What makes a slut?

what makes a slut?
how many previous sexual partners is too many for you? my gf had 12 before me. i kind of feel like she's a slut. this was by the time she was 19.

More than 3 diff guys a year is a slut. More than 6 guys in 5yrs is a slut. More than 1 diff guy 2 wk is a slut.

1 a year is my slut indicator. all those dicks and you didn't like any of them enough to stick around a bit?

How many of them were black? My gf had about seven black guys in her before me, I know she's a slut

Slut is more of an attitude than a number. If she sleeps with a guy before dating often or has lots of one night stands while actively seeking out sex. That's a slut. Like if she's only rating guys by the size of their penis, 5 inches and perfect match vs 8 inches and a douche and she fucks 8 inches purely for the sex, that's a slut. High numbers are an indication not a deciding factor.

It is def more of an attitude. My girlfriend and I are both around 30 yo. Both of our numbers are in the mid 20s. Maybe we were sluts at one time, but not anymore.

I don't care much about the number but with whom she slept and why. Like 5 ex bfs are better than 2 bareback adventures on the club toilet. 12 guys in 19 years are a bit much. If she started with 12 it's 12 boys in 7 years. She would have spent 7 months with each assuming there was no bfless time inbetween. This is a good length but she started early > promiscuous.
If she started later it would make the lengths of her relationships shorter which means no gf material, her relationships are unstable

Ya dude your gf is definitely a slut

>i kind of feel like she's a slut
you know her better than any of us so if you got this impression

>what makes a slut?

giving even a small hint about being available for sex outside of marriage

This is an acceptable baseline

How many since she's been with you?

I think degrading herself low enough to touch your penor is slutty enough OP. That's pretty low.

Gf has had like 10 dudes in her. I've been in 30+ bitches. What makes a slut? I am a fucking slut

THE WHITE PEOPLE HAVE DECREED IT!

ACCEPT YOUR NEW SOCIAL STANDARDS

12 dicks by age 19? Is that all?

Jesus Christ.

this.

once slut, always slut

Your girlfriend has had enough dicks inside of her to tie together and fashion a dick skin 3 piece suit with enough dick skin left over to make you some dick skin moccasins.
>your lady's a whore, abandon relationship and aim higher or stick with your inevitable failure as a man because you can't measure up to her sexual conquest.

A slut isn't someone whos had a lot of sex. A slut is someone who is loose and cavalier about sex in general. If you meet a woman and the first things she says to you are sex related, she is a slut. If you meet a woman who has chosen to wear clothes that accentuate and show off her physical appearance, especially her feminine attributes, then she is a slut.

A whore is someone who profits from their sexual value. All women are whores, whether or not they realize it. Not all women are sluts.

12 by the age of 19? And it's statistically highly likely she told you a lower than actual number.

That's a whore for sure.

Reminder that whores actually trade sexual favors and sluts just dress like what we think of when we think whores. A slut by definition really isn't anything more than somebody who dresses promiscuously/provocatively.

Which by the way is generally a clear indication of a whore. If she can't dress decent and present herself well, and as if she was taken by another man, aka you, then she a hoe.

If your number exceeds your age, you're a slut.
That's how I see it

This...
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>A slut isn't someone whos had a lot of sex.

Correct - in the sense that if a virgin woman (who never managed to give hints about sluttiness before) marries a dude and then has decades of sex with him, she is not a slut.

Instead, a girl who hints about having sex before marriage (by words, by moves, by dresses, by anything), is a slut even if she never had any sex.

The site is filled the the most insecure faggots in America. Who cares how many guys she fucked before you, it's 2017, stop being a fucking pussy.

Is it only numbers that matter? Gf passed out at a party once and woke up naked, does that make her a slut?

Fuck off, cuck shill

enjoy what you have and anger fuck her faggot

Lmao, pretty sure the losers crying about how many guys their gf fucked before then are the cucks, fucking insecure beta faggots.

Her dad is a copper, she said. Well he must be proud

cuck

yes.

going to a party: +100 points sluttiness
passing out at a party: +10000 points sluttiness
waking up naked at a party: +100000 points sluttiness

That's fucking stupid
So if a 10 year old girl has only had had 9 sexual encounters she isn't a slut?

"Waaah my gf was sexually active before me, better go cry to the rest of my loser bros on Sup Forums about it." Haha fucking pathetic.

