Bros, please help me out! I'm above average looking with good social skills but I have a small penis (4" by 4.5")...

Bros, please help me out! I'm above average looking with good social skills but I have a small penis (4" by 4.5") . Will I ever be able to pleasure a girl? Anyone have any tips or tricks on how to make the most of my situation? Also, will this be an instant dealbreaker for many girls? Any advice appreciated!

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get good at head

your gonna have to be the pussy eatin master

Don't worry man. My dicks pretty small. And I've smashed pussy WAY out of my league. The trick is being the nice guy. Girls will feel you're worth the investment as shit as that sounds

Thanks for the advice

DEFINITELY eat pussy. At the very least, suck her clit.

If you have performance anxiety and she's into sucking you off, let her. Don't worry too much about getting erect; that will develop over time.

Enjoy the quiet times together.

Consider a little kink, too.

Thanks for the advice

I can always perform and stay rock hard. I don't have any anxiety during the session. I'm just worried that she won't be able to feel meor that it will be a turnoff for her and I will get humiliated.

Life is a bitch. I'm VERY WELL endowed but my social skills are shit and I'm fat as hell.

Bump

Its not about the size of the ship, its about the ocean of the motion.

Its not about the size of the motion, its about the ship of the ocean

Finger magic is always underrated as the man Johnny Sins says. Also 4-4.5 might not be the biggest but it's still close to average so don't get so psyched out about it.

carry a hitachi with you and youll never fail.

It's not about the size of the ocean it's about the lotion in the motion

Well My ex got a dick like that. But I really go wild when he sucks my pussy so....

Isn't the average 6.5 inches? I know I'm only 2-2.5 inches off but it looks small to me. Can chicks feel 4 inches? But I am pretty good my fingers.

Where you satisfied by him?

Well by his dick not really but the way he uses his hands and mouth got me

So he was a good lover? And sex went well?

Its not about the ocean of lotion, its about the size of the ship

Yes.

Good for you. That shows that sex isn't all about penis size and other stuff can make up for that.

>the trick is being the nice guy

The most sensitive bits of a woman are only a couple inches in. After that it's fairly neutral until you get close to the cervix. I'm even smaller than you bro and most women I've been with haven't complained. The ones that did wouldn't even let me try to fuck them so they wouldn't have known if I was good or bad anyways.

That's good to hear. Props on you for having game.

Has a girls ass ever been so big you couldn't penatrate? Also, what are some good positions for people with small dicks?

Bump

bump bump bump

eat pussy, eat ass,
make her feel amazing before you even put your dick in.

This. I need an answer for this, too

Doggy, but most girls don't like that because it's very impersonal.

Any pussy/ass eating tips?

Same, someone come in clutch

shit I love my sex impersonal

Anyone know any positions for deep penetration with a small cock? I see doggystyle, what else?

are you an gril?

>most girls
I understand your logic but i also have to disagree. "Most" girls are different and like different things for example my girl actually loves doggy.

But probably with a small dick going doggy doesn't give you the best amount of penetration

I've heard it makes the schlong feel longer.

So what does?

Same here

This.

Also, what are the best ways to eat pussy? Im assuming that licking it like a dog cleaning up butter is fucking retarded? As is tongue fucking?

These guys telling you to be a pussy eating master that's fine for a while but every girl wants a good dicking down most of all. 4.5 man i'm sorry many but your girl is probably going to always be longing for a lil more.

For giving head there isn't much to say dude. Just start off light and easy, focus on the clit, wait until shes getting into it, build it up, push slightly harder and move that tongue slightly faster.
Obviously you dont want to go full rabid dog down there but once you go harder or faster unless she tells you to take it easy, dont go backwards.
Tip, depending on the girl, you can slip one finger in and give her that "come here" thing. I only have a sample of one grill for this but she loves it.

As for eating ass, just lick that thing bro.
If you think too much it'll ruin it for you, it's not rocket science.
If all goes well she's soaking down there and extra sensitive so when you slip it in, feels good no matter what. Easy mode if the chick likes it rough, just pound that shit and she'll probably come even if 4.5".

Damn for real? Anyway I can make the most of what I got?

Place a pillow under her hips.That changes the angle and makes it feel like you're deeper in her(to her that is).

