I'm 39 in a mostly loveless marriage w 3 kids & no time for hobbies or friends really...

I'm 39 in a mostly loveless marriage w 3 kids & no time for hobbies or friends really. I spend many nights lurking Facebook fapping to old girlfriends from my teens & 20s, losing hair & getting fatter by the day.

It'll happen to you.

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At least you had past girls to fap to. I'll probably end myself before I'm 35 faggot.

No way man! i'm never getting old forever... forever... and ever

post your facebook bitches

This is why I'll never get married

Lemme grab some. A lot have gotten fat just to warn.

Yeah, but then you still get old. Single life for old people is shit.

Single life isn't shit if you make the most of it and travel and shit. Getting married and having kids means your tied down. You're lucky to go on a vacation once a year just to break from your every day routine.

37 here and it's already happened to me but at least my wife is 22

not if I kill myself before I'm 30

protip: I'm killing myself before I'm 30

Both my parents and grandparents of both sides werent losing any hair

I'm se for life OP

I was a sophomore here. Pulling senior tail.

Jokes on you. I'm 26 and already gave up on the idea of love or marriage

Girl now I fucked for a while in HS. Her titties were huge even at 16.

How old were you when you had kids OP

Anal with the girl on the right. Her idea.

> 39
> losing hair & getting fatter by the day.
> It'll happen to you.

Technically impossible, it already happened.

First was at 29

i'm 40 and very glad to have no kids. i've been slowly going through college and after getting two associate's and two certificates in community college with a highest honors GPA of 3.803 and joining Phi Theta Kappa, i'm pretty fucking good at programming--in my opinion--and a junior in computer science at the university of arizona. i don't think i want a girlfriend and i've spent enough time around silly, horny 19 year old girls in yoga pants and see 1000 hot asses a day and... that has made me as bored as a "hot teen porn producer" at school but my sex drive is as over the top as it's been for 25 years and all i think of is fucking my brains out with barely legal chicks. it's just, i own my own house, car, and i like my lifestyle, watching movies all day on an HD projector and getting every movie and endless porn. i wonder just when i'd want to add a bitch to that... she'd only waste my time. maybe once i'm a senior and in 400 level courses with chicks who would be as busy as i am and desperate for hot action in the few spare hours we have before graduation.

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i posted this on my channel the other night because it's a rare one from a rare remix album i used to have on disc when i was a big fan in my younger days. it was also to celebrate turning 40 six days ago. somehow, it fits this thread.

that sucks man. I plan to never get married or have kids and live a very selfish, free life

Went to prom w this chick. Rented a room. Took her virginity.

>i wonder just when i'd want to add a bitch to that... she'd only waste my time.
I've forced myself to get girlfriends in the past because I thought it was the normal thing to do. Now I just don't give a damn anymore and think it is all a waste of time, money and effort. I've gone this long without companionship, why try to seek it out if it's just too much of a hassle and a nice hooker can nurture any need I may have every now and then

43 here, dodged that bullet, got a divorce before i had kids.

Suddenly i discovered i could eat healthy, had enough time to work out and enough money to pursue my hobbies and investments.
Feel bad for you, if i had kids id be in the same boat, because the "do the right thing" is a strong thing.

My advice, stay single, date, make money, take care of yourself and save enough money for a surrogate kid if you want kids.

Indian chick I used to bang.

How'd I do w the women, guys? Terrible, OK, great??

Stop lying to yourself man please it's making me legit sad, go find a caring girl

gas yourself, shlomo.

our duty is to marry and procreate.
everything else is hedonistic nihilism

Yeah, but how do you get laid on the reg? I seriously used to date girls just to fuck them for a while & be done.

I did that so many times I couldn't count.

You did great user. Feel bad for you regarding the loveless nothing though. Stay strong faggot.

I'm not lying
I don't get laid regularly. Last time was last summer, I haven't needed it in awhile so I haven't hired a hooker

At least have the decency to divorce before you go as far as cheating

Were doing fine until this ugly chick

Wife after giving birth. Titties full of milk in both pics. Thicc girl obviously.

soon to be 38 here. good genetics and active so im still mostly my 20yo self body wise. wrinkles coming in but no hair loss yet. sight has gone down a tiny bit but glasses are still far away i think.

married, 2 kids. love the kids to death. wife stuff is meh. everything seems like routine even the fights. been sheltering emotionnaly a lot in the past 2 years cause just too tired for the bullshit. trying to set respect boundaries doesnt work cause women are crazy self entitled nuts and only respect theirs. shes also getting fatter and fatter and while i dont mind the chub im slowly losing esteen for her as she's just given up. lots of women giving me looks anywhere i go. even really young ones. i openly flirt a lot when im alone cause it makes me feel good about myself. dont want to cheat cause of the kids mostly. dont think id even feel bad about the wife cause our couple life is so mechanical anyway that using another pussy wouldnt feel really different than my hand of fuck toys anyway. sleep deprived cause i stay up late to play games. empty house at night seems to be the only true freedom i get.

anyways, its not all bad. just felt good writing it for some reason.