Yes. Only sluts go to risky parties with alcohol and/or drugs without their boyfriend or some type of escort to make sure they're safe.

If they chose to go without taking the proper precautions, then she willingly entered a situation where she knew something like rape or drunken sex/cheating could occur. She therefore made the decision to accept whatever happens.

If you believe that she didn't have the sense to look into the situation that far beforehand then you believe she is mentally ill and should seek counseling and a caretaker.

Not a slut...but definitely a cum dumpster

Correct. I'm happy you're able to read, user. The classes must finally be working.

that dude is only trying to convince himself that he's not a cuck because her gf only played with 9 different cocks before his tiny one

ITT: a bunch of losers who almost never get any pussy crying about "sluts"

Girls want to fuck just as much as we do.

Stop being so insecure and grow the fuck up.

So she's immediately a slut for just going to a party?

yes.

Most people, guys and girls alike, lose their virginity with their first "serious" love interest, i.e. in a puppy love relationship. Guys don't care - they just go searching for next available vagoo. Females, except strong slutty ones, typically get depressed and sick.

100 years ago women preserved virginity until marriage - and the only eligible husband was a sober non-gambler good guy with decent wage.

That meant that every guy had first to get a good job and a good attitude, then quickly settle for an available-to-marry woman out there before the most cute ones were booked.

In other words, it was a "no frivolous sex activity" world. Virginity-as-a-value just destroyed life of Chads and Stacies, plus those who think they can wait till 30-40 before settling, plus the NEETs.

Also, men and women married before 20, fucked like rabbits for entire decades, became grandpas & grandmas before 40 while still fucking like rabbits.

That's why the degeneration (prostitution, gay sex, sex outside marriage, porn, etc) only related to quite a small percentage of people.

And that's why our society got the most valuable achievements in technology, space exploration, and so on from that exact "virginity generation".

Gaping my little tight boipussy makes me a slut

>OMG A GIRL HAD SEX WITH PEOPLE BEFORE ME, WHAT A SLUT!!!!!

Hahahahaa, you fucking manchildren.

nothing is worse than having gotten totally lucky one time and experienced the best pleasure of your life only to reach the gradual realisation that you will never experience it again because even the woman who blessed you with her sexual embrace that once wanted nothing to do with you afterwards.

So you go through life obsessed with this thing that you'll never get. You know what it is now. You know how amazing it feels and it starts to dominate your every waking thought. It puts your brain in a pincer grip and squeezes it until it breaks.

I wish I could go back in time and be a virgin: I wish I had never tasted a woman.

There's a rule OP, a girls actual number of sex partners is close to the amount she says multiplied by 3, you're dating used goods lol

If she went to a party alone with no proper escort, basically, yeah, dude. You must be pretty young. You kids these days seem to have no respect for yourselves or your partners/relationship.

I'm only 21 raised in a medium sized town and even my fiancee agrees, she'd never be caught at a party or bar without me. She wouldn't even dare drink with another guy in the room unless I knew him personally.

It's respect.

Have full blown aids yet?

Found the insecure virgin.

virginity:

> is all about personal freedom ("everyone fucking" is the mainstream meme - your freedom to not to adhere is not)

> equals to being free by slut-memes deployed by porn industry

> is against "sex as a commodity" (noone chose his/her own body features, noone should feel obligated to comply to some "yes had sex" standard)

> is against the "rape culture" (a rapist mind is obsessed with the stereotypical "why doesn't he/she want sex? everyone wants sex!" meme)

> contributes to slut-shaming (that is: shaming poorly minded people, sex-commoditizing people, and whores)

> erases all of the LGBT's memes

I fucked a 17 yr old virgin and I'm still with her, I'm 30 she's 19 now.
She's the best fuck ive ever had. I been in about 12 relationships, but nothing compares to this girl now.

she s not a slut, u r a beta. fegget.

Slut>Frigid
nowt wrong with sluts

Whatever helps you feel better having to resort to chad's used rejects

dont date, fuck instead

I agree 100%

Ive been at odds with my gf over this. She seems to think its cool to go out to bars alone and party.

I dont think thats cool at all. Nor would I do that.

Hey, if she wants to bring me along im fine with that. Alcohol lowers inhabitions and under the right conditions bad things happen.

