then more power to them.

Inb4 pimps are bad. Yeah no shit.

It's not about fucking the same girl. It's about meeting a girl, going on a date and fucking.

Far more fulfilling imho.

>not caring enough to improve game
>discretion
>not having to think about emotions and relationship shite
>insecurity
>etc
any and all

But seriously, WHY do you people care about what other people do if it doesn't affect you.

I've been seeing a girl now for almost a year and have been fucking anice "escort" on the side for almost as long. I have an incost fetish that my gf you not only break up with me for but tell everyone and then some. Meanwhile I can pay $75-100 to go to this gorgeous girls appartment and have her call me big brother for an hour or so and be done with it. That my reason at least.

You don't pay a hooker for sex... You pay her to fuck Off afterwards.

Convenience. Ease. Fantasy. Fetish. Shyness. Loneliness. What ever reason any person wants, not everyone has the same desires or situation as yourself. Comprehend?

You are talking like "relationship" is synonymous with "committed relationship".. Admittedly a lot of people use the two interchangeably

If you know somebody in any way shape or form you have some form of "relationship". The point is if you're paying somebody its drama proof. You don't know them, you never have and you never will. It's not "hurr durr autists don't know about fuckbuddies" its the fact that fuckbuddies are human beings too and when human beings are doing something without being paid there's liable to be complications.

>implying everyone is a low self esteem faggot who has to "feel wanted" during every sex act
>implying hookers never find you attractive
>implying non-hookers always engage in sex for love/lust, only
>implying hookers can't like you
>implying them leaving afterwards isn't a benefit
>implying more sex experience somehow makes you worse at sex

maybe the mexinigger hookers you've seen are all like that, but I've been seeing the same hooker for 2 years now and it's pretty fucking awesome. She's great at sex, a good friend off-the-clock, and she'll even teach me new moves if I ask her to give me pointers. She's like a sex coach, a friend, and a fuck toy all wrapped up into one.

It's like paying for a massage.
Yea i could probably get someone else to do it for free if i tried to but then again i could just give someone a few bucks and they'll do it no questions.

Not to mention, it's nice to be able to CHOOSE the exact girl you want.

Virgin detected

I'm jealous.

Tl;dr

is masturbation great?
its basically an upgrade on masturbation

You get to pick your partner, not the other way around, you support a woman's right to use her body any way she sees fit, you have always wanted to ejaculate in a woman's face, but are too shy/worried about a negative reaction that you would never ask a girl you were dating, every partner you have had thus far refuses to try anal sex and you really want to find out what it feels like...do I need to go on?

Since nobody is forcing you to freuent prostitutes, why do you even care?

If you masturbate ever, you know part of the reason orgasms are so great is that they feel fucking awesome. It's better to dump your load in some girl's mouth or pussy than to use your hand, and it's better still to cum in a pussy that is genuinely wanting your cum. So, whores are better than jerking it but not as good as sex with actual desire on her part.

also 0 commitment, you get the sex, no dinners forced conversation, no fights, no obligations, just sex..

take a girl out with expectation of sex , dinner drinks movie, no guarantee ....might as well date the date nigh money and spend it on the 100% gaurantee

“When I came it was in the face of everything decent, white sperm dripping down over the heads and souls of my dead parents. If I had been born a woman I would certainly have been a prostitute. Since I had been born a man, I craved women constantly, the lower the better. And yet women—good women—frightened me because they eventually wanted your soul, and what was left of mine, I wanted to keep. Basically I craved prostitutes, base women, because they were deadly and hard and made no personal demands. Nothing was lost when they left. Yet at the same time I yearned for a gentle, good woman, despite the overwhelming price. Either way I was lost. A strong man would give up both. I wasn’t strong. So I continued to struggle with women, with the idea of women.”


― Charles Bukowski, Women

Sometimes I masturbate when I masturbate, trying to give myself a free "upgrade." Then I realized I was already masturbating and that this wasn't possible. So I stuck a finger up my ass.

"Shit in my mouth, daddy!"
--Anais Nin, "The Diary of Anais Nin"

why dirty your own finger?...prostitute

Oh yeah! Thanks, Sup Forums...people alwayssay such bad things about you. But you just made my life better. Way better!

>Not only that, but she actually likes you, so she'll stick around afterwards, and will likely come back again.

You don't pay em to fuck. You pay them to leave. Sometimes you just wanna busta nut without the work

use them for the time you want to let out your aggression when you are stressed for whatever reason.

Sorry OP here, i just zhink it is disgusting to fuck a hooker who will never love you from her heart. Obviosly she just doing her job as smooth she can and no actual love will happen. Meanwhile with a girl in a relationship you study her you might laugh and then love together so sex must be much more fullfilling to cum inside a loved one. Its just much more satisfying than to pay a hooker you dont know to make her empty your balls on her? Its sad there is no passion involved i cant feel right about it.