This, guys, this

Straight up, i don't really know about doggy being bad for small dick. The reason i thought that is the post i was replying to was saying girls who had fat asses obstructed good penetration.
For good positions literally google it, im sure there is no shortage of "good positions for small dick individuals".

Lay her on her back.Then you kneel between her legs,Grab hips and raise them off the bed and penetrate her.If your dick curves upward slightly this position should allow you to stimulate her G-Spot and have her cumming like crazy.The G-Spot is not that far in,

good advice here

These both work

Try them out

If you have a fist and she got an asshole your are fine,Sir.

Sorry to all the small dickers out there but your gonna have to find yourselves a skinny white or Asian girl. (Which many of them are cute btw) But Your never gonna be able to tap a thick bitches ass because you just ain't got enough dick

You got a fist tho

dude I was about to make a thread about penis size

Im 6.5'' here and I don´t like mine too

Also, Girls are WAYYYYY more likely to let you do anal if you have a baby dick because you won't destroy there asshole

Bro, if I had that dick, I would never complain

I was also thinking this.
You wont even need much preparation.

As others already said, get skilled in using other body parts and you'll be fine.
You won't be able to pleasure a size-queen with your dick alone, but then again even men with the upper end of average sized dicks won't be able to either.

Another important thing would be what you're aiming for. Random ONSs will have a much higher likelihood of turning you down - or definitely not answering calls for seconds - when you don't fit their specific desired image; penis size is one of the things that can be a dealbreaker, but so can performance.
For a SO it'll likely be more important that the sensation as a whole is good. A big-dicked selfish lover that'll fall asleep the moment he nuts and caring nothing about her pleasure will score much lower than a smaller sized lover that'll get her off (fingers, oral, whatever) and fits her amount of post-sex cuddle preference (different lengths for different people).
Often you'll also notice that - assuming a non-selfish female lover - giving oral will make her more eager to go down on you as well. "I have a headache" is less likely a response when her prospect after sex is "blue balls" every single time, as would be with a selfish dude.

You won't be able to fuck her rough and completely fill her up, which can be a turn-off if that's what she's very into.

Porn implies it's all about penis-in-vagina/ass/mouth and that the penis is some magical "one rod fits all" object that'll make her orgasm at command, but porn is for the majority nothing but fiction, fantasies acted out to the viewer's/payer's desire.

My gf mentions the same. Doggy allows for the women to also position their pelvis to control how much penetration is possible. I'm average size and can hit her cervix with doggystyle; her shifting her pelvis a bit still allows me to fuck her and feel like I'm filling her completely without me hurting her by pounding her cervix.

Just don't be a insecure bitch about your small peen, try to exude confidence regardless. Be open to incorporating sex toys with her, dildos, vibes and shit like that. But always be open to the prospect that she'll wanna cheat with a guy that's bigger than you.

Thanks for the info and helping out the little guy. Literally

user, I also worry sometimes (I'm a virginfag of course), I'm 5.9 inches, but I feel it's too thin... does the thickness make an important difference?

Thickness is way more important that length, it's what gives women that being full feeling that they love so much.

Yeah, your right. Bitches love confidence. I'm a pretty confident guy (on the outside at least, I'm pretty good at showing it) but I know when the clothes come off I can't back it up

And yeah if a bitch wants a massive cock ( and there's quite a few of those around) they're gonna get one no matter what

It's also kind of bent... I wonder if that'll hurt for me (it does when I'm hard and try to get it straight)

If it's bent slightly up and you use the right positions, that thing will be directly hitting the G spot

Bumpy

find some asian girl. They cant find the different whether it's small or big

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Don't be afraid to experiment as different women like different things, much like how some guys prefer teeth when given oral while others cringe at the thought for example.
Take the experimenting a bit slowly, explore rather than brute-forcing things. This does require some communication between the two, but honestly if you can't communicate properly, you will want to improve on that first (goes for both parties).

This as well as having her lay on her back with her legs up (over your shoulders pretty much), are some positions that allow for extra deep penetration indeed.

