Things you took for granted about your ex

Things you took for granted about your ex

>her footjobs (it's harder than I thought to find a girl willing and able)

Can't think of anything else but I think this is a good idea for a thread

She was there.
3 years next month since she fucked me over.
Not got laid since... not even kissed anyone since.

She actually loved me and didn't just expect me to provide for her

loser

She made the perfect punching bag.

>The only right answer.

Used to toss my salad and we'd make lot's of sextapes. Shitty bj's though.

She used to stick her tongue in my ear as foreplay. Sounds weird but it was awesome

Woooah we've got a badass over here.

Heh
Fucking this
I tried doing it to my current girl and she freaked out saying that was weird and felt weird
I didn't bother bringing it up again but it's cool she has gigantic tits on a tiny body and she introduced me to the pleasures of tit fucking
When I saw it in porn I thought to myself, "that can't possibly feel good, it's just visual and psychological." WRONG lubed up tits pressed together make a great fuck hole

Same here, loved that shit.

Miss her banter the most though, I haven't met a girl that can hold a conversation or make me laugh anywhere near as good as her.

Makes your toes curl. Hearing two people agree gives me hope at finding another into it lol

That shit is jokes, that's definitely replaceable though user

This hits so close to home. After we fucked we'd just sit up for hours talking and laughing. There were no dull moments, awkward silences or anything. Just constant conversation no matter the topic. Miss it so much.

Everything

She knew my exact sense of humor and used to set me up for jokes in social situations, I've never had anything like it.

Some person at a party would say something, and she'd look at me and do a certain reply just because she knew I could make a joke out of it, I never looked as good as when I was beside her :(

can you think of an example?

It's very hard to find someone you can click with. I've had plenty of other girlfriends and we never had that connection.. most of the time they'd just fall asleep or get on their phone or something but not her. She'd just lay on my chest and start talking and anything she said I could instantly get into and have good conversation. I don't know why it's so hard to do that with other women but I just can't. Although her and I actually loved each other I don't think I've had another relationship that we've mutually felt the same love. It's depressing man. I think about her all the time.

Not really off the top of my head, but I make a fuckton of puns, so she use to set me up for puns all the time, stuff like that.

Anything she knew I'd make wordplay out of she'd say.

She just wanted me to take care of myself too.

Eh
He's kinda right man

Reading these makes me incredibly sad. I have this right now but all the other times are just shitty, because of him. I know it will never work out but i'm too much off a pussy to end it.

First gf, no gag reflex

Haven't dated one since

Her motivating me to improve my life. Just joking.

I'm so glad I haven't had a girlfriend in years.

being able to love her completely
you give your all to that first love, every love after that one, no matter how true and deep, is always missing a tiny piece. be it big or so small you can't put words to the feeling, a piece is surely missing.

>2017
>Putting pussy on a pedestal

this

I am a rebel and waited till I was 18 to get my trust fund from daddy and move out and be a woman! Yeah they kicked me out but I was trying to be somebody parents just don't understand.

you don't meet a lot of women who actually like anal. even fewer who will beg you for it.

nothing makes you feel quite as depraved as when she kneels in front of you, looks over her shoulder and begs you to stick your cock in her ass.

also no ass just sad

Use to let me do anything i wanted to her. Would always rim me (actually so good), did anal whenever i wanted. Even let me pee on her in the shower when i was feeling really dirty. Was hot as well with D's and a nice ass. Dumped her 3 times, but couldnt say no when she would invite me over for sex and i would fall back into her trap.

She liked to be independent. Had her own job and car. She preferred if I didn't buy her things

DELET THES

She was one of the most thoughtful people I've ever met. It's hard to find someone that's selfless and willing to do the small things that can mean a lot to someone

She had the nicest boobs/nipples I've ever seen

Why did you dump her user?

She.

This thread is useless without reasons for breaking up. Share.

break up and come with me femanon

I was with my ex for over ten years
.

I used to have a thing for girls with brightly coloured hair but it's usually a sign they're batshit insane, how do I find a decent looking girl like this that isn't fucking crazy?

Being sane or at least not as bad as I've become.

Changed to: things I took for granted generally.

Her penis

This, people need to stop dwelling/reflecting on the past, past three months from the end of a relationship.

simple.
find a nice looking grill, date for a while, convince her to dye her hair etc.

>batshit insane
haha, so true.

I'm normally attracted to a girl because I like the way she looks when I meet her, if they change something like that after we meet it weirds me out a bit. But I'll try it.

With someone now and it's just not going right…she broke up with me 2 weeks ago, I took her back but now she's happy and I'm not.

What do I do?

The bitchs I've been with that had coloured hair all turned out nuts, great in bed and some of the weirdest/best sex ever. Now I just want a normal girl to do cute things with.

I could just whip my dick out at any time and she'd give me a blowjob.

It's kinda weird, but I miss walking with her to the Indian gas station/liquor store just down the block from me. We'd always wind up going there for more beer when we were drunk. Don't think either of us had ever been their fully clothed. And we'd make funny names for the cashiers and see who could be more offensive. Also she made fantastic breakfast. The point is, it's hard to find a girl tht is both attractive AND a lowlife degenerate.

sucking my dick for an hour

>lower standards
>get laid

In that order. You gotta get over that dry spell. Getting your dick wet might snap you out of it

The fact that she introduced ME to knife and blood play, as well as the entirety of the BDSM lifestyle. Never have I felt so empowered and yet so humbled knowing that such a beautiful soul choose to give her trust fully to me.