Im 34 btw. Im too fucking old for stupid college kid bullshit. She has 2 fucking kids and Im helping raise these littlw shits. Least she could do is respect me by not being so fucking foolish.

Damn I love sluts... dirty, dick drunk sluts

I guess that's a fair argument, especially considering how the night ended.

Insecure of being man enough for your gf not to play about.
Found the closeted cuck

12 by 19 would be a slut imo

Any time a woman fucks without feeling is a slut time.

my gf is what i'd consider a slut. she's banged over 50 guys and she's only 25. i posted her here to get your opinions 3rfc.com/285116

Wow, I can't wait until the FBI burns down your compound.

This.

>She seems to think its cool to go out to bars alone and party.

and she's still your gf?
what a cuck

What about if a girl has sucked/fucked 5 different guys in a 6 month period, while dating someone else long-distance, and sending nudes to/sexting yet more dudes online? Does that qualify?

ITT: Insecure burgers justify their shitty sex life lmao

yes

>implying that this thread is not 100% incel

>insecure hambeastburger trying to pretend he's having a non-shitty sex life, roflmaotsetung

On a 1-10 scale, how slutty is that? I should add of those 5 guys she sucked or fucked on the side, 4 of them were bareback.

She's off the charts

Pro-tip: Always never fall in love with a slut. Never forget to always cheat. And always, ALWAYS sometimes never do da benis.

That's past a 10?

What makes a slut?....
An absent father, drunk mother, and grabby feely uncle.

i think this is the same girl. bro your girl's a total slut

le meme of "Sluttiness is always because of Some Bad Family"

Almost every slutty girl I know had a bad family. Either the parents were divorced, or fought constantly, or were neglectful. One REALLY slutty girl got raped by her dad every night starting when she was 14. I never fucked her cause I was dating her friend, but if I ever meet her again, I'm gonna fuck her anally.

Mindset broooo
Cause I'm a whorethen ? Have fun loosers

I think you're right. The girl I mentioned earlier as sucking/fucking multiple guys and sexting while technically having a bf, always talked about how she hated her mother as well as some of her siblings.

They're just trying to fuck their way out of a crushing emptiness.

God bless shitty parents, my dick thanks them sincerely.

Irony is she's a pretty smart and perceptive girl, great grades and able to hold her own in a conversation. Her face is a solid 7 (could easily make an argument to go higher) and her body is close to a 10 just based on her incredibly tight pussy.

That's not irony you dipshit.

She's not smart. You're blinded by how sprung you are on her.

my ex had 1 guy before me and she was a massive slut.

Like in the top 10000 worldwide

Yeah I realized that after I hit Send, just woke up

Probably right.

Shut up nigger, no sympathy for you

girl i was seeing had a bf of 2 years, moved from (fake) columbus ohio to (fake) chicago illinois for fashion and lasted all of 6 months before banging a bunch of dudes over a 2 year period, the last 6 or so they were engaged. she didnt even take her ring off when she took guys home/went to their pad. she had a whole other relationship with another guy in her city for 8 months but shes leave bars with OTHER dudes even if that guy was there in the bar with her and her friends.

When i ran into her, she was just about done seeing that guy (finally got tired of dealing with his drug habit and didnt like him anyway he was just wealthy an lived in a nice pad in the city, plus she didnt wanna be alone) so we hung out and this shit started coming out. We decided maybe staying away from drinking would help, so we became sober and its helped but then i started finding out about the fiance (they had broken up 6 months before i met her) and all the shit she did behind his back (he seems like a nice guy too, bought a house for them to live in when she "would eventually move back")

So just as an exercisei asked her how many guys shes been with period from freshman year of college to present day (a span of 6.5 years) ..."i dunno"
ok well how many in college, including the poor bastard.... "8 maybe, but we took a month long break and that was two more for me, then i cheated on him once when we got back together (in OH).. ok so 11 in college.

Then in your first year in CHI....? well for 6 months i was faithful (not sure i believe but shes being honest about everything else so "ok") but then shed start seeing other guys going out every weekend, maybe take a guy home once outta 3-4 times, so i asked well how many times were you going out a week? ..quite... 1-2? 2-3? 3-4?... once a week the first year (im thinking twice) ok so 2 guys a month maybe definitely 3 every two months, for how long? *quick math* 18 months so at best 3x(18/2)= 27... 1of2

Yhis is complexe matter. My gf was whoring around town like a whore but not fucking. Making out with everyone attention whoring. She was like that when i met her when she was 16. We have a great relationship for over 15 years now. Im sure she would have become a slut if she didn't get into a relationship but now she is just a normal woman who loves to fuck.