Paid sex free std

There are very few types of people who use hookers.
a) Autistic white knights. Think they can make the hooker fall in love with them (no one else will) because they will *save* them from a life they assume she doesn't want. The smart ones will be resigned to the fact that she is indeed a hooker, and just enjoy the momentary scrap of the only thing in their lives they can call intimacy without outwardly trying to wife them. Convince themselves they are "just bored/lonely/horny" and no heartstrings are attached.
b) Sleazy abusers. Many get a nasty hooker because they can denigrate abase and belittle them, and generally be awful/aggressive. They may also get a classy hooker to enjoy exerting power over beautiful women (something they usually cannot do). Many men are selfish/sadistic/sociopathic in relationships, but this kind wants to throw them away after. The serial killers fall into this category.
c) The cheat. Not mutually exclusive to other categories. Guy just can't handle fapping, must have something his woman doesn't provide or some strange to counterfeit her power over him. Gets off on the thrill of sneaking and probably lawbreaking. Includes repressed homosexuals living a double life.

There are a lot of other less-common motives like high-end escorts, domination, etc. but this sums up at least 95% of the trade.

Then don't do it. Not everyone needs an emotional connection to enjoy the physical act of love.

They are good target practice for newbies to sex, like me, that couldn't get any in highschool or college. And people that don't want to embarrass himself by underperforming.

Also, pretty much all girls today are whores that have enormous amounts of sex too, only difference is you can choose to tell them to fuck off and never return if you didn't like her and the sex.

As a great pervert said; "You pay them to leave, no to stay with you".

Are you a hooker, user? Otherwise how would you know? This is like me saying, "Westetn Africa is divided into thirteen different tribes, and each one of them smells worse than the last. Take it from me, a guy who's never been further east than Pennsylvania."

Did you lose your virginity to a hooker
. If so, do you regret it? Why or why not?

*great pervert = Charlie Sheen

They're a warm hole to cum inside.
They will act like they like it

This thread is most reatarded
>> you mustnt threat women like Charles Bukowsky even if it seem the right way, if this Idiot craves for some self affirmation, ok but by far not evryone is dependable on that kind of shit, here on Sup Forums ppl have hands and porn
noone gives a fuck (close this thread)

Son, when you get gnarled and weather like myself you don't really care for relationships any more. Unfortunately the ol pecker keeps truckin. Screwing some asian whore does the trick and i'm good for another thousand miles.

correct, I was talking as if relationship was synonymous with committed relationship, but if you follow that to completion, that's not the point even remotely- the point of that as an example is you don't have to end up in a relationship to fuck someone, but by that same token that doesn't mean the flip side to that is paying someone. That doesn't negate any moral issue with it, which i think is the decider wherein someone can say it is permissible to do or not not-

hookers find money attractive.

if you have it, she has attraction towards you.

Ask a hooker anything

hey bby. what's your yahoo messenger id

You don't pay a hooker for sex, you pay her to leave afterwards.

I'd wager you're a female autist. You should post your tits with a time stampor get the fuck out.

Also you're stupid and have no value other than a cumdumpster.

>Not to mention, it's nice to be able to CHOOSE the exact girl you want.

Yeah, but with a massage you're probably not putting the masseuse in a dangerous situation, won't transmit an receive or transmit an STI, and the majority of masseuses probably aren't doing it out of necessity- As for the element of choice, that's the attitude that's really ugly- it is the transfer or a person into an object, and is symptomatic of a greater problem with empathy- As in, how would you feel if a woman you are close to and cared about, for example, your Mother,became a prostitute? how would you feel about the men that fucked her for money? because this is the exact same situation but from the opposite perspective- therein lies the empathy. Really think about some man fucking your own mother, on his terms, (after all he's paying and that seems to be a lot of what this is about) and then leaving a sweaty ball of cash for her to take-

75-100 dollars for an hour isn't an escort, that's a disgusting hooker

This is accurate.

/thread

hmm, have you tried others? if you hang out with her, and she is a good friend, and you fuck her, and you pay her money for that, it seems like there is some elements of a relationship in it, and if there isn't, It sounds like a pretty unique circumstance. DO you friends know she is the hooker you go to? do hers?

Yes actually.

Already cuddled, holded hands, kissed and shared intimacy with girls in highschool. But maybe because of autism I never got past third base.

After all the time and effort I put up in the end I got played hard, could never made any girl strip or get anything overtly sexual with anyone. So I don't regret it and actually love it.

Though, be warned fellow Anons, it's pricey and money consuming to get hookers. There are good "Cheap" ones ranging from $50 to $200 or even more. Also, if you guys have no selfcontrol you can legitly get addicted like some friend of mine.

But user, they like the sex and love the money. They might not like you but that's beyond the point.

taking a girl out and expecting sex? fuck dude- like you can just go through the motions until sex falls out..... it's probably that attitude that guarantees it wont.

Female, girl or woman? How much per hour? Also, what city?

Bukowski was an Olympic level fuckup, remember :)

But my mom and dad did exactly this.

She didn't got to do shit all day long and got paid nearly all of my dad salary just because my dad told me now that I'm older that there is no better milker(?) than her.

I mean, holy fucking shit assraping me sideways. My dad turned out to be a beta stupid provider that married a personal hooker of sorts.

Would morbidly notoriously rape. Would make you blind afterwards to keep you as my sexslave with no chance of escape. Would drive you in the woods to my hideout and use you all day all night until i get better pussy

It is if you live in a third world shithole where wages are $1.95/h.

her body her choice

holy shit- this guy.

