I've been fapping for too god damn long. I can't get off to pictures anymore. Not even gifs. Full on video with sound...

I've been fapping for too god damn long. I can't get off to pictures anymore. Not even gifs. Full on video with sound. And that's losing it for me too. Have to move onto fucking VR or something at this point. And fapping hasn't even felt good for YEARS. Like i'm talking about since highschool which I graduated from in fucking 2012. Even before 2012 though it stopped being as pleasurable. All i'm doing is chasing that first high and i'll never get it again. I do it because i'm legitimately addicted to this shit. If I go too many days without doing it I get jittery and actually start trembling/shaking a bit just thinking about it. I do it because I have to not because I want to. I've tried quitting. I've gone a week and came back. Still no pleasure. I went a fucking month and came back. Nothing. I've lasted at most I can remember 3 fucking god damn months without ejaculating and mother fucking nothing. I think I broke my penis or my brain endorphin's from over using the nerves in my dick. So telling me just take a break doesn't work for me. I have a problem. Help.

Wth. How much do u fap?

Get a girl you fag

I've been fucking my girlfriend way too much and now masturbating feels better because I'm tired of her..

figures please
i am sure i am ovwefapping too for the last 30 years

Here's the thing I don't even do it as much as I hear other people do it. I used to do it once a day when I first discovered it, then once every other day, then twice a week, then whenever the fuck I felt like it. That would be like monday, thursday, friday, sunday. No schedule just whenever I got the urge. I hear people talking about doing it like 3x a day but i've done it 3x only 1 time. Most before that was 2 times on a few occasions. But now it's only like once a week it seems just to get that urge out of my system.

I've heard men don't release all the feel good hormones without love. I know it's cliche. Women release these with our without love, but it's better when they're in love with their sexual partner. So, yeah, look into a relationship.

Lay off the porn. Cut back on Sup Forums. Lift/exercise to expend that pent up energy. Become aesthetic and fuck grill.

what I use is getting more and more degenerate. Normal sex is meh. Anal, assjob, jerk off instructions, POV, that's what i've been using but now that's getting boring. When I was a teenager I like teen stuff but then I got older and I still liked teens so it's fucked. And now it's getting... younger. Illegal underage. Because the adult stuff doesn't get me off as well. I love when a young teen calls me daddy in a video for example. That shit is hot. Pretend they're younger than they are. Like 13....

no joke thank you so god damn much right now. I was terrified that i'll finally fuck a girl (haven't had sex with another human since highschool) it'll be the same as masturbating and i'd go into deep depression because it confirms my dick is broken. I'm really hoping this is true and it's just my hand on dick that's the problem. If I use like a blanket (I have a super soft material that I use exclusively for fapping) it feels better so the hand might be the problem.

ok kys

no jokes your whole life is a problem

>Lift/exercise to expend that pent up energy

that might be the missing thing. I've avoided porn for up to 3 months and it didn't work and I relapsed because of all that pent up cum and I thought I waited long enough.

yes. Yes it is.

You're just trying to fap to the wrong stuff. Head over to an find something interesting.

Maybe soft material helps the illusion of it being skin? But yeah, I firmly believe you're not broken. Just go find love. :) Don't rush it, though. Oh, and as far as taking a break, I wouldn't go a month. Men tend to have sex drives that need to be attended to every week or so. It's unhealthy not to let it go. Seriously. Higher risk of prostate cancer. But don't stress. You're good. :)

Seriously though... When I'm single, I masturbate to the point it feels like crap. I end up opening 26 windows of different porn videos masturbating like the real asshole I am. Then, I fuck a girl once or twice, and it starts over. When I'm in a relationship, at the beggining, I fuck my girlfriend all the time and she loves it. Then, I fuck her less and less and I get bored of it. I fuck her just to cum and I cum on her without giving a shit whether she had pleasure or not. My life is just making me realize the more you take profit of sexuality, the less you enjoy your own sexuality.

People tend to lose interest in their partners anywhere between 18-36 months. The spark wears off. That's completely normal. It's like the challenge is complete, so it's time to move on to new prey. Long term relationships are made when you really click with someone. Try new things. Lingerie, s&m, new positions, etc.

Thing is we really click on the living together part... I don't know I never felt like I could intensely click with someone. After all I've been lurking on Sup Forums for over 10 years haha

Clicking is a deep, complicated action. And b might be your problem. XD just a thought, but do you know your personality type? That could help. Like Infp, esfp, etc. I forgot the official name.

You sound like me op

I've been jerking since the 5th fucking grade. Never had a problem jerking off. I always get off a lot easier/better smoking weed though.

Yeah actually I'm entp but never done so much research on the subject. I know my childhood friend did but I don't remember much of it

That's a start. Maybe look into it a little more. But nothing's concrete. My partner and I are not supposed to be compatible at all. But we've been together 10 years, with kids. (but some of the research I did explained a lot of our differences). Anyway, best of luck to you and your fapping problem.

Extrovert, focused on insight, logical thinker and looking for more. Sound right? Maybe your standards are too unrealistic. No offence, just trying to figure it out.

Yeah sounds about right, but I think it might also be about where we are in life. She's studying the science of languages in University and I'm in the infantry haha I'm almost always busy at work leaving for some reason and when I'm back she's doing research and works.. also her vagina smells sometimes

you know all that stuff is bullshit right? No way you actually believe that crap. ENTP, ESFP, etc. All made up.

I have the same problem. I even fapped as much as you did. You need just to do sports and begin stopping slowly to fap. And try find a gf of course.

Yeah, I understand being busy. Lots of people struggle with that though. And sorry about her smell. Lol maybe offer to shower with her, help her wash off so it's not so offensive?

I think it's just a fast way to describe an overview of your personality type... doesn't sound that crazy to me lol

Yeah, I do. But like I said, it's not concrete. People are too complicated to only take their personality type into account without their past experiences, etc. More like a guideline. It's not like it's astrology or anything.

Ok but did you remember to check your astrology sign? Are your birthstones in sync? What about Chinese calender animal

Fuck off. This is generalized psychology, not fucking magic.

Maybe your not interested, but here i will wright some that helped me. First when you begin sports you dont have to stop fapping. You can fap whenever you want BUT NEVER STOP TRAINING. You will get tired as fuck and to that point you you will not have a desire not only to fap but to sex at all. I did physical exersises at home 3 times a week. First i fapped befor and after training then 3 days nofap then 1 week and so on. Thats all really helps