2 of 2

sorry im redoing the math now... she got in in sept 2014. so "6 months clean" then fucking around til march 2016 (engaged) so the math is 3x(12/2)= 18 now add college... .18+11= 29... so 18 dudes while in a bf/gf relationship and 11 while single or otherwise not with her bf...

now for the real numbers... in March 16 they got engaged... a week (probably less) she bones this not great looking guy who we work with (well before i started working there) now this guy is 40+, balding, divorcee and is not great looking, speaks broken english and has a kid. Like maybe a 4/10 on paper, 5/10 by looks alone. Goes to a bar, then back to his place... 4-7 days after agreeing to marry that other poor ignorant bastard. things only get worse. she *thinks* she took someone home 1 ever 3 times out, im thinking every other night out and the nights she didnt take a new guy home she just met up with an old guy and she probably went out twice a week. so we will say 3 guys a month for 11 months... 33 plus all the others... 29+33= 62.. no you might look at this number a 25 year old is pulling and be like "damn" but thats not the worst part. Let me tell you the worst part... minus college (she didnt get on the pill til she got with this poor guy) shes let every dude shes banged blow inside of her minus 3 or 4 guys who were smart enough to bag it. Unfortunately i was not one of those, i saw her and did quick calculations based off of outward appearances alone (25, 5 year relationship, thats 2 years in college and 6 months single after, and maybe cheated 1 or 2 in the relationship) i maybe put her at 12-14 guys total. it wasnt until we were fucking that first night and i had bought condoms while on our way to her place and afterwards she was like im on the pill and i was already kinda drunk so i was down. gets to the moment where im coming and still debating a little and she two handed holds my ass in and squeezes with her pussy. FELT AMAZING, but immediately after 2/3

Sluts will make you feel good for like a month then they move on to the next dick

Who is that in the pic? What a perfect body.

i realized she was waaaaaaay too aggressive about that shit with a guy she just had sex with for the first time (we were talking for a couple of weeks or so) after that every time we went at it it ended the same way. Then her bj's, which were great, were too practiced (maintaining eye contact, cradling balls, sucking balls) still first night mind you.

over the next week i started asking probing questions about her past and more and more started to leak out, then the guys, then ALL the guys (we talked about it on one of our last nights including me in January she slept with 4 different guys, in Dec she slept with 3 different guys but two from dec were the same in Jan) and 4/5 blew inside of her this one guy she met in an airport bar already had a kid and an ex and knew better) but she had already hooked up with 3 of the 6 guys on her dodgeball team (out of 10 people total) and pretty much any other guy who paid attention to her.

so in short, 11 in college (most rawdog im guessing but zero creampies) + 51 (estimated but not argued by her, 99% creampies almost all blowjobs too, very few more than one night, though probably two or three times total.

oh and her family doctor figured since she was in a monogamous relationship for 5 years there was no reason to test for anything beyond a pap smear. so for 5 years and 50+ dudes she hasnt had a single HIV/HERP/GNA/SYP test. Needless to say i hung out with her til we got checked, came back negaitive and i bounced. last i heard she was moving back to OH to clear her head.

Hopefully that guy learned his lesson. I know I did. Be safe out there Sup Forums.

>what makes a slut?
anyone who doesn't understand or respect the act of having sex should be to express their love for their partner and not used for filling an emotional emptiness

I've enjoyed the pics of your girl and hearing a bit about her in previous threads.

dont get me wrong ive nailed 60+ chicks, but im also 9 years older than her, wasnt engaged, and didnt come in every since one, like MAYBE 6 or 7 (of the non gf's)

Its not just a matter of numbers, it a matter of self respect and what they are trying to get out of sex. its sad, and i wish it couldve been another way, but you cant trust liars.

If I were you i'd bail. She's going out into situations with people looking to fuck regularly. She's basically still playing the field while your'e at home

Started dating a girl I liked. One of the first things she told me was, "I spent the past summer as a baseball groupie. Working, going to games, and partying afterwards." This seemed slutty to me, but was oddly a turn on. WWYD?

This

That's a long ass story that I have to screen cap