No problem user.
1 important thing to keep in mind: Insecurity is a MUCH bigger turn-off than a 4-4.5" dick. Most women prefer being the submissive one in bed, even a lot of the switches by far prefer the submissive role.
A smaller dick won't suddenly stop making you able to take that on dominant role; insecurity, however, will.
A lot of the stories about women dropping bfs for their penis sizes (that is, the very small fraction of stories that's not people trolling) are because of the insecurities surrounding it, only a small fraction is because of crappy women, and even smaller fraction is because of the penis size actually being inadequate for the woman. Surprise surprise, big dicks have the same issue but aren't talked about as much.
Requiring continuous assurance there's no need to feel inadequate (be it about dick size, physique, skill, or anything really) can be tiring real quick and be a serious urn-off - both sexually and mentally.

If you're insecure, keep that insecurity in check and you'll be fine.

welp here's dick pic
do you think the shape will help?

That's not bad at all. Bigger than mine at least.

women can make each other cum without dicks. You just have to be willing to do other things besides just piv.

If you make her cum with your mouth and fingers, on a regular basis, she won't complain when you blast her with your 4incher.

Will you be able to fill the average woman to almost maximum capacity before it becomes too painful? No.
Is that something the average woman requires in a relationship? Luckily no.

Chances are you'll encounter a woman who does need it, but then again we all have the chance to encounter a size-queen and have that same issue.
Besides, 5.9 inches length is by far more than fine for the average woman. Only if it's like 3" circumference it may pose a problem for standard sex.
Even then there's a difference in vagina "capacity" (both depth and width) regardless of what "but they can push out a baby!" people claim. Pushing out a baby tends to be an excruciating sensation, something the average woman wouldn't want to experience whenever she's having sex.

While this is definitely true for 75% of girls, the other 25% will want you to put it in there gut.

Fuck, wrong link.
It also shows some tips, but I meant pornhub.com/view_video.php?viewkey=ph5712f4fcadf9c

Thx for the links. Very helpful

Big dick guys have to have slow sex because otherwise they hurt the girl. And it's better to be fully in than just the tip

well, thanks for calming my beta faggot anxiety
luckily it's 4.5 cirumference

Also a lotta girls like average to below average cocks so giving head doesn't hurt them to much and they can deepthroat without gagging

thats fine

>>Will I ever be able to pleasure a girl?

Nope. They will all laugh at it.

Even if you turn all the lights out, she'll reach for it, and miss and finally fumble around for your little chap, and you'll hear her either stifle a giggle, or there will be silence as she quietly hopes you're a grower, not a shower.

Either way, she'll feel let down.

Best bet is to just kys.

Ok dude come on

While there are women like that, most don't care

No problem user; been there, done that.
It doesn't help that naturally you try to make a frame of reference with all the data that can be found. Without any personal experience to lay a foundation for it, the frame of reference can lean very much towards all the crap around us.

There's so much joking about penis size in movies/series and social media, there are all these enlargement and cream companies making money by keeping men insecure (comparable to all the ridiculing of average-or-smaller chested women, make-up and perfume companies directed at women), all the trolling online, all the porn using angles and well above average dicks, and only some opposing data that gets drowned out easily. It's hard to keep the anxiety in check when you don't have any experience showing that it's like 99.9% fear mongering.

I used to have a concern about my size as well before my gf, being about average (well below online "average") and all.
I'm still well aware I'm not well endowed, but she seems to enjoy it enough to initiate about as often as I do, and we do it several times on slow weeks.
Doesn't matter, have sex and great relationship.

But I digress.

I'm honestly surprised that it took so long for an obvious troll to pass by. Normally 90% of the posts are trolling on this board; about 99% on /r9k1/

Ok, so what's your point? You can only attract 75% of the female population?

Is this a complaint?

>Will I ever be able to pleasure a girl?
The right girl, they vary as much as guys do, having said that you'll rock a girls world harder with a 2 finger come hither and clit stim than you ever will with a dick, no matter what size.

No, not at all. I just saying while some women will laugh in your face, your still be able to do fine with most women if you have a small dick

you're very comforting user

What's confusing about that?

I said comforting, not confusing

> (You)
>Ok dude come on
>While there are women like that, most don't care

ahem

would you please allow me to troll in peace?

Thank yew!

> (You)
>I'm honestly surprised that it took so long for an obvious troll to pass by. Normally 90% of the posts are trolling on this board; about 99% on /r9k1/

This beautiful display of man helping his fellow man is exactly what I'm on Sup Forums for.

Thanks for restoring my faith in mankind.