Of course you're lying, anyone who says he doesn't want to have a gf/wife says it because hurr bad grapes. You just have to find a nice girl

I'm not gonna cheat on her. I don't wanna ruin the marriage on account of the kids. Its not that we don't love each other, just no damn time for anything. Everything is centered around the kids now.

She was a doctor, so that helped. That's a recent pic too. Remember this was ages ago.

Just grow up kid, life is not a stormfront forum..

>I'm not gonna cheat on her. I don't wanna ruin the marriage on account of the kids. Its not that we don't love each other, just no damn time for anything. Everything is centered around the kids now.

feel ya

Don't think your wants and needs are the same for everyone else. The closest thing I want to to a gf/wife is more soa business partner because I realize the older you get the more of a "necessity" it is to have a wife.

oldfags, take this opportunity to give us unmarried folks advice plz!

Prob the hottest girl I dated. She looked & had a body like a female surfer model.

Came in her ALL THE TIME, without protection. Dumb as fuck.

no it wont cause i don't use facebook - i dot have any old gfs and im terrified of grills so i ill never has keeds.

god prom is evil

don't let yourself be impressed by women is all you need to do. as in, don't think highly of them. don't let yourself think that you're lucky to get one. have self esteem. do not idealize them.

that alone should avoid a lot of potential mistakes.

why would you want to sex a creature that u don't think highly of?

Lol, why?? I don't know how it is nowadays, bit at the time it was pretty fun. Afterwards it was either house parties or renting rooms to fuck.

She wanted to model for me before we had sex. FWB in college

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My most recent ex, over a year ago. I thought I would marry her but she ended up not being mentally mature enough. I learned that women mature quicker but peak in their maturity by 16. Pic related reminds me of a girl I talk to frequently who may or may not be of legal age at the moment.

Because you have a boner and think they are attractive?

so what's it like to have kids? the good and the bad. and are you glad you did?

Sounds tough user but hang in there at least be an awesome Dad and hope your three little shits turn into something you'll be proud of

Very good advice.

t. 50 y.o.

>I learned that women mature quicker but peak in their maturity by 16.

ahahaha so fucking true

Despite the file name, this one was my heroin. I wont ever fall in love again because of her.

Live with someone for many years before you marry them.

Take that faggotry to Sup Forums you dithering cunt

hahaha

I'm 33 , slightly overweight , hair has thinned a little bit but isnt horrible , I don't have facebook , I don't give a shit about old girlfriends , maybe you should work on your marriage mate ?

>implying you're either single or married
>can't have steady relationships without marriage
>have to have kids
No, I'm getting a vasectomy, and if I'm getting into a long term relationship, I'll have money and time to spend on my hobbies since I've got a well paying job and no fucking kids to care for.

Don't get married. Just have girlfriends. Make sure the girl has a similar level of intelligence. Pretty dumb girls are not worth it. Always use a condom as well untill your ready for kids or you might end up with a child with a woman you can't stand.

not necessarily true. bunch of people do that and break up one year after they finally got married. i mean, if you waited so fucking long, what strength have the commitment vows ? all these years waiting pretty much sum up the trust you had in the relationship to start with ...

not saying quick marriages have better chances. just that waiting doesn't guarantee anything either.

The good: They're literally a part of you & you made them. You see yourself in them in little ways, their looks, mannerisms, etc. They carry your name onwards well after you're a worm feast in the ground.

The bad: You have to give up a lot, because they always need something (that is, unless you're a shit parent). You need lots of money, you worry a lot because you can't always be around to protect them. Shit like that.

Would do again. Its either that or live some pointless life into my 40s. I mean, life is pretty pointless anyway, but it seems less so now if that makes sense.

Sex is biologic, relationships are social, never give one too much prevalence over the other, seek balance.

There is no "the one" there are millions of them.

Never be afraid to walk out of a bad situation, it can only get better.

After 35 men are the prize.

Women will never be grateful, you can dedicate all you time and effort for them, and they just wont care and wont love you more for that.

Only pimps and douches truly know what is to be unconditionally loved, incredibly sad but true.

Anyway she turned into a loser alcoholic and drunkely called me one night. She tried to win me back by telling me how she got hammered at a bar and flashed everyone there. So I convinced her that she owed me a picture of her tits from a previous arrange me (lie) and she obliged. I guess she doesn't mind showing strangers at a bar her tits so what is the difference online

>hedonistic nihilism
>using words you don't understand
>implying it's a bad thing

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This post makes me sad OP

>Women will never be grateful, you can dedicate all you time and effort for them, and they just wont care and wont love you more for that.
>Only pimps and douches truly know what is to be unconditionally loved, incredibly sad but true.

true.

unless you find some damaged girl who will look at you as her saviour and worship the shit out of you. but these also come with bad news. avoid crazies.