Also, the way the sun caught and brought out the honey colour of her hair..

My current gf but if I break up with her I think it will be difficult to find the following:

>constant preocupation
>gives me the attention she knows I need in a healthy way
>sucks me off pretty much everytime I ask her
>we laugh together
>she is actually willing to start ground-fighting me as foreplay
>she loves me for the weird cunt I am with her

>past three months from the end of a relationship.
never sure if bait or just love-rejecting kiddos

i just remembers that my ex did this for me too and i got rock hard, guess i really did take it for granted

its okay tho, because she was far form worth keeping. the one con vs a million pros when it came to dumping her ass

Never take her for granted.

>She knew my exact sense of humor and used to set me up for jokes in social situations

wow man that's awesome

gave me a feel. don't worry man you'll find someone, people like you do

Blowjobs/sex on command pretty much. Also religiously took her birth control, so I was busting inside that shit raw daily.

her love, respect, booty, presence, sex, virginity, no sexual past.

hardcore kinks, choking, physical abuse, gunplay, cutting

Sounds like a keeper. The grass doesn't get greener, as it were.

Shit. That's something I never knew I'd want to look for.

same here bro

How is it bait? I'm saying that three months is enough time to cry it out, feel sorry for yourself, etc.

Afterwards, it's time to move on or else you're just prolonging the unnecessary, which will spill over into every other aspect of your life

Me neither, never thought of it before

thats real love bro

Her being a crazy bitch.

what was that one con?

I'll bite
Studies (and the little experience I've had) show that people take a year to completely forget their partners after they break up, unless it's just a crush or they've managed to start forgetting them before they even break up

If you go find new people past 3 months you're probably just disguising your feelings and probably fucking up another girls life, as well as your own emotional brain

I mean, sure, the same sense of humour, but, not setups.

I don't think giving a little help to create a funny situation once in a while can be harmful, sounds really sweet on her end

I didn't mention that you should find a new person, but just suppress it and stop feeling sorry for yourself. Obviously you're never going to forget the person. I'm just talking about the emotional pain - giving it a kind of grace period

But yes, I also agree with the notion that dating somebody else so soon after a breakup isn't the best decision

I've always been anxious to make jokes and references to shit that might make me be seen as just a cruel person. And that's just to people in general, unless I know they'd find it funny.

Anal and massive tits... Not too phased though because she lost weight and now the tits are saggy af

Ah sorry thought you meant getting another person with "moving on"

I don't think it's ever a good idea to repress/supress emotions, it's not natural to the brain and then there are compensations, in ways you probably don't imagine, addictions or something - I think supressing is just sending the injury to another part of your mentality, I would advice to keep things "clean" and natural

I love you robert.

Yea I don't even try dark humor anymore, I'm too afraid of people's reactions. Sexual jokes are almost always cool though as long as you don't step the line

Any sex / physical stuff can be replaced pretty easily. Being able to rely on someone's support when you really need to call on it is a big thing, which I'd never had before but have now with my current GF.

yeeeeeeep. Broke up with my missus last week and going on a date with slut on wednesday to get my moin on.

having a bitch lick my ear before i fuck her, user

She would let me use her anyway I wanted. She would let me have her anytime I wanted. She was such a slut.

>(it's harder than I thought to find a girl willing and able)

Really that's bullshit. Every girl except 1 that I've been with has footjob'd me and that one girl had nasty feet.

Why didn't you capitalise his name then?

her willingness to give anal :( i wish i could find another girl that willing. It always "hurts too much" fucking stupid.

She loved anal and was the one who requested we try.

Ahaha

Yeah sure girls have done it, but not as well ygm.
My ex was my first footjob experience and after that girls have either refused or been shitty, never knew there was skill to it

>loved
>past tense
>as if she stopped loving it
>as if she isn't getting dicked in the ass right now by a chad
>lmao

>Things you took for granted about your ex
>Ex
>Took
All past tense and the thread is about things you took from granted from an ex which implies past tense and from your past. There was no implication that she stopped loving it and I couldn't care less.
Are you retarded?
1/10 troll attempt for making me respond to your really stupid post in a took for granted thread.

see i fucked up, i was with a chick for 2 n a half years, and she was hot af, and on top of that she had the coolest personality, shes not like any other girl, i know that sounds cliche but seriously, shes one of a kind.. in the past 7 or 8 years since i broke up with her i've dated tons of other chicks, and none of them even come close.. but anyways, the thing i took advantage of was how much she loved me.. she was the only girl ive dated who was always excited to see me, and always hated when i had to leave, she was so sprung on me, i was her whole world, and my dumb ass let my ego get the better of me, i won't go into detail, but i let her go.. the love is what i miss the most, and don't get me wrong, i've fallen in love again even after her, but no love will ever compare to what me and her had.. that's my biggest fear in life.. that i'll never experience a love that strong ever again..

Used to let me watch football whenever I wanted when I was at hers, and would even go to the shop to get me beer and food whilst I was still asleep before the game even began.
Then she basically cheated on me.

It was really easy to make her cum

dont you find it interesting that most of the things mentioned in this thread, is sex related? as if everything else about the person is just shit

Couldn't possibly have taken anything for granted. Don't deserve the chance to.

yeah you have a point there. HOWEVER, what if I told you, the purpose of the relationships, and LIFE, is to reproduce, therefore SEX?!

yoooooooo... that makes sense.

but then wouldnt that mean that women are only as useful as long as they give sex?

Except that is false for humans.