'like me, that couldn't get any in highschool or college'

'pretty much all girls today are whores'

do you think there might be a slight correlation here?

I give a fuck

>Simple observation
>Not a thing
Have you ever paid attention to beggars on the street?

Off course there will always be assumptions based on bad observation or overthinking, but that's still science for you bitch.

>She didn't got to do shit all day long and got paid nearly all of my dad salary just because my dad told me now that I'm older that there is no better milker(?) than her.

Sorry, can't even remotely understand what you just wrote- i think there s sarcasm in there?

You know damn well what he means kek. The sex industry is always going to be there. Better to have it happen safe and regulated instead of illegal underground bullshit going on. Go be a moralfag somewhere else. Prostitution is a necessary evil.

Yeah, sorry about that. English is not my best language.

Point was:
>My mom is my dad's whore
>Always got paid for milking him dry
>Didn't got to do shit at home. Maybe exercise but she was never a cardio bunny.
>Dad confess all this shit in a drunk fit
>Fuck my life and my shit genes

Actually, your point is completely anecdotal. That's the opposite of science.
you just argued against your own point -

are typing this all by yourself or are you dictating to your helper? because you are retarded.

>part of the reason sex is so great is [...]
Sex is great for different reasons for different people. What you just posted is why sex is great for YOU. Not for everyone.

>The sex industry is always going to be there.
no, I seriously don't know what he was saying. I'm not sure if he is saying his mother actually was a whore and that's how his parents met, or if he thinks his mother is some kind of hooker because his dad says she is good at sex and she stays home and takes his money. I can't tell if this is literal or figurative. Also, it doesn't actually address the question in what he was responding to-

why do you need to call your mom a whore?

nobody thinks you're edgy or cool.

>Repeated observations on different human subjects on different settings
>Doesn't count as simple observation

but okay, I'll take you on too- I'm not being a moralfag in the slightest, I'm picking apart flimsy-assed arguments. necessary evil? I won't argue it will probably always exist, but I will argue that the reasons it will are supply and demand, except people really don't understand what it is they are demanding. The supply side does though- and it can be risky as fuck. It's the saying its okay be default that i think is bullshit- if you make a good point, I'm fucking on board- but it's yet to happen

sly??
Whats the difference betwen a woman and a hooker?

A woman u'll spend a lot of money taking her somewhere out, and u don't even know if you will fuck her. And how the fuck you know she loves you? just because she told this to you??
Man a woman smile to a crocodile, why do u think you are special? She probably told the same think to 10 other guys and you don't even know.

A hooker are at last honest to you, she wants you money and you will get what you want. No BULLSHIT, just money and sex.

Women always turn into manipulative whores and will dump you when something better comes along.

Your view of sex is tainted by romantic bullshit that most men realize doesn't exist before they finish school.

You are either a child or an idiot.

She always did shit nothing all my life. My dad busted his ass off for the whole family. He even helped raise my cousins because why the fuck not, he earned a lot.

I have some serious problems with her and psychological problem that rooted from her behaviours and the way she always treated all the males in her life, including me.

My sex life got fucked because I thought my dad was the best guy in the world and you could be a nice guy with a great salary that got a pretty decent girl.

Don't have proof but I suspect my mom whored herself when young and cheated on my beta dad. I can't and won't confront them about it. But acceptance is the first step into solving a problem.

And, my personal problem is that I had shit parents that led to me pay for hookers because I was a inadequate stupid beta.

I feel ya, bro.

It's less risky if it's legal: less std's, more protection, less murdered hookers because they don't have to walk the streets, less rape because men can get release etc etc. It has it's benefits for a healthy society

>And, my personal problem is that I had shit parents that led to me pay for hookers because I was a inadequate stupid beta.

no. you are shit because you are a shitty person.

man up and quit blaming other people for your inadequacy.

>Blaming the victim
Only cool when you do it to boys

beta bob grew up with the Disney ideals, can't blame him for getting hit by reality

>shag

Go brush your fuckin teeth

>you are a shitty person
Fair, but then you imply my raising doesn't get anything to do with it then?

*always.

....yeah, O.P is the idiot...

yeah, it does. That called an opinion. You said pretty much all women are whores these days.

now what seems more likely- either you somehow observed this in most women you have met or seen straight up swap sex for money, or, you just shot your mouth off?

the point I'm getting at is, if the attitude you actually have and believe is that most women swap sex for money, or will swap sex for money, your view of at least half of the population is pretty fucking flawed, so if you have any problems with them- that shit might just have a lot to do with you being maladjusted.

I mean, the only other logic in this I can dig out is
if the only women you do come in contact with are prostitutes, then yeah, you could say out of the women I interact with, most are whores. but I don't think that's the case. I'm not being a dick- I just think these is scope to change a perspective for the better here-

nope. maybe when you were a kid. sure.

but you are an adult now ( or not mentally ).

You as an adult gets to decide how you want to live your life. If you make a decision to bang a hooker that is on you and not on your upbringing.
You always have an option not to do it.