This entire thread is fucking depressing

I am 34 in a very loving, happy marriage. 11 years this august. 2 smart, wonderful sons. Plenty of time for hobbies, including playing bass in a local rock band. A few really good friends.

Just because your life sucks doesnt mean everyone's does.

Oh, and even after being together for 13 years, we still have great sex multiple times a week.

I had a girlfriend in college so god damn starved for attention that she came back to me every single day even after I treated her like crap and raped her more than once.

After we broke up I'd get drunk and call her up to come over and have sex with her. She would agree to do this just so she would have someone to hold her. She had really great feet though.

This

Post face or body pics user

I got a wife and kids and still have hobbies and a social life. I see my friends few times a month could be more but I'd rather not. Going on a 4 day stag weekend in the summer. Went skiing with friends in january. Just because you have kids doesn't mean you don't have your own life to live.

Her body was as flat as a board with a small ass. I don't have any face pictures, nothing too great though. Half jap/white but with a decent amount of acne. But the little kinds not the big ones. She was also very skinny, something to do with her digestive tract as a kid.

So which in-laws are baby sitting, user? There's no fuckin way you have time for all that w two young kids without help, or throwing them to the state (public schools).

Well, it's not failproof, but it does give you a better idea if you want to be with this person. For a relationship to be decent, you have to want to be in it and not be there because of a marriage keeping you there.

23 years old. Self-employed but sucks at it, passionate about video games and martial arts. I don't know what it is about me, but I'm too socially retarded to frm a relationship with anyone so I've basically given up. It's highly unlikely I will ever marry or have kids.

None, i am in a career that makes enough money for my wife to be a stay at home mom. I have band practice two evenings a week. When my wife wants to go out with her friends, i stay home with my boys. She helps me out, i help her out. Works out pretty well.

Living my dream fam
I want a bass so bad

Why dont you have one? There are many very good used basses on the market that you can get for a fraction of their retail price. If you're literally just too poor, then, well... that sucks :(

37, 2 kids. Youngest is 2 mo. Old which is why I'm up right now. Kids suck up a shit load of your free time, but it gets better as they get older. It helps having money, have weekly maids and part time nanny. Having kids while poor must suck.

Not if I hang myself

Dont hang yourself. It'll probably kill you, bro.

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Fair point

Naw, it won't. I got an apartment in Japan for the sole purpose of getting young pussy. I occasionally post content to Sup Forums. My current plan is to marry an 18 year old sometime in my 30's.

That seems like a really bad plan. Just fyi.

or i could not be a miserable fuck and do something with my life like not have 3 kids.

>marry

lol good job on getting robbed.

Newsflash kermit, you're not the puppet-mastero buth rather a natural desaster to your moms vagina,
meat curtains? meet kermit the kindred killer of brain cells all around the known k-lobe, you green

fuck.
Bet your asshole is as black as a detroit supernova, sucking in all that vital black-light semen you so

desperately need to survive the coriolis effect in your fucking green eggplant of a left-turning of a

space station you textile tsunami.
You won't terraform my property either, ya green betch.
Smart? Rather dark, like the nigger cock you suck at night in the park,
high on glue, you even shot the deputy you honourless green bag of rotten molester-slant-eyed mint.
The brithish should've sown you into cowskin after forcing you to breed in a pond of native-piss for

two generationss, you hearthless monster,
killings millionso f colonist families, rading their farms at night then there were (white) women and

(black) children in that cuck-village, you jealous MONSTER!

The second I found out your mensturation-pond of origin I bought a truckload of cement and buried that

everglade-shithole of a green-pest birthing life-soup under a Adele-acre of nazi-concrete.

You have nowhere to return to now, slut.
You can run but you can't hide, frogh-snitch.

mY Stork-henchman are flying sorties day and night.
Surrender now and I may show mercy for your pityful green existence and let you live a nice quiet life

behind bars of peanut-chocolate (which I know you are allergic to).
You are wrong.

>TL;DR Chuck Berry is Kill

Import a wife instead. American women are ruined

Doesn't happen in Japan.

Yeah, that's... why I'm here.

Yes, I'm sure you'll be remembered for your shitty cubical job & being the old guy at the club.

You moved to Japan to find a wife to bring back to America?

Wasn't really planning on bringing them back to America, but do travel back and forth currently.

OP u just need to try new stuff (pic related), so u learn what u had and hadn't, for ex. Born rich nvr tasted how it is to be poor. But yes OP get us more of ur past highschool sweeties for us

Why do you travel so often?

How old r ur kids? Daughters?

I do IT work and took the opportunity to get an apt here, but it requires me to go back and forth occasionally. Plane flight is